Results: To lie or not to lie
is it more common to lie? Are there any honest people nowadays?
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1.
In a situation dealing with exes, divorce, custody and child support Is it ok to lie to a judge to get the judge to go with what you want? Yes
6%
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121 votes
No
75%
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1571 votes
Undecided
19%
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408 votes
- It is not ok
- Don't know
- Weight, size
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2.
Your ex teams up with another ex to stop one of them from paying the HIGH child support they are supposed to pay. What would you do if they made up lies, embellished things from your past in order to get your kids taken from you? Respond emotionally and aggressively to defend yourself and your children's best interests
6%
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134 votes
Consult with a lawyer who specializes in family law to understand your legal rights and options
53%
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1116 votes
Ignore their accusations and hope they go away
4%
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77 votes
Confront your ex and their partner directly to try and resolve the situation
6%
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119 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
12 votes
Not Applicable
31%
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642 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.21% | 3 | |
| Multiple of the above, ideally | 0.07% | 1 |
| THats why you need a lawyer - to prove perjury | 0.07% | 1 |
| Not sure | 0.07% | 1 |
| GET THE BEST POSSIBLE LAWER AND BEGIN RESEARCHING ANDCOLLDECTING AS MUCH EVIDENCE AS POSSIBLR BE CREATIVE | 0.07% | 1 |
| Load my gun. | 0.07% | 1 |
| Prove it and counter sue | 0.07% | 1 |
| Let them take the kids. If the court is ok with it, no problem. | 0.07% | 1 |
| Cut the brakes on their vehicle | 0.07% | 1 |
| Higher a lawyer | 0.07% | 1 |
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3.
You are disabled you have chronic pain from failed back surgeries, Is it ok to call you in stating that you worked construction with one of them that your last surgery "fixed" you? And that you go around bragging to everyone that you're ripping off disability. None of what they say is true. What do you do in this instance? Lets say you have no means to hire an attorney what do you do? Confront the person directly and try to reason with them
7%
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147 votes
Ignore the false accusations and hope they go away
4%
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77 votes
Seek support from family and friends to help defend your reputation
6%
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131 votes
Contact a legal aid organization to see if they can assist you with your case
35%
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745 votes
Report the false accusations to the authorities and let them handle the situation
14%
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302 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
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19 votes
Not Applicable
32%
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679 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.35% | 5 | |
| I don't understand this question at all... | 0.07% | 1 |
| Have the doctor supply evidence/jnformation. | 0.07% | 1 |
| Question is too confusing for me to answer intelligently | 0.07% | 1 |
| All of the above | 0.07% | 1 |
| Not sure | 0.07% | 1 |
| Lawyer | 0.07% | 1 |
| in America you're screwed | 0.07% | 1 |
| I'd ignore. | 0.07% | 1 |
| I need more context or clarification to give an answer | 0.07% | 1 |
| Be examined to show proof of injury. | 0.07% | 1 |
| Lawyers are available for those who are low income and cannot afford them. | 0.07% | 1 |
| Look within, you are the common denominator | 0.07% | 1 |
| Just suffer with it as no one would believe what I say. | 0.07% | 1 |
| I don't understand the question. This is a run on sentence, lacking punctuation. After two readings, I give up, sorry. | 0.07% | 1 |
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4.
You have an ex that made upwards of $8000K a month. They marry a wealthy person, put everything they can into their spouses name and their parents name. They then quit their job, reason they give is to spend time more with their kids and their new spouse. You know it is Not true. You learn the New company they work for at $12 an hour is bogus. It is manager/owned by the new spouse. Who paid for the business license just 4 days before they married. This drops child support to practically nothing. Is this wrong? Do you think it is illegal? What do you think they should be charged with? What would you do? you live in public housing and they live in a $750,000 dollar home. your kids are taken from you and they tell you that your ex doesn't work at all and that they just hang out everyday all day with each other while the new spouse works. Yes, this is wrong and illegal, and they should be charged with fraud and deceit
29%
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599 votes
No, this is not wrong or illegal, and it is just a smart financial decision
4%
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90 votes
Yes, this is wrong, but it is not illegal, and there is nothing you can do about it
7%
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139 votes
Yes, this is wrong and illegal, and they should be charged with tax evasion and child support fraud
12%
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246 votes
Yes, this is wrong and illegal, and they should be charged with contempt of court for violating the child support order
8%
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177 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
•
33 votes
Not Applicable
39%
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816 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 1.09% | 14 | |
| Very sad. I hope you find a legal aid group to help you. | 0.08% | 1 |
| Not sure if legal or not, maybe reporting what they are doing to family court after checking with legal aid. | 0.08% | 1 |
| Get over it and move on. | 0.08% | 1 |
| Reality Check: Kids aren't removed from homes for no good reason. | 0.08% | 1 |
| I don't know about the legality, but it is wrong | 0.08% | 1 |
| Happens all the time. The women keep having kids and get more money and the gets less | 0.08% | 1 |
| It is wrong, illegal and should be charged for every offence committed. | 0.08% | 1 |
| I have no idea | 0.08% | 1 |
| let the lawyers handle it, there's always more to both sides of the story. | 0.08% | 1 |
| don't know the law to make a comment | 0.08% | 1 |
| I don't know if it's illegal, but it is wrong | 0.08% | 1 |
| This is life, you have to look at what you can do and make your decisions based on what option would work the best, sometimes it is letting it go | 0.08% | 1 |
| A mixture of more than 1 of these | 0.08% | 1 |
| Take photos and document as much as you can to present to the court | 0.08% | 1 |
| I would legally pursue them for child support, it does work, one of my BFFs succeeded | 0.08% | 1 |
| 1. It is not illegal. 2. It's called "voluntarily underemployed" and will be considered by a court, at least in the U.S. | 0.08% | 1 |
| Answers 1, 4 and 5 | 0.08% | 1 |
| JUST UNSURE | 0.08% | 1 |
| unsure | 0.08% | 1 |
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