Results for - Fantasies

3,442 voters participated in this survey

  • Do you think it is okay to fantasize about another person while having sex with your partner?
    1. Do you think it is okay to fantasize about another person while having sex with your partner?
    • Yes
      29% 994 votes
    • No
      47% 1,606 votes
    • Undecided
      17% 590 votes
    • Not Applicable
      7% 252 votes
  • 2. Do you fantasize about someone else when having sex with your partner?
    • Yes, I always fantasize about other people while having sex with my partner
      8% 286 votes
    • Sometimes I fantasize about other people while having sex with my partner
      23% 788 votes
    • No, I have never fantasized about other people while having sex with my partner
      46% 1,592 votes
    • N/A
      22% 761 votes
    • Other (please specify)
      0% 15 votes

04/04/2013 Love & Relationships 20


  • Irishbella53 profile photo
    Wow, if you have to do that while you are with your partner then you need to get out of it. Love or Lust
    over 3 years
  • hollyb951 profile photo
    Happy to say I do not do this. In fact I fantasize about my boyfriend when I'm NOT with him. Oh well, guess that's the dif. In love and lust
    over 3 years
  • Lexie123 profile photo
    Before I got divorced I got to where I couldn't stand to be touched by my ex but I still liked sex so yes I did fantasies. Not about anyone I knew but a person made up in my mind.
    over 3 years
  • gingerino54 profile photo
    Why be with the person you're with if you fantasize about others? I agree with the person who said it's disrespectful to who you are with. I am 55 years old and I can honestly say that I've never fantasized about another person, and I mean never. I'm totally into whoever I've been with-boyfriends, husbands, whoever over the years. I'm totally in love and into my husband. If I wanted someone else I wouldn't be in a committed relationship.
    over 3 years
  • meapayne26 profile photo
    when i fantasize they are weird but my man is the one that's in them
    over 3 years
  • egl4031 profile photo
    Wow. I must be lucky to be completely fulfilled by my husband and not have this problem. I am in a blessed marriage for sure. Zeroj20, I respectfully disagree with you. Sex isn't about looks. It's about intimacy. My husband is overweight but I don't fantasize about others.
    over 3 years
  • macntosh profile photo
    Everyone has fantasies ITs just human nature
    over 3 years
  • wildfury profile photo
    I think it's disrespectful to the person you're with. I'd be very offended if I were the other person. It would make me think that I was inadequate somehow, or they didn't really care about me in the first place.
    over 3 years
  • Skittie profile photo
    I don't have a partner at this time, but in the past when I did I thought it was okay even though I may have felt a little guilt about it. Your partner would probably have you fantasize a bit and at least have sex with them instead of not get into the act at all. Just don't ever tell them.
    over 3 years
  • zeroj20 profile photo
    @mecbdo Who gave your non-existent "god" the right to judge? I do agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but that's not going to change the fact that you may or may not look so good in bed and have to fantasize.
    over 3 years
  • mecbdo profile photo
    To zero20, how are you given the ability to judge? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all are beautiful in God's eyes. Think about it.
    over 3 years
  • lizvasquez18 profile photo
    I personally think its wrong....
    over 3 years
  • juliejamron profile photo
    fantasies are normal and it doesn't mean you want to be with someone else
    over 3 years
  • Sophia1957 profile photo
    I am thankfully not in that kind of relationship!
    over 3 years
  • rrr75252 profile photo
    Amen...dutrisac this is true!!!(i agree with u)
    over 3 years
  • Monkeyray profile photo
    You can be thinking of someone else its natural, especially if they are bad in bed, someone had to teach you, that way you love the person for them not just for the sex it is hard to swollow but my last relationship never had sex but maybe twice which I thought I was being used....ummmm maybe just maybe?
    over 3 years
  • zeroj20 profile photo
    You can't really blame people that marry/date ugly or fat people for having fantasies. Personality is awesome but that isn't going to change how you look in bed.
    over 3 years
  • amysrich profile photo
    over 3 years
  • sa_smiles profile photo
    If you aren't thinking about the person you're sleeping with during it prob isn't a good idea to sleep with them at all cuz you would just be using the person for their body otherwise.
    over 3 years
  • dutrisac profile photo
    "BUT I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already commited adultery with her in his heart" (Matthew 5:28)
    over 3 years
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