Results: Honey, Meet My Ex!
1.
1.
If you stayed friends with your ex and he/she re-married, would you want to meet the new spouse?
Sure why not, maybe we can be friends
31%
•
399 votes
Ummm, not in this lifetime!
33%
•
420 votes
undecided
33%
•
421 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
37 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| n/a | 0.63% | 8 |
| na | 0.55% | 7 |
| 0.23% | 3 | |
| no | 0.16% | 2 |
| depends on whether we had kids together and she would be the step mom | 0.08% | 1 |
| i want to know who my kids are around | 0.08% | 1 |
| only if kids are involved | 0.08% | 1 |
| i was friends with hes exes | 0.08% | 1 |
| if there are children involved. | 0.08% | 1 |
| nope, nope, and nope. | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/a i don't do relationships. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would like to meet her only to make comparison between us, like if she were better than me or so! | 0.08% | 1 |
| only if there are children involved | 0.08% | 1 |
| i wouldn't be friends with an ex. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i did in the past and i really don't want to for now on | 0.08% | 1 |
| there is a certain level of appropriateness of relationships between ex's. it would also depend if there are children involved. | 0.08% | 1 |
| there will be social events that its necessary to be civil to each other | 0.08% | 1 |
| curious as to what kind of person would love any of my exes (haven't been married). | 0.08% | 1 |
| never would stay friends with them!!! | 0.08% | 1 |
| already have | 0.08% | 1 |
| having a hard time imagining staying friends after ending a relationship... guess it depends on the circumstances. | 0.08% | 1 |
2.
2.
How would you feel if your ex still loved you but couldn't stay faithful to you? I would be ANGRY! But that's why we divorced in the first place.
34%
•
437 votes
I would be hurt...Some people never learn.
30%
•
378 votes
I would be upset, I guess promises mean nothing.
28%
•
355 votes
Other (please specify)
8%
•
107 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| na | 1.10% | 14 |
| n/a | 0.86% | 11 |
| 0.70% | 9 | |
| what? | 0.16% | 2 |
| they are very stupid | 0.16% | 2 |
| it would be time to move on in life. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't know. i guess i would have to move on | 0.08% | 1 |
| i do not have that problem anymore! | 0.08% | 1 |
| he is my ex for a reason so who cares | 0.08% | 1 |
| there is a reason they are your ex and you should know this | 0.08% | 1 |
| be friends with benefits | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/a i don't do relationships. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would keep away and move on | 0.08% | 1 |
| if he is my ex why would he have to be faithful to me???? | 0.08% | 1 |
| dumb question, sorry | 0.08% | 1 |
| if it's my ex i wouldn't care! | 0.08% | 1 |
| loves you but can't stay faithful?? that's not love. | 0.08% | 1 |
| all of the above and then some! | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't love him. i would feel bad for him that he still loves me. | 0.08% | 1 |
| once a cheater, always a cheater | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would not care any more. | 0.08% | 1 |
| ex to mean exit - move on! | 0.08% | 1 |
| doesn't make sense--is an ex | 0.08% | 1 |
| if they loved me i would probably just deal with the unfaithfulness | 0.08% | 1 |
| no second chance | 0.08% | 1 |
| she couldnt love me if she wasnt faithful | 0.08% | 1 |
| this person can't make up her mind... better not get close to her anymore | 0.08% | 1 |
| wouldn't care an ex is an ex | 0.08% | 1 |
| he's my ex, why should he be faithful? | 0.08% | 1 |
| i dont know | 0.08% | 1 |
| a person in no way loves you if they cheat on you, so no they don't still love you, they neve rdid | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'd be happy to divorce him and keep him out of my life. | 0.08% | 1 |
| other | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/s | 0.08% | 1 |
| i ' d wonder who she ' s really with ? | 0.08% | 1 |
| nothing, accept the friendship for what it is worth | 0.08% | 1 |
| pfft, whatever. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'd have nothing to do with him | 0.08% | 1 |
| he's an ex for a reason.... | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't care my x is a turd. | 0.08% | 1 |
| why would i care if he was my ex that is why he is my ex | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would move on and get over him | 0.08% | 1 |
| i wouldn't care | 0.08% | 1 |
| ,,,, | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would not be in that situation in the first place | 0.08% | 1 |
| he'd be dead... so there would be no risk of his continuing unfaithfulness. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i have no idea! i hope i never do. | 0.08% | 1 |
| wouldn't care, they are your ex for a reason | 0.08% | 1 |
| who | 0.08% | 1 |
| thats why hes an ex. | 0.08% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.08% | 1 |
| that's not love. | 0.08% | 1 |
| none of the above | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would try to work it out. | 0.08% | 1 |
| better that he would be unfaithful to someone else | 0.08% | 1 |
| whatever | 0.08% | 1 |
| not applicable | 0.08% | 1 |
| i do not have any ex's i have been married for 35 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| if he "can't" stay faithful, then he doesn't love you... making a mistake once is different from serial cheating. but a serial cheater loves no one but himself. | 0.08% | 1 |
| loser | 0.08% | 1 |
| wouldn't go back out with an ex | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would understand but wouldn't want to get back together | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't care he can't be with someone who is not faithful to me | 0.08% | 1 |
| the ex certainly doesn't love me if they would continue to do things that hurt me. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't know | 0.08% | 1 |
| stuff him | 0.08% | 1 |
| wouldn't care. all three of the options assume i would care at all. | 0.08% | 1 |
| upset in every sense, but i would never take anyone back like that. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would not care one way or the other were divorced for heavens sake | 0.08% | 1 |
| if your ex loved you they would remain faithful | 0.08% | 1 |
| its best not to marry an unfaithful person, unless you are both unfaithful and you both know this going into the marriage. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would never put myself in this situation in the first place. move on & forward to not live in the past. | 0.08% | 1 |
| if it is your ex then why would they want to stay faithful? sounds like something my ex wife would expect me to do. | 0.08% | 1 |
| id move on | 0.08% | 1 |
3.
3.
Do you think he/she will have a good marriage still loving you but married to another?
Well, if sex is involved then maybe.....
10%
•
128 votes
Nope...without love the marriage will be miserable!
53%
•
683 votes
Depends on the new spouse and if there's a lot of fighting or not.
32%
•
403 votes
Other (please specify)
5%
•
63 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| na | 1.02% | 13 |
| n/a | 0.86% | 11 |
| 0.70% | 9 | |
| do not care | 0.16% | 2 |
| would not be my problem. probably would not be friends with an ex | 0.08% | 1 |
| he does not love you, if he did he would not have cheated on you... | 0.08% | 1 |
| silly | 0.08% | 1 |
| absurd | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/s | 0.08% | 1 |
| no clue - i ' ve never been married ! | 0.08% | 1 |
| an ex is an ex....it's over | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on one's definition of love | 0.08% | 1 |
| you can still love someone and be comitted to someone else. feelings don't just go away. | 0.08% | 1 |
| idk | 0.08% | 1 |
| they do not love you truly cuz if they can't commit to their own spouse they would not to you either | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/a i don't do relationships. | 0.08% | 1 |
| why not? | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't care. | 0.08% | 1 |
| why would you still be friends with someone you knew loved you and was marrying someone else. bad character | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would not think about it any more. | 0.08% | 1 |
| how dumb is that? | 0.08% | 1 |
| nope | 0.08% | 1 |
| no idea | 0.08% | 1 |
| no. that's not fair to anyone involved. | 0.08% | 1 |
| who cares | 0.08% | 1 |
| i have no idea how a marriage i wasn't a part of would turn out | 0.08% | 1 |
| again, he would be dead. | 0.08% | 1 |
| it does not apply | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't know, and it wouldn't be any of my business. | 0.08% | 1 |
| maybe if he has matured | 0.08% | 1 |
| undecided | 0.08% | 1 |
| whatever | 0.08% | 1 |
4.
4.
If you were the new spouse, how would you feel or think knowing this? I would be ANGRY! How dare he/she marry me if he/she loved someone else?
34%
•
436 votes
I would be hurt....why would he/she marry me if he/she loved another?
30%
•
386 votes
I would be upset, how could he/she marry me when he/she is still in love with the ex?
30%
•
380 votes
Other (please specify)
6%
•
75 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| na | 1.02% | 13 |
| n/a | 0.86% | 11 |
| 0.78% | 10 | |
| divorce anyone | 0.16% | 2 |
| somebody's getting a beatdown and jail time! | 0.08% | 1 |
| i wouldnt be with her | 0.08% | 1 |
| if i didn't noticed any of it, i'm at fault too. why being angry, when one chapter closes, the other one opens. | 0.08% | 1 |
| all of the above and more | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't care. | 0.08% | 1 |
| why would you have married this person knowing this? | 0.08% | 1 |
| this is stupid | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/a i don't do relationships. | 0.08% | 1 |
| people can love more than one person | 0.08% | 1 |
| fine, there a different types of love | 0.08% | 1 |
| would not marry the person | 0.08% | 1 |
| pfft. | 0.08% | 1 |
| who ' s she really with ? i ' d search for graceful exits ! | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/s | 0.08% | 1 |
| hmmmmm | 0.08% | 1 |
| stupid | 0.08% | 1 |
| nothing i divorced them, i could care less. it is over they never loved me to begin with-- | 0.08% | 1 |
| i dont know | 0.08% | 1 |
| this person can't make up her mind. insta dump like any other complicated female | 0.08% | 1 |
| sad | 0.08% | 1 |
| i just would not let myself be in this situation. | 0.08% | 1 |
| whatever | 0.08% | 1 |
| none of the above | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't know. complicated stuff. glad i'm not in this situation. | 0.08% | 1 |
| it does not apply | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'd never marry someone who had already shown they couldn't keep their word to someone else. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'd leave | 0.08% | 1 |
| i wouldn't marry someone like that. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would leave them. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i think i would notice this before getting married to someone else. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't even understand the question. | 0.08% | 1 |
| if i knew they loved their ex i would not be married to them | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would feel nothing at all, because everyone has a pass. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't know | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would leave. i deserve someone who loves me completely and no one else. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'd be hurt/angry/upset... that's messed up | 0.08% | 1 |
| continue with my own life find a real man! :) | 0.08% | 1 |
| i think that if i knew he still loved her our relationship/ maeriage would not work plus knowing me i couldnt do it | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't care | 0.08% | 1 |
5.
5.
Under all the circumstances, would you stay in this marriage? Yes...I'm in love.
8%
•
105 votes
No, I can't stay in a marriage where there's love just not for me.
61%
•
776 votes
undecided...give me 50 years to think about it.
26%
•
337 votes
Other (please specify)
5%
•
59 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| na | 1.10% | 14 |
| n/a | 0.94% | 12 |
| 0.63% | 8 | |
| i would really have to think about it and we would really have to talk about it. | 0.08% | 1 |
| go away | 0.08% | 1 |
| maybe if we still have sex (we could be sex buddies) | 0.08% | 1 |
| no | 0.08% | 1 |
| i dont know | 0.08% | 1 |
| i would have never stayed | 0.08% | 1 |
| silly | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/s | 0.08% | 1 |
| yup | 0.08% | 1 |
| glad this doesn't apply to me | 0.08% | 1 |
| too much jealousy here | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/a i don't do relationships. | 0.08% | 1 |
| this is confusing | 0.08% | 1 |
| it would have been better to have avoided getting into the marriage. | 0.08% | 1 |
| hell no!!!! | 0.08% | 1 |
| no. | 0.08% | 1 |
| shoot the whore! | 0.08% | 1 |
| love or not i'd rather be alone. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i couldnt stay cuzz deep down inside me it would be killing me n i would bring it up all the time n it would b nothimg but problems | 0.08% | 1 |
| never get myself in this situation in the first place. | 0.08% | 1 |
| would not be married in the frist place | 0.08% | 1 |
| never would marry them. | 0.08% | 1 |
| wouldn't have gotten into it in the first place if he was cheating on someone else already. | 0.08% | 1 |
| it does not apply | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on the people involved | 0.08% | 1 |
6.
6.
If you are a new spouse and are from another country, and this is your first time alone in the US, would that change anything/everything? Yes
18%
•
229 votes
No
26%
•
331 votes
Undecided
30%
•
388 votes
Not Applicable
26%
•
329 votes
7.
7.
Should the new spouse go back to own country, or should the old spouse tell her ex to not come around anymore? New spouse should go back to own country
15%
•
189 votes
Old spouse should tell ex to stay away
42%
•
535 votes
Neither...they should all get along together.
36%
•
461 votes
Other (please specify)
7%
•
92 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| na | 1.64% | 21 |
| 1.10% | 14 | |
| n/a | 1.02% | 13 |
| undecided | 0.23% | 3 |
| what? | 0.23% | 3 |
| not sure | 0.16% | 2 |
| don't know | 0.16% | 2 |
| new spouse should decide themselves if the relationship is worth it, if not get out but stay here. | 0.08% | 1 |
| both the first two | 0.08% | 1 |
| new spouse should get a newer spouse or a nice new life wherever she/he feels like. this survey is rediculus. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't know | 0.08% | 1 |
| what?! | 0.08% | 1 |
| if you can go back to your country and be happy, then go. or find a way to stay in the us. but don't settle for a bad marriage. | 0.08% | 1 |
| unsure | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/a i don't do relationships. | 0.08% | 1 |
| not sure what is being asked??? | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends if new spouse has a job and friends here | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/s | 0.08% | 1 |
| stupid | 0.08% | 1 |
| do not care | 0.08% | 1 |
| both should leave the spouse... he has problems and does not love either | 0.08% | 1 |
| i dont know | 0.08% | 1 |
| no clue | 0.08% | 1 |
| sheesh, live your own life. | 0.08% | 1 |
| everyone should just go there own way. who needs all that drama? | 0.08% | 1 |
| if you divorced him because he was unfaithful, why would you want him around in the first place? tell him to hit the road! | 0.08% | 1 |
| idk | 0.08% | 1 |
| i believe in love, even though i might have never experienced it yet and though im married. it called settling. evenyually thats what happens if u dont want tobe alone. but if you were to find a true love after the fact u got married? | 0.08% | 1 |
| mind your own business! not your marriage | 0.08% | 1 |
| really depends on the situation. man, this is pretty heavy stuff for a tellwut survey. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'm so confused | 0.08% | 1 |
| it does not apply | 0.08% | 1 |
| the dude needs to cut it off and be single if he can't treat a woman right in the first place. | 0.08% | 1 |
| not come around anymore loser! | 0.08% | 1 |
| this is too complicated! if he still loves you, then he would be faithful! if he can't be faithful he loves himself more! get over it, stop talking to him and let the new wife deal with this bunghole! | 0.08% | 1 |
| is this reality? really? | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends | 0.08% | 1 |
| huh? | 0.08% | 1 |
| if you have children you probably will still have to see them, if not then you don't i guess. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't understand this question | 0.08% | 1 |
| stop seen eachother | 0.08% | 1 |
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