We have two grown up children. One at the age 12 and she would cuss us out and refused to listen to us.We bailed her out of a lot of trouble and helped her when she got knocked up at 15. We had a beautiful Granddaughter.Her bother is the same way. My husband said they don't have anything to do with us and said you don't have any more money what good are you and they have cussed us out and treated us awful. My husband said when we depart from this world on our death noticed we are to leave them out. I am struggling with it. They have been disinherited from every thing. Grand kids will get our personal things. We are just on SS.What I am asking is it wrong to do this. We are so hurt how they have treated us. What your thoughts on this.Thank you !