Would you leave someone who gave you Aids or HIV? Just yesterday my 23-year-old cousin and her husband who is 35, were diagnosed with full blown aids. They have been married for five years, but before her, he slept around without protection. Their doctor assures them that the virus has been lying dormant for at least 7 years.

They have a 6-year-old son who now needs to be tested, if positive, they plan to lie about why he has to take medication. Would you suggest telling him the truth?

My cousin's parents blame themselves. They let her date this man when she was 13 and he was 25 because they got tired of fighting. They thought everything turned out OK because they got married when she was 18. Are they right to blame themselves?