I need some advice. My brother is living with my sister & her husband and son. When he moved in he agreed to pay on rent, utilities and food. But has never held up his end of the deal. He pays some, sometimes. When he does have a job, he'll spend his money on junk for himself, and going to see his girlfriend 2hrs away. He's even bought stuff for her. My sister has asked what she should do, she wants to put him out, but her husband doesn't want to do that. (they are friends) A part of me Really Really wants to say something to him, but I don't want to make it worse for my sister.