Results: Cheating adjacent
Published on 01/05/2026
Years ago my friend's husband made a pass at me. I turned him down thinking that he was drunk and left it at that. I never told my husband about the situation. Now he has left my friend for a younger woman. She wants him back.
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Would you tell your significant other that the person had made a pass at you years ago? Yes, I would explain the whole thing
25%
425 votes
Yes, but not give very much background into the situation
12%
212 votes
No, its been years and it will only hurt him
54%
913 votes
Other (please specify)
9%
150 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 4.41% | 75 | |
| N/A | 0.88% | 15 |
| Na | 0.88% | 15 |
| Not applicable | 0.12% | 2 |
| undecided | 0.12% | 2 |
| Not sure | 0.12% | 2 |
| I would stay out of it | 0.06% | 1 |
| I would have told him at the time. | 0.06% | 1 |
| Does it really matter | 0.06% | 1 |
| I don't have a SO. | 0.06% | 1 |
| idk | 0.06% | 1 |
| I would ve told them when it happened | 0.06% | 1 |
| what does his leaving your friend have to do with anything? | 0.06% | 1 |
| always be truthful | 0.06% | 1 |
| Yes, if relevant to a conversation being held. | 0.06% | 1 |
| Don't know | 0.06% | 1 |
| Stay out of the situation. Some things are best left unsaid. | 0.06% | 1 |
| Why bother? | 0.06% | 1 |
| I would have told my husband at the time his friend made a pass. I wouldn't have kept it a secret. | 0.06% | 1 |
| Uncertain | 0.06% | 1 |
| Question trop personnelle | 0.06% | 1 |
| depends on the rest of the situation | 0.06% | 1 |
| No, let sleeping dogs lie...she is going to love him and want him back no matter what you tell her. Protect your friendship, she is going to need you. | 0.06% | 1 |
| no answer | 0.06% | 1 |
| Only if he asked to know, be truthful. | 0.06% | 1 |
| Why? There is no proof the two events are linked and you turned the guy down anyway. | 0.06% | 1 |
| Better left in the past. | 0.06% | 1 |
| MYOB! | 0.06% | 1 |
| yes, but beware, time/moment to tell has passed | 0.06% | 1 |
| too late now. | 0.06% | 1 |
| maybe | 0.06% | 1 |
| No, leave it alone | 0.06% | 1 |
| Won't accomplish anything and no longer relevant | 0.06% | 1 |
| ... | 0.06% | 1 |
| Why? If you didn't tell him then why is it suddenly relevant? | 0.06% | 1 |
| not interested | 0.06% | 1 |
| Would have said at the beginning. | 0.06% | 1 |
| Now that he's left your friend, sure, go ahead and tell. | 0.06% | 1 |
| no other | 0.06% | 1 |
| It would depend on several factors. | 0.06% | 1 |
| I would have told him when it happened | 0.06% | 1 |
| I wouldn't say anything. Not my business. | 0.06% | 1 |
| i would have told hom soon as it happened | 0.06% | 1 |
| Single | 0.06% | 1 |
| If you didn't then, don't now. | 0.06% | 1 |
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Would you tell your friend? Yes, she should know that he has been like this for years
25%
423 votes
Yes, it is better to tell the truth
14%
235 votes
No, it would only hurt her more and there would be nothing gained from it
42%
719 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
17 votes
Not Applicable
18%
306 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 0.43% | 6 | |
| yikes, I would do something but time is sensitive now in many ways | 0.07% | 1 |
| maybe | 0.07% | 1 |
| Won't accomplish anything and no longer relevant | 0.07% | 1 |
| Why? There is no proof the two events are linked and you turned the guy down anyway. | 0.07% | 1 |
| Would have said at the beginning. | 0.07% | 1 |
| It depends on the people and the situations. | 0.07% | 1 |
| idk | 0.07% | 1 |
| I would ve told them when it happened | 0.07% | 1 |
| truthfulness goes a long way | 0.07% | 1 |
| undecided | 0.07% | 1 |
| Would have told my friend when it happened. | 0.07% | 1 |
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