Results: Relationships after infidelity

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hpeck1986

08/15/2025

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Settle The Score
Your spouse cheats, either with multiple people on multiple occasions or with the same person multiple times and you catch them, do you agree to forgive and work it out or do you tell them to kick rocks
1.
1.
What's your first reaction
Get even, last you hear their best friend is single
4%
71 votes
Retreat to your bed for a 3 month long stay cation filled with ice cream and snot rags
3%
69 votes
Despite all your raging thoughts, cooler heads prevail and you agree to talk about it
16%
311 votes
Thats it, end of the line, you turn away and never look back, spouse who.
37%
746 votes
After snapping some pretty embarrassing photos of the two, you take to every social media platform known to man.
2%
44 votes
Ask why they didnt invite you, and make plans to join the next rondavue
2%
46 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
23 votes
Not Applicable
35%
690 votes
What you said instead...lol
  • Sorry, no spouse!
  • Call my lawyer, put his stuff out, change the locks.
  • "rondavue"???
Other Answers Percentage Votes
0.69% 9
Suffer 0.08% 1
Don't care . Sex drive died with menopause. 0.08% 1
If it bothered me I would leave. 0.08% 1
Stay and make a plan to leave when you have everything together,(photos, text receipts, etc) foolish to just walk out with nothing 0.08% 1
I would just leave and change my phone number no contact ,they made there choice so let them live with it ,but not me,Cheater get nowhere in life. 0.08% 1
Every relationship is different 0.08% 1
seek marriage counseling. something is wrong and it may include you 0.08% 1
ariana grande 0.08% 1
Hillary seemed to forgive Bill 0.08% 1
I see a quick divorce and lots of money in my future! Snap those date and time stamped pics! 0.08% 1
pray for a miracle 0.08% 1
Counseling or the "boot." 0.08% 1
forgive and forget 0.08% 1
Keep your dignity and don't humiliate yourself. 0.08% 1
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2.
Some time later, in hind sight, do you think you knew or were you oblivious
Oh I knew honey, how you thunk they got caught.
10%
205 votes
My spidey senses had been tingling for a while but I was trying to ignore it.l
17%
346 votes
How could I have not known, all the inappropriate spending and only fans accounts showing on my credit card statement
9%
179 votes
You couldn't have paid me to believe it, and still almost dont, we are talking about the same person right.
9%
182 votes
Ray Charles would have seen it before me, im just sayin
7%
138 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
19 votes
Not Applicable
47%
931 votes
Tell it like you see it...lol
  • It hurt!
  • I see that in order to be part of this mean girls club you ll have going on you have to be obsessed with anger and delusional. Is this like high school bullying or a political cult?
  • Wow. You brought pornography into the mix (onlyfans) and then made fun of a blind man (Ray Charles). Neither of those options was necessary to the answer options.
Other Answers Percentage Votes
0.84% 9
other 0.09% 1
If you didn't know then the person can never be trusted to not decieve you again. 0.09% 1
I had lingering suspicions for a while 0.09% 1
he told me 0.09% 1
It was right in front of my face as we attended a family gathering at his aunt s place 0.09% 1
ariana grande 0.09% 1
no 0.09% 1
Eventually told...if he knew or not 0.09% 1
I suspected 0.09% 1
Unsure 0.09% 1

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