Results: She said / He said
1.
1.
What do you think is the most common issues in a relationship? Lack of communication
68%
•
318 votes
Lack of sex
11%
•
53 votes
Lack of time spent together
17%
•
80 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
15 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| money | 0.64% | 3 |
| 0.43% | 2 | |
| all of the above | 0.43% | 2 |
| financial problems. | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of depth | 0.21% | 1 |
| all of the above. | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of trust | 0.21% | 1 |
| n/a | 0.21% | 1 |
| all 3 | 0.21% | 1 |
| all of the above...now a days people spend a alot of time working and doing other things sometimes there is not enough time to spend with someone, therefore you dont communicate as much and no sex as often. | 0.21% | 1 |
| unwilling or unable to accept the other for who they are. | 0.21% | 1 |
2.
2.
Do you go to sleep upset/angry without resolving the issue with your significant other? Yes
32%
•
150 votes
No
40%
•
187 votes
Not Applicable
28%
•
129 votes
3.
3.
How do you punish the other person when you're upset with them? Silent treatment
42%
•
198 votes
Vacancy - leaving or not being around
15%
•
71 votes
Withholding intimacy
14%
•
63 votes
N/A
43%
•
199 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
5 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| try not to do such infantile behaviour as punishment | 0.19% | 1 |
| 0.19% | 1 | |
| i don't. | 0.19% | 1 |
| my husband and i have been together 16 years and have never argued or raised our voice with each other | 0.19% | 1 |
| domestic violence | 0.19% | 1 |
4.
4.
How often do you tell him/her that you love him/her? Few times a day
41%
•
192 votes
Few times a week
17%
•
81 votes
Few times a month
9%
•
44 votes
N/A
32%
•
149 votes
5.
5.
Do you think "having a clean home and dinner ready when he/she gets home" is too old fashion? Yes
27%
•
128 votes
No
73%
•
338 votes
6.
6.
For Men: What irritates you the most about your wife or girlfriend? Intelligence - or lack there of
5%
•
23 votes
Too controlling / mothering / suffocating / demanding
16%
•
73 votes
Too much talking
7%
•
33 votes
N/A
70%
•
326 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
•
11 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| all of the above! | 0.21% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of ambition | 0.21% | 1 |
| her driving | 0.21% | 1 |
| not thinking before she talks...or having to repeat what i said. | 0.21% | 1 |
| too insecure with herself and makes my life a living hell. | 0.21% | 1 |
| when she cracks walnuts on the kitchen counter with a hammer | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of commitment | 0.21% | 1 |
| holy crap- judgmental and stereotypical options. | 0.21% | 1 |
| not picking up after herself | 0.21% | 1 |
| learn to take care of things instead of complaing about them. | 0.21% | 1 |
7.
7.
For Women: What irritates you the most about your husband or boyfriend? Lack of ambition
12%
•
57 votes
Messy / clutter / unorganized
19%
•
89 votes
Lack of affection
19%
•
87 votes
N/A
45%
•
208 votes
Other (please specify)
5%
•
25 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.43% | 2 | |
| nothing | 0.43% | 2 |
| can't see things from my point of view | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of truth | 0.21% | 1 |
| i don't complain about him publicly, it damages relationships | 0.21% | 1 |
| v | 0.21% | 1 |
| abuse | 0.21% | 1 |
| always having to be right | 0.21% | 1 |
| emotions | 0.21% | 1 |
| never home | 0.21% | 1 |
| holy crap- judgmental and stereotypical options. | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of intelligence | 0.21% | 1 |
| using his cell too much | 0.21% | 1 |
| too lazy to work | 0.21% | 1 |
| all of the above | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of understanding/not letting me complain | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of communication or emotion from her (i'm a girl in a relationship with a girl, btw) | 0.21% | 1 |
| unsure. | 0.21% | 1 |
| spending habits | 0.21% | 1 |
| cold hearted at times | 0.21% | 1 |
| instead of talking just walks away | 0.21% | 1 |
| stubborn | 0.21% | 1 |
| over controlling | 0.21% | 1 |
8.
8.
For Women: What irritates you the most about your husband or boyfriend? Lack of ambition
12%
•
58 votes
Messy / clutter / unorganized
20%
•
93 votes
Lack of affection
17%
•
77 votes
N/A
48%
•
222 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
16 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| nothing | 0.43% | 2 |
| all of the above | 0.21% | 1 |
| over controlling and jealous | 0.21% | 1 |
| 0.21% | 1 | |
| cold hearted at times | 0.21% | 1 |
| unsure | 0.21% | 1 |
| lack of understanding/not letting me complain | 0.21% | 1 |
| lazy | 0.21% | 1 |
| using his cell too much | 0.21% | 1 |
| emotions | 0.21% | 1 |
| always having to be right | 0.21% | 1 |
| abuse | 0.21% | 1 |
| d | 0.21% | 1 |
| i don't complain about him publicly, it damages relationships | 0.21% | 1 |
| same as above | 0.21% | 1 |
9.
9.
For Men: Which qualities do you look for the most in women? Looks of course, intelligence & personality doesn't matter as much
11%
•
50 votes
Intelligence & personality, looks doesn't matter as much
21%
•
100 votes
N/A
68%
•
316 votes
10.
10.
For Women: Which qualities do you look for the most in men? Stability - careers / success
15%
•
71 votes
Personality - high integrity
38%
•
178 votes
Looks - tall, dark & handsome
5%
•
23 votes
N/A
39%
•
183 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
•
11 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| honesty | 0.43% | 2 |
| a spark | 0.21% | 1 |
| a happy combination of the above plus a good sense of humour | 0.21% | 1 |
| hubby | 0.21% | 1 |
| i'm a bisexual woman and i look for a social, kind and humourous personality first and foremost in either sex. | 0.21% | 1 |
| all of the above plus sense of humor and must love animals | 0.21% | 1 |
| honesty, kindness, sense of humor | 0.21% | 1 |
| all 3 | 0.21% | 1 |
| stability and persinality a man that knows what he wants. | 0.21% | 1 |
| affectionate | 0.21% | 1 |
11.
11.
What would drive you to divorce or break-up the relationship? Dishonesty - lying / cheating
57%
•
267 votes
Finances - over spending / lack of income
9%
•
42 votes
Physical - lost of chemistry / lack of intimacy
6%
•
30 votes
N/A
25%
•
115 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
12 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| there are more than one answers for this one. | 0.21% | 1 |
| cheating, mistreatment, lack of love/affection, feeling like me and my son aren't coming first | 0.21% | 1 |
| if they get fat | 0.21% | 1 |
| nothing, we've been through the worst already & are committed to work through the rest til the end. | 0.21% | 1 |
| silent treatment for no good reason | 0.21% | 1 |
| nothing | 0.21% | 1 |
| all of the above | 0.21% | 1 |
| could be any or all of these | 0.21% | 1 |
| 0.21% | 1 | |
| all the ab0ve | 0.21% | 1 |
| abuse | 0.21% | 1 |
| niggers | 0.21% | 1 |
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