Results: Married life

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kgranstaff1390

08/24/2025

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1989

Love & Relationships
Thoughts beforehand.
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When you got married, did you ever think about backing out before the big day?
Yes
16%
312 votes
No
51%
967 votes
Undecided
6%
114 votes
Not Applicable
27%
507 votes
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If you said yes to the 1st question tell my what u was thinking in 3 to 5 words.
n/a
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Na
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4 votes

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Alot of backlash from his family.
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1 votes

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It became real
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1 votes

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he had no job!!!!!!
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1 votes

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Her family was not good
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1 votes

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Big mistake, go with your gut, let to a short marriage and divorce.
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This person isn t what I thought.
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if it doesnot work whatthen
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I just wondered to myself if I was meant to be married, period.
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I can t go thru with this cuz it is not my choice
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1 votes

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I can't wait to marry this man
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Day before the wedding he asked me to use my car because his broke down. I had to use my father's car. When I passed a soccer field I saw him standing there and watching the game. Also, his mother kept inviting people without invitations. I didn't know any of the. Marriage lasted 3 years.
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I was thinking, I am a 17 year old child.
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didn't happen to me.
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1 votes

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I should have. Hindsight
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1 votes

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No comment
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1 votes

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Knew it was a mistake
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1 votes

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Oh what am I doing
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1 votes

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He had cheated on a former wife.
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1 votes

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Thought he would cheat, and he did.
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1 votes

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why?
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1 votes

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NEver married, never will be!
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1 votes

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Why bother with the tradition
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1 votes

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I wasn t I felt in a trans of smiling all day but inside I felt stuck frozen in time
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1 votes

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I was unsure of our compatibility.
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1 votes

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trust
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1 votes

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she does really love me
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whether i truly wanted to be married to this particular man, did i really love him that much
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Scared
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1 votes

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like it
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1 votes

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Afraid, cannot do it
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1 votes

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That we seemed so different at times.
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1 votes

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amI making a mistake
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1 votes

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This will be a big mistake
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1 votes

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Am I doing this
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1 votes

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My mother would have gone ballistic.
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1 votes

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Nothing
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1 votes

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It could be a mistake.
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1 votes

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That I was way to young to get married and I was only getting married for the wrong reason
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1 votes

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ubn.
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1 votes

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big mistake of my life
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1 votes

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I was thinking "Are you nuts"
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1 votes

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He was much older than me and a bit too controlling
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1 votes

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Am I doing the right thing?
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1 votes

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I knew in my heart,it wouldn't last.
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1 votes

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Not sure I m cut out for marriage
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1 votes

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Big mistake
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1 votes

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I was so excited to start my new chapter!
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1 votes

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Thinking I didn't know him enough to make the plunge
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1 votes

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i got married so my mother would start talking to me again
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1 votes

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not applicable
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1 votes

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She was pregnant
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1 votes

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UGH
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1 votes

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I know he was with a hooker at the bachelor party.
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1 votes

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This is wrong.
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1 votes

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Not sure it was right person
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1 votes

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no
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1 votes

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Not going to last
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1 votes

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how long it would take me to run across the parking lot and disappear begore anyone realized i was gone , and could i do it successfully without being caughr?
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1 votes

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Is he just trying to get a green card.
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1 votes

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I was wondering if I'd really made a good choice.
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1 votes

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Why am I doing this?
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1 votes

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I didn't think it was a good idea for us to married. I wasn't the right gal for him. I was right unfortunately. The counselor said I had put the cart before the horse, when we married.
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WTF??
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1 votes

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N/A.
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1 votes

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I felt quite overwhelmed.
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1 votes

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Marriage is a trap for women.
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1 votes

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I think I realized what a big commitment I was making and was afraid I really wasn't "ready".
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I knew he was it
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1 votes

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I knew he needed me!
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1 votes

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Is this the right thing to do?
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1 votes

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NO MORE STRAY VAJAY
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1 votes

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Wondering if I was making a mistake, which I did
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1 votes

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I was raising my daughter on my own and worried about her feelings,,she was 15 at the time but it all worked out fine and she still loves me
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1 votes

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This will change my life
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1 votes

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A big change in my life in a few days
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1 votes

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stage fright.
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1 votes

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This man is an idiot. (I was right).
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1 votes

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JUST GOT COLD FEET I GOT MARRIED I WAS 61
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1 votes

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Don't do ir
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1 votes

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RUN, DON'T DO IT!! (Regarding my PREVIOUS marriage, not current one)
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To b4 sure it was what I wanted
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