Results: It's All About Relationship Matters!
1.
1.
Would you rather have a short relationship or a lasting relationship?
Short relationship is my thing
6%
•
74 votes
Lasting relationship is what I want
75%
•
1000 votes
It is what it is
18%
•
241 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
14 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.23% | 3 | |
| na | 0.15% | 2 |
| n/a | 0.15% | 2 |
| married for 16 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| none of the above | 0.08% | 1 |
| no | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'd rather be alone all the time. | 0.08% | 1 |
| happily married | 0.08% | 1 |
| none | 0.08% | 1 |
| i have no interest in relationships. | 0.08% | 1 |
2.
2.
What was your longest relationship?
Matter of days
4%
•
50 votes
Few months
9%
•
113 votes
1-3 years
16%
•
216 votes
4-7 years
14%
•
187 votes
7 years and longer
45%
•
600 votes
Never had a relationship
9%
•
119 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
44 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.30% | 4 | |
| na | 0.23% | 3 |
| married | 0.23% | 3 |
| 27 year marriage | 0.08% | 1 |
| married fifty years i guess that answers your question | 0.08% | 1 |
| 47 years and counting | 0.08% | 1 |
| 11 months | 0.08% | 1 |
| 20 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| 31 years so far | 0.08% | 1 |
| it was 21 years marry, now i have been 5 years leaving together but know each other 4 years befor that | 0.08% | 1 |
| still going | 0.08% | 1 |
| relationship with one guy married until death parted us | 0.08% | 1 |
| on | 0.08% | 1 |
| 31 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| 22 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| i am in a lasting marriage! | 0.08% | 1 |
| 20+ years and counting as unmarried partners | 0.08% | 1 |
| 43 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| been 40 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| 19 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| i have been with my wonderful wife for over forty years. | 0.08% | 1 |
| over 20 yrs now | 0.08% | 1 |
| almost 3 yrs, in one now | 0.08% | 1 |
| marriage | 0.08% | 1 |
| 30 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.08% | 1 |
| 42 years and going | 0.08% | 1 |
| 24 years and counting! | 0.08% | 1 |
| i am married for 34 years this coming july. | 0.08% | 1 |
| still on going 25 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| still am in one | 0.08% | 1 |
| married over 47 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| 34 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| 52 years | 0.08% | 1 |
| 37 years and counting | 0.08% | 1 |
| 36years and counting | 0.08% | 1 |
| n | 0.08% | 1 |
3.
3.
What type of a relationship do you prefer?
Marriage
54%
•
720 votes
Serious relationship
27%
•
361 votes
Open relationship
5%
•
66 votes
Friendship with benefits
5%
•
71 votes
None of the above
8%
•
103 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
8 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.23% | 3 | |
| my relationship wants are not fluid and change as time goes on. | 0.08% | 1 |
| a good relationship | 0.08% | 1 |
| any as long as it is real | 0.08% | 1 |
| sex sex and more sex | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't know | 0.08% | 1 |
4.
4.
Do you like to talk about the future when in a relationship?
Yes, I want to know where it is all going
61%
•
813 votes
No, que sera, sera (whatever will be, will be)
23%
•
303 votes
N/A
16%
•
207 votes
Other (please specify)
0%
•
6 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.23% | 3 | |
| depends on length of relationship | 0.08% | 1 |
| i was married once for 21 years, now i live with my boyfriend and we love eaach in all ways, we are always laughing adn we always talk to one another so their is not hard feelings with one another, this is my solemate now, iam glad i had my marriag, | 0.08% | 1 |
| after awhile yes | 0.08% | 1 |
5.
5.
What do you value most in a relationship?
Trust
42%
•
558 votes
Respect
12%
•
156 votes
Love
14%
•
180 votes
Friendship
8%
•
105 votes
Commitment
6%
•
81 votes
Loyality
6%
•
86 votes
I have no clue.
9%
•
117 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
46 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| all of the above | 0.98% | 13 |
| honesty | 0.30% | 4 |
| all the above | 0.15% | 2 |
| 0.15% | 2 | |
| na | 0.15% | 2 |
| all of the above! | 0.15% | 2 |
| all | 0.08% | 1 |
| all these | 0.08% | 1 |
| communiation | 0.08% | 1 |
| putting god first | 0.08% | 1 |
| n/a | 0.08% | 1 |
| space | 0.08% | 1 |
| all the above except i have no clue | 0.08% | 1 |
| trust, love, friendship, honestly | 0.08% | 1 |
| all of the above. | 0.08% | 1 |
| nothing | 0.08% | 1 |
| communication | 0.08% | 1 |
| sex | 0.08% | 1 |
| trust respect love friendship fun | 0.08% | 1 |
| all of te above | 0.08% | 1 |
| compassion for each other | 0.08% | 1 |
| honest communication | 0.08% | 1 |
| all of the above and honesty | 0.08% | 1 |
| all of the above!! | 0.08% | 1 |
| comunication | 0.08% | 1 |
| honesty and sense of humor | 0.08% | 1 |
| all the above of course | 0.08% | 1 |
6.
6.
Would you initiate a relationship?
Yes, I don't have a problem telling him/her I want
58%
•
766 votes
No, I rather let him/her put the key in the ignition and start the engine
40%
•
532 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
•
31 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.53% | 7 | |
| na | 0.45% | 6 |
| n/a | 0.30% | 4 |
| no | 0.15% | 2 |
| have given relationships their time, i am celibate and shall remain that way | 0.08% | 1 |
| if it is right, both initiate a relationship. it just happens.there is no guessing | 0.08% | 1 |
| these choices indicate a casual sexual relationship! | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends...actually have tht dilema now | 0.08% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.08% | 1 |
| i'd rather not have a relationship. | 0.08% | 1 |
| take time to decide anything | 0.08% | 1 |
| im married | 0.08% | 1 |
| equal | 0.08% | 1 |
| other | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't want a relationship. | 0.08% | 1 |
7.
7.
When in a relationship do you have to communicate with your partner on a daily basis?
Absolutely, daily communication is the key
63%
•
841 votes
No, I can only take certain amount of communication
18%
•
233 votes
I wish he/she would
6%
•
81 votes
N/A
12%
•
165 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
9 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.23% | 3 | |
| we communicate every day & without that it would never be as good as it is. we have alot to say to each other. | 0.08% | 1 |
| na | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on length of relationship | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't have to but usually do. | 0.08% | 1 |
| frequent but not constant. | 0.08% | 1 |
| i do for his benifit but i could do without it. | 0.08% | 1 |
8.
8.
Do you like public displays of affection?
Yes, I want the world to see
43%
•
570 votes
No, I have a bedroom
38%
•
511 votes
N/A
16%
•
208 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
40 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| depends | 0.23% | 3 |
| 0.23% | 3 | |
| depends on what it is and where | 0.15% | 2 |
| it depends | 0.15% | 2 |
| depends on the location/time. | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on what it is and how many can see. | 0.08% | 1 |
| as long as it's not major, hand holding is ok, a quick peck is fine to me | 0.08% | 1 |
| some is appropriate other is for the bedroom | 0.08% | 1 |
| sometimes | 0.08% | 1 |
| it depends on the type of affection shown. | 0.08% | 1 |
| varies | 0.08% | 1 |
| both the yes and no options sound really creepy... | 0.08% | 1 |
| to a point | 0.08% | 1 |
| some | 0.08% | 1 |
| i like to watch | 0.08% | 1 |
| no | 0.08% | 1 |
| showing that you care for each other is nice | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on what it is | 0.08% | 1 |
| within reason | 0.08% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.08% | 1 |
| not too over the top, hugs and smooches. not down your throat tongue fest. | 0.08% | 1 |
| only a little bit | 0.08% | 1 |
| limited and appropriate | 0.08% | 1 |
| nothing extreme or on and on pda | 0.08% | 1 |
| when appropriate | 0.08% | 1 |
| yes, mild ones | 0.08% | 1 |
| there is an affection where you don't touch. | 0.08% | 1 |
| as long as it is just a hug,holding hands or a quick kiss.these small signs of affection make a good day into a great one. | 0.08% | 1 |
| some is ok | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't care | 0.08% | 1 |
| affection in good taste | 0.08% | 1 |
| doesnt matter to me one way or another | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on the level of affection. hand holding, hugs and clean kisses are fine. | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on where and how much | 0.08% | 1 |
9.
9.
Can you handle a long-distance relationship?
Yes, been there done that and will do it again.
26%
•
339 votes
No, not for me
35%
•
463 votes
Depends on the miles away
24%
•
316 votes
N/A
15%
•
199 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
12 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| in it, do not recommend if possible!!! | 0.08% | 1 |
| have done that before but am happily married now | 0.08% | 1 |
| yes, been there twice, never doing it again | 0.08% | 1 |
| did it before and not wanting to do it again | 0.08% | 1 |
| not forever, but for short periods of time | 0.08% | 1 |
| yes | 0.08% | 1 |
| depends on the other person and the trust level | 0.08% | 1 |
| yes, i was in asia and he in canada - | 0.08% | 1 |
| 0.08% | 1 | |
| maybe it depends on how far and for how long | 0.08% | 1 |
| other | 0.08% | 1 |
| it's really tough | 0.08% | 1 |
10.
10.
Do you believe in living together before marriage?
Yes, I want to know what I am getting myself into
57%
•
755 votes
No, I save the best for last
23%
•
312 votes
I don't believe in marriage
5%
•
66 votes
N/A
14%
•
186 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
10 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.23% | 3 | |
| i think not to is best but depends on location of couple and unique situations too | 0.08% | 1 |
| myself now that i am saved no. if you do i woud not love you any less | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't think it matters either way | 0.08% | 1 |
| to each relationship their own | 0.08% | 1 |
| i don't know | 0.08% | 1 |
| i belive in marriage, having said that times are changing | 0.08% | 1 |
| yes and no | 0.08% | 1 |
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