Results: What is the best way to get through a separation from spouse that you didn't want to happen?
Published on 07/05/2013
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What is the best way to get through a separation from spouse that you didn't want to happen? Have a rebound relationship
19%
157 votes
Date multiple people
19%
164 votes
Be alone
58%
487 votes
Other (please specify)
12%
105 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| na | 1.31% | 12 |
| 1.10% | 10 | |
| n/a | 0.99% | 9 |
| not sure | 0.55% | 5 |
| pray | 0.33% | 3 |
| don't know | 0.33% | 3 |
| idk | 0.22% | 2 |
| have no idea | 0.22% | 2 |
| ? | 0.11% | 1 |
| be yourself | 0.11% | 1 |
| sorry this has happened if it's about you. pray. god will help heal your heart or bring you back together. big hugs to you! | 0.11% | 1 |
| everyone is different | 0.11% | 1 |
| start with just being friends with someone, don't be looking for an exclusive or get back relationship | 0.11% | 1 |
| be a round other friend | 0.11% | 1 |
| i do not know and hope i never have this experience | 0.11% | 1 |
| no idea. | 0.11% | 1 |
| find a good support system & listen | 0.11% | 1 |
| spend time with friends, stay single for a year | 0.11% | 1 |
| does not apply to me | 0.11% | 1 |
| work, hobbies, volunteer, just keep busy | 0.11% | 1 |
| have a good cry then you have to move on and make a better life. | 0.11% | 1 |
| unknown | 0.11% | 1 |
| what the "fudge" kind of question is this. i wouldn't know i'm single by choice and loving it | 0.11% | 1 |
| i would spend the time grieving for the relationship. then i would start putting my life back together again. my motto is the best revenge is living well. | 0.11% | 1 |
| come to grips with the situation before you date other people | 0.11% | 1 |
| hasnt happened yet so cant give advice | 0.11% | 1 |
| spend time with family and friends. | 0.11% | 1 |
| i have no idea | 0.11% | 1 |
| i don't know. | 0.11% | 1 |
| healing time with close friends | 0.11% | 1 |
| other | 0.11% | 1 |
| ,, | 0.11% | 1 |
| don't date until your heart no longer hurts. do things with friends, take a class, go to the movies and join a gym | 0.11% | 1 |
| spend time with family, freinds and other poeple that love you in your life. pets even. take time to greive | 0.11% | 1 |
| enlist the support of friends and family to help you through the hard time. | 0.11% | 1 |
| stick with family to help you through this | 0.11% | 1 |
| prayer | 0.11% | 1 |
| give your self some time. spend time with friends and family | 0.11% | 1 |
| be happy with yourself.you shouldnt want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you. | 0.11% | 1 |
| except what is going on and live your life regular, time heals all wounds, dont dwell on the negative | 0.11% | 1 |
| don't know. never happened to me | 0.11% | 1 |
| depends | 0.11% | 1 |
| go to counselling | 0.11% | 1 |
| keep busy with friends! | 0.11% | 1 |
| sound yourself with people who love you | 0.11% | 1 |
| i guess that is why the bible puts divorce and widow together. i also didn't want it to happen. it is so hard. the first year is the hardest. i keep busy when i stop crying comes in. | 0.11% | 1 |
| none | 0.11% | 1 |
| i dont know | 0.11% | 1 |
| just be with as many friends and family as you can...you will get over it | 0.11% | 1 |
| be with family and friends | 0.11% | 1 |
| each person is different | 0.11% | 1 |
| get really involved in activities you like to do,surround yourself with positive friends,seek god in all | 0.11% | 1 |
| just get on with your life and do not dwell on the separation | 0.11% | 1 |
| i live with my hubby of 34 years beside my sis and her hubby married longer... | 0.11% | 1 |
| get help | 0.11% | 1 |
| take a good introspective look at yourself, and then go out to find what you need to do | 0.11% | 1 |
| turn to the jesus for help | 0.11% | 1 |
| be around friends | 0.11% | 1 |
| drown your sorrows in koolaid | 0.11% | 1 |
| take time for yourself to heal | 0.11% | 1 |
| work on rebuilding your relationship if possible. otherwise, have your pity party, then enjoy time with friends and family. | 0.11% | 1 |
| you don't! | 0.11% | 1 |
| keep yourself busy. with friends and family. date only if you really want to and when you are ready | 0.11% | 1 |
| friends | 0.11% | 1 |
| spend time with friends and family...i would not recommend going into dating right away-that just leads to more issues | 0.11% | 1 |
| have no idea...couldn't get rid of my ex quick enough | 0.11% | 1 |
| work on yourself | 0.11% | 1 |
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