Results: Would you date someone that had a child?

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chelseabelcoure

05/06/2013

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Love & Relationships
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1.
Would you date someone who had a child from a previous relationship?
Absolutely. Yes. I would accept his kid completely
50%
537 votes
No way. A baby means too much responsibilities
19%
204 votes
N/A
29%
307 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
23 votes
Other Answers Percentage Votes
depends 0.19% 2
depends on the situation 0.19% 2
0.19% 2
it depends 0.09% 1
depends in the person 0.09% 1
haven't dated in years, but previously some have had kids 0.09% 1
it depends on the circumstances.. 0.09% 1
no. baby mama drama 0.09% 1
depends on the age of the child 0.09% 1
can't say 100% yes or no. every situation is different. 0.09% 1
it just depends 0.09% 1
depends on age of the child 0.09% 1
only if it was not a baby!! would have to b at least 2 years old!!! 0.09% 1
possibly 0.09% 1
depends on how old the kid is and the relationship with the other parent. 0.09% 1
not sure 0.09% 1
done it twice now and regretted it both times. you will never be important or feel as loved as you would if you dated someone without kids. it sucks! 0.09% 1
depends on the child age- yes if the child is an adult 0.09% 1
i'll have to think about that 0.09% 1
maybe, if she understood that it'd take a long time to accept. 0.09% 1
2.
2.
If you answered no, why would you?
Too much responsibilities?
13%
137 votes
Not worth it
11%
122 votes
Too young to have a child in your life
8%
90 votes
Does not apply
73%
787 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
21 votes
Other Answers Percentage Votes
0.61% 7
the only kid i want to raise is my own. 0.09% 1
don't like children 0.09% 1
his children would probably be grown 0.09% 1
... 0.09% 1
not loved enough if there is a kid. it totally sucks the love out of a relationship and makes you feel unimportant. you will never come first. 0.09% 1
i can't stand kids 0.09% 1
to much baggage 0.09% 1
i have known people whose lives were destroyed by the social issues the step-children were dealing with (ie false accusations, extortion, legal battles) 0.09% 1
too much drama about the other parent always in ur life and being a step parent is hard u get told you aint my mother! been there done that and never again 0.09% 1
can't say 100% yes or no. every situation is different. 0.09% 1
wouldn't want to deal with the mother of the child 0.09% 1
raised my own kids, done with that 0.09% 1
don't want children. 0.09% 1
different people ways of raising children is very important ! 0.09% 1
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3.
Would you date someone who still went to visit their baby's mother or father?
Yeah! Why not they just want to see how their child is doing
24%
256 votes
No there's obviously some feelings left there
18%
196 votes
Maybe, depends
25%
266 votes
Does not apply
35%
379 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
8 votes
Other Answers Percentage Votes
0.45% 5
it sucks, but you have to deal with it. as long as they are only going to pick up their kids and not spend time with the other parent. if they still hung out with the parent, no way! 0.09% 1
the child needs to have visits according to the father's visitation rights. gets rid of some baby mama drama that is unnecessary. 0.09% 1
depends on the persons reason for visiting 0.09% 1

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