Results: Sexual Relationships .... is it lasting or over?
Published on 03/03/2015
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1.
1.
Are you in a sexual relationship? Yes
52%
882 votes
No
48%
822 votes
2.
2.
If you answered yes, how often do you want sex? Once or more a day
6%
109 votes
Every chance I get
10%
167 votes
A few times a week
15%
261 votes
A few times a month
16%
276 votes
Sex? What is that? I can't even remember
9%
155 votes
Not applicable
45%
771 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
20 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 0.40% | 7 | |
| this is rather a very personal question. | 0.06% | 1 |
| once a week | 0.06% | 1 |
| i believe sex is a personal subject and feel offended when people want to know the details of it. | 0.06% | 1 |
| noyb | 0.06% | 1 |
| its a secret | 0.06% | 1 |
| never | 0.06% | 1 |
| every few months | 0.06% | 1 |
| none of your business | 0.06% | 1 |
| that is a question i can not answer | 0.06% | 1 |
| that is my personal business and no one else's | 0.06% | 1 |
| none of anyone else's business | 0.06% | 1 |
| married | 0.06% | 1 |
| nobody's business! | 0.06% | 1 |
3.
3.
Do you want sex more often than your partner? Yes
16%
267 votes
No
28%
473 votes
Sometimes
13%
221 votes
Not applicable
44%
753 votes
4.
4.
Do you think that differing sexual needs can destroy a relationship? Absolutely
20%
343 votes
No
8%
139 votes
It can be worked out
22%
383 votes
If you love each other, it does not matter
15%
262 votes
Sometimes
14%
236 votes
Not applicable
29%
489 votes
5.
5.
How would you feel if you wanted sex fairly often and your partner seemed to be able to go completely without it for months or even a year or more? I would feel as if they had another relationship with someone else
20%
347 votes
It would make me wonder what I was doing wrong or if they were not attracted to me
45%
761 votes
I would think our relationship was over
13%
221 votes
I would wonder if they were possibly homosexual and did not want to say so
7%
124 votes
I would be looking for a new relationship
19%
330 votes
Other (please specify)
19%
322 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| na | 3.85% | 81 |
| n/a | 2.38% | 50 |
| 2.23% | 47 | |
| none | 0.29% | 6 |
| not applicable | 0.24% | 5 |
| nothing | 0.19% | 4 |
| unsure | 0.14% | 3 |
| noyb | 0.10% | 2 |
| none of the above | 0.10% | 2 |
| none of your business | 0.10% | 2 |
| no big deal | 0.10% | 2 |
| be understanding | 0.10% | 2 |
| ? | 0.10% | 2 |
| it wouldn't,t make any difference. just except it | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would be thinking maybe a medical problem. | 0.05% | 1 |
| this is a very private thing between my husband and i. | 0.05% | 1 |
| it does not matter, if you're in a committed marriage. | 0.05% | 1 |
| would be looking into other issues that may be going on | 0.05% | 1 |
| due to health issues nothing | 0.05% | 1 |
| this would never happen. | 0.05% | 1 |
| love changes over time anyway | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would be wondering how to get our libidos going again | 0.05% | 1 |
| sex is not everything in a relationship. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would love him or her no matter | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would talk to them, go to therapy | 0.05% | 1 |
| i get a good one off in the orgies we attend | 0.05% | 1 |
| since our daughter died i just cant get inot sex and we just work it out | 0.05% | 1 |
| may be ill | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would just deal with it | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would talk to my partner | 0.05% | 1 |
| who knows | 0.05% | 1 |
| if you have a good partner, why would you lose that over sex? get a sex toy. | 0.05% | 1 |
| if male, they are ed if female, doesn't feel attractive | 0.05% | 1 |
| i don't care | 0.05% | 1 |
| love & intimacy is more important than sex. | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| it is part of life | 0.05% | 1 |
| maybe has no sex drive to to low testerone needs to be checked into | 0.05% | 1 |
| give them time. be there if they want to talk about it. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i have been very sick for months so it's understandable | 0.05% | 1 |
| relationships are more than sex | 0.05% | 1 |
| this is a private matter. | 0.05% | 1 |
| any or all of the above | 0.05% | 1 |
| not sure, maybe do counseling together to work it out. | 0.05% | 1 |
| there are many options if one isn't as sexual as the other. not everyone has to have an orgasm. | 0.05% | 1 |
| could be medical reasons or medication | 0.05% | 1 |
| frustrated | 0.05% | 1 |
| it would be hard but compromise is necessary. | 0.05% | 1 |
| not agreed | 0.05% | 1 |
| could be medical/emotional and requires professional help | 0.05% | 1 |
| medical issues | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends | 0.05% | 1 |
| make it work | 0.05% | 1 |
| as above. personal and private. | 0.05% | 1 |
| probelms with his plumbing | 0.05% | 1 |
| wtf | 0.05% | 1 |
| it would be o.k. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'm married | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would cry | 0.05% | 1 |
| sex isn't everything. | 0.05% | 1 |
| that is life. | 0.05% | 1 |
| could be medical problem | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'd ask why | 0.05% | 1 |
| when you get older and go through menopause you do not want it as much | 0.05% | 1 |
| not everyone thinks sex is the most important thing in the world | 0.05% | 1 |
| would try to solve the problem. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i don't know. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would masturbate more | 0.05% | 1 |
| these answers are quite stupid. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| n/a. have never been in this situation. | 0.05% | 1 |
| look,i am 54 and used to thrive on sex-now i'd rather watch a movie.after 35 years of marriage,experience tells me that a couple being "best friends" is more important than jumping their bones. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'd adjust. need and desires change, different for everybody. intimacy is more important than sex and lasts longer. | 0.05% | 1 |
| too many factors to consider. tired. work. etc | 0.05% | 1 |
| there's more to a relationship than sex | 0.05% | 1 |
| oh well | 0.05% | 1 |
| i i think that is normal! | 0.05% | 1 |
| more to a relationship than sex | 0.05% | 1 |
| their libido was on a low. | 0.05% | 1 |
| what kind of question are these????? | 0.05% | 1 |
| different strokes for different folks | 0.05% | 1 |
| not bothered | 0.05% | 1 |
| bad health ,live with out sex,small part of total love | 0.05% | 1 |
| when you hit menopause things are different hormones are low | 0.05% | 1 |
| n a | 0.05% | 1 |
| dont have such issues | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'd look into other acceptable ways of pleasuring myself | 0.05% | 1 |
| try to work it out | 0.05% | 1 |
| every situation is different hard to say. | 0.05% | 1 |
| sex should be a bonus not a major part of why you are in a relationshop | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would wonder if they had a hormone problem. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'd think they did not have a strong sexual drive | 0.05% | 1 |
| zzzzzzzz | 0.05% | 1 |
| h | 0.05% | 1 |
| or they could just have a low libido | 0.05% | 1 |
| may be something physical or mental going on | 0.05% | 1 |
| love is not necessary needing sex specially after menopause | 0.05% | 1 |
| maybe you have differing sex drives | 0.05% | 1 |
| women psychologically don't need or want sex as often as men. there may be medical issues or another reason - don't blow it because you feel like you aren't getting enough | 0.05% | 1 |
| i do not base my relationships on sex | 0.05% | 1 |
| we're older so it's natural. | 0.05% | 1 |
| some people have high sex drives others do not. it doesn't mean they don't love you, it's that their needs are less than yours | 0.05% | 1 |
| all long term relationships will end up like this eventually | 0.05% | 1 |
| not in a relationship | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would go to counselling | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the what is going on in the persons life | 0.05% | 1 |
| wouldn't care | 0.05% | 1 |
| would not bother me | 0.05% | 1 |
| depression and some meds. may hinder your sex drive. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'm married and staying that way, just hte two of us | 0.05% | 1 |
| wouldn't worry about it | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would ask them | 0.05% | 1 |
| medical? | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would cheat | 0.05% | 1 |
| n-a | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would feel as is they had different needs than mine. | 0.05% | 1 |
| my husband had testicle cancer and has always had a low sex drive | 0.05% | 1 |
| people put too much importance in sex. shame | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would try to find out the reason | 0.05% | 1 |
| that their libido is different | 0.05% | 1 |
| too personal | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would understand my partner's need. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'd be stepping out on them regularly. | 0.05% | 1 |
| maybe a physical issue and sex causes them pain | 0.05% | 1 |
| a lot of people do not worry | 0.05% | 1 |
| i am married. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i have been ill, so this doesn't really apply. | 0.05% | 1 |
6.
6.
Would you end a relationship if the sex nearly stopped after having a couple years of having a wonderful sexual relationship and your partner did not want to talk about it and even ignored you if you tried to discuss it? Yes
21%
351 votes
Only after a few more years of trying to resolve the issue
16%
265 votes
Not if I loved them and valued their friendship more than the sex
34%
580 votes
No
27%
459 votes
Other (please specify)
7%
115 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| na | 1.81% | 32 |
| n/a | 1.58% | 28 |
| 1.07% | 19 | |
| not sure | 0.17% | 3 |
| unsure | 0.11% | 2 |
| depends | 0.11% | 2 |
| maybe | 0.06% | 1 |
| it would depend on how much you loved each other. there's more to a relationship than sex. | 0.06% | 1 |
| idk | 0.06% | 1 |
| i'd sure question him. | 0.06% | 1 |
| n-a | 0.06% | 1 |
| not in a relationship | 0.06% | 1 |
| id try to get help | 0.06% | 1 |
| ? | 0.06% | 1 |
| it definitely would need to be worked out. if your partner doesnt want to have sex with and isn't willing to talk about it, than they probably arent attracted to you and thats a problem. | 0.06% | 1 |
| n//a | 0.06% | 1 |
| not applicable | 0.06% | 1 |
| dont have issues | 0.06% | 1 |
| n a | 0.06% | 1 |
| depends on age and health | 0.06% | 1 |
| pass n/a | 0.06% | 1 |
| if they won't communications your problem isn't sexual. | 0.06% | 1 |
| i would try to find out the reason . | 0.06% | 1 |
| don,t know, never in that spot | 0.06% | 1 |
| too personal | 0.06% | 1 |
| you get married for better or worse | 0.06% | 1 |
| not wanting to talk about it and ignoring me if i tried is what bothers me and i would feel like its over. | 0.06% | 1 |
| it all depends on what is happening | 0.06% | 1 |
| no comment | 0.06% | 1 |
| relationships are about more than sex only | 0.06% | 1 |
| my husband and i celebrated our 46th wedding anniversary; haven't had sex in 35+ years | 0.06% | 1 |
| noyb | 0.06% | 1 |
| like i have said before, this is none of your business. | 0.06% | 1 |
| depends, cant really answer | 0.06% | 1 |
| see a doctor to rule out a medical problem | 0.06% | 1 |
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