Results: Love, Trust, and Privacy: When in a relationship...
Published on 07/08/2012
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1.
1.
Are you happy in your current relationship?
yes, very much so
44%
116 votes
we're pretty happy, but could be happier
15%
38 votes
we're just kind of co-exisiting, and neither extremely happy nor unhappy
7%
19 votes
S/he's happy, but I'm not
3%
8 votes
I'm happy, but s/he's not
0%
1 votes
no, we're not very happy together
5%
12 votes
not applicable
25%
65 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
2 votes
2.
2.
Do you feel the need to check up on your partner when you're not together? no, I trust my partner implicity; they don't need to check in with me
57%
148 votes
yes, I stalk, call, or text him/her repeatedly to question his/her whereabouts
8%
20 votes
yes, I "stalk", call, or text him/her repeatedly, but it's because I care and genuinely want to talk with him/her
8%
21 votes
not applicable
25%
66 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
6 votes
3.
3.
Do you monitor your significant other's social media accounts?
yes, we're social media buddies, so I know what's going on with him/her, but I'm not a stalker
16%
43 votes
yes, I have all of the passwords to his/her email, twitter, facebook, etc. and performs regular checks
7%
19 votes
no, I may look at his/her facebook page occaisonally, but I'm not a frequent visitor
28%
72 votes
I don't have his/her passwords, but I want to see who s/he's talking to
8%
22 votes
I'm not even on facebook or twitter
8%
20 votes
not applicable
33%
87 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
5 votes
4.
4.
Do you confide in and share secrets, fantasies, and other important stuff with your partner? yes, my partner knows virtually everything about me
41%
106 votes
we discuss some things, but we each might keep a secret or two to ourselves
19%
50 votes
no, we don't communicate very well, but we do our best
5%
14 votes
no, I don't/can't trust my partner with certain things
6%
16 votes
we choose not to talk about certain things, and instead choose to respect each other's privacy
3%
7 votes
not applicable
26%
67 votes
Other (please specify)
0%
1 votes
5.
5.
if you feel unable to or do not want to trust your partner, is it because of...
something s/he has said or done to you in the past?
20%
53 votes
something s/he has said or done to someone you care about?
7%
18 votes
something s/he has said or done in a past relationship that makes you feel uneasy?
10%
25 votes
something unrelated to your relationship with your partner (i.e., something someone else has said or done to you)?
10%
27 votes
a personal issue that you are working through?
10%
25 votes
not applicable
52%
136 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
2 votes
6.
6.
Can/do you talk about the BIG stuff? finances
45%
117 votes
children
39%
101 votes
past relationships
35%
91 votes
emotions
38%
100 votes
marriage
32%
84 votes
religion and values
30%
79 votes
your relationship
33%
86 votes
addictions
22%
58 votes
the future
37%
96 votes
not applicable
27%
70 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
5 votes
7.
7.
Can your partner trust YOU? yes, of course, about anything
55%
143 votes
sort of; I can't really keep secrets, but s/he can still tell me anything
8%
22 votes
no, I've proved myself to be untrustworthy too many times
5%
13 votes
Does s/he THINK s/he can?
5%
12 votes
not applicable
27%
70 votes
Other (please specify)
0%
1 votes
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