Results: Who do you think is right?
I have two friends who have been dating for over a year. Let's call them Bob and Sally. Bob is a Christian and Sally is a Pagan. Bob knew Sally was Pagan before they started dating. Recently, Bob told Sally that if she wanted to continue seeing him, she had to convert to Christianity. Sally wasn't happy and told Bob he should accept her the way she is. Sally has no problem with Bob being Christian and would like the same amount of respect from him.
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Who do you think is right? Bob
11%
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188 votes
Sally
52%
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852 votes
They are both wrong
16%
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258 votes
N/A
20%
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322 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
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48 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.30% | 5 | |
| both right | 0.12% | 2 |
| they accepted each other the way they were when they began dating, so they should keep it that way. | 0.06% | 1 |
| if they truely love each other this should not effect them. if it can 't does they will havevto compromise. | 0.06% | 1 |
| neither is wrong but the differences in their views will probably mean that the relationship won't last. | 0.06% | 1 |
| bob is wrong | 0.06% | 1 |
| they should have never started dating to begin with | 0.06% | 1 |
| shouldn't have started dating if he had an issue with it. | 0.06% | 1 |
| sally is a portal to let satan in, dump her it aint worth it, she will bring destruction into your house. | 0.06% | 1 |
| technically sally is probable right, but i would rather have god in our marriage for us both. | 0.06% | 1 |
| i have no idea | 0.06% | 1 |
| bob shouldn't have started to date sally in the first place. | 0.06% | 1 |
| if two are dating and know this about the other then they should not change that person but accept that they are different. | 0.06% | 1 |
| see comment | 0.06% | 1 |
| they shouldnt marry. | 0.06% | 1 |
| christianity was made up by pagens so they are both right. | 0.06% | 1 |
| bob should not have started going out with her ! a even yoak | 0.06% | 1 |
| part of bob being a christian is that he wants a partner who has the same beliefs... if she is really accepting him the way he is she would accept this too. | 0.06% | 1 |
| you can't be yoked unequally | 0.06% | 1 |
| bob is a judgemental moron like most christians | 0.06% | 1 |
| idc not my business | 0.06% | 1 |
| obviously not going to work out. end it now | 0.06% | 1 |
| idk | 0.06% | 1 |
| no one should have to change for anyone | 0.06% | 1 |
| pushing her to be a christian ain't gona work. she has to want to. | 0.06% | 1 |
| end this now | 0.06% | 1 |
| bob should not have dated her | 0.06% | 1 |
| they shouldn't be dating | 0.06% | 1 |
| that is bob's choice but sally shouldn't have to change either. | 0.06% | 1 |
| i think it is better for bob to date someone with his own faith. in the long long run, it is hard if the 2 of them tdo not agree in terms of beliefs. | 0.06% | 1 |
| bob should walk away. she has made her belief system very clear and it does not match his - if they were to continue on in this relationship it only spells heart ache for later as their beliefs are opposite. | 0.06% | 1 |
| i think bob should have never started dating sally if he knew this. | 0.06% | 1 |
| this is why you shouldn't date someone without having in the back of your mind that you may someday be talking marriage. they shouldn't have ever started dating. | 0.06% | 1 |
| both right, but bob is a douche (kind-of) | 0.06% | 1 |
| he is concerned about her soul. he should be! plus if they were to get married, at the end of their lives he wouldn't be spending it with her in heaven. she doesn't realize the importance of her naievete. she will burn in hell whether she believes or | 0.06% | 1 |
| they have to make that choice | 0.06% | 1 |
| it's not a matter of right or wrong, now that the relationship has progessed they don't see eye to eye | 0.06% | 1 |
| they aren't wrong so much as they are wrong for each other. | 0.06% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.06% | 1 |
| bob is correct. it is a christian tradition to convert the unbelievers. wwjd | 0.06% | 1 |
| it's whatever works for them so if sally doesn't like bob's position maybe she should look for someone else | 0.06% | 1 |
| if they feel they need to change each other's basic values and beliefs, they shouldn't be together. | 0.06% | 1 |
| wow, i have no idea. | 0.06% | 1 |
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