Results for - Have anyone met and dated a Jewish man?

2,240 voters participated in this survey

I met a Jewish man online one year ago. Of course, I understand the difference in faith and asked all the right questions before going into a serious relationship with him. I was not into marrying again, but would love a committed relationship which eventually lead to living together, at the point in life when we all could use help with assistance like medical appointments, etc.. He assured me that was what he was looking for too. So we continued to see each other most weekends, talked at least 2 or 3 times daily on the phone, messaged each other daily. The first disappointment was when he didn't remember my birthday. I told him I was not expected any special treatment or huge celebration, but just for him to remember would mean so much to me. I remember his. Secondly, on the Victoria Day long weekend, I got a call Friday morning where he called off plans to meet that weekend because his daughter called the night before and wanted to spend the weekend with him. I get it that we all have kids from our previous relationships and I will never be on the top of his priority list as his kid was in his life long before I came along. I communicated my expectations to him and the relationship went cold after this conversation.

1. Am I wrong in initiating this communication so that I will not be disappointed again?

Yes
21%
452 votes
No
79%
1,748 votes

2. We all love our kids, but was he right to call off the weekend plans with me. His daughter is after all 29 and married.

Yes
39%
866 votes
No
61%
1,334 votes

3. He's only separated and I told him he is still battling old demons and should not have misled me into this relationship. Was I right?

Yes
64%
1,405 votes
No
36%
795 votes

4. I am trying to get over it, after all it's only a year versus the 31 years I've been married to my ex. I am struggling. It gets worse closer to the weekends. Am I being silly and stupid?

Yes
32%
702 votes
No
68%
1,498 votes

5. Was it right for him not to try to remember my birthday? He thinks I was over reacting.

Yes
25%
548 votes
No
75%
1,652 votes
06/16/2021 Love & Relationships 2240 119 By: peklee2

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