Results: Mental illness and becoming a parent.

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polarmouse

03/30/2013

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1.
1.
If you had a mental illness (i.e. Bipolar, Depression) would you still have a child?
Yes
35%
463 votes
No
40%
520 votes
Undecided
25%
323 votes
If Undecided please Comment
  • depends on whether the illness could prevent me from properly caring for a child.
  • none
  • people with mental illnesses still have sex. and thus some of them get pregnant.
  • i don't know
  • people with mental illnes are un fairly judged
  • i am bipolar, i don't know yet if i want children.
  • i think it would depend on the chance of the condition being passed on.
  • would hqave to weigh pros and cons
  • it really depends on the mental illness and how severe it was.
  • n/a
  • don't know the impact to the child
  • it would depend on how safe a mom i would be
  • it would depend on what mental illness i had, my support system and how well i handled my illness
  • ,,
  • would depend on the severity and if i wanted children
  • why
  • depends
  • would depend on the severity
  • i do have mental illness and i am a parent.
  • i'm not sure what i'd do.
  • yes, i have borderline personality disorder and depression myself and have it in my family.
  • n/a
  • pretty loaded question to ask?!
  • it depends on the mental illness and if it is hereditary
  • not applicable
  • n/a
  • depends on the level of the illness
  • would have to research and talk to doctor
  • idk
  • probably not a great idea
  • just not sure
  • including this disease, there would be a host of other questions included in that determination.
  • would take the 50/50 chace they would b ok
  • idk
  • if i had a mental illness, i might not be in my right mind to make that kind of responsible decision
  • i don't want children already
  • it depends on the situation.
  • i would consult my doctor's opinion about safety for the child, if i had this condition.
  • dont know depending on illness
  • don't know if i want children
  • depends on how severe the mental illness
  • it would depend on how servereit was
  • depends on the illness
  • it would depend on my prognosis
  • not sure.
  • i don't want a child now
  • it's a big decision
  • can't answer since i don't have a mental illness,
  • i would have to calculate all the risks & the probability of my child having this disease. it's hard
  • asdf
  • already do.
  • none
  • can't answer, not mentally ill
  • i cant have anymore children at this point in my life
  • i am passed child bearing age.
  • it would depend on if your kid could get it
  • it would depend on what my doctor advises, and how functional i am
  • depending on how serve the condition was
  • if it is hereitary i would think twice
  • i don't want a child period
  • not applicable
  • depends on how well controlled my illness was and how good of a support team i had around me.
  • i don't know if it would be responsible to have a child when you are mentally ill.
  • it would depend on the illness is, how i would be able to parent, and if the illness is genetic.
  • n/a
  • depends how bad my mental illness is.
  • i'd be afraid my child would end up with the same illness and have a hard life:(
  • m
  • i would have to weigh the pro's and the cons
  • that's what i look most forward to in life. depression/bipolar isn't bad- honestly i probably would
  • n/a
  • depends on the severity of the condition.
  • look up dadamo.com. on the web. proper dieting balances mood swings.
  • depends on depth of depression
  • ?
  • depends on how serious the illness is.
  • na
  • depends on the illness
  • depends on if medication could control it and how bad i had it.
  • depends on the situation
  • too old to have kids
  • no
  • i would have to be there to know if i would or not
  • it is an illness like any other
  • never suffered from that so don't know,would depend on if the meds were able to be taken while preg.
  • fuck!
  • depends on the severness.
  • not a parent.
2.
2.
Should dating couples disclose mental illness to their partner before marriage?
Yes
77%
1012 votes
No
11%
141 votes
Undecided
12%
153 votes
3.
3.
If you found out your spouse did not disclose their mental illness would you still want children?
Yes
30%
391 votes
No
34%
442 votes
Undecided
36%
473 votes
If Undecided please comment.
  • again, depends on the severity of the illness.
  • depends on how heredity figures in the illness
  • n/a
  • don't know
  • mental illnes is not the end of the world.. we all have mental issues of some sort
  • it depends what it was.
  • n/a
  • depends on the degree of illness
  • it would depend on what kind
  • it would depend on what type of mental illness and how it was handled.
  • ,,
  • if he was normal enough to marry i think he'd be normal enough to raise children
  • why
  • depends
  • yadda yadda
  • that wasn't the case... not being in that situation, i can't say what i'd think.
  • would depend on the mental illness
  • still not sure what i'd do
  • depends on if the mental illness/depression is temporary or could be kept under control with meds.
  • na
  • not sure
  • what is the illness
  • pretty loaded question to ask?!
  • depends on the illness
  • it depends on how the relationship was up to that point. it could be the final deal breaker
  • not really applicable, beyond child bearing years
  • n/a
  • depends on the level of the illness
  • same as above
  • idk
  • just don't know if this applies
  • depends on what the illness is
  • including this disease, there would be a host of other questions included in that determination.
  • depends on the illness and severity
  • idk
  • if i found out they didn't disclose their mental illness, something that important, what else r they
  • i wouldnt know
  • would depend on their illness.
  • the survey needs "n/a" choices.
  • depends upon the type/severity of mental illness
  • it's a lack of trust not telling the other
  • depends on the illness
  • not sure.
  • depends on quality of the relationship
  • it would be a case by case scenario
  • it depends on the severity
  • depending on how severe the illness is and the effectiveness & type of treatments i would be sceptic
  • depends on what mental illness they have and how severe.
  • could make a difference
  • dont know depends on circumstances
  • depends on what the mental illness is - but would not like the person for not telling!
  • not sure i would want to bring child into world if unable to care for child due to the mental health
  • n/a
  • need to know more about their illness
  • idk
  • none
  • you don't know until you're there
  • n/a
  • it would depend on if your kid could get it
  • not sure
  • again , depends on the nature of the illness, the danger level if any and a professionals advice
  • i don't want children, regardless of the mental condition of my spouse.
  • depends on the situation
  • i wouldn't trust someone who hid such a big secret from me
  • it depends on many factors
  • depends on how bad it is
  • the child could very well be "normal"
  • what kind and how bad
  • n/a
  • it depends on the type of mental illness
  • i don't wnat children period so it doesn't matter
  • i already dont want children, i have mental as well as physical genetic illnesses
  • no and ive been sterilized
  • it depends on what the illness was and then i might not want to be with them if they werent honest
  • it would depend on the illness and severity
  • as above depends how controlled the illness was
  • it would depend on the illness
  • same answer as previous answer written out.
  • depends on the state of mental illness
  • n/a
  • depends how bad his mental illness is.
  • i'd check with a doctor to find out what the chances would be for my child to have a mental disorder
  • no
  • it would depend on the illness
  • depends on the illness.
  • depends on the mental illness.
  • i guess it would depend on the mental illness.
  • depends what it is
  • na
  • same answer as above
  • depends on what you consider a mental illness.
  • depends on mental illness
  • what kind of mental illness
  • it seems there are varying degrees.
  • i had this happen and i would not have had children.
  • na
  • would depend on the illness
  • full health disclosure would be nice to know - then dicuss
  • depended on what it was and how severe.
  • depends on situation
  • too old for children
  • no
  • i would have to know what kind of illness it was
  • woould not want the child to suffer from a mental illness
  • i think depends on if they can still carry a child and be on meds also
  • piss!
  • it depends on the illness
  • depends on the illness
  • depends on the severness
  • don't date.
  • i don't know if i'd want the spouse! dishonesty is awful.
  • depends
  • i know they would be great,wonderful parents (even my crack depended babydaddy let me know)

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