Results: How long should you be together before marriage?
How many months, years should a couple be together before considering marriage?
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How long should a couple be together before considering marriage? At least 6 months
18%
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395 votes
At least a year
30%
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653 votes
At least 1-2 years
27%
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603 votes
At least 3-4 years
9%
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187 votes
More than 4 years
6%
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129 votes
Other (please specify)
11%
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233 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 2.32% | 51 | |
| Depends | 0.59% | 13 |
| NA | 0.27% | 6 |
| n/a | 0.27% | 6 |
| Depends on the couple | 0.27% | 6 |
| it depends | 0.18% | 4 |
| It depends on the couple | 0.18% | 4 |
| Depends on the couple. | 0.14% | 3 |
| their choice | 0.09% | 2 |
| IDK | 0.09% | 2 |
| It probably depends on multiple factors depending on the couple. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't know or care. | 0.05% | 1 |
| other | 0.05% | 1 |
| Thanks for the points | 0.05% | 1 |
| Who knows? | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on many other factors. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on the person | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends of the relation | 0.05% | 1 |
| I will never marry, it's not my style. | 0.05% | 1 |
| once | 0.05% | 1 |
| Not applicable | 0.05% | 1 |
| Until you realise the answer to this question is irelevant. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Marriage isn't necessary if they truly want to be together. Marriage is for people that don't trust each other. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the couple....weird question. | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends on the maturity of those making the choice | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on if you know what you want | 0.05% | 1 |
| it's up to you. You will know | 0.05% | 1 |
| i could care less | 0.05% | 1 |
| Seriously depends on the individuals involved | 0.05% | 1 |
| That would depend on the couple. | 0.05% | 1 |
| as long as you feel you need to, there is no set number | 0.05% | 1 |
| up to them | 0.05% | 1 |
| For every couple it's différent... | 0.05% | 1 |
| As long as they would like | 0.05% | 1 |
| Who knows ? | 0.05% | 1 |
| Iy varies by the couple, not set amount for everyone | 0.05% | 1 |
| Who knows everyone is different | 0.05% | 1 |
| depnds | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on situation | 0.05% | 1 |
| 55 days | 0.05% | 1 |
| It really varies. | 0.05% | 1 |
| each situation is unique, isn't it? | 0.05% | 1 |
| none of my business | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends totally on the couple | 0.05% | 1 |
| It all depends on the couple. No such thing as a perfect amount of time. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the ages of the couple, their maturity, and many other things. Some couples are ready much sooner than others. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I really don't know. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the age and the maturity of the individuals, and if they have known each other in a non-romantic relationship previously.. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends upon the couple. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It droends | 0.05% | 1 |
| So individual. It depends on the couple, their ages, values, maturity … | 0.05% | 1 |
| It varies by couple, and how they feel towards each other...1 month at least. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the people considering marriage. | 0.05% | 1 |
| why must there be a timeframe on everything? | 0.05% | 1 |
| no single answer | 0.05% | 1 |
| It should not matter if you are in love. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on many things | 0.05% | 1 |
| There is no set time, to each his own, live and let live. | 0.05% | 1 |
| However long they feel is necessary | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the maturity level of both people | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends how mature they are | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on age & maturity | 0.05% | 1 |
| 0 years | 0.05% | 1 |
| I think it depends on how well they relationship is going. | 0.05% | 1 |
| whatever feels right to the couple | 0.05% | 1 |
| None | 0.05% | 1 |
| It all depend on various factors | 0.05% | 1 |
| Time is not a factor, how you feel is the most important thing to consider. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Doesn't matter the length. | 0.05% | 1 |
| That depends on the couple. | 0.05% | 1 |
| As long as necessary | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on the connexion | 0.05% | 1 |
| whatever works for the couple, noneya | 0.05% | 1 |
| forever | 0.05% | 1 |
| no idea | 0.05% | 1 |
| It varies. | 0.05% | 1 |
| There is no time limit. Many couples don't consider marriage at all. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Do NOT get married. | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends, no standard | 0.05% | 1 |
| It varies, you can't put a number on when you feel it's right. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on both people involved | 0.05% | 1 |
| Var | 0.05% | 1 |
| As long as it takes for two mature people to know their own minds. My wife and I knew each other for 6 mo and 6 cays before we walked down the aisle together. That was almost 59 years ago, some people know each other for years and still don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the partners' respective ages/life experiences | 0.05% | 1 |
| no ones business | 0.05% | 1 |
| Marriage should never be a consideration. | 0.05% | 1 |
| None of anyone else's business | 0.05% | 1 |
| As long as it takes to be sure | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on the couple. My sister new her husband for 2 weeks and got itched. It will soon be 46 years since they tied the knot. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on the couple. No two are alike. | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the people. . . and how often seeing each other. I knew my husband 7 years before marriage, but only saw a few times the first5 to 6 years; then saw more regularly. We have been married 17 years. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the people, how long they have known each other, different circumstances. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the couple. some wait years marry and immeditatly split while others immediatly marry and last until death. | 0.05% | 1 |
| as long as they want | 0.05% | 1 |
| whatever | 0.05% | 1 |
| ... | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on what going on something it's the cost. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Whatever feels right to you. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Living together ?? Dating together ?? I don't know. I don't think you fully know a person until you live together. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Based on many factors to give exact answer | 0.05% | 1 |
| each to their own | 0.05% | 1 |
| personal choice | 0.05% | 1 |
| Every situation is different. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I have no idea | 0.05% | 1 |
| What works for the involved individuals | 0.05% | 1 |
| It totally depends on the people. I've known a couple who were together 7 years before getting married and they divorced. Another couple dated a month and stayed married their entire lives. | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on the situation | 0.05% | 1 |
| as long as they decide to | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on the couple not a strict set in time. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Sw | 0.05% | 1 |
| undecided | 0.05% | 1 |
| it varies | 0.05% | 1 |
| I think it's different for everyone. | 0.05% | 1 |
| whenever | 0.05% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.05% | 1 |
| Whatever they feel is right | 0.05% | 1 |
| It doesn't mater | 0.05% | 1 |
| idc | 0.05% | 1 |
| Less than 6 months. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on them. How long they want their courtship to be. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It all depends on the couple | 0.05% | 1 |
| it is up to them. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends if you both have known each other for years and date and know it’s really true love. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Dating should be for six months or greater but not for several years. | 0.05% | 1 |
| whatever is right for them | 0.05% | 1 |
| I use to think at least a year, but I don't think time matters... when you know you know | 0.05% | 1 |
| never | 0.05% | 1 |
| Doesn't matter. If Love is there it is. Five minutes after you meet or five years. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I ONLY MOVED IN AFTER MARRIAGE. WHICH WORKED FOR US | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation | 0.05% | 1 |
| I knew my wife one week lasted 12 years | 0.05% | 1 |
| 7 | 0.05% | 1 |
| That entirely depends on the couple | 0.05% | 1 |
| Just get married and stay together | 0.05% | 1 |
| MYOB | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on the two people. I knew a guy whose parents knew each other and married and spent 55-60 ys together. ON the other hand, I've l | 0.05% | 1 |
| As long as you know | 0.05% | 1 |
| At least 24 hours. | 0.05% | 1 |
| as long or not long as you want | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends on your age. | 0.05% | 1 |
| As long as you feel is right | 0.05% | 1 |
| No idea. | 0.05% | 1 |
| As long as necessary for that couple 1 day to whatever. | 0.05% | 1 |
| When they think it's right... | 0.05% | 1 |
| Doesn't matter | 0.05% | 1 |
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