Results: Invited 3 coffee shop regulars to my small upcoming wedding-1 couple, 1 friend/client. Another reg thinks theyre invited b/c they referred me to day of coordinator, but no space. How should I handle this? Thank you!
Published on 11/25/2015
Assuming wedding guest thinks bc they referred wedding service provider - they are also invited. SMALL wedding and accepted RSVPs are already over suggested venue capacity.
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Invited 3 coffee shop regulars to my small upcoming wedding-1 couple, 1 friend/client. Another reg thinks theyre invited b/c they referred me to day of coordinator, but no space. How should I handle this? Thank you! Be blunt
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648 votes
figure out a way to invite them even though you are not as close to them as those that are invited
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570 votes
ask coordinator since they are friends
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707 votes
Other (please specify)
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100 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 1.33% | 27 | |
| na | 0.49% | 10 |
| n/a | 0.35% | 7 |
| no idea | 0.20% | 4 |
| what? | 0.10% | 2 |
| idk | 0.10% | 2 |
| not sure | 0.10% | 2 |
| Tell them they are welcome to come to the ceremony but not the reception | 0.05% | 1 |
| NICELY tell them it's just for CLOSE friends & relatives due to space | 0.05% | 1 |
| Be prepared to lose a friend. It's sad, but weddings are a time when many people reevaluate their friendships. | 0.05% | 1 |
| R | 0.05% | 1 |
| you can ask who you like. You are not obligated to invite all and sundry, no matter what they think. | 0.05% | 1 |
| This makes no sense. Please elaborate on what a day of coordinator actually is? | 0.05% | 1 |
| Do you dislike this person? I feel there's more to the story. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Tell them over capacity | 0.05% | 1 |
| ? | 0.05% | 1 |
| huh? | 0.05% | 1 |
| be kind but explain the situation | 0.05% | 1 |
| be truthful. just explain you have no room, perhaps you could invite them to the party after | 0.05% | 1 |
| thank them for referral however and tell truth sorry not on guest list | 0.05% | 1 |
| Be blunt, but in a nice way... Like you're so sorry, but your guest list has already filled to capacity | 0.05% | 1 |
| dk | 0.05% | 1 |
| Who cares!!!! | 0.05% | 1 |
| Not sure what to do | 0.05% | 1 |
| explain it's just a small wedding. | 0.05% | 1 |
| WHAT is the question?! Run-on VAGUE question | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't understand question | 0.05% | 1 |
| Don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| none | 0.05% | 1 |
| ok | 0.05% | 1 |
| should not have any of them | 0.05% | 1 |
| What are you talking about? | 0.05% | 1 |
| I guess you could invite them to the festivities that are after the dinner! Would that work for you? Will you venue be large enough for that? Happy Wedding Day! :-) | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't care | 0.05% | 1 |
| WTF? Unintelligible. | 0.05% | 1 |
| undecided | 0.05% | 1 |
| explain the situation to your wedding planner. Perhaps they can come to just the reception or an extra table can be added. Don't burn a bridge over soemthing so small. | 0.05% | 1 |
| be honest | 0.05% | 1 |
| explain polietly | 0.05% | 1 |
| I have no idea. | 0.05% | 1 |
| ff | 0.05% | 1 |
| I think you should tell him up front, a person should never presume that they're invited, | 0.05% | 1 |
| Invite for dance at least they are going explain the meal was ordered and can't change. | 0.05% | 1 |
| One person won't hurt. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Let him down easy. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Be more clear in explaining your dilemma. You can type as many words as you want; there is no penalty for explaining yourself completely. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Kindly explain that there is just not enough room | 0.05% | 1 |
| have no idea | 0.05% | 1 |
| what?? | 0.05% | 1 |
| do what you can afford | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't understand any of this | 0.05% | 1 |
| Family only. Sorry | 0.05% | 1 |
| I have no idea what you are talking about | 0.05% | 1 |
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