Results: Who Gives A Care?

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At some point in our lives, most of us are going to be or are already caregivers to a loved one. An article in AARP the magazine, "Caregiving in My 70s," hit home for me. Janie Emaus described the daily balancing act of caring for her mother who was physically fit but suffering from dementia. Janie was also caring for her disabled husband who was mentally sharp but unable to walk. Source: AARP the Magazine, Feb/March 2026, pg 31
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The entire article resonated with me. Before my mother passed in 2020, I was a caregiver for her and also my newborn grandson. I loved them both but it surely was not the way I had pictured life in my late 60s would be. Mrs Eamus wrote that her mother and husband have both passed away recently but she learned much about coping strategies that she hopes will help others. First on the list is (1) Ask for help. Friends and family may be waiting for the caregiver to reach out. Do you sometimes want to help someone but you're hesitant of overstepping your boundaries?
Yes
41%
441 votes
No
21%
226 votes
Undecided
19%
202 votes
Not Applicable
21%
226 votes
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Next on the list: (2) Keep friends close. Once a month, the author spent a day or at least a night out with friends. It is so important to keep comfort and laughter in your life. Do you have friends you consider to be your "rock?"
Yes
35%
381 votes
No
22%
238 votes
Have in the past but no longer
19%
209 votes
Undecided
9%
99 votes
Not Applicable
17%
183 votes
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Binge-Watching was another tip she offered. When things are calm, there's nothing like a good story or movie series to take you away from reality to a world far from your own. Does this idea sound appealing to you?
Yes
52%
562 votes
No
15%
165 votes
Undecided
16%
177 votes
Not Applicable
17%
188 votes
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Sneak In "Me Time." That tip is probably my favorite. On days when making another bottle, answering the same question from my mother for the thousandth time or folding another basket of clothes was more than my brain could handle, a few pages in my book along with a light snack would see me thru to a better version of myself. Do you have a coping mechanism that takes you to your happy place?
Yes
34%
369 votes
Sometimes
35%
383 votes
No
12%
134 votes
Not Applicable
20%
213 votes

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