Results: Dating dilemma
Published on 12/18/2014
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Which would you do if you were not interested in having a second date with someone who asked for one at the end of the first date? Say no right to their face
41%
795 votes
Say yes, but then call and tell them you aren't interested
7%
133 votes
Say yes, but then tell them via text or some other kind of message that you are not interested
7%
131 votes
Say yes, and then ignore any future contact from them
6%
106 votes
Say maybe, and then ignore any future contact from them
32%
625 votes
Other (please specify)
7%
136 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 1.09% | 21 | |
| na | 0.88% | 17 |
| n/a | 0.83% | 16 |
| not sure | 0.10% | 2 |
| unsure | 0.10% | 2 |
| tell them the truth | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't be a coward, just tell respectfully tell the truth. | 0.05% | 1 |
| politely say that you are not interested | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no nicely | 0.05% | 1 |
| just be honest, tell them you dont things went too well on this date so why have another lol | 0.05% | 1 |
| be polite and say no | 0.05% | 1 |
| would kindly say no. | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them will see what you have going on and keep in touch and then later tell them you don't think its gonna work for whatever reason | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no politely, saying we just don't click | 0.05% | 1 |
| all of these are pretty rude, i'd just say sorry i dont think this will work out | 0.05% | 1 |
| just say no | 0.05% | 1 |
| kindly say no. | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no or i am not interested | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no kindly | 0.05% | 1 |
| say yes and go on the second date to see if there's a spark | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the person/moment/etc. | 0.05% | 1 |
| n/a missing. not everyone dates | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no in as nice a way as possible | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the person | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on why iwouldnt want second date | 0.05% | 1 |
| say maybe but then tell them later that i'm just not interested in them. | 0.05% | 1 |
| give them a second chance | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no in the kindest way possible | 0.05% | 1 |
| i don't date | 0.05% | 1 |
| would try to be kind but honest | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would say maybe we can do that and when they called i would nicely say no, somehow. what a pickle to be in. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'd say how about we give it a few days. | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends on the personality of the person and what happened during the date. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'll think about it!! | 0.05% | 1 |
| say yes & when they call say i'm not interested | 0.05% | 1 |
| maybe, but call them and tell them i am not interested | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them you will think about it and let them know later | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would say "no" but kindly. | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them i had a nice time. and thank you. and s hand shake | 0.05% | 1 |
| go on a second date | 0.05% | 1 |
| say maybe, decline later | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them the truth. you just got out of a relationship. | 0.05% | 1 |
| try another date before i decide to go further | 0.05% | 1 |
| probably say yes, and then call them or something and let them know that you'd like to be friends, but you just don't see it working out if you tried to date. | 0.05% | 1 |
| say we'll see what happens | 0.05% | 1 |
| say yes then make excuses when they call | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the date and situation | 0.05% | 1 |
| just say i don't thing this is going to work | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the person and situation | 0.05% | 1 |
| give them a second chance it might be better the second time around | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends on the person/situation. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would give them another chance | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would call him up and say i tried but preferred to stay single | 0.05% | 1 |
| say maybe then call them and tell them no interested | 0.05% | 1 |
| not applicable. | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and person | 0.05% | 1 |
| give it a second shot. | 0.05% | 1 |
| just tell them you don't you're compatable | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would say, "let me think about it. i'll get back to you if i decide my answer is yes." | 0.05% | 1 |
| i woul say "i don't know" | 0.05% | 1 |
| have not dated in many years so i do not know | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them i enjoyed the date but have a busy schedule for the next few weeks, if they call late ron either give a 2nd chance or let them know it didnt workout | 0.05% | 1 |
| say maybe, and then decide what to do | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't date | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no but be gentle about it | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on situation and person | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them straight up | 0.05% | 1 |
| try one more date | 0.05% | 1 |
| never dated so i don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them straight up why you reject | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would try to be non commital and hope that they would get the hint | 0.05% | 1 |
| run, run, as fast as i can!!! and do not look back, ever. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would say maybe or not respond at all and say goodbye | 0.05% | 1 |
| say i enjoy their company but not interested in romance | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no but kindly | 0.05% | 1 |
| do no date | 0.05% | 1 |
| say get in touch and maybe meet one last time | 0.05% | 1 |
| honesty is best, why lead someone on? tell them it is just not going to work and leave it at that. | 0.05% | 1 |
| say no | 0.05% | 1 |
| other | 0.05% | 1 |
| go out on the second date anyway | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| i would politely tell them that i don't feel we have anything in common. | 0.05% | 1 |
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2.
Would you ever tell someone you had a great time on a date when you didn't? Yes
26%
503 votes
No
45%
863 votes
Undecided
29%
560 votes
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3.
Do you think it's mean to ignore someone's calls or messages if you are not interested, but you thought they were a nice person? Yes
54%
1033 votes
No
20%
387 votes
Undecided
26%
506 votes
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