Results: Self-Change
1.
1.
Do you believe someone is worth changing for?
Yes
50%
•
921 votes
No
27%
•
496 votes
Undecided
24%
•
437 votes
2.
2.
What if your attitude and selfishness are the core to the need of change? I would change in an instant if I could!
41%
•
768 votes
I love the power of having an aggressive trait!
8%
•
146 votes
I could change a couple things, but my attitude and selfishness are part of me.
20%
•
380 votes
I still feel that you shouldn't change who you are
25%
•
470 votes
Other (please specify)
5%
•
90 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| n/a | 0.65% | 12 |
| na | 0.49% | 9 |
| 0.32% | 6 | |
| not sure | 0.27% | 5 |
| undecided | 0.11% | 2 |
| if you are selfish it goes without saying you need to change. selfishness doesn't just hurt others, it hurts you in the end. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'm not selfish | 0.05% | 1 |
| i try to have a good attitude and not be selfish. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'm not a selfish person. | 0.05% | 1 |
| hard to change | 0.05% | 1 |
| you should change for yourself, not for others. | 0.05% | 1 |
| that isn't my personality | 0.05% | 1 |
| n0 | 0.05% | 1 |
| to each is own! i am not that selfish but, i could use some change and improvement as a person! | 0.05% | 1 |
| you should change for yourself not because someone wants you to change | 0.05% | 1 |
| if you dont mind being alone, thats where you'll end up | 0.05% | 1 |
| depend on who you are | 0.05% | 1 |
| i am not like that! | 0.05% | 1 |
| what does this mean | 0.05% | 1 |
| you can at least try to change some traits that you have. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'm not selfish so... | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends what needs changing | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would only try to change something if it was for the better | 0.05% | 1 |
| people should continually try to be the best person they can be | 0.05% | 1 |
| working everyday to perfect myself | 0.05% | 1 |
| i don't have these traits. | 0.05% | 1 |
| that would be the first and hardest part to admit sometimes and yes actually this was an eyeopening question | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't really understand the question | 0.05% | 1 |
| my attitude is fine and i'm not a selfish person. | 0.05% | 1 |
| not sure about that. | 0.05% | 1 |
| then, it would be best to change. | 0.05% | 1 |
| not sure what the question is asking, its worded in a confusing manner | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would try to change | 0.05% | 1 |
| you can modify behavior, but you are who you are | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends on the other person, if they are selfish and self serving | 0.05% | 1 |
| i believe we all need to change at times | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on why you are changing, not for whom you are changing | 0.05% | 1 |
| if i was caused to see negative traits in myself,yes i would work on lessening them. | 0.05% | 1 |
| experiences brings aboutchanges | 0.05% | 1 |
| no comment | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'm not either of these things | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would never be that way, so i would not have to think about it | 0.05% | 1 |
| huh? | 0.05% | 1 |
| there should have been more options to this question | 0.05% | 1 |
| a change of attitude and selfishness would improve the lives of others and that person. | 0.05% | 1 |
| thnx b 2 god i have changed 4 the better!! | 0.05% | 1 |
| not | 0.05% | 1 |
| i like my attitude and i'm not selfish | 0.05% | 1 |
| dunno | 0.05% | 1 |
| i am not too bad, not selfish, do not know if my attitude is bad or not | 0.05% | 1 |
| this isn't me. | 0.05% | 1 |
| anyone who is as you describe, should seek help to improve themself. | 0.05% | 1 |
| who says not wanting to change yourself is selfish? | 0.05% | 1 |
| i don't have that problem | 0.05% | 1 |
| have no idea what this even means | 0.05% | 1 |
| both need to be considered. if you are hurting others, you should change. | 0.05% | 1 |
| if the change makes me a better person yes if it is just to please someone else no | 0.05% | 1 |
| not ever proper english | 0.05% | 1 |
| i don't have those traits | 0.05% | 1 |
| then you should change but not for someone else, for yourself | 0.05% | 1 |
| do not have those attributes | 0.05% | 1 |
3.
3.
What would you change about yourself if you could Cheating
6%
•
117 votes
Lying
10%
•
186 votes
Being angry
30%
•
563 votes
Arguing
18%
•
336 votes
Being aggressive
9%
•
170 votes
Being too truthful
13%
•
239 votes
Being abusive
3%
•
61 votes
Being too needy
18%
•
329 votes
I am perfect!
6%
•
102 votes
There is nothing I would change about myself
24%
•
449 votes
Other (please specify)
9%
•
161 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.37% | 10 | |
| na | 0.22% | 6 |
| not sure | 0.15% | 4 |
| lazy | 0.11% | 3 |
| my weight | 0.11% | 3 |
| n/a | 0.07% | 2 |
| laziness | 0.07% | 2 |
| my health | 0.07% | 2 |
| being a doormat | 0.04% | 1 |
| "more patient with my child" | 0.04% | 1 |
| have more confidence | 0.04% | 1 |
| more disciplined | 0.04% | 1 |
| worrying too much | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too shy | 0.04% | 1 |
| being passive. | 0.04% | 1 |
| being lazy lol | 0.04% | 1 |
| too many to list | 0.04% | 1 |
| i have been a continual work in progress. | 0.04% | 1 |
| shyness | 0.04% | 1 |
| patience | 0.04% | 1 |
| smoking and weight | 0.04% | 1 |
| feeling like a debbie downer all the time :/ | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too pessimistic | 0.04% | 1 |
| stop smoking and excersise | 0.04% | 1 |
| not good with money | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too compliant, letting people walk over me | 0.04% | 1 |
| smoking | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too self-doubting | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too stressed | 0.04% | 1 |
| being shy | 0.04% | 1 |
| i love myself, as should everyone | 0.04% | 1 |
| complaining | 0.04% | 1 |
| i love the me i am, however, i would change my procrastination!!! | 0.04% | 1 |
| i would change from being poor to being filthy rich! hahaha | 0.04% | 1 |
| other attributes like "no tact" | 0.04% | 1 |
| being a worrier | 0.04% | 1 |
| none of those, but i am a narcissist | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too lenient | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too emotional | 0.04% | 1 |
| none of those things are part of me. | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too bossy! | 0.04% | 1 |
| don't know | 0.04% | 1 |
| i tell to much about myself and family. wish i could shut up | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too picky | 0.04% | 1 |
| procrastination | 0.04% | 1 |
| i am not perfect but i would not change a thing. everything i have went through, is what has made me. everything i will go through is molding me for a perfect praise to the lord. i am who he has made me. | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'm perpetually late. i'd like to work on being on time more. | 0.04% | 1 |
| being negative/ a complainer | 0.04% | 1 |
| selfish | 0.04% | 1 |
| no patience could use some | 0.04% | 1 |
| i worry too much | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'm not sure | 0.04% | 1 |
| i would like to have the time to be more giving. | 0.04% | 1 |
| i want more patience & empathy | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'm too sarcastic. | 0.04% | 1 |
| being happier | 0.04% | 1 |
| all these answers are awfully simplistic | 0.04% | 1 |
| none of the above | 0.04% | 1 |
| beging so mofo' lazy | 0.04% | 1 |
| temper | 0.04% | 1 |
| too passive | 0.04% | 1 |
| sometimes i think i'm too lazy, and sometime i swear i would stop that | 0.04% | 1 |
| be more aggressive | 0.04% | 1 |
| having a bad back | 0.04% | 1 |
| size | 0.04% | 1 |
| doing more of what god wants me to o | 0.04% | 1 |
| courage | 0.04% | 1 |
| be more patient | 0.04% | 1 |
| confidential ! | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too quiet | 0.04% | 1 |
| anxiety | 0.04% | 1 |
| unsure | 0.04% | 1 |
| worrying | 0.04% | 1 |
| hfgh | 0.04% | 1 |
| better communicating skills | 0.04% | 1 |
| i am not the best person in the world, and i dont mind being alone at all, so it really is a choice | 0.04% | 1 |
| being to trustworthy | 0.04% | 1 |
| my health problems and my problems with self control and shyness and paranoia. | 0.04% | 1 |
| i am fearful | 0.04% | 1 |
| complicated traits i can't put down | 0.04% | 1 |
| trouble being happy | 0.04% | 1 |
| being more trusty of people | 0.04% | 1 |
| try not to worry as much. | 0.04% | 1 |
| being intimidated easily | 0.04% | 1 |
| worrying about things that i have no control over. | 0.04% | 1 |
| trying to talk to elders more respectfully. | 0.04% | 1 |
| moral things | 0.04% | 1 |
| controlling | 0.04% | 1 |
| not believing in myself | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'm a push over | 0.04% | 1 |
| not being tolerent | 0.04% | 1 |
| trying to help to many people that don't try to help themselves | 0.04% | 1 |
| confidence | 0.04% | 1 |
| drinking a little less beer | 0.04% | 1 |
| try to get over being so shy | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'm not worried about it | 0.04% | 1 |
| help people more | 0.04% | 1 |
| im too shy | 0.04% | 1 |
| quit smokeing. | 0.04% | 1 |
| something else | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too sensitive | 0.04% | 1 |
| staying true to myself, learning more about about me | 0.04% | 1 |
| being less nervous about certain things | 0.04% | 1 |
| i would get out more. | 0.04% | 1 |
| wouldn | 0.04% | 1 |
| ? | 0.04% | 1 |
| caring too much about other's feelings | 0.04% | 1 |
| introvert | 0.04% | 1 |
| being a pushover | 0.04% | 1 |
| defensiveness | 0.04% | 1 |
| being soft | 0.04% | 1 |
| worrying constantly | 0.04% | 1 |
| . | 0.04% | 1 |
| always moving to fast | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'd like to be more creative | 0.04% | 1 |
| being to docile | 0.04% | 1 |
| too nice & trusting | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'm a pushover | 0.04% | 1 |
| impatient | 0.04% | 1 |
| not saving enough when i was younger | 0.04% | 1 |
| being depressed all the time. | 0.04% | 1 |
| thinking that everyone is just like me | 0.04% | 1 |
| keeping my opinions to myself | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'd be less lazy | 0.04% | 1 |
| not be lazy | 0.04% | 1 |
| not being aggressive enough | 0.04% | 1 |
| none | 0.04% | 1 |
| generally, improve on a work in progress. | 0.04% | 1 |
| being a worry-wart | 0.04% | 1 |
| being too trusting. | 0.04% | 1 |
| being more accepting and understanding and fun | 0.04% | 1 |
| rather not say | 0.04% | 1 |
| my circumstances | 0.04% | 1 |
| too depressed | 0.04% | 1 |
| stay sober | 0.04% | 1 |
| weight | 0.04% | 1 |
| i would change just about everything if i could. | 0.04% | 1 |
4.
4.
Under what circumstances is it completely necessary to change? Cheating
29%
•
534 votes
A dying wish
18%
•
337 votes
Near death experience
24%
•
436 votes
Alienation of friends and family
35%
•
645 votes
Ultimatum during a relationship
19%
•
349 votes
Life or death situation
46%
•
860 votes
Other (please specify)
7%
•
128 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.43% | 14 | |
| na | 0.43% | 14 |
| not sure | 0.33% | 11 |
| n/a | 0.27% | 9 |
| none | 0.15% | 5 |
| nothing | 0.12% | 4 |
| when you hate yourself | 0.06% | 2 |
| depends | 0.06% | 2 |
| all of the above | 0.06% | 2 |
| ? | 0.06% | 2 |
| dunno | 0.06% | 2 |
| don't know | 0.06% | 2 |
| to be like jesus | 0.03% | 1 |
| any time | 0.03% | 1 |
| no one is perfect, we all have things we need to change. life is about change, about trying to be a better person and it's something we all need to work towards every day. | 0.03% | 1 |
| you should di it just because | 0.03% | 1 |
| any reason that makes you think about this subject | 0.03% | 1 |
| turning away from sinful, self-destructive behavior. | 0.03% | 1 |
| don't know. | 0.03% | 1 |
| when it negatively effects your life. | 0.03% | 1 |
| nope | 0.03% | 1 |
| not sure exactly what you are asking here. for which partner? one being cheated on, or one doing the cheating? dying wish? you'd change til they died and then go back to your old ways? so not understanding this ? | 0.03% | 1 |
| unknown | 0.03% | 1 |
| just do it for yourself and not anyone else! as the saying goes! | 0.03% | 1 |
| when you feel you need to | 0.03% | 1 |
| if you need to. | 0.03% | 1 |
| depends on the person | 0.03% | 1 |
| hard to say | 0.03% | 1 |
| if needed to achieve your goals | 0.03% | 1 |
| to change for yourself | 0.03% | 1 |
| when you feel it is worth it | 0.03% | 1 |
| dont know | 0.03% | 1 |
| whenever you could become a better person | 0.03% | 1 |
| it's not so much what necessitates a change but that one is motivated to change. | 0.03% | 1 |
| we don't have to wait until samething bad happened so then we change. | 0.03% | 1 |
| when we come to the realization that we are harming ourselves or others by doing the things we do | 0.03% | 1 |
| none above | 0.03% | 1 |
| none if you don't want to change | 0.03% | 1 |
| for your children | 0.03% | 1 |
| it's never necessary. | 0.03% | 1 |
| it is impossible to change | 0.03% | 1 |
| no. | 0.03% | 1 |
| for yourself | 0.03% | 1 |
| whatever you take seriously enough, you will change. | 0.03% | 1 |
| ,, | 0.03% | 1 |
| a personal feeling or need | 0.03% | 1 |
| no comment | 0.03% | 1 |
| live as a christian | 0.03% | 1 |
| when you feel you need to change | 0.03% | 1 |
| a moment of clarity and the willing to change. | 0.03% | 1 |
| none, depends upon the person | 0.03% | 1 |
| huh | 0.03% | 1 |
| if you are with someone who makes you feel like you need to change - they are manipulative & abusine and you need to leave | 0.03% | 1 |
| being able to adapt to the situation at hand. | 0.03% | 1 |
| when you are ready | 0.03% | 1 |
| very hard | 0.03% | 1 |
| losing a child and wanting to be better for your remaining child | 0.03% | 1 |
| i am just me a working to make me. | 0.03% | 1 |
| depends. if it's a danger to the other person in the relationship, then a change is needed. | 0.03% | 1 |
| if i'm not happy with who i am | 0.03% | 1 |
| not sure what you are asking, i have no traits that need to be changed | 0.03% | 1 |
| if you are hurting others in any way. | 0.03% | 1 |
| any of the above the above | 0.03% | 1 |
| christ | 0.03% | 1 |
| to please god | 0.03% | 1 |
| if you want to actually live a life | 0.03% | 1 |
| if not for yourself, then for your own children | 0.03% | 1 |
| any of those! | 0.03% | 1 |
| never! | 0.03% | 1 |
| ya gotta wanna | 0.03% | 1 |
| who care | 0.03% | 1 |
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