Results: Trauma dumping: When your venting becomes 'toxic' to your friends
Published on 10/02/2021
After a tough day at work or a date that went horribly wrong, many of us turn to friends to offload our frustration and anger. But when does venting become problematic? -USA Today article

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The article states "We all have that friend, who constantly talks about their problems without stopping to consider how others are feeling." Do you have a friend like that?

Yes
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Not a friend but a family member
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Not a friend but a co worker
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I am the friend/person who does that
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No
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Other (please specify)
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Unlike venting, trauma dumping is done in an "unsolicited, unprepared way, where a person dumps traumatic thoughts, feelings, energy onto an unsuspecting person," whether it be a close friend or a stranger on social media. There's a fine line between venting and dumping. Experts say the latter is "toxic" and "damaging," because trauma dumping doesn't include or respect the consent of the listener and often seems one-sided. Have you ever "trauma dumped" before? Yes
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No
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Undecided
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In any healthy friendship, "it's always important to express yourself and ask someone if they're ready to listen to your problems," says Judith Orloff, a psychiatrist. Before you tell your friends or family your problems, do you ask if they have the space/time/mental health to listen? Yes
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No
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Not Applicable
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Have you ever had to end a friendship,relationship or cut a family member off due to trauma dumping? Yes
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No
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