1.
1.
Do you ever feel unlucky dating if you are single (or when you were single?). Yes
33%
•
668 votes
No
25%
•
514 votes
Undecided
9%
•
177 votes
Not Applicable
33%
•
672 votes
2.
2.
What was your longest dry spell without a second date? Less than 1 year
48%
•
980 votes
Between 1 to 2 years
13%
•
261 votes
2 to 3 years
8%
•
161 votes
3 to 4 years
3%
•
70 votes
4 to 5 years
2%
•
41 votes
5+ years
26%
•
518 votes
3.
3.
I recently met someone whom I got along with and has told me I am perfect in every way, except for one. I'm not of their cultural group and therefore they would not be allowed to date me seriously, but would be able to have things casual instead. I was crushed. What are your thoughts on this? That's their opinion and it's their right to have it
20%
•
401 votes
Why bother pursuing someone if you know you can't date them?
53%
•
1079 votes
Undecided
24%
•
492 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
•
59 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.69% | 14 | |
| na | 0.59% | 12 |
| N/A | 0.10% | 2 |
| disguised racism | 0.05% | 1 |
| I think it's b.s., you wanna 'hook up' but we can't date because of your culture. Then i must be second rate in your eyes and you can move on. | 0.05% | 1 |
| and that is what is wrong with our society. what a prick | 0.05% | 1 |
| Sounds like they are not worth your effort. | 0.05% | 1 |
| They say that now, but once time and effort fortifies a relationship, even culture can get bumped down in the list of priorities. If you're really serious about them, take it easy, be patient, and let time prove them wrong. | 0.05% | 1 |
| how stupid are you | 0.05% | 1 |
| They must be muslim. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Their loss not yours. Someone better will come along. And may karma bite them where the sun don't shine. | 0.05% | 1 |
| If i really like him i couldnt date him i like being attached to someone | 0.05% | 1 |
| Not applicable | 0.05% | 1 |
| They should decide for themselves who to date | 0.05% | 1 |
| ditch the person and date someone who truly likes you for you | 0.05% | 1 |
| A little too rigid to my liking I probably would end in a relationship at that point | 0.05% | 1 |
| another excuse | 0.05% | 1 |
| Iu | 0.05% | 1 |
| if they cared enough that would not stop them | 0.05% | 1 |
| LEAVE | 0.05% | 1 |
| sounds like an excuse to me | 0.05% | 1 |
| Wow all I can, is that I am so happy that I am NOT GOING THROUGH THAT ANY MORE. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Move on | 0.05% | 1 |
| N/A and you need this for every answer | 0.05% | 1 |
| the guy is a wimp--if he really cared he would defy his family | 0.05% | 1 |
| wow | 0.05% | 1 |
| A PERSON CAN ALWAYS USE NEW FRIENDS | 0.05% | 1 |
| they were just looking for a booty call | 0.05% | 1 |
| WHO WANT ANYONE THAT SHALLOW | 0.05% | 1 |
| DON'T: He's angling to see how far you'll go---"casual" | 0.05% | 1 |
| if only being friends is OK with you go for it (or not) | 0.05% | 1 |
| maybe he just wants sex, and if you arent good enough for his family..move on find someone else!! | 0.05% | 1 |
| Run. If he has so little back bone that he let's others dictate to him you don't want him. | 0.05% | 1 |
| A and B | 0.05% | 1 |
4.
4.
I feel sometimes there's no point in even trying to date these days. I feel that hook up culture has become very pervasive and no one wants to seriously date anymore. Agree or disagree? Agree
36%
•
722 votes
Disagree
19%
•
381 votes
Undecided
43%
•
881 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
•
47 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| na | 0.69% | 14 |
| 0.49% | 10 | |
| n/a | 0.49% | 10 |
| Agw deoendent | 0.05% | 1 |
| It's easier to find someone when you're not looking | 0.05% | 1 |
| you will find someone. don't give out sex. go to places where your culture is | 0.05% | 1 |
| D | 0.05% | 1 |
| NOT SINGLE HERE | 0.05% | 1 |
| does not need to be that way if you stick to your own cultre but i am suprised in the liberal world we live in | 0.05% | 1 |
| Been married 38 years, have no idea about the current dating scene | 0.05% | 1 |
| A lot of people seem to have that mindset, but not everyone. You'll find the right one sooner or later. | 0.05% | 1 |
| The lack of income and the expense | 0.05% | 1 |
| that is so individual | 0.05% | 1 |
| stay within your own race/culture | 0.05% | 1 |
| im glad i dont have to date nowadays. seems terrible. | 0.05% | 1 |
| There is a "happy medium." | 0.05% | 1 |
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