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Results: Trauma dumping: When your venting becomes 'toxic' to your friends

Published on 10/02/2021
By: Tellwut
2864
Love & Relationships
After a tough day at work or a date that went horribly wrong, many of us turn to friends to offload our frustration and anger. But when does venting become problematic? -USA Today article
1.
1.
The article states "We all have that friend, who constantly talks about their problems without stopping to consider how others are feeling." Do you have a friend like that?
The article states
Yes
30%
849 votes
Not a friend but a family member
16%
436 votes
Not a friend but a co worker
5%
139 votes
I am the friend/person who does that
5%
137 votes
No
43%
1192 votes
Other (please specify)
2%
47 votes
2.
2.
Unlike venting, trauma dumping is done in an "unsolicited, unprepared way, where a person dumps traumatic thoughts, feelings, energy onto an unsuspecting person," whether it be a close friend or a stranger on social media. There's a fine line between venting and dumping. Experts say the latter is "toxic" and "damaging," because trauma dumping doesn't include or respect the consent of the listener and often seems one-sided. Have you ever "trauma dumped" before?
Yes
32%
882 votes
No
46%
1296 votes
Undecided
22%
622 votes
3.
3.
In any healthy friendship, "it's always important to express yourself and ask someone if they're ready to listen to your problems," says Judith Orloff, a psychiatrist. Before you tell your friends or family your problems, do you ask if they have the space/time/mental health to listen?
Yes
30%
844 votes
No
38%
1063 votes
Not Applicable
32%
893 votes
4.
4.
Have you ever had to end a friendship,relationship or cut a family member off due to trauma dumping?
Yes
30%
827 votes
No
70%
1973 votes

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