Results: Um, confusion with my partner
Published on 05/24/2025
Sum questions that I have
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1.
Should I trust my partner when he says nothing is going on with his ex girlfriend? Especially when he leaves early in the morning and late at night and tells me not to freak out, or bejealous and overreact like a dumb bit**. Yes
11%
230 votes
No
51%
1086 votes
Wtf
31%
668 votes
Other (please specify)
7%
156 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 2.66% | 57 | |
| na | 0.51% | 11 |
| N/A | 0.37% | 8 |
| Undecided | 0.14% | 3 |
| ? | 0.09% | 2 |
| unsure | 0.09% | 2 |
| I have no idea. Has your partner gone out on you before. Don't jump to conclusions if they haven't. | 0.05% | 1 |
| you need more evidence | 0.05% | 1 |
| my partner I would but if you think something is going on you need go catch him at it. | 0.05% | 1 |
| You're not his girlfriend, change the locks, get all your money out of his reach, take your stuff and go on vacation | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends, not enough information | 0.05% | 1 |
| Only you know if he is trust worthy! He called you a bit**, he is not worth having as a partner. | 0.05% | 1 |
| If he added that "like a dumb b" It is not okay | 0.05% | 1 |
| I know nothing at all about you, your partner, or his ex girlfriend. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| sounds like he's protesting too much; if you don't have trust, you don't have love and you don't have a relationship | 0.05% | 1 |
| sounds fishy to me | 0.05% | 1 |
| His answer alone and name calling should be enough to not trust him | 0.05% | 1 |
| check it out | 0.05% | 1 |
| Need more information | 0.05% | 1 |
| You need a survey to figure this out? | 0.05% | 1 |
| I would want to see his phone | 0.05% | 1 |
| Those are the extremes, try something not as judgmental. Personally, I HATE that quality in my partner, and she uses it to hell, uses the bible to back herself up lol. | 0.05% | 1 |
| If you don t trust him move on to a better person | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't know. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I think you already know the answer to this. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends! It's not a one size fits all question. It's normal to be jealous, if you were friends with your ex would your partner be jealous too? | 0.05% | 1 |
| If he's calling you a dumb bit@#, dump his ass, he doesn't respect you. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't know about his ex, but you should be concerned about being called a "dumb bit**". It's quite toxic behaviour to call names. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I would be very suspicious. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Would have to know him to coment | 0.05% | 1 |
| Trust until you see or hear different. | 0.05% | 1 |
| This does not sound promising | 0.05% | 1 |
| no idea | 0.05% | 1 |
| Don't know enough to comment | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends were is he going | 0.05% | 1 |
| If he says there s nothing to worry about you should be able to track him with your phone | 0.05% | 1 |
| If he wears cologne or a new one, investigate! | 0.05% | 1 |
| maybe | 0.05% | 1 |
| what?! | 0.05% | 1 |
| What makes you believe his leaving is to go see his ex? Is there a reason not to trust him and point directly at an ex? This is a loaded question, but I will say he shouldn't be calling you a dumb "B" for any reason. | 0.05% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.05% | 1 |
| It sounds like he is playing you for a fool. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Need more details | 0.05% | 1 |
| He should not even be speaking to you in that manner | 0.05% | 1 |
| I would need a lot more information but he owes you an explanation | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on what type of person they are. | 0.05% | 1 |
| trust your gut | 0.05% | 1 |
| Sounds like you don't trust your partner anyway. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Leaves for what? | 0.05% | 1 |
| I'd be more concerned him calling you a beyotch. | 0.05% | 1 |
| NA - I do not know either of you so can't answer | 0.05% | 1 |
| if he calls you a dumb bit** I would wonder why you would stay with him. you two have a trust and respect issue | 0.05% | 1 |
| "sum"?! | 0.05% | 1 |
| not enough information given | 0.05% | 1 |
| need more info | 0.05% | 1 |
| I would need more info. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Not enough background info | 0.05% | 1 |
| Listen to your gut | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't know the man so I have no idea. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Maybe he is working an extra job to get you a special gift. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Up to you | 0.05% | 1 |
| Depends | 0.05% | 1 |
| I would NOT be with someone who spoke to me like that | 0.05% | 1 |
| That is so not col to say to you. If my husband spoke to me in this way I would have a huge problem with him. I would move on if this is a pattern. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| do you know her?are they working on a project she can not do? | 0.05% | 1 |
| need to know more | 0.05% | 1 |
| I would never comment on your love life, not knowing either you or your partner OR the situation. | 0.05% | 1 |
| innocent until PROVEN guilty, but I'd hire a PI to prove innocence or guilt; additionally, if there is no trust then why stay married | 0.05% | 1 |
| Find out what the reason is or have him followed. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Irrelevant to me | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't get into that situation. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Not enough info here. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Trust, but verify | 0.05% | 1 |
| Follow and find out. | 0.05% | 1 |
| That's abusive, please leave him.hes obviously cheating and gaslighting you | 0.05% | 1 |
| Why are you in this rotten relationship? | 0.05% | 1 |
| not applicable | 0.05% | 1 |
2.
2.
Do you think it is ok for you to be close to your ex partner? Yes
15%
319 votes
No
42%
903 votes
Undecided
32%
692 votes
Not Applicable
11%
226 votes
3.
3.
Is it ok if you had plans with your partner and then he gets a call from his ex girlfriend and drops the plans and goes and helps his ex for several hours? Yes
6%
135 votes
No
78%
1662 votes
Tell me your opinion
9%
186 votes
Other
9%
189 votes
4.
4.
Do you think that I am overreacting when I get upset when my partner talks nonstop about his ex girlfriend and I sit there and crying? Yes
6%
126 votes
No
68%
1448 votes
Depends
16%
340 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
27 votes
Not Applicable
9%
199 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 0.21% | 4 | |
| Run, leave the abuse behind | 0.05% | 1 |
| I know nothing at all about you, your partner, or his ex girlfriend. | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't understand why you are asking these questions. Aren't the answers obvious to you? | 0.05% | 1 |
| WHY ARE YOU STILL THERE | 0.05% | 1 |
| I would be thinking of ending the relationship. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Choose common sense over karma | 0.05% | 1 |
| Well, now question 3 helps out question 1! In no way shape or form should someone go help their ex for hours unless you are all friends and you go with him. Honey, I question 3 is your answer to move on.. this question 4 drives that home! | 0.05% | 1 |
| Is he still in love with his ex. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Get out of the relationship. You should be at peace not living like this!!! You are not even married, run, run! | 0.05% | 1 |
| If he has done it before then no. Don't jump to conclusions until you confront them. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Your partner sounds abusive. | 0.05% | 1 |
| You are entitled to your feelings, he seems like a lout. | 0.05% | 1 |
| ARE YOU STUPID? RUN. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Why are you continuing in this kind of relationship? | 0.05% | 1 |
| dump him | 0.05% | 1 |
| You should just walk away instead of listening to him. Why do that to yourself? | 0.05% | 1 |
| Perhaps time to part ways? | 0.05% | 1 |
| It would really depend on the urgency of the help, is it life or death and can he take you with him? | 0.05% | 1 |
| If you are that concerned you should probably call it quits. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Why are you still there no one is that importance go with your head not your heart stupid is as stupid does | 0.05% | 1 |
| Why would you do that, sit there and cry about it, and nothing more? You know what you need to do. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Obviously this is a problem for you. Question is why are you trying to rationalize it? | 0.05% | 1 |
| I think that you know what you need to do. I just hope that you have what it takes to leave. | 0.05% | 1 |
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5.
Do you think it's right for your partner to talk non stop about his ex girlfriend and then him give her money whenever she calls, texts or Facebook messages him? Yes
5%
105 votes
No
77%
1639 votes
Undecided
8%
169 votes
Not Applicable
11%
227 votes
6.
6.
Am I overthinking about this whole situation between my partner and I? Yes
7%
143 votes
No
69%
1475 votes
Undecided
14%
293 votes
Not Applicable
11%
229 votes
7.
7.
What should I do, if I am having issues with my partner when he ignoring me, points out everything I do or say wrong, tell me how stupid I am etc. I've lost some weight and my partner didn't compliment me, but brings up his ex and saying how I've let myself go lately.
Leave
0%
30 votes
Leave him
0%
20 votes
DUMP HIM
0%
19 votes
Dump him!
0%
6 votes
move on
0%
5 votes
Run
0%
4 votes
Leave him.
0%
4 votes
Break up
0%
4 votes
Please respect yourself enough to leave him. A man who loves and respects you will never make you question your relationship. He's abusive. Let her have him.
0%
4 votes
Get rid of him
0%
4 votes
Get rid of him.
0%
3 votes
drop him
0%
3 votes
No
0%
2 votes
Kick him to the curb
0%
2 votes
Leave!!
0%
2 votes
Dump your partner
0%
2 votes
Don't know
0%
2 votes
Leave him!
0%
2 votes
Kick him out
0%
2 votes
Leave them!
0%
2 votes
Get out of this relationship!
0%
2 votes
Dump him.
0%
2 votes
counseling
0%
1 votes
No comment, since Not a thing I've ever experienced,
0%
1 votes
DUMP HIM NOW!!!
0%
1 votes
Does your partner have children with his ex? He might be spending time and money on them.
0%
1 votes
RUN RUN RUN OR SUFFER.
0%
1 votes
Set your standards higher. You can do better and deserve better.
0%
1 votes
Leave!
0%
1 votes
!
0%
1 votes
Kick his butt to the curb. She means more to him than you do.
0%
1 votes
Hire a detective
0%
1 votes
He obviously in love with his ex and not you. you are not important and not needed in his life
0%
1 votes
Dump him and move on.
0%
1 votes
Leave the relationship. There is no trust in it.
0%
1 votes
If your not happy leave. Stop complaining.
0%
1 votes
Let him go before it's too late or you're in for years of hurt
0%
1 votes
It is tuff I went through that crap
0%
1 votes
Get out
0%
1 votes
Move on girl
0%
1 votes
First get support from family and friends then confront him about his selfishness and possible infidelity.
0%
1 votes
dump his ass!
0%
1 votes
I think you know what you need to do. If the place where you live is his, it's time to move out. If the place is yours, it's time for him to leave. You may wish to have friends present or even call the police when you are ready to act. Good luck. You deserve better.
0%
1 votes
It sounds like he's not over his ex. You should dump him unless you are okay with being like a sister wife. The only reason someone should still be associating with an ex like that is if they are raising kids together.
0%
1 votes
I would drop this guy. You do not deserve this.
0%
1 votes
find someone that is better
0%
1 votes
If I were you I would get the CD of I will survive and play it over and over, get out and find someone that will be good to you, don't be treated like trash. Get out!!!
0%
1 votes
You know what you need to do. Just pack up and leave. Now. Tonight.
0%
1 votes
Do not live your life based on polls, trust your gut.
0%
1 votes
Leave him..
0%
1 votes
dump him/her
0%
1 votes
Say hasta la vista and split, more fish in the ocean.
0%
1 votes
LEAVE THEM!!!!
0%
1 votes
GIVE HIM THE SAME TREATMENT
0%
1 votes
Get OUT! LEAVE!
0%
1 votes
I would leave him. Obviously it's not over between the two of them. You could try giving an ultimatum.
0%
1 votes
Leave as soon as possible
0%
1 votes
try some time apart
0%
1 votes
Well I think he'd be my X
0%
1 votes
love him or leave him and think of your freedom of choice
0%
1 votes
Find someone who appreciates you more. You deserve better
0%
1 votes
This is not a loving, caring partner, I would tell him/her to go back to their ex as you deserve much better and could find happiness elsewhere with someone who would love and respect you.
0%
1 votes
Tell him to hit the bricks and go back to hismex
0%
1 votes
TELL HIM TO GET THE **** OUT!
0%
1 votes
Be single
0%
1 votes
Find a new partner. Send him back to his ex.
0%
1 votes
Go out with a new person
0%
1 votes
Drop him now
0%
1 votes
Find some one else or put up the abuse.
0%
1 votes
Find a new partner.
0%
1 votes
split
0%
1 votes
Why are you still there?
0%
1 votes
He is gaslighting you, it is time to move on
0%
1 votes
you should dump that idiot and teach him to appreciate what he has, versus what he will never have with his imagination
0%
1 votes
Leave him and get therapy for your self-esteem issues.
0%
1 votes
Wow, you can t be serious? Please separate yourself from this man and get therapy.
0%
1 votes
Get him gone
0%
1 votes
If he likes her more than you, packs his sh*t and show him the door. I've been through this.
0%
1 votes
Ditch this guy.
0%
1 votes
unsure
0%
1 votes
Tell him to put himself in your situation. Would he like you going out with your ex and ignoring him?
0%
1 votes
Gently walk away without causing a stir or reason. Let him go, as you are dealing with a narcissist who is playing you. Stop playing his game and distance yourself from him without announcing it to him. No use to confront as that will only give him more fuel to hurt you, and he will not change.
0%
1 votes
Let Him go because he is clearly not your partner.
0%
1 votes
TIme to kick his butt to the curb. This is no way to treat someone. You deserve better. If you live together save your money and move out when he is at work.
0%
1 votes
Dump the bum!
0%
1 votes
Leave! You deserve much better, not his shoe mat!
0%
1 votes
If he still cares so much about his ex, probably he's not over her yet. If a man doesn't value you or care about your feelings in a relationship, trust me, it's going to get worse after marriage. Be careful!
0%
1 votes
Let him go he ain't worth it
0%
1 votes
Dump him no reason to be with him whether he is or isn t cheating. He has zero regard for how you feel and more than likely it will not change.
0%
1 votes
Sounds like you need to find someone else. Someone who values you and isn't emotionally abusive.
0%
1 votes
Get out of the relationship he just not into youj.
0%
1 votes
leave the loser
0%
1 votes
Find another boyfriend (partner)
0%
1 votes
Leave him immediately.
0%
1 votes
give him a choice--you or her.
0%
1 votes
Too many warning signs. Drop him immediately. You deserve better.
0%
1 votes
First of all, it is always important as partners, to talk about issues one-on-one. The two of you should be able to do that. Ask him for a real talk, and if he declines, you should consider walking away. I feel that he is taking you lightly. You should first keep quiet and watch him for a certain period of time, and if it seems he is not changing, feel free to quit. Your inner peace is the most important!
0%
1 votes
Drop him like a hot patato
0%
1 votes
Leave immediately and get out of that relationship
0%
1 votes
Leave him!!
0%
1 votes
Tell him to go to hades
0%
1 votes
Leave their ass
0%
1 votes
It s time to breakup
0%
1 votes
His behavior doesn't show any caring, loving, or compassion for you. You deserve more.
0%
1 votes
Leave him, their are Better Fish in the Sea !!
0%
1 votes
I would call him out for it . I'd get myself prepared to leave if it didnt change . Do yourself up , doll, you deserve better
0%
1 votes
this is abuse pure & simple get out fast & don't look back
0%
1 votes
Leave him. It is the best thing for you mental health.
0%
1 votes
When a relationship causes this much stress its time to go- pack up, sell, store or give away your stuff if you are young enough and join the service. You will learn self respect and useful skills
0%
1 votes
try to talk
0%
1 votes
leave your partner or accept reality
0%
1 votes
Leave him. Lives too short and you are in an emotionally abusive situation from what you have described here.
0%
1 votes
it's time to move on
0%
1 votes
Kick his butt to the door. He apparently cares more for his ex.
0%
1 votes
Dump his @$$ . He is treating you badly and showing no respect. You don't have to put up with partner who puts you down and makes you miserable.
0%
1 votes
find someone better and let him go back to her
0%
1 votes
trust your gut feelings
0%
1 votes
Why are you staying in this relationship? Be strong and leave.
0%
1 votes
TELL HIM TO GO AND TAKE A WALK AND BE SURE NOT TO COME BACK
0%
1 votes
Be done with that situation. You deserve better.
0%
1 votes
Follow him
0%
1 votes
Leave the relationship! That's a no-brainer!
0%
1 votes
When you ask these sorts of questions you already know the truth. He is still in love with his ex. If you live with him --move out. Don't settle for being someone's back up plan.
0%
1 votes
Leave his ass already, he's trash
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1 votes
I would move on.
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1 votes
Oh my goodness, leave him! No one deserves to be treated that way!
0%
1 votes
Move on, they are not worth it
0%
1 votes
Dump him!!
0%
1 votes
Leave him. He is more into the ex . He is not the one for you.
0%
1 votes
Dump him right now. He is not good for you.
0%
1 votes
He's absolutely abusive and wants to have you both, but gets mad when you bring it up, doesn't comfort or reassure you. Read about betrayal trauma and please leave him.
0%
1 votes
Time to move on with someone that respects you
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1 votes
Drop him. These are red flags.
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1 votes
Run as fast as you can
0%
1 votes
Run nearist exit he can't be trusted
0%
1 votes
He is not a loyal partner and is more interested in his ex. Dump him.
0%
1 votes
Leave him. You can do a lot better.
0%
1 votes
Hit the road Jack.
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1 votes
LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is NOT over her.
0%
1 votes
Where there is smoke there is fire . Make sure you are not the one that gets burnt
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1 votes
. Ask yourself why you deserve to be treated this way then run
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1 votes
It s time to part ways. Find someone who cares about you.
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1 votes
Leave him. He doesn't respect you, he gaslights you, AND he calls you names! You're way better off without him.
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1 votes
I would tell him to leave
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1 votes
Sit down with your partner & have a serious talk about your relationship with him/her. If he isn't serious about the relationship , separate. If he is serious & want to continue, seek counselling
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1 votes
you need to put a stop to this its wrong the way he treating you its time to set down and have a reality talk witha counselor marriage and you need to plain out tell them how you feel and he needs to stop talking about his ex non stop hes not over her at all and you deserve a decent man in your life who will respecr you and treat you with love and kindness you desserve i hope this helps my handle is robinsunrise6
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1 votes
I say i love myself more than what this two timer think time too pack it up buy buy
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1 votes
Why have you not left him yet?
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1 votes
leave him, move on
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1 votes
Talk about it
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1 votes
wtf???
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1 votes
Drop him, NOW
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1 votes
I would leave him. I ve had cheating exes, even in front of my face at a family gathering. You deserve better. Sorry you re dealing with it.
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1 votes
If he knows this hurts you and he will not stop then he is a disrespectful jerk. Go find someone else that will make you their whole world.
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1 votes
If you don't trust your partner it is time to break up
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1 votes
Dump them
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1 votes
Dump the dork
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1 votes
It's time to move on and you will never be able to trust this guy you deserve better.
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1 votes
Move on.
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1 votes
Run, this is not a good relationship and it is unlikely to get better! You deserve much more than you are receiving.
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1 votes
leave the POS
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1 votes
Breakup
0%
1 votes
Get rid of him. NOW
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1 votes
You are stupid, no doubt about it
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1 votes
find someone who appreciates you
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1 votes
drop him, he's playing you like a fool
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1 votes
You already know the answer...he prefers the ex. I would absolutely draw the line about giving her money (unless there's a child involved). Get out and find someone that will respect and love you for you. He's GASLIGHTING you!!
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1 votes
WELL MY DEAR, Reread these questions and answer them like you are answering them for someone else. Life is toooo short to not appreciate yourself
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1 votes
free free set him free
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1 votes
let him know this is not normal behavior and to immediately stop. if he does not he will dump you if the ex girlfriend says she wants to get back together. its ok to stay on friendly terms with ex but not ok be involved in her life
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1 votes
THE WRITING IS ON THE WALL MY DEAR
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1 votes
get a new partner.. that's abuse in MANY ways
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1 votes
Time to bail.
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1 votes
Drop him like a hot potato!
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1 votes
It is time to move on.
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1 votes
You need to leave him
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1 votes
move on ....next. everyone should find a supportive partner
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1 votes
get a new partner
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1 votes
Not okay
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1 votes
Very bad signs, especially in light of his frequent disappearances and outright attachment to the x. Please pull yourself together and lay down the law. Give him an ultimatim even if you may not like the result. You are torturing yourself. Ask yourself if you really NEED this kind of treatment. I don't think anyone does.
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1 votes
Bye bye
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1 votes
How many flags do you need to see,? RUN ! I am assuming these are your real situations.
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1 votes
It's time to let him go & find someone who loves & respects you.
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1 votes
DTMA (Dump The Motherf*cker Already)
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1 votes
There's no nice way to say this: Why are you with this loser? He doesn't pay attention to you, you can't do or say anything right, he calls you stupid, brings up his ex and is obviously has something going on. Kick him to the curb if he's in your home or leave if you are in his home.
And after that: Stay single for awhile. Most people make the mistake of getting into another relationship right away because they can't stand to be alone. This gives you time to set boundaries of what you want in a relationship.
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1 votes
He is not worth your effort or time. Dump him.
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1 votes
Ex partner is unpredictable anytime and more than excuse story
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1 votes
Get on your knees and rock his world every day and night he will lovw you more
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1 votes
go with him a few times, look at there movements. you will know if he is cheating
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1 votes
Leave him you deserve a better life
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1 votes
This person is abusive, and most definitely cheating on you, and you should leave them immediately
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1 votes
Leave him and find a new love.
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1 votes
Confront them about it
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1 votes
Get rid of him !
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1 votes
Are you dating my ex??? I went through the exact same thing. He is showing you who he is and if you're not happy it's time to make a change. Best of luck to you!
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1 votes
RUN AWAY!
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1 votes
I would suggest getting yourself another partner. This guy obviously can't let go of his ex and still has feelings for her. He's trying to have the best of both worlds and you should not help facilitate that.
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1 votes
Maybe time for you to move on. He doesn't seem to be there for you.
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1 votes
Break up with him as fast as possible, and take some therapy classes to find out why you are so vulnerable to being treated like that!
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1 votes
If he is that into his ex, you need to end your relationship and move on.
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1 votes
Separation until he decides to let ex live her life without his constant support.
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1 votes
RUN!
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1 votes
Approach him calmly and express your feelings. Use ``I'' statements to avoid sounding accusatory, such as, ``I feel ignored when you don't respond to me.'' Choose the Right Moment: Timing is important. Find a quiet moment when both of you are relaxed to discuss your feelings
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1 votes
I would breakup.
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1 votes
This is really your decision to stay with him to work it out. He should really respect you more to try and communicate with you why he feels responsible for his ex. Does he have children with her? He should not talk down to you for feeling insecure you guys need to hash it out together.
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1 votes
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1 votes
You need to end this toxic relationship, people that love you are not hurtful or abusive like he is, move on.
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1 votes
Move on...
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1 votes
time to move on, someone out there will appreciate you for you
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1 votes
Time to say bye bye. He sounds like an emotional abuser.
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1 votes
Get out quick
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1 votes
Tu dois le quitt sans attendre, il est toxique pour toi.
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1 votes
Dump him--you will be much happier.
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1 votes
Dump him ASAP!
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1 votes
Get out of the toxic relationship.
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1 votes
Get away now!!
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1 votes
kick him t the curb
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1 votes
These are signs of verbal abuse. Time to say goodbye and find yourself a partner that appreciates you and is there for you.
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1 votes
You deserve better!! Find someone who treats you with love and respect!
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1 votes
DUMP THE LOSER
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1 votes
Why aren't you gone already?!
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1 votes
You need to leave thus relationship immediately.
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1 votes
He's verbally and emotionally abusive. It's time to remove yourself from that abuse. You deserve better. Please take care of yourself.
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1 votes
Go with your gut feelings about him and his X...............he sounds sketchy to me.
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1 votes
I m sorry you are going through this. I don t have any great advice.
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1 votes
Bad dude Leave !
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1 votes
Kick his behind to the curb! NOW!
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1 votes
It is time to move on from this person.
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1 votes
Say good bye
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1 votes
Get rid of this loser !!!!! She is obviously NOT his EX. and she should know better.
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1 votes
Run.
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1 votes
The first time he called you a bit** you should have left.
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1 votes
DTMFA
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1 votes
People may offer options for YOU to choose, but nobody should give advice, even if it is from someone who has gone through the same thing. What works for one, may not work for another. . . .
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1 votes
leave him right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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1 votes
NA
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1 votes
Ditch him. It's easier if it's your choice. My ex is married to my ex girlfriend. This happened 40 years ago and I still hurt.
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1 votes
The things he is saying....it's time to go, go fast!
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1 votes
time to move on,you deserve to be happy.
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1 votes
Ask Dear Abby in the newspaper. That is what most gals seem to do.
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1 votes
Throw him out.
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1 votes
Show your partner the door as fast as you can.
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1 votes
check his phone
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1 votes
You need a new man.
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1 votes
LEAVE THE IDIOT
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1 votes
Get out of the situation now.
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1 votes
Find someone else!!
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1 votes
I don't usually comment in these situations but you have to decide for yourself. Your survey does not tell me your age? Do you have children with this person? How long you have been together? Are you married? Do you depend on this person financially? These are all the things to consider in situations. I would have to decide did I want to be first in this person's life? If I could be first? What do you want from this person? Where do you want it to all go? Do you have low self esteem? There are so many things to know that you have not shared. I can't give an opinion without more information. Ultimately you have to decide for yourself.
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1 votes
Time to end the relationship and tellhim to go to his ex.
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1 votes
Dump him and get some couseling for yourself so you can move on and make better decisions next time.
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1 votes
Leave him, let the ex have him, you don t need to be treated this way!
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1 votes
Get rid of him ASAP!
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1 votes
Sounds like he wants to be with her again. Be strong and kick him to the curb!
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1 votes
Leave your partner and move on.
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1 votes
have an argument then laugh about it later
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1 votes
Oh for goodness sake. Wake up this man is a loser.
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1 votes
Ask to take out the trash & himself with it. You deserve better than him & obviously he is not over his ex at all if he keeps doing all of that crap with her. Tell him to give his ex a gift that keeps giving, himself then say good-bye & good riddance to rubbish.
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1 votes
You need to think more highly of yourself and break this pattern by finding a new partner you deserve and who deserves you.
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1 votes
Does not bode well - perhaps time to exit - stage left (whatever)
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1 votes
Get the hell out of that situation now and don't look back.
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1 votes
Get rid of him now
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1 votes
Get rid of this loser and find a guy who is interested in you - this one is interested in someone else who might be using him.
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1 votes
move on and find someone else you will never trust.
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1 votes
say goodbye to him. Its not a commitment to you.
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1 votes
GET out before it's to late
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1 votes
Have enough respect for yourself to walk away from this toxic and one-sided relationship. It will end badly either way so be the first to end it.
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1 votes
It's time to tell him to hit the road. He's useing you for control not love. if he really loves you , then he would think more of you than her.
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1 votes
Time to tell this guy, so long!!!
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1 votes
Leave now. You are not being respected and that will not change.
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1 votes
Run!!
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1 votes
Let him go! Red flags everywhere!!
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1 votes
dump his a$$
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1 votes
You know what you need to do. Get your things in order and move on.
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1 votes
Need more information
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1 votes
Get rid of the jerk
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1 votes
dump him straightaway !
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1 votes
give him up as he is not worth it
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1 votes
Tell him to get lost. You shouldn't be with him.
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1 votes
Get rid of him. He is causing you grief and doubt. Nobody needs this.
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1 votes
you got to dump this guy he is not a boyfriend he is only gonna get worse he
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1 votes
I think it's time to tell your partner to go back to his ex so you can get on with your life. No one deserves this sort of emotional abuse.
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1 votes
Give serious thought to what you want then act accordingly
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1 votes
Between my partner and ME, not I
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1 votes
DITCH HIM! Why do you even need to ask?
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1 votes
?
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1 votes
leave, he's not worth it, if he is treating you like that.
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1 votes
Try to get some kind of proof, then you can confront him with it, if you can't get proof, write everything down he does, dates, times, etc, which you should do now, this way you can piece together a form of proof and tell him what you think
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1 votes
I don't think you should consider this guy your partner anymore. It sounds like he checked out of the relationship a long time ago. Ditch him and find someone better.
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1 votes
Just leave him
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1 votes
end the relationship
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1 votes
Leave the relationship
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1 votes
Find another partner.
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1 votes
sounds like you need to drop your partner.
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1 votes
Leave.
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1 votes
dump his lame ass
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1 votes
I'd really think about leaving him/her.
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1 votes
WHY HAVEN'T YOU LEFT HIM YET?
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1 votes
Talk it over with your ex partner
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1 votes
You are in an emotional abusive relationship. Open your eyes and get out
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1 votes
Run the other way!!
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1 votes
that means your partner going to his ex-girlfriend side, watch out for your relationship-danger signal
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1 votes
Sounds like you have to investigate to solve your suspicions
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1 votes
Unless you're a sucker for punishment, get rid of the bum.
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1 votes
I think it's time to let him go. Obviously he's still obsessed with his ex. I don't think there is any problem with remaining friends with your ex, but there is a line rhat should not be crossed. You do not cancel plans to run to your ex's side. Unexpected establishment!!!
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1 votes
Make a plan and leave!
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1 votes
You need to get out of this relationship
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1 votes
Open conversation about your action might help
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1 votes
Leave the SoB. Why are you being such a door mat? Pack his bags and deliver them to his g/f's place. Then see a lawyer ASAP.
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1 votes
Drop him fast the faster the better!
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1 votes
Dump his ass!! You don't need him and he doesn't deserve you.
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1 votes
Your 'partner' dose not care about you, if they are doing all that you are 'the thing on the side to make my partner jealous' they will abuse you, cheat on you and from what is going on . . . that is no ex anything.
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1 votes
show him the door
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1 votes
Send him to the curb, any partner who says you re stupid is not worth your feelings. You deserve much better
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1 votes
He's gaslighting you and lying like a rug. So many red flags here. Get out and save your sanity.
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1 votes
Aucun commentaire pour le moment
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1 votes
give him a blast
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1 votes
Huge red flag & I would not be with that person any longer...please know your worth & leave him, you are better than that and will find someone who loves and appreciates you for ALL OF WHO YOU ARE! Get out of that relationship now!
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1 votes
Toss his ass out!
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1 votes
It's time to walk.
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1 votes
Break up.He is still in love with her.
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1 votes
He either changes or leave
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1 votes
Leave them if you're not happy
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1 votes
Does not sound like love to me. You would be better off without him.
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1 votes
get rid of him asap
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1 votes
Tell him to take a hike!.............................I should have taken my own advice with my Ex-Wife.
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1 votes
Time tp leave him.
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1 votes
Time to move on and don't look back.
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1 votes
Follow spiritual guidance ie: intuition
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1 votes
Find another partner
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1 votes
Leave him/her !
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1 votes
dump that chump. clearly he still has an attachment to her.
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1 votes
Kick him to the curb....he's abusive.
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1 votes
Why do you want to be in that relationship? So much drama
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1 votes
Sounds like too many red flags. Not sure I would stay with someone like that.
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1 votes
Time for you to get some partners counseling - and maybe just leave. Disrespect you describe is mental abuse and physical abuse usually follows that. Don't invest any more time in a disrespectful relationship.
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1 votes
leave him, why would you want somebody that don't want you, hold yourself higher than that,
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1 votes
WTF are you with this emotional abuser??? Get the f*** away from him ASAP!!!!!
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1 votes
Why are you even still there? Don t ever let someone treat you this way. Straight up abuse. I woukd have been gone any one of those things mentioned. Love yourself first,
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1 votes
You need to look into it further.
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1 votes
Drop him fast! Walk away with no regret. He does not deserve you.
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1 votes
It sounds like a very toxic relationship between the two of you!!
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1 votes
Red flags
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1 votes
What s wrong with you?? Got a brain?
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1 votes
Ffs leave. He doesn t respect you, or your relationship if he keeps on choosing someone else instead of you. It s not love to be someone s 2nd choice.
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1 votes
time to dump him
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1 votes
If there are kids involved I understand him giving money or time,but if there are no kids and she is not pregnant then maybe you should step back and let him go. No one needs someone that makes them doubt themselves or their partner, or calls them names or says that they are stupid. Let go before they hurt you more.
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1 votes
Find another partner, you deserve better than that.
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1 votes
Honestly, it really depends on the degree that each of these scenarios is really happening. So first, I would ask at least two of your close friends on separate occasions, if they too are seeing these same problems. If they are not, then you are likely just a bit too self-focused. But if they do see these too, then begin engaging the three parts of step B: (1) begin researching places you can go to live on your own, (2) start looking into dating apps, or just at the gentlemen you already know who are single, and begin preparing to date someone else just in case things really do go sour, and (3) begin preparing to talk to him about the problems you've noticed. Remember to do so calmly and thoughtfully, and do not let emotion run your mouth. Also start by "asking" him about these things you've seen, and do NOT start straight out with criticism and blame. There may be an innocent explanation. That way, best case scenario, he too will start seeing why he's making you upset and will change his ways. And worst case, you now have sufficient plans from parts 1&2 to break up and move out, if needed!
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Why are you still there? Go and run as fast as you can and NEVER look back as he is is doing!!!
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1 votes
Do not allow them into your life.
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1 votes
Finish your relation, the first thing is respect and in the zero number autorespect
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1 votes
you need to think about do you want to stay with him or leave him if you talk with him and you cant get anywhere i would seriously think about this you might have no choice except to end this.
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1 votes
Leave the asshole!
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1 votes
you deserve better.drop him .
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1 votes
drop him fast
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1 votes
Dump him. You deserve to be respected and made to feel important in his life.
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1 votes
Time to end this relationship, for he doesn't appreciate you.
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1 votes
He is definitely cheating on you. Drop him. You should be the light of his life if he true to you.
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1 votes
Leave you deserve better
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1 votes
He sounds guilty of cheating. Let his ex have him. You are way too good for a piece of crap like him. Go find a man that loves and respects you for who you are. The one your with is still in love with the ex, not you.
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1 votes
YOOU NEED TO GROW UP AND STOP MAKING UP THINGS IN YOUR HEAD IT IS STUPID AND UNHEALTHY FOR YOU
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1 votes
time to find someone new
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1 votes
Get a new partner!
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1 votes
don't know why your still here
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1 votes
Time to find a new partner
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1 votes
Check your accounts, he's draining you dry, when your broke he'll find someone else to support him and his 'ex'.
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1 votes
dump them asap
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1 votes
Dump him!!!
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1 votes
find another partner is what I would do he'll see what he's missing n want back but NO this is what I think
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1 votes
That means he doesn t appreciate you maybe he doesn t deserve you either find some way to leave him
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1 votes
You need to get out of this toxic relationship. He has no respect for you. You deserve better than this.
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1 votes
Get rid of him !!!! You deserve much better. He is a jerk !!! How would he respond to you if the tables were turned ? Don't be a doormat !!!
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1 votes
LEAVE HIM. HE DOESN'T LOVE, LIKE OR RESPECT YOU.
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1 votes
Get him away from you
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1 votes
you already know what you need to do
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1 votes
He's cheating on you.. Leave him immediately
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1 votes
I think you already know what you should do. Move on and let this guy go back to his ex.
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1 votes
get a new boyfriend
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1 votes
Present the scenario - what if the roles were reversed? How would he react?
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1 votes
kick him to the curb along with everything he owns that is in your possession, and tell him why you are kicking him out, this is probably why he does not have the other girlfriend, he is a narcissist and needs to see a therapist.and this is not your problem
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1 votes
Are you kidding me! Tell him bye bye now. Tell him to move out or if it is his house or, if an apartment and lease on rental is only in his name, then you move out. You deserve better.
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1 votes
Talk to him more to find out his true feelings and why they are that way. Then, offer solutions.
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1 votes
you need a new partner
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1 votes
walk out
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1 votes
Time to stop seeing him and let him figure out what is what with his feelings for both of you and the ex. You don't need him putting you down. That's a red flag. Him dropping everything so he he
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1 votes
Just dump him,,, these are all red flags
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1 votes
No comment at all.
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1 votes
Don't think there are many that have friendship with their Ex's?
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1 votes
Find a different partner!
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1 votes
Nothing
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1 votes
DUMP HIM. Anyone that talks of their ex this much, and drops things to go see them is clearly still having feelings for them, if not cheating on you. I thought question 1 you might have been overreacting, but after the other questions, I can confirm he needs to be DUMPED. Move on girl! He's got no businesses running around with his ex, especially if it's not ok with you. Then to top it off calling you a "B" -- DUMP HIM. No further energy needs to be wasted on this relationship. He's either still into his ex and hoping they reconcile, cheating on you with her, or "he's just not that into you." Harsh, but true. And if you're living together??? Honey, you're helping him with his meal ticket, maid, pretend wife, etc. DUMP HIM. Trust me.
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1 votes
You're right, he is not invested in you.
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1 votes
Leave him. He doesn't respect you and it's not going to get better if you stay with him.
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1 votes
Try a good marriage counsellor!
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1 votes
you need to drop him
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1 votes
Tell him to go back to his ex-wife. You are free!
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1 votes
Dump him is what I would do.
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1 votes
I'd kick him to the curb!
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1 votes
Get rid of him! He sounds like an a-hole. You deserve better!
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1 votes
You are obviously unhappy. Why stay in a relationship that gives you such grief?
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1 votes
Time to move on.
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1 votes
why are you still with him leave
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1 votes
If there are no kids between you and him, dump his ass asap.
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1 votes
Break it off.
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1 votes
Your'e not happy and he is giving you mixed signals. If it was me I would leave him instead of feeling like a girl that can't take a hint because he won't admit the truth. I've heard it before they don't want to hurt your feelings so they don't leave, they wait for you to. Cowards! Sorry but think about it, makes no sense to stay.
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1 votes
dump his arse!
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1 votes
love him or leave him and get on with your life
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1 votes
Look elsewhere, get a new partner
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1 votes
Leave him! He is an abuser.
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1 votes
Leave the guy....you don't need someone like this.
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1 votes
Find a new partner! Immediately.
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1 votes
Ditch him.
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1 votes
It is time to move on. If he really cared about you he would never treat you like this. You deserve better. I have been there so I know
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1 votes
let him go
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1 votes
RUN!!!
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1 votes
Dump him RED FLAGS.
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1 votes
Why is she his ex? Maybe in a subtle way remind him of that.
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1 votes
Break up with him as he is using you and being he called you a bit -that would be the last straw for me , there are other men who would respect and treat you better and can you see spending the rest of your life with him as a partner in marriage and being a father to your children if you should have them? Stupid is as stupid does don’t be stupid, drop him like a bad dream and move on with your life.Stop being his doormat.
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1 votes
Why are you involved with this man?? Grab your self respect and move on.
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1 votes
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!
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1 votes
He's cheating with you, that is why he is treating you so badly. I know because I have been there in the same situation.
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1 votes
Tell him to hit the road.
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1 votes
throw him back and keep fishing until you find someone that actually loves you, he doesnt
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1 votes
get rid of the bum
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1 votes
LEAVE! GET OUT! NOW! Make him your ex asap. Do not waste your life on him. There's other fish in the sea!
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1 votes
Tell him to drop the conversation about his ex.
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1 votes
Sounds like an unhappy relationship on both sides but neither of you is willing to quit. Suggest a heart to heart talk with yourself, and seek peace and contentment somewhere.
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1 votes
Drop the a***hole, girl
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1 votes
Everything is good and nice
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1 votes
seems like a toxic relationship to me
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1 votes
I would ask him to be honest with you or follow him a couple of times to see what is going on.
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1 votes
Ask him how he'd feel if you did the same with your ex
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1 votes
Leave now
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1 votes
You should find out if he is not.Then if he is going to her house that should be unacceptable.If he sees her once in a while for short periods of time if he is in a public place or if he his with you.Talking about her when he is with you. You two definitely need to talk to each other about this stuff. Good luck.
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1 votes
Leave him,,you do not deserve this, and he does not deserve you,,He seems emotionally and verbally abusive
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1 votes
Honestly Hun, I would tell hi to take the door and not let it hit him on the way out. He is a manipulative and a narcissistic piece of crap. Everything he is doing I his fault not yours. Get out of the relationship as fast as you can. People like him are not worth staying with.
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1 votes
Time to find yourself a new partner. However he is treating you right now, will only get worse. You have to respect yourself and get out. If he's doing all that with his ex, let them have each other. If you tolerate disrespectful behaviour then that's what you'll continue to get. You need to choose you.
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1 votes
He's guilty and girl I would let him go, no woman deserves to be made to feel that way or feel like you need to compete against his ex for his love. Breaks my heart to hear that, and hopefully you get strong and leave him. Before you get hurt worse. How long have you guys been together? Jw
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1 votes
like it
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1 votes
Stay away from this guy, he will strip your self esteem away as soon as he has his hooks in you. He will belittle you, worry you to death all your life. Tell him to go back to his ex and don't come back.
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1 votes
Drop him.
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1 votes
Dump him obviously
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1 votes
Get a new plan Sam
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1 votes
Get a new boy friend
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1 votes
Are you better with out him???
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1 votes
You need to end the relationship. He's being mentally abusive to you.
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1 votes
Kick him to the curb. Become his new ex.
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1 votes
DUMP HIM.!!!!
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1 votes
Leave. You can do better there are many many more dicks.. I mean fishes in the sea. Love yourself don t get disrespected.
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1 votes
LEAVE HIM RIGHT NOW !!!!
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1 votes
Give this joker the heave ho!
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1 votes
Drop him!
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1 votes
Leave!!!
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1 votes
Leave. Life is too short to be treated that way.
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1 votes
Let him go and move on
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1 votes
LEAVE!!! LEAVE!!! LEAVE!!!
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1 votes
Throw him to the curve,
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1 votes
leave him and get a lawyer
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1 votes
bye bye, so long
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1 votes
hit the road jack
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1 votes
Leave the relationship and find some who truly loves you
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1 votes
Dump him. He is gaslighting you.
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1 votes
Need to get out
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1 votes
talk
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1 votes
Get yourself another partner whi is caring, appreciative of you and does not ignore you voicing how stupid you are with no compliments to give to you!
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1 votes
He is wrong, wrong, wrong. You need to get to the bottom of this--you don't deserve this kind of treatment.
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1 votes
Dump him! You can do better!
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1 votes
n/a
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1 votes
find someone new
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1 votes
Kick him to the curb. He s not a partner. He s obsessed with another!
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1 votes
Choose common sense over karma
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1 votes
Walk away from this. You deserve better.
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1 votes
It's time to part ways with him.
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1 votes
That sounds like toxic behaviours on his part. I would recommend asking your (other) close ones who know him their opinion and/or go to therapy.
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1 votes
I would change the locks and tell him to go live with his ex
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1 votes
Time to break up, and move on.
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1 votes
IT'S TIME TO RETHINK THIS RELATIONSHIP. IT SEEMS VERY HURTFUL OF YOUR PARTNER,
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1 votes
I would ditch them, you can do better!
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1 votes
Leave, it won't get any better
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1 votes
time to leave him
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1 votes
Dumb him
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1 votes
Dump his sorry behind! You can do SO much better!
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1 votes
Pray and seperate
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1 votes
Get out and don't let the door hit you in the ass.
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1 votes
Break up, you obviously aren't happy. He seems obsessed with her and doesn't care that you Arwen crying, why are you even still together
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1 votes
All the actions you described point to someone who does not value you. If they continue to say and do things that hurt you, they are making a choice about the relationship. It doesn't seem like they're the right partner for you.
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1 votes
It sounds like he isn't respecting you. Think about if you want to continue in the relationship.
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1 votes
Maybe it's time to have a serious talk when you're not upset and let the results of that talk help you decide if it's time to end the relationship?
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1 votes
LET IT GO!!!!
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1 votes
8.
8.
Is it cheating if my partner hugs and kisses his ex girlfriend and hides his phone from me? Yes
62%
1325 votes
No
9%
194 votes
Undecided
18%
377 votes
Not Applicable
11%
244 votes
9.
9.
Would you confront your partner if you have videos, pictures and messages of them cheating on you? Yes
69%
1471 votes
No
8%
175 votes
Undecided
10%
218 votes
Not Applicable
13%
276 votes
10.
10.
Is this quiz stupid? Yes
21%
443 votes
No
53%
1140 votes
Undecided
15%
316 votes
Not Applicable
11%
241 votes
- Its good
- None
- Leave him!!!
11.
11.
Will you give me any advice for my relationship? Yes
27%
577 votes
No
73%
1563 votes
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