Results: Should you tell family members how you feel about their choice of partner?
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Should a parent tell their kids how they feel if they don't like who their children are dating?
Yes
66%
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67777 votes
No
16%
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16842 votes
I am not a parent
15%
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15793 votes
Other (please specify)
3%
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2676 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.16% | 169 | |
| depends | 0.06% | 64 |
| depends on the situation | 0.06% | 63 |
| it depends | 0.02% | 23 |
| only if asked | 0.02% | 17 |
| depends on situation | 0.01% | 15 |
| sometimes | 0.01% | 14 |
| it depends on the situation | 0.01% | 14 |
| depends on the reason | 0.01% | 13 |
| n/a | 0.01% | 9 |
| depends on the situation. | 0.01% | 9 |
| not sure | 0.01% | 9 |
| maybe | 0.01% | 9 |
| it depends on the situation. | 0.01% | 7 |
| yes and no | 0.01% | 7 |
| na | 0.01% | 6 |
| undecided | 0.01% | 6 |
| only if they ask | 0.00% | 5 |
| depends on age | 0.00% | 5 |
| depends on why they don't like them | 0.00% | 5 |
| if asked | 0.00% | 5 |
| no comment | 0.00% | 4 |
| depends on the age of the child | 0.00% | 4 |
| it depends on the reason | 0.00% | 4 |
| it depends. | 0.00% | 4 |
| depends on age of child | 0.00% | 4 |
| it depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 4 |
| depends on the reason. | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on the person | 0.00% | 3 |
| dont know | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 3 |
| it depends on the reason. | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on why you don't like them | 0.00% | 3 |
| don't know | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on why | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on the age of the child. | 0.00% | 3 |
| not unless asked | 0.00% | 3 |
| depending on the situation | 0.00% | 3 |
| I don't know | 0.00% | 3 |
| only if needed. | 0.00% | 2 |
| if they ask | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the age of the kid | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on reasons | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on kids age | 0.00% | 2 |
| it depends on the circumstance | 0.00% | 2 |
| 1 | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the age | 0.00% | 2 |
| only if the child is in danger | 0.00% | 2 |
| if necessary | 0.00% | 2 |
| it depends on their age | 0.00% | 2 |
| to a degree | 0.00% | 2 |
| not applicable | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on child | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the child's age | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the relationship | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on reason | 0.00% | 2 |
| if they are asked | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on their age | 0.00% | 2 |
| to a point | 0.00% | 2 |
| it all depends | 0.00% | 2 |
| Only if they are in danger | 0.00% | 2 |
| Yes, If it's concerning their safety | 0.00% | 2 |
| only if they ask my opinion | 0.00% | 2 |
| yes, but not to get their child to change their mind abt their partner | 0.00% | 2 |
| To a certain extent | 0.00% | 2 |
| It depends on the age of the child. | 0.00% | 2 |
| Unsure | 0.00% | 2 |
| Depends on the Relationship between the parent and child | 0.00% | 2 |
| Only if my gut tells me something isn’t right | 0.00% | 2 |
| none | 0.00% | 2 |
| You can tell them yes or no but they will do what they feel is right | 0.00% | 2 |
| it depends on the situation: how long they have been together, the issues at hand, etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but only once | 0.00% | 1 |
| some parents aren't qualified to make that decision. others easily read people like a pop-up book. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends of how they are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| parents should tell their kids how they feel - but not try to forbid the relationship or insult the person - this just backfires. your kid is going to cling even harder to that jerk if you try to force them apart. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if child asks how they feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the reason of such dislike. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the feeling is justified and the approach/delivery of the advice is sensible. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, they should rape them in the night and make them never tell or they will kill them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it looks like their relationship is getting serious and you are concerned | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only if there are serious concerns about them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's just because you don't like them, no. if it's because they treat your child poorly, yes - but be prepared for the anger and hurt that will come along with it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| share, but don't advise. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they feel that the relationship is abusive or dangerous to their health | 0.00% | 1 |
| the answer to this is pretty much the same and kids telling the parent. i think there is a time to share, and a time not to share. if the kid askes you what you think, go ahead and answer truthfully. otherwise i would wait until the kid askes, unless of c | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on the age of their child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but that doesn't mean a parent's word should be absolute law - give the child a chance to explain why they like that person, and go from there. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no person's "feeling" about anything not their business, isht ever relevant. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old the child is. if your child is an adult, it's best to keep your opinion to yourself if you don't have anything positive to say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person is a bad person | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should support the good or bad decision.be there for your child! | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how the person really is | 0.00% | 1 |
| if directly asked by one of my children i would answer honestly but as kindly as i could. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think there is a tactful way to do this. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if theres goodreason | 0.00% | 1 |
| idc | 0.00% | 1 |
| yqqwkwmtb | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation i suppose | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure yet. will wait and see when my daughter is older. i think it depends on the circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should just hit said boyfriend/girlfriend in the head with a turtle dick | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are underage, yes. if they are adults, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they don't think it will make the kid like the bf/gf even more. and nicely, not condescendingly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why you don't like who your child is dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why you dont like them, if your child is truly loved and treated well and is happy, that should be all that matters | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should discuss the kid's choice in non-threatening conversation. many a kid has married just to prove a point! | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think they could express their concerns in a non threatening manner | 0.00% | 1 |
| thinking way too hard about it, i'd rather my parents be honest be about what they think about my partners, but if they were to constantly berate me about it, then that's a problem. my mother tried to pretend i wasn't in a relationship for about three years, and i never knew what to make of her silence. | 0.00% | 1 |
| that is sticky, if it is very bad situation u have to say something if not, shut up | 0.00% | 1 |
| express in a moderate way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it appears to be interferring with school work/social life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child and how serious the problem with the partner is | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the issues at hand for this question | 0.00% | 1 |
| parents should not tell their kids if they dont like who their children are dating but instead talk to them and give them a sample or consequences in which your child could decide or chose. | 0.00% | 1 |
| when one wants to maintain a good relationship with one's children it is a taboo topic. onle, perhaps when they seek our help. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they think the child is at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why they don't like the person, if it's a serious issue such as possible dangerous situation then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if someone's safety is jeopardized | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you think the child will be in danger or trouble, yes, otherwise no | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, to a certain point | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they do not seem happy or they actually ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| only give advise | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| speak to them about concerns without judging them, and express that you support them anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but not harshly | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the reason. if you think the partner is somehow a danger, you should definitely say something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| the parent needs to parent and not be a match maker | 0.00% | 1 |
| all depending on the situation and who the person is | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason why they don't like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation. if they are in a dangerous situation, yes. if it's just a personality thing they should try to work it out. if it really persists they can mention it - but don't force the issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the age of the child and if it is an abusive relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it involves something dangorous or illegal | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why the parent doesn't like the childs partner and always done without malice, only with kindness and love | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but in respect and seeking understanding | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only in extreme situations. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure....depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| if safety is an issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but not in a harsh way | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but very carefully | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should have an open honest discussion then parents should allow their child to make their own decision unless the childs' health is at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| only once, after that, it's their choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you feel they are not treating your child with respect or you feel it is an abusive situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| that's why you're supposed to raise them with the proper tools. you push and they push. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reasons behind the dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| there should be open communication, but no judgement. | 0.00% | 1 |
| does not matter | 0.00% | 1 |
| i | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i think they're in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| not ata first | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how it will affect the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| touchy situation. only if you feel there is a lack of safety involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| as a child, it's my opinion that parents should make their opinions about people known to their children but not in a rude way, and it should only really be an issue if the parents know for sure that the person is causing serious harm | 0.00% | 1 |
| they do so who really cares | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on if it is a safe relationship or not. i.e. abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child is a minor | 0.00% | 1 |
| you should state your opinion but in the end it is their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| gently without sounding too judgmental. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they feel the person is bad for them- a negative influence, physically dangerous, rude, abusive, etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but then they should leave it to their childs decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why they do not like them! if it is just because of there attitude leave it alone. if it is something bad have a talk with them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but parents can not expect there kids to head there opinions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and the person the kid is dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are a bad element | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but sometimes it can backfire | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes- but only if serious issues need addressing regarding their dating choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why you don't like them. do they use drugs, overindulge in alcohol, smoke, cheat on your child etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the parent knows the kid is bad news (into drugs, etc.) | 0.00% | 1 |
| it should be disgust | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no, the parent should support them no matter what! | 0.00% | 1 |
| it dosent matter, it dosent mean ill actually listen to my parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think they should. but, let them know they are old enough to make their own decisions and that you will be there if they need you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'm not a parent, but i think they should give their input (reason why, etc), but not blindly force their beliefs and expect their kids to just listen to a "because i said so" answer. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it would depend on the person being dated, serial killer or just a putz. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but wth discression | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes, if the choice could be harmful to my child | 0.00% | 1 |
| my daughter isnt old enough to date so idk | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation. if they r being abused then yes but after it is voiced you leave the situation alone and just be there to pick up the pieces | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on if the person is a danger to my child | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should have a conversation, not an accusation time | 0.00% | 1 |
| nly if they are not married | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, put they shouldn’t be pushy about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked and are respectful about how they tell them, exception if they are certain the person they're dating is abusive or dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no. if their kid is dating trouble (i.e. drugs) then they would have the right to say something. i didn't have to. they could tell how i felt about them through my actions, narly looks, and silence! | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but in a nice way explain why you don't like who they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| may be | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should speak their opinion but not ever force it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but you don't want to be too pushy about your opinion or it may cause issues. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes , then tell them why . then say no more after that . | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i have a reason to feel that the person my child is dating is detrimental to my child , i want mt child to know. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how bad the other person is (ex. abusive to the child, bad influence) | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the relationship the parents have with the child and how serious the relationship is | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age and the reason why they dont like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you think the kid is in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why. abusive,criminal,thug; yes, any other reason;no | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should be able to voice their opinion but not force them to break up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would try not to, but i might hint around the things i see in them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old the child is, and if there is cause for concern vs parent just not liking partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends, if i simply just can't accept my daughter is dating, no. if he's really no good, yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on whether you have a *really* good reason to tell your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the relationship between the child and parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are subtle perhaps, but they should not list this person's every fault | 0.00% | 1 |
| not at first, see how things evolve | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they see the relationship as abusive or potentially harmful for their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| until a certain age. then the parent should shut their mouth and support their child as long as the person is not abusive or a criminal. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when the situation looks bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the person, not what they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason for not liking the person they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes with explanation why ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| yae & no. wait too see how they perform. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel the situation is dangerous. | 0.00% | 1 |
| kindly explain why not - yes. keep communication open. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you know they are w/holding inportant info | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a serious issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why they don't like the person, and how they tell their kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can always reason but finally the choice is the kids and so is the life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how serious they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the reason why they don't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of child and reason for dislike. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situations and why | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on what the dislike is based on and if it is a concern for the childs we being | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think you can mention it in a diplomatic way | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how old the kid is | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should mention it, but allow time to tell if the partner is different that what they thought, then put in more input. and only if it is something to worry about, such as an abusive relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if the relationship is unhealthy and or the age of the children involved ! | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there is a very valid reason for their dislike then yes i think it's very important. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| allow them to find out on their own | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the realitionship between the parent and the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how it is stated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they shouldnt be straight out like no i dont like him but it would be important to voice an oppinion of what kind of person you thought they were | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you know this person is bad bad news | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have a valid concern, they should bring it up in a constructive manner. if the parent simply dislikes their child's partner, then they should keep their opinion to themselves. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why the dislike. alcohol? drugs? or just doesn't fit the socioeconomic profile? if the person may present a danger to your child, tell them so and why you feel that way. if it is your personal bias, shut up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they ask or if that person is a danger to the family member | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child is in with a bad crowed *drugs, drinking* otherwise butt out | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the circumstance and why you do not like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, gently but still support their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| only after really trying to get to know them and still not feeling good about them. if they still choose to date/marry them, accept them with grace and love. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on if the children are dating someone who is abusive to them emotionally or physically but in general you shouldnt say anything unless you fear for their safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but go very gently | 0.00% | 1 |
| that really depends on the reason for not like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| my kids are married. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if child is still living at home | 0.00% | 1 |
| once and let it alone. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but it should be done out of love, and for their well being, not if you just don't care for the persons personality, you are not the one who has to be with 24/7 | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is bad for the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if their safety is in jeopardy | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe kindly voice concerns, but just support them as much as possible | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe, it depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| dont tell but maybe make a comment | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if your asked by your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe, it depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the relationship with the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| k | 0.00% | 1 |
| very carefully | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would discuss the issues but not specifically say i don't like the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it just makes them want to be with them more if they know you don't like them. it's a catch-22. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if their is a danger in keeping the relationship going. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not to a point | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it's a health/safety issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes it the other person is abuseing them | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they dislike the person because they are violent or harmful. not just because you dislike their choice of music or something stupid | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person is possibly dangerous or could hurt them, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation. if the child is happy, no, if you feel there is a safety issue, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can make it known their opinion once, not trash the partner over and over | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think if it is done with respect and depending on the age of the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends, if your child is in an abusive relationship or with someone who is encouraging them into drugs/crime etc. then you should say something. they wont listen tho. have to learn the hard way | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but with tact | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is a life or death thing. if their partner is a drug addict or is abusing them. other wise no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure how to handle this yet. i do tell her what i don't like about some of her friends not tht i don't like the friend i just don't like that she does ____ | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on what prompts their objections(s). | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on mitigating factors, especially if there are serious concerns such as safety. | 0.00% | 1 |
| as a parent i would give my opinion but have learned if you push them to be apart and you just do not care for their boy/girlfriend all your doing is pushing them tighter together and not wanting to be apart . | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| proceed with caution | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if he is dangerous or just using her | 0.00% | 1 |
| under certain circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is absolutely terrible: criminal, sleeps around etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when the person would be a bad invluence | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are getting serious and you think your child would not be happy and or will be hurt in some way | 0.00% | 1 |
| they need to discuss it before just saying yes or no | 0.00% | 1 |
| not generally because it's their choice unless you know about something that is very wrong with the partner t | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| when asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it all depends on how it goes with the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they beleive the relationship has abusive qualities | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they really think they are bad news | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you have knowledge of dangerous or illegal situations. otherwise it has to be their choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| you should discuss your concerns with your child but carefully | 0.00% | 1 |
| there life there problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would not do any good just make the person mad at you | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but they shouldn't interfere unless it is a dangerous situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend upon the person she is dating and the circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is because the person might be dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| retired. children are grown-up & left home. | 0.00% | 1 |
| guideline , suggestion may apply. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation, they shouldn't do it just to be cruel, but if it is evident that their partner is going to be harmful to them in some way, then yes, they should tell them what they think; they should also give their opinion if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old they are...if they are old enough to make their own decisions, i may say that something bothers me about him but not forbid her to see himj - i'd let her decide. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends. if it's because you are worried that the partner could cause harm to your child, then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i believe it depens on the childs age. | 0.00% | 1 |
| this is a very touchy subject, you have to be careful not to drive them to defending someone that you don't like. i have found that with some discreet guidance, they soon figure it out for themselves. | 0.00% | 1 |
| should be openly discussed | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they have reason to believe that person is harmful. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the suitor is abusive or engaged in illegal activity etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| you need to keep your children as safe as you can ,so just by talking to your child about ( his or her) relationship ,yes ,,,yes it's important. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how strongly they feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| it just depends...not sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is a matter of unfounded personal opinion, no; if it is a serious concern (partner is dishonest, violent, etc.), then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the relationship between parent and child | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you tell your child that person is not good for them the go torward that person antway | 0.00% | 1 |
| if approached properly | 0.00% | 1 |
| they would know without me telling them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| up to the individual parent. every situation is different. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no cause they'll date whoever they want regardless | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but not judge them, let what will b be | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why they are not liked | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure , what i would do | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the child doesn't outgrow it in 6 -7 months | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but let their kids have their own decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends if they think there son/daughter is happy then no , but if there kid seems to be unhappy then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how the relationship is between parent and kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you think it will hurt child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why they dislike the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it concerns their child's physical safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| depend who? | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the relationship is unhealthy, yes. if it does not to be unhealthy, so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they have valid safety concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what it is you don't like and how serious that matter is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reasons for the opinion and also whether they are asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| love important | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should explain why they have the feelings they do | 0.00% | 1 |
| should be part of a conversation | 0.00% | 1 |
| they are allowed an opinion, but one that makes sense and has value not based on stereotypes and their past experiences | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are up too no good | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why the parent doesnt like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but in a nice way | 0.00% | 1 |
| possibly while at a young age, yet eventually, no should not | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reasoning behind why they don't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| within reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they can do it diplomatically. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reasons they dont like them, if it is a selfish reason then no, if they are dating someone who is hurting them or could hurt them then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but they will probably learn the person is not that bad and start to like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why they dont like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| give opinion but don't say whether or not they can date that person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the situation is dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what they dont like | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel for certain that they will do harm to their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and reasoning | 0.00% | 1 |
| have conversation with your child but never tell them u dislike their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should tell of course. there should be rust and communication btween parents and chilren but they should respect their children's desicion and dont treat their couples badly | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the person they are dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it shouldn't matter, they've had their turn dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| only for safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| good to be open but also tactful. should be conveyed as 'attack' toward the child or person they are dating. us the "i feel because..." approach. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| if a parent things the other kid is dangerous, yes. if they don't like the look of the kid? no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked, and then season the reply | 0.00% | 1 |
| possibly suggest further investigation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they know that the person their child is dating has been known for doing wrong things that could hurt their child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not dating yet | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends what you mean by "like" - if they seem like a sketchy criminal or downright loser, then yes, but not if it's just a personality issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why they dont like the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on their reasoning. do they just not like the person or do they know for a fact that the person is a bad partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on specific circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think that they should tell them how they feel before the child turns 21 and after that they should only tell them if they are asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when child wants advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is bad for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| gzhs | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on the age of the kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if safety is and issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on age,maturity.i say yes if she is 14 and probably let her live and learn if she is like 17. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends what you dont like about that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are at risk. your preferences should not influence your child's. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can express their feelings, but if they are an adult they have no decisions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what the problem is, if they think the kid is dangerous then yes if they just think they are dumb or annoying then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when it begins to affect their lives directly or if they are asked about their opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but in such a manner that they are not putting their friend down. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are being poorly treated | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if that person is not a good person | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you say anything your child still needs to know it is their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they can give their children a decent reason why | 0.00% | 1 |
| if u have a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| a parent is wiser because of age and should bring to their childs attention any character flaws that they believe may present problems in the relasionship down the road. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel they have a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they seem like they are dangerous to their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they feel their child's well being would be compromised, yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if they aregrown | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not a parent, but yes. however, they shouldn't make their kids feel bad or like you're judging them or whatever | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have a real concern about the person (such as they are abusive or manipulative) | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the situation is hurting your kid yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the parent/ child relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a real issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they live in the same place, sure. | 0.00% | 1 |
| who they choose is their decision. my opinion may not even count. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if their kids are below 18 then yes! if they are adults but the bf/gf is rude etc they should also have a talk. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if serious | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they dont treat them good yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends what the situation is | 0.00% | 1 |
| all depends why you don't like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but it depends on the situation. if the parent barely knows the significant other they should get a second opinion and get to know them before they make any rational decisions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are dangerous ie :have a criminal back ground.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the parent knows their child is not being treated well, ie physically or emotionally abused. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's negative, only if asked while being respectful. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but let them decide with who they want to be, it's call respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what you know about them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but only if they are living with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on situation can often make it worse | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only once | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes is required as parents are more experienced | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends yet be open minded | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes hey can state their opinion but dont expect them to change it | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked and go lightly but truthful | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why they are unliked | 0.00% | 1 |
| too many factors to generalize. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when safety is involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| d | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they pose a danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| if its serious | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends upon why they don't like the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| if asked, and then the parent should answer tactfully | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it in the child's best interest and not out of spite | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the matter i feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| say something but doesnt mean things are gunna change | 0.00% | 1 |
| i believe if the child is a minor and there is a good reason why and not something superficial then perhaps try to talk it over with them. it's hard to say each situation is different. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why they dont like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, unless they think their child is in danger. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only once give a small opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there is a good reason for not liking them | 0.00% | 1 |
| parents should try to keep communication channels open; non- inflamatory inquiries regarding their date partners and general guiding comments should be used. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are disrespectful | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation, simple dislike isn't enough | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you feel there is danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who they are with and why | 0.00% | 1 |
| if a reason for caution exists | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if they can give a good reason why | 0.00% | 1 |
| this depends on the circumstances and the reasons why you would not want your children with this partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should talk openly about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'm not a parent, but i think, yes, they should. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes parents should tell their kids but in a polite way not to offend otherwise they wont listen to their parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you are asked or if you think there is something really bad with this person | 0.00% | 1 |
| you should give them an opinion but do not criticize or tell them they cannot date them | 0.00% | 1 |
| that is going to depend on the parent and the child, and their lines of communication | 0.00% | 1 |
| we don't like this | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reason why they don't like the person. is it for safety reasons..or just a personal dis-like. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends, because if you tell them you don't like the person, they may stay with them out of spike | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the childs attitude and family ties | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person of harm to the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, only if their choices hasn't developed enough | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason and how strong the dislike is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are asked for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but you have to be very careful how you do it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but tell them why and be accepting anyway if safety, etc are not involved. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child asks their opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| im not a parent but imo depends on if it is a sensiable reason or just a personal feeling against him/her | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the issue. safety and health of my child then yes. personal preferences, then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if that person is not benefiting their life | 0.00% | 1 |
| everyone deserves to be with whom they choose (unless its life threatening, such as domestice violence) | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depend relation between parent & child | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the age of the child. under 18-yes over 18-no | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on your relationship with your kid. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it all depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| safety concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can, but tell them why; and don't expect your child to drop the relationship just to please you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how the partner treats the other..and if its bad, as long as the parents sees that instead of just assuming | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if its a dangerous situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| my kids are grown but i did | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not sure if that would have changed anything or not, but mom was right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends at what stage the dating is at and how serious they are. it also should depend on why you don't like someone - a personality quirk is not the same as a sadist or criminal. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel there is some danger with the person their kid is dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it affects the family or is asked, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the age of the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| kids have no business datig | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there are other reasons (abusive tendencies, severe manipulation etc) | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but parents shouldn't require their kids to dump someone just because the parents don't like them. i wish my parents had voiced their concerns about my high school boyfriend. they didn't like him, i married him, and divorced him for cheating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| should raise specific concerns only | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but only be supportive of therir decission | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes....diplomatically and ith empathy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the age of child and the reason for dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| as long as they are friendly toward the date and not hurtful or aggresive | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the child's age. if they are over 18 no | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on situation. you may push your child closer to the person if tell them you disapprove. but listen to your child and have communication. | 0.00% | 1 |
| you can. but i do not think it helps | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends, some moms cant let go, and want to be the only women, creep! but some parents are wise enough to read "bad" like a mentaly abusive partner, addictions, liers, and yes yes the straight up assholes! sorry... | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel their child is being mistreated by the person they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, only if it is worth mentioning. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how bad the date is | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there are signs of abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can tell them but at the end it all has to do with your child because they are the ones that well be with them the most | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there is a safety fear-yes-be honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends if its a safey reason. its the person cheating, crazy, etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but it does not do any good. | 0.00% | 1 |
| othere | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old the kid is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's complicated | 0.00% | 1 |
| my kids are still to small | 0.00% | 1 |
| in a kind way | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why i dont like them. if the person there with makes them happy and isnt a bad influence i wouldnt say anything, but if my son brings home a bitch that looks/ acts like a crack whore shes out | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is in regards to concern of the safety of the kid, they can discuss it, but should not be a lecture. | 0.00% | 1 |
| unsure on that one | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the kid and the relationship you habe with him or her | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what the parent know about ther person. if harm can come to their child then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in certain situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes unless the dislike is for a good reason and not for a selfish personal dislike. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but gently and leaving the door open for feedback | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is affecting their well being, yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if child asks | 0.00% | 1 |
| gently discuss concerns if you tell them you dont like it they will continue | 0.00% | 1 |
| they have their right to give their opinion, but not to judge the relationship based on how they feel about that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason they don't like who their child is dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i perceive a dangerous situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but tell them why and keep an open line of communication. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i believe that parents should speak up if they observe real issues in order to guide the youth's choice making abilities. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the child, or gender. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is a distructive relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| express your concerns and ask them to be careful if needed have them carry mase. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would say yes, do tell them but do it in a nice manner. perhaps start by saying, i'm not trying to interfere in your life choices but i dont like the way so and so treats you, you need to put your foot down and demand respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| don't openly criticize, but question common interests, etc casually | 0.00% | 1 |
| gently, explaining why but reinforcing that it is the child's life! | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it's not as easy as a yes or no! you certainly would'nt want to hurt the feelings of your own child! | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the situation. if someones in trouble then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation, child, and significant other | 0.00% | 1 |
| unless you have concerns that the person they are dating are harming them etc. then yes intervene. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked and in a nice way | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child is under 18 then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| idk | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them how you feel, if they ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if safety is a concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the age of my child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but don't push it too far | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes they can always say how they feel about that person once and after that no more | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no. yes because u should be honest with ur children and no because it is their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| they must see something in them so i try to give my daughters the courtesy of trusting their judgement. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if extremely necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| this is tough. if your kid is an adult then you have to watch what you say to him or her. | 0.00% | 1 |
| offering a reasonable opinion while letting your children make the decision is best. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can, not "should" | 0.00% | 1 |
| nmbh | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe in a good way, depends in the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on how serious it is, and how mature the children are | 0.00% | 1 |
| always be honest and explain why and talk about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| just throw hints | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure as it could cause different things to happen, rebelliousness etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the situation. if you have solid proof that theyre bad and a negative influence than speak your mind but dont be controllong | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would be ok to let them know, that they are afraid they might be making wrong choice. but after that, it is up to the kid's decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what your relationship is like with your kid. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think a parent should express if they fill someone might be type to hurt their kid once. warn them to be careful. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if their partner is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| eventually | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they can be harmed | 0.00% | 1 |
| better to let them make that choice on their own | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only once then let it go | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes parents should but leave it at that it is not the parents decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think yes but i think they should do it in a soft manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how old the child is, how long they've been dating the person, and why you don't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but they should be respectful in doing so | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but respect their choice, it is their life and their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why i dont like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on whether or not any risk/danger/safety issues | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the their kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have a reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they know something about them that could harm their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reasoning | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the parent and the childs relation ship.: | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the kid is truly happy, and yes without being judgemental | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how old the kids are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| offer up different views of things they are doing/have done that you don't like. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it can be done in a loving way, with support of their decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but in a non-confrontational way | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child asks or if the parent suspects danger. | 0.00% | 1 |
| this is dependent on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but keep in mind it is their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on the circumstance | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the cirumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i couldn't hide it if i didn't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but let them know that you trust their decision and that you have their back if it doesn't work out | 0.00% | 1 |
| only is they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| you can voice your concerns but don't be pushy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason you would want to tell them | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if unsafe | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think that its important to be honest, but in a passive manor. if you are too agressive, the kids are drawn to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| if done with respect for their child's choices, and only interfere for good reason (abuse, etc) | 0.00% | 1 |
| does not apply tp me. my children are too young | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes,you have to be able to tell your how you feel who they are dating in a way not offending thier feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| if is dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the personalities of and dynamic between the parent and kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it's a real big problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| i only voiced concerns and asked to get to know the person better | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's a casual relationship no | 0.00% | 1 |
| pray first for guidence in how to bring up the subject. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends. if they believe their child could be in danger. | 0.00% | 1 |
| undecided. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they present some kind of danger to their children | 0.00% | 1 |
| discuss about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| i will give my opinion, and let my children ask me for any other advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in cases of abuse or under age | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if their partner is mean or abusive. otherwise, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on whether there is a safety issue the parent is concerned about. then, yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the displeasure is with something that can or may hurt the child. if it is just a difference in attitudes and opinions they should not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends why you disapprove | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the child asks the parent what they think | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but they dont listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their reasons for not liking the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| raise questions for the child to see some unhealthy behavior | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes they should speak their mind but then ultimately leave the choice up to the family memeber | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no. it depends on the guy and the situations. i don;t want my kid to rebell and be crazy just because i don;t like their gf or bf, but if they are really badly influencing my child, i will say something, | 0.00% | 1 |
| i beleive they should unless its a dislike because of race, gender, religion ect. | 0.00% | 1 |
| mention a few of your concerns and then take a step back | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if parent knows about something that would hurt child | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would only tell my son how i feel if the person is a threat pr danger to him physically, mentally, or emotionally. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes...that is a touchy question | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the ages of the chuldren | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but it's a slippery slope. you have to give your children the freedom to make their own choices. all we can do as parents is guide them towards positive decisions knowing that theirs may not always agree with ours. | 0.00% | 1 |
| very good question - don`t know! | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think that instead of telling them that they don't like the other person they should ask their child why they like the other person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i trust my daughters judgement. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i depends on the situation and how they are being treated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends upon on how rebellious the kid is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if the reason isone of safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| we'll your allowed to state your opinion but don't try to control what your child does. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why i don't like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on the reason, but i would not lie if asked directly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it is none of our business who they choose to be with, we can only advise | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation,ie why dont you like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| with an explanation of why, yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if the person they are dating is treating them badly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they see their child being led down pain and heartache just mention you are worried | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe they should explain what it is that they don't like | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should mind there own business | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the partner is dangerous, then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked by their child for your opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell the child alone, in private, and try to understand their position/reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it appears to be a potentially harmful relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if it's constructive | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the child could be in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| have to handle this with much care or you will be out of their lifes | 0.00% | 1 |
| at least give an advice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but don't press the issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| the parent must remember the teachings taught to the child as they were growing to the person that they are today. let the child work it out. the parent finds ways to reinforce teachings they already know, in an effort to help the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a major issue, like drug use or any kind of abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why they don't like them. she doesn't cook like mom doesn't count | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on situation they are in | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them, but afterwards accept it. if something happens, support them when in need. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the relationship between parent and child. where the child has respect for parent, and the parent sees something wrong, the parent should say something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on whether or not the partner is doing something to hurt their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| talk with them ocjectivly and listen, you could push them in the wrong direction. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a red flag | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the age of the kid, subtly hint at how you feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes with love & understanding -and valid reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation & your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are causing harm in any way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the child and the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| always tell them the oppisite cause if you say you dont like who they are dating and you tell them they will do everything to see that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a legit reason to not like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they suspect abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's simply because a parent doesn't like them, then no. if the one they are about to marry is abusive or has lied or something of that nature, then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the situation, yes if the child asks | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on what the problem is | 0.00% | 1 |
| i suppose it depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why you don't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should talk to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why you dislike person they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person seems potentially dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there kid is ok with it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe have a conversation gently discussing concerns, but never say you don't like the other person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| unhappiness for your hild, i think a mother should love who makes the child happy. unless there is a serious potential for | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are aked. if it is drastically hurting your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would give my opinion but would support my son in all he does as long as hes good | 0.00% | 1 |
| no it is not your business | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of their business | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but still respect their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they ask your opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if the parent knows something the child does not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| will respectly tell my kids about my feelings about the gfs | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is necessary or if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'm not a parent, however, there maybe signs a "parental figure or older individual can identify" absolutely!!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why don't like | 0.00% | 1 |
| no answer | 0.00% | 1 |
| happened to me; we got married anyway (46 years ago) | 0.00% | 1 |
| in a non-judgemental or combative way, but also shouldn't expect their opinion to affect their choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who they are dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and how old the kids are | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the child asks. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if the person the child dates is potentially harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason-if it's a safety issue, then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are rude to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if the person is a bad influince then yes if the person is one of the same sex then no | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is not good news... | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person is abusing them or causing other issues, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| намекну | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes! because a parent can see things that might be invisible to a son or daughter who is in love because sometimes love can be blind | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes depends on the reason for the dislike say a person is guilty of serious offences | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, just in a kind way | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes. they may not like the shade under grandfathers tree*, and start leaf blight...or root rot, or ... burl*. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless there are serious concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| as a parent you are not the one dating your child's partner so you should not butt into their relationship ...live and let live | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure only if your children would be willing to listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the child asks for my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person has bad intensions and have proof | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, unless there is abuse, they need to realize their own mistakes and if they don't you have to tolerate the person for their sake | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reasons they don't like him or her | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there are valid concerns about their well-being. | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe sit down and talk especially if parent notices the other person being controlling or a red flag act with their child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but explain why and let them have there say | 0.00% | 1 |
| until a child turns 18, their parents should have a say in whom their child dates. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their relationship with kids and the people they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| you have to let it play out but still watch what is going on and when the time is right talk about it with your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| unknown speicy | 0.00% | 1 |
| no because you cant force love | 0.00% | 1 |
| make them aware of your dis-like and explain why as well as make them aware of it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the person they're dating… are they a criminal? bad person? is there something the parents should be intervening in? | 0.00% | 1 |
| ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| descussion and a very guarded yes lest relationships be damaged | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends on the situation or circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have proof of something wrong | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends if the person is a cheater or disrepectful yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| if its an toxic situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel that who they are dating is toxic, but not based on personal beliefs. | 0.00% | 1 |
| try to see what they see in that person first | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes, if you know they are a bad influence | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child and how intense the child is on making it work. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the child is older. they would just do the opposite if young.. most cases i believe | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the kids age . | 0.00% | 1 |
| regarding situation, but i never forget a person act on his own at the end, so i consider more important to keep a relation than tell maybe a truth but that same truth may burn the bridge btw | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are harmful or a bad influence such as encouraging drug use than yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only to an extent i hate that my mom always disses my boyfriend and makes a point to do it all the time | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it may be life threatening | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if they are unstable | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked for opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| that depends on whats going on | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should talk to the child about the person and try to find some redeeming qualities in this person for the love of your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe to a certain extent as it can backfire | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is truly a threat to your child (ie: druggie, major criminal, gang member, etc.), not in cases where they just don't like them for no reason, a "feeling", or just not agreeing with their opinions and different lifestyle. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason but yes there kid should know | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe -depends if it's a matter of feeling their child is not safe or if they just need to get to know the person better. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it will effect the child's well being. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should wait until they get serious to say something | 0.00% | 1 |
| talk to them, maybe their view is different or they don't see what thye problem is | 0.00% | 1 |
| up think they should discuss why the parent doesn't like the person their child is dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but say it then leave the subject alone | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their age, teenagers yes, adults no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel their child isn't happy enough | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should tell them, but not insist they end their relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the person if he or she is danderous | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should cautiously and wisely approach the topic, giving clear explanations as to what exactly they dont like about the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them why | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i know something about that person that could eventually hurt my child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how your relationship is with your parents. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, however point out things they don't see | 0.00% | 1 |
| in a manner that is not aggressive towards your child or their friend, you should tell the truth if you don't like them and state why. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i was a parent, i'd say it's good to communicate truth with children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they see something life-threatening or seriously wrong | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think they should tell them but not forbid them from seeing them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only for safety issues not personality issues | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the family | 0.00% | 1 |
| give that person a chance, if you see something really negative then just discuss it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how bad their partners are... | 0.00% | 1 |
| you shold talk to them about it and explain. | 0.00% | 1 |
| as a parent i felt that i was to maintain an open mind and to give the benefit of the doubt until/or if a situation arose that was unhealthy or undesirable for my child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the kids age | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you are truly concerned for their health/safety then bring it up. otherwise, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if it's a safety issue or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the kid's partner is doing something illegal or abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes they should voice there opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why | 0.00% | 1 |
| should discourage match if find him damaging or dangerous or on drugs | 0.00% | 1 |
| talk to your child and see how serious. | 0.00% | 1 |
| honesty is a good policy but unless their choice is of bad character it really is their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends you don't want them to rebell further into a bad situation certain situations you need to hope you taught them well and be there for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on your child. open to your opinion or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| okay to tell them but they should decide for themselves | 0.00% | 1 |
| be conservative about it! but listen to the teen because in their mind they think this is a good choice. let them live and learn and make their own mistakes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if they are putting your child's life in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they suspect abuse of some sort | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child and the reason for disapproval | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if the person they are dating is treating them badly or not in my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe. if the date is disrespectful, or hurtful. the person who is dating them is the ultimate choice...good or bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are bad news, yes. if it is just because you do not like them, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, comunication is vital in any relationship. they however should not tell their child who they can or cannot date | 0.00% | 1 |
| discuss not condemn | 0.00% | 1 |
| politely honest and only if asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but in a loving way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think that we as parents should only tell our children how we feel if they ask, of course let the partner of your child know of consequinces if harms your children | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the situation and how the parents tell there child | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have ben thru it all i can only giv advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on if it is a dangerous choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but not by forbidding the kid from seeing that person. express concerns and why in a way that isn't hostyle | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why i don't like the other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| a parent should first learn what their kids love about their dates before venting out their feeling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in the case where they fear their child may be in an abusive or potentially abusive relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| i may say wath i think but it doesn't regard me i'm not the one living with | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should be supportive know matter how they fill | 0.00% | 1 |
| really depends on circumstance | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on if their a bad influence or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on parent/child relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| not so forward, maybe take approach to let child see the flaws in the person for themselves (versus parents coming right out and nagging how they dont like him/her) | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on how my child was treated by this person and if my child is truly happy... | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should express their concern in a way that doesn't disrespect the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on whether there is a verifiable reason why you do not like them and the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it is ok to give your children your opinion and let them know you are there if they need to talk but not to try to live there life for them! | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on age of kkid | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't think it helps, but opinions should be expressed in hopes that a child will listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| not overly so. the child must make their own decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the person creates potential danger to your family member. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the cituation | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the parent child dynamic. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can but that is a decision that is ultimately up to the child. I have found personally that others opinions can backfire | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person is dangerous or harmful in some way than yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are hurting the family member. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how important the information is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they should be cautious of how they mention it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's for their children's safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| communicate it gently | 0.00% | 1 |
| gently | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you do it in a way that won't hurt your relationship with your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how old the children are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only under certain circumstance | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a degree yes, but it's still their choice and you need to respect that unless it's an issue of safety. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their ages and the reason you might want to divulge. | 0.00% | 1 |
| see how far it goes. tell them when you have to | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as the person makes them happy and safe, who gives a shit | 0.00% | 1 |
| The parent should be talking to the child at 11yrs old to start them thinking about what morals and personalities traits they like and dislike, so when the come across someone that wants to date them in about 3yrs they would have had about 3yrs to ob | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only is they feel that the person is not a good person for their son/daughter | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a bad circumstance or they are not being an adult | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes, but not often | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe, it depends on situation.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on a lot of factors | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on why they do not like the other person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if it helps the child not fall for the wrong person and you nerver want to see your hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child seriously asks and I think they can handle the truth of | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes if the person will hurt the family member in some way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes, there's a time and place for many things. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reason they dislike the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if your child asks | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, As long as there is tolerance for the choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's an abusive relationship or something like that | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell if the person has a drug or criminal background. Also if they are too old. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I found it worked better to ask them what they like about them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes,but tell tem it is their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes its best to let it go and the kid figures it out | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am against of dating.i belong to muslim family I never need to date and happy with arrange marriage and my sisters and bro sa | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just state opinion respectfully, don't demand a separation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on reason or circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should have a discussion about their concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but have good reaso . | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on cercumstance | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation idk | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if necessary! | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends has to be done at right monent or you may push them closer | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Talk to kids in private. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think they should but let them make thier own chose if they want to be with that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell but don't be mean | 0.00% | 1 |
| only say something if you have a really good relationship with your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the couple | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is clear and present danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| D\epends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their child is not happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| not really sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should explain what they are not comfortable with, but accept their childs decision to continue or end the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe. Depends on why you don't like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on age of child and how well I know the person their dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends the reasoning for not liking the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it is something harmful to their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes..but tactfully. Offering your truth to your children is crucial to a health relationsnship and can be accomplished while also leaving your children room to grow by making their own decisions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel they will be hurt or in harms way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only in certain situations. If your child is happy and loves the partner then don't stick your nose in there. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if it a dangerous situation - abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| no you should support your children, unless the person is dangerous then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if child asks or is in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can voice concerns but ultimately it is up to the person in the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a certain exent, with an understanding that we can find something good in everyone. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the kind of person they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they're concerned about their child's safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on their relationship with their kids. | 0.00% | 1 |
| ONLY if the partner poses a danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how old the children are. Under 21 yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes burt only once | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends on the situation and what was wrong with the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if that person my child is dating is making him suffer and playing behind his back and being hypocrite | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they see there are problems with the relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| never say you don't like them but in situations point out the positive things in that person and maybe suggest what's important in a relationship and give your child something to think about in that you didn't have many positive things to say or that | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, in a loving way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| n | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but with caution. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they truly feel that the person might actually cause harm | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there is something really not right | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they're harmful yes, otherwise no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| All depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the individual is not behaving as they should - | 0.00% | 1 |
| on rare occasions | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their objection is extreme and for a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they ask their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's dependent on the reason you feel you don't like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should let their feelings known nicely but unless it is dangerous for the child then don't push them to break up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the child & if they have been asked by their child if they approve. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends on if its a situation were you fear physical harm but kuds need to make there own mistakes | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on waht is going on. | 0.00% | 1 |
| my child not old enough date | 0.00% | 1 |
| Each situation is different | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the parent have prior knowledge about the person or see questionable behaviors by the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm a Christian, raised mine in tht atmosphere. But tht is between them & the good Lord above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Generally no, but it depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe in agent all way | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no depending on how they are treated | 0.00% | 1 |
| i just want my kids to be happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the child specifically asked and would only say why there are negative feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes you don't have to say anything, they can tell | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should share their concerns about why they may not like him or her but not interfear with the decisions that he or she make upon hearing how you feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person is a threat to leading the child to trouble the parent should step in but if it is just dislike of the person leave it alone for the most part you will more damage than good if it just a personal feeling you have | 0.00% | 1 |
| If you like them talk bad, if you hate make your best friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on who and the situation or circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| give the person a chance first before judging | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how they are being treated | 0.00% | 1 |
| not if it's for a silly, superficial reasons, if the partner is causing harm yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it is important for a parent to be honest and open with their children, expressing one's views, however, I feel it is important to love and accept and respect the choices of your children, thereby in the end accepting, loving the one chosen. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they think the situation is getting serious | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if its because of a safety concern, not a personal biase | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if the parents feel that the "date" is not trustworthy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, there should always be an open communication with the parents and child. But this does not mean the parents should force their opinions on the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, within limits and mainly what characteristics concern you | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes only if the person theyre dating is causing serious life changing bad problems | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how old the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but should be done in a polite as possible way as two adults | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should keep channels of communication open. their children will already know if their love interest is approved of by parents. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Dependant on the type of relationship you have with your children | 0.00% | 1 |
| be nonest but above all be kind | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm not a parent but I would speak up about someone if they worry me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| kinda so so but dont keep it going say it and leave it alone itwill work itself out they can be pushed together | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if that person could be harmful or have a negative impact on the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| my kids are too young | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the age of their child and how it is approached. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on all the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what you don.t like | 0.00% | 1 |
| A parent should step in if the person they are dating is abusive mentally or physically. If the person they are dating is not abusive, then the parent should only tell how they feel if the child asks for an opinion or advice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the pros and cons of the situation, if the date is potentially dangerous to wellbeing | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they should tell them why and that they love them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why you don't like the person. If the person is a bad influence, then I say yes. If you just don't like their personality, then I say no. Not worth risking alienating your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only to be a support | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can tell them. But, esp., if the child is an adult try to let them make their own decisions and support them.no matter what! I went through this with my own family & it is hard,I loved them. My hubby was my life now, too!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but dont try to control the decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but with an explanation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if its a pyscial or emotinal abuse then yes you should voice your opion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tread lightly, if you do say something, they may stay with that person just to spite you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Honestly it all wpuld depend on what exactly you don't like about them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on many factors | 0.00% | 1 |
| 50/50 on the first two answers. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason for not liking the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should honestly discuss their apprehensions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| to an extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is a valid reason for it, yes. Otherwise no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Actually depends. Im in this position. I dont say a word he unfortunately has to figure this out hiself | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only I'd they know it might be a bad choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but never stop them from seeing the person. Everyone needs to learn. | 0.00% | 1 |
| YES,BUT VERY CAREFULLY. | 0.00% | 1 |
| perhaps in extreme cases. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't think they should say whether or not they like who their children are dating, but they should point out problem behaviors in the person they are dating that could harm their child in some way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't know. Very hard question. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I really can't say much..I would try to limit because everyone have to learn their lesson. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If their child is not an adult then yes, if their child is an adult then no unless their child asks. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ask if they are happy, what they generally do on dates or while "hanging out" and listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes , but get over it unless. Very bad reason but show in a way they will see the truth. Not that you just dont like them because long hair or ect... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Rarely | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the child's age, and what kind of problem the person he/she is datng has. | 0.00% | 1 |
| there are always curcumstances but every one is different | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the person ,how dangerous they are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Express concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is proof the person is harmful or dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but they should be happy for their kid's decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a certain point | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person they're dating is harming them or negatively influencing them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, if it is a personal preference then, no, If dangerous/abusive then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they have evidence and a very valid reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really dedends on teh context and situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on why they dont like the person and how well they are able to communicate with the child involved. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, within reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| You should express any concerns but don't convey dislike. Allow them to reach their own conclusions without either feeling pressured to conform to your wishes or rebel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but they should have a very good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends, is he weird or a druggy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Always be honest with your child and explain why you dislike the person they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are a really bad person like a danger to their child or anyone else. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It could go both ways so I can't decide | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless there is signs of abuse or other bad behavior | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there are actual issues that need to bad addressed/safety/personnel treatment | 0.00% | 1 |
| You should do it in the most supportive way possible | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as they're not trying to make me break up with the person I am dating then sure I'd like to know how they feel about him. | 0.00% | 1 |
| any parent with kids will probably do so if they should or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am not a parent but YES | 0.00% | 1 |
| not there yet | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depends. If it's mild irritation, I think you should keep your mouth shut. If there's a serious issue, then bring it up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel they are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's showing symptoms of becoming an abusive relationship... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if u no for a fact don't just tell her show pics because if not u will ruin ur relationship Whit ur child it's not worth it all u can do is just hold ur arms out for a shoulder to cry on | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but explain why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the parent has an actual decent relationship with their child, where they talk about personal things sometimes. Not if it's meddling and unappreciated regardless of the opinion, good or bad. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they have been asked for their opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My children are all grown and married | 0.00% | 1 |
| my parents told me | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how I feel the person is treating my child, if I feel they are being abusive in anyway then of course I'm going to say something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| unless they are in danger, only if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Their opinion but depends on how old your children are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how treated | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how well of a relationship you have with that relative. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on kids age and parent/child relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if they are harming my child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked and even then, be repectful and not hurtful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but in a respectful manner and they shouldn't forbid them from dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends why the parent does not like the person. If no danger, parents should keep their mouths shut. | 0.00% | 1 |
| its not up to the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if it is getting serious. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Well ues and no if you dont like there choice then if it works out for them they may have bad feelings in the back of there head about it for ever | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the age of the child and if they believe their child is in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if their choice of dates is leading them to do things that will hurt them or the other person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and for what reason(s). | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel it is a dangerous sitution | 0.00% | 1 |
| Eventually if they messing up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Need to talk to child about your opinion while respecting theirs | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's only because of a personality conflict you have with him/her, then no. If it's becasue you fear violence/abuse/etc.. YES! but do it in a way that won't push your child away. Don't "tell".. it's better to "discuss/ask questions" | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be careful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel they could be in some kind of danger (safety, drugs, criminal) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but respectfully, calmly, one on one. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ask if they are happy, if no, then yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Circumstances vary | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think only if asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they should let it be known but also know how to let the child be with who they want to and stay out of the personal business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the reasoning is something that could cause your child harm | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but with respect and respect their descion, depends on age | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the partner is abusive or a poor fit with the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but they should do it in a tasteful way that doesn't turn their children away | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have no idea | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old the child is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the relationship that they have and if these people are harmful to your children | 0.00% | 1 |
| _ | 0.00% | 1 |
| In private and I would be cautious on using my words as not to hurt them and only if they were being treated badly and blind to this fact | 0.00% | 1 |
| Once and that's it, unless the child is being physically or emotionally abused | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the parent see's some problem like anger issues/smells like crack cocaine/ could possibly harm my child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Cordially get along . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, though I'm not a parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child, and weather or not the relationship is a healthy one | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends if its for a for real reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on a few things | 0.00% | 1 |
| you can always ask but you always have to respect the decision of your child and trust their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on their reasoning | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel the person could be dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on attitudes of all involved. | 0.00% | 1 |
| discuss the issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if the person is a jerk then yeah | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the other person makes the situation toxic and gets my kid to start doing things that they never did and getting into trouble | 0.00% | 1 |
| My daughter is 38 years old and married. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no.its like a maybe | 0.00% | 1 |
| Does not apply to me | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how old the child is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you can see that the person is causing harm to your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Parent should ask their kids how the kids feel about who they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| if child wants to discuss and yes if parent feels they are harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe a parent should let their child know if they know of something or things that are bad with their significant other | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their ages and how serious they are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| I asked if they wanted to hear my impression or just meet the person they were dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Very GENTLY.....discuss | 0.00% | 1 |
| Parents should offer advice and wisdom. They have already been through it before. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think and I quote I have been in this situation with one off my daughter's if you don't like the boyfriend and you tell your daughter that you could find that you can push them together ,lucky enough it did not last | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel that you should love and support family even if you don't agree. Things always seem to work out the way they are meant to be. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should support there son or daughter and be there for him . I know this all to well cause my mother in law hates me just because I cant bear kids and feels I am keeping her son from experiencing a wonderful thing. My husband knew I couldnt . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel the relationship could be hazardous to their physical or emotional wellbeing. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only under 16 | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe if it's really detrimental. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel parents need to express how they feel but bring out good and bad to have child understanding how they feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if their child is dating older and they have more than a 2 year age difference but it needs to be eased into if you rush the conversation they'll go against the parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on situation I guess | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what I am seeing to make me feel that way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| This depends.., if the child is trying to anger you or is a bit rebellious then you should not but if your child cares how you feel then you should | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's a safety or legality issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| y ou can give advice as to you ideas why you are not happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless ask or feel child is in danger. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but respectfully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it gets to a serious point | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is a "bad person" | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be subtle when giving an opinion on someone you don't know personally | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes,but only as advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should give them advice and be constructive about it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the relationship between the child and parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if it interferes with their safety or their health | 0.00% | 1 |
| children or young adults? If their old enough to vote or military keep your mouth zipped. Even if their pregnant they have respect coming. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on who that person is | 0.00% | 1 |
| children can be rebelious, live and let live only way to learn | 0.00% | 1 |
| HELL YES but after about 6 times of meeting....NO judgement with the first 3 dates!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the cause | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if kid is in harm's way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends. It's a delicate balance. If you witness the person doing something illegal or immoral, then you gently ease into the issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think that, the parent should let their child know how they feel, if they don't like their child's partner, but not tell them how they should feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but with compassion | 0.00% | 1 |
| no but they can give them some strong advice and to be cause to them to help them with the're relationship problems | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe, depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| IT BEE RUDE!!!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation. If it is a hostile relationship...Yes! If it is a personality thing, I say No as long as your child is being treated with love and respect. | 0.00% | 1 |
| In most cases, it would not do any good. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My mother/sister always did and didn't like any of them! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Bring up key points to make them think and realize | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they should tell, but they need to have reasonable reasons why and talk about it calmly | 0.00% | 1 |
| That depends on if the parent realizes it if the boyfriend or girlfriend is a drug dealer or a druggy or something that's going to be dangerous in the child's life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, once presented to me | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are good at being honest with their kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are being used lied too stolen from or abused | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it is a bad situation...not for just personal preferences. | 0.00% | 1 |
| W | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would depend on the reason for the dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person is hurting your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| a parentshould consider the chil | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason if u don't like just because no but if you feel the person is dangerous YES | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel really strongly that they are making a mistake or have found a winner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if their dating someone I might find annoying I would keep my mouth shut. If I thought they would be a bad influence or get my child into trouble I might speak up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| This depends on a lot of different factors. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their is abuse involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but be careful | 0.00% | 1 |
| they are not old enough | 0.00% | 1 |
| With care if the partner of our children might harm them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I did this once and it didn't work the way I thought it would. Just to make me angry she moved in with him. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel their choice is unhealthy | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in extreme cases where dislike is highly warranted, e.g. negative influences | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reason..if important..yes..if just a general dislike..no | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only after they still think that after trying to get to know tbem. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am not a parent but was badly hurt by a parent's interference so I say no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure, but my adult son just told me that he wished I'd told him his girlfriend was evil | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be honest if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not a parent but I would tell my child or children if I didn't like who they were dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how serious the failings of the person are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just let them know how you feel but remember it's their decision . | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is mental or physical abuse involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on how the kid feels about that person, saying the wrong thing at the wrong time can sometimes have adverse effects. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child is in Danger yes, if it's trivial or petty no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would try to see what good qualities they possess, if they seem to be doing more harm than good then I would definitely voice my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depends on the circumstances. If it's putting their children in danger then yes. If it's just personally traits then no | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation. It's not so simple. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and they should calmly explain why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only in extreme circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation...if there is abuse or serious issues a parent may want to talk to children...ultimately it is our childrens choice like or not like but if you love your kids learn to live with the people they love unless dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who it is and if you have negative feelings? If it's your child yes if not I don't know? | 0.00% | 1 |
| express some concerns, but not 'don't like' | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if its for their safety. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they should mention the concerns once, and then let their kids decided-unless they are legitimate concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would prefer "is it ok ..." | 0.00% | 1 |
| If you feel they are dangerous yes,otherwise no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| State their concerns, and make it clear that they are there for their child, no matter what! | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's a yes and no question. Depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Generally that approach only results in driving the child towards the one they are dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Other | 0.00% | 1 |
| It totally depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| i did and was cursed | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person their kid dating is emotionally or physically absuive toward the child or if their being disrespectful toward the parent but be careful cause when comea to matter of the heart things can be complicated | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. If the bf/gf is trouble for my kid I will. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if that person is hurting said child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Need a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if they have a good reason for not liking them. Being ugly or poor, not good reasons. Lazy, immoral, or other bad traits, for sure. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel your child is getting into a dangerous or hurtful relationship. But you can't nag. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it all depends if they are doing everything right by there partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, should also respect their choices as well | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some small hints, but overall try to accept. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only once, after that you shouldn’t butt your nose in | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Give there opinion but don't be judgemental before getting to know the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it’s because of bad influence yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but in a polite unaggressive manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Each case is different and should be looked as such. 1 might be told no and listen or rebel and be more issues. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the child asks the parent for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on the context if they are abusive etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| When the partner of the kid isnt around | 0.00% | 1 |
| In extreme circumstances yes, otherwise no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on the dynamic of you and your child's relationship. I would! | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if they are just really not good for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t know | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, with respect for their children's decisions despite the parents opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if you feel they are dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| I was never asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is harm involved yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| THEIR CHILD SHOULD BE THE ONE TO CHOOSE THE PARTNER THEY HAVE FEELINGS FOR. THE MOTHER IN THIS CASE NEEDS TO BUTT OUT UNTIL SOMETHING GIVES HER REASON TO NOT LIKE THE GIRL... | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would mention the pos & neg about the person! | 0.00% | 1 |
| It should be done with genuine sensitivity and care. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but should tell them why in a careful manner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes to a point but no henpecking or doing it when they are at the house where they can overhear what you are saying. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be honest, but allow them to make their own decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but also respect the child's house too | 0.00% | 1 |
| Well if u see it isn't a good relationship yes. But if u n ur kid talk to work on things no | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but don't tell them that they can't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If its harming their well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes I think a parent should that their child know how they feel but it is the child's who has to be with that person for the rest of their life | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's in the best interests of the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's a slippery slope to broach that subject, you don't want to alienate your child not do you want to see them get hurt. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they shouldn't be overbearing | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless they no their kid is in danger of any kind | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends what you may not like about that person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it's a violent or cheating situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Circumstances would dictate how much comment i might make. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You should not like any of them.lol! Its rare that they'll be dating for long. Besides there no need to say anything. You are damed if you do and damed if you don't. My advise stay as neutral as possible . They only hear when there ready | 0.00% | 1 |
| no. if you have a problem with that person. confront that person. not your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I guess it really depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the nature of the concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| to a point but you need to respect their choices. unless the person is dangerous then yes tell them | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe if its bad enough | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending what they don't like | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they have an open enough relationship and only if they can be tactful. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have a valid reason if not it will just make it worse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doent matter if i am or not my mouth speaks for its self no filter and no fibs | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they have reason to believe that the individual could be dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if safety is at stake, otherwise leave the kid alone | 0.00% | 1 |
| Siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| really tricky area, I guess it depends on your relations ship with person and exactly how you phrase it and whether or not your willing to go along to get along if their choice remains the same unless person is danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked or they are dangeroua | 0.00% | 1 |
| Always good to have OPEN discussions with our children.They are our love ones.They do need guidance, that's why GOD made us PARENTS. | 0.00% | 1 |
| A parent should always appear supportive of who they are dating to keep communication open with children. This is a very touchy issue . IA parent has to handle this very gently or the child may rebel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it’s necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Follow your instincts. Every case is different. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but nicely | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the reason is due to dangerous or harmful relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| This is more than a yes/no answer. Parent should talk to their kids openly about their choice of date. | 0.00% | 1 |
| The child should know how the parents feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it poses a threat to the child or if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| They will be living w that person it is their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends of the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Let your child make the decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how strongly I feel about their date | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's a fine line. You don't want to push them in the wrong direction. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Should talk to child to understand what child sees in that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's really not the parents' place to tell the child. It's the child's decision to make, and he/she has to live with it. Parents are there to support their children, no matter what. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if that person is going to physically hurt them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If age appropriate | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends.Parents should get to know them better. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but it's just your opinion...stand back and support them and if they fail, be there for them to fall back on. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would just once and as l always do with things and then l accept my child's decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe - depends on why the person is disliked | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think that kind honesty is best. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, unless there's concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe expressing how you feel if they're no good for your child, it's your duty as a parent to let that be known. BUT you dont have to be mean or ignorant about it and make it a one time thing. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on several different factors | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on circumstaces | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on situation and age of child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes & No | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's not so black and white. But I believe there are ways of doing it without sounding judgemental. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It just depends on how that person treats my child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Try to be open minded unless their date crosses a line | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but only in a caring, respectful way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kids are going tour date whomever they want. Only id the personal was note a safe person | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation, ie is it about safety? Then yes. Is it about hair colour? then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on who they're dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think only if it is a dangerous relationship or if they are unaware what kind of person they are really dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the person is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Perhaps giving as a personal view, as a parent might be wrong | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on circumstantial situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no...I think it depends on the reasoning behind the parents thought; petty or for good reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but not in a vicious or mean way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Should comment with concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes,but only if they’ve been able to get to know them personally how they’re treating their child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends upon the relationship of the parent to the child, and upon the basis for their concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reason for the dislike. If there is risk of harm to the child, then yes. If not, keep quiet. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not whether you like them or not, but rather whether or not you see warning signs of toxic elements. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reason why | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but respectfully and with clear reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't interfere life is hard let them learn from experience makes us stronger as a person | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes with caution, acceptance and awareness of their childs experience | 0.00% | 1 |
| Give advice not order | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person they are dating is involved in criminal activity. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if it's conflictual | 0.00% | 1 |
| telll them how you feel nicely but not be mean | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it needs to be handled with kid gloves and just point out the flaws slowly and tactfully | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the particular situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how they are being treated. If their partner was cold hearted person i would step in but if its just me not liking them then i need to get over it an accept them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Nothing in life is simply black or white. Shades of grey are made by X Factors we can't always account for when daring to answer questions in absolutes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask and can handle the response. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are under 18 | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why they don’t like the boy/girl their child is seeing | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason for the dislike, ie criminal, bad character | 0.00% | 1 |
| Come to agree to disagree | 0.00% | 1 |
| Subject could be approached if door comes open and parties are open | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think there is no yes or no question here to check off it's a very delicate situation and unless there being abused by there girlfriend boy friend it's best to to stay ready to jump in but enough away for them to have there own right and wrong re | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but with love n kindness | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, IF THEY ARE ASKED by the offspring. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ask a lot of questions | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should to a certain extent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not how they feel but the reason why the parent doesn't like their date | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on cicumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the guy or girl he/she is dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child asks for the input yes if not no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are trying to be Loving and Kind and took the time and really tried to get to know them and they are not just be judge mental on what they see and hear on the surface.I will always be honest with my kids unless no good come from it.Try not Ju | 0.00% | 1 |
| Need to be fair | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if that person seems to be talking advantage or not caring for the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Try to provide guidance so they make good choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| No if you tell them before they are ready to hear you they will just do the opposite. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell feelings, but support child's choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend on why I don't like the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstances and overall person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes or no it all depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| If my child is happy I'm happy. My job is to be there for my child no matter what | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if they just dislike them for something silly or something major that could affect the child negatively | 0.00% | 1 |
| its their choise not mine i can not say one way or another unless they ask me | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how old and situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if person is violent or bad for well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should just say they disapprove and leave it at that | 0.00% | 1 |
| Try to learn the points child loves about person dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes & no. You could tell them but dont try to make a decision for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person the child is dating is known to be a bad person in general then say something. otherwise keep your mouth shut | 0.00% | 1 |
| You don't have to like them, nut if you child loves them put in a little effort to keep get togethers a fun family function. After all they could father a child together...cross you fingers crossed | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just talk with them,as long as they are ok | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some cases I would say yes but there are times that you are time when you. Ahouks keep tour mouth shut | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no cause it can backfire on you | 0.00% | 1 |
| To an extent u gotta protect and carr | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but they shouldn't get to dictate the outcome of the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depens | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if they are dating or married. And also how close you are with person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| An open discussion to express reasons why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why you dislike them... | 0.00% | 1 |
| It may be ok but maybe give them a chance | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have made suggestions about their choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| Voice it to them butrspect their choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes you should express your feelings nut reassure them that it is their choice and you will support whatever decision is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of my business unless except against the law | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's a negative relationship yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should voice their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the relationship is dangerous always say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe that a parent should let their child know how they feel towards their dating choices, but keep an open mind for their child's choices. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should tell them they it's their choice but they don't agree. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I dont know and fuis si à question i am asking me but now m’y daughgers dont hâve boyfriends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kid is in an abusive relationship then yes other wise if it just that they dont like that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would ask my child about the person in the most gentile manner as I could and only then mention any misgivings I might still have. | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some circumstances.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel there's a chance of physical or mental abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| The parent might not neccessary like the significant other, but as long as they are in a healthy relationship, and they treat each other right, It should matter. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there's danger, or if the child will listen, but even then, tred carefully!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they asked, be truthful yet loving and polite | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think its ok to tell your kids how you feel about their partner, but also let them know that they are going to let their child choose who they want and stay out of their relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If you state either way the child will rebel and stay or leave just to prove their point of they know what their doing, so l think just point out little things along the way about someone else they didn't like and let them connect the dots. | 0.00% | 1 |
| To an extent but people have to make there own choices. Its nice to have peoples opinions but in the end you have to make your own choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how old the kid is and why they dont like them,if it's for their own reasons and the person treats their child kind and respectful then no if it's an abusive relationship than yes take the steps to help if it's natural issues no | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless he's hurting her or a criminal then it's her decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked by their child or if something is done that demonstrated a character of the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| I had a daughter who died. I worked with teens. If you put down their choices, most will rebel, just because they are teens.by welcoming your teens friend in, you may find that they are different than you thought, or your teen will see what they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| They shall voice there opinion but nothing as far as trying to tell them who they can n can't b with | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the relationship ship is destructive. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the circumstance | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person they are dating is bad for them (treats them bad, is on drugs, etc.) | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes. if they feel their child is at risk of abuse or in an unhealthy relatioship it would be right to say something along the lines of "youre boyfriend/girlfriend seems a little condecending/unsupportive. do you feel like youre being treated right? | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel a parent has the right to tell their kid that they think their partner is not right for them but the indecision is up to the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would but it's at your own risk cuz it could push them closer instead of apart. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but leave it at that. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sit down and all talk together | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on the relationship you have with that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if the child asks, or if the parent has legitimate concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the child ! I would tell them he's not write for you | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on your relationship with your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| To an extent. Some choices are bad, but some parents also don’t think anyone is good enough for their kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but they don't get to have an opinion just a feeling (unless the child is underage) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be kind and polite, but raise questions without offending for an open and honest discussion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should if they think there is a serious problem with the partner or a danger to the child, not just that they don't like them in a personal way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if its a bad sitution | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if the partner is really really a bad person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, length and plan of action | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just depends why I don't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only to a certain extent with advice from experience I've come across/them asking my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think parents should give their opinion but not force it on the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and No: Yes the parent should be able to express their dislike about the partner and No: because your child picked that individual and you hope that he or she will figure it out if this partner is good for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in extreme situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on age and reasoning behind If younger than 17 or 18, then yes. If older if it is asked for unless feeling are justified | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation and whether the parent feels that the person their kid is dating might be a harmful influence. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Wait a little while and see | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only when the parent sees their child being mistreated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I try to respect ther choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| That’s tough. Really depends on why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are dating someone who seems questionable or trouble | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if it's unhealthy or dangerous situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should explain but leave it up to the child to deside | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there's a future forming g | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would tell my children how I felt, but I would also tell them that I can't make that choice for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Guide thier decisions proactively not stiffle. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked by your child and there is unhealthy behavior...if your child is happy keep your mouth shut | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on what their reasons for not looking them are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on what kind of person they are dating. As long as the person is not hurting or misusing them it's none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation you don't want to push them away | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only after they breakup/ are having relationship stressors | 0.00% | 1 |
| No it's their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I see my child miserable, I will talk to them about it, but if they’re happy my opinion does not matter. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the stage of the relationship and the seriousness, among other things. | 0.00% | 1 |
| For sure but only to an extent. They need to allow their kid to make their own choices and make their own mistakes too | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have, but never will again | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend if thst would be harmed if they werent told | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is there choice but, voice any concerns they have. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if seems dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| I did but not sure if it was the right thing to do. I say nothing now because of grandbabies but we both know how we feel about the other. Guess I'm a monster in law | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but only if they think it’s a toxic relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes as a parent you should verbalize your feelings about your childs partner but also give reason why and show them the red flags | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation really. And what they don't like | 0.00% | 1 |
| Needs to be handled with kid gloves.discretion advised. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Even though I am not a parent, I believe that open communication is important for a family's wellbeing, as long as the communication is courteous, respectful, and honest. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would all depend on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they should explain why, and they should respect their children's freedom at the same time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think as a parent, even if we don't like them, we support our Childs decision. Unless something happens. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depends on the parents reason for not liking this person. If it's blatant dislike for something silky no I don't agree. However if it is a dislike for this person due to his or her characer due to abuse/ dishonesty/ cruelty exetra, then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's against our religion to date | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think only if their are truly a danger to her in anyway but if not then get to know their spouse an If that's who they love an wanna be with an make them happy then u should be happy. If u out cast the spouse u will only push your child away too. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on situatiom | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have something wrong has a criminal record | 0.00% | 1 |
| On a certain extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell them but still support them | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm on the side of No, but if there is risk of danger to their family member, then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Usually no but there may be some situations where they should. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is for their physical safety yes. Otherwise they have to learn at some point | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the child, their previous dating habits, how fast they are moving | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is a real problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| I will be there for my child. As long as they don't respect me and my child and don't put hands on them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Too risky | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on situation. Alot of time it makes the children like each other n end up with partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe parents should always express feelings with their children, but children at least by the age of 17 should be able to figure what is best for themselves relationship wise. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is concern about the child's wellbeing and saftey | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel the person is dangerous or crazy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but gently and with tact | 0.00% | 1 |
| You should spent a little time with them as a couple. You may be able to point to a few things nice or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only and I mean only if there’s danger involved! | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on whether or not their partner is bad for them or dangerous. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the relationship is unhealthy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only in rare and very important circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Express how you feel and why but don't dwell on the subject. Everyone learns in their own time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I never tell them who to date but will voice displeasure if that person is not treating them right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it’s a safety issue. If the partner is going to cause harm is the only way I would get involved. Just because personalities don’t mesh isn’t a reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on their age and if the child asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but gentely. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not outright. Just warn them of what your issues are and be nice about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but it's not about what ur parents want its about what you want. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but the still should have there child’s back and support them | 0.00% | 1 |
| if its something about their choices you have to help them mkae wise ones | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation. it's not my job to choose for my kid.. its my job to guide him | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe it depends with each child , if it's your child who has no common sense , and the bf/gf leads them into situation time after time that gets them into trouble I will let them both know . | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I think they will do them real harm | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but in a way that makes them aware of your concerns and as a parent & friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, if the person they are dating is dangerous to their physical or mental health then YES tell them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if their kid is really getting hurt. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but in a friendly, non-threatening way. Back door type conversations, maybe not about the particular person but choosing friends in general. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends upon understanding , I guess | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes with reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think that they should discuss concerns with their child as problems present themselves but think that just "dumping" on their Daughter or Son's choice is not necessary. It's basically telling your child that their decision making is incorrect. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask my opinion or if I know 100% they are bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I feel in my heart that something is wrong with this person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child, if there is potential danger..not so simple | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on those reasons for disliking the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes,but don't be overly rude | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there seems to be some concern to their well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the children are at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| Perhaps if the person is an addict or seems criminally inclined | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how your relationship is with your children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| After they breakup unless their child is not safe with that partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child ask, I will tell | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, but I do think they should pass along their concerns/advice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if I sense something is wrong or have a bad feeling. But I would observe first. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on why. If they are harming your child in any way then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you see that person is a change it to your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not tell but talk n explain there thoughts. The reasons and views on the matter, n the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes & no. Be kind, listen to your child, try not to be judgemental. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the child’s safety is in question | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are in danger like drugs or abuse. | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if relationship is not in your childs interest and you will honor their decision and always love them no matter what | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on why and how. If the parent has legitimate reasons to not like someone then yes but if they just don't like them for their own judgemental reasons then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Judgemental people suck | 0.00% | 1 |
| Voice their opinion and be there when things go wrong | 0.00% | 1 |
| Every person is an individual. I think I'd just keep my thoughts to nyself, unless I thought my child was in danger with their choice of mate. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They shouldnt be rude or trash talk the other person. Maybe sit down with your kid and and voice your concern then letting your child speak. If you still have concerns talk with the person they are dating and find a way to reach common ground. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how old the child is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why they don’t like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| I can only give advise | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it would be based on their feelings for that person rather than my feelings for that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the parent thinks the partner is a threat to their child then yes otherwise probably not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if for their safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depend on both the child/adult and their choice. It is somewhat of a dilemma depending on the other people. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If kid will be negatively affected by not telling Them then yes a parent should tell them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child ask or questions their dating partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the parents see that their child's mental health is negatively impacted by their partner, they will | 0.00% | 1 |
| get to no them first it could break up a family these day's. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should express concern but it's their child's choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| If that person is abusive then yes but if they aren't and it's just a personal dislike for them based on personality clash then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If you want the relationsip to bloom, tell your kid they don't like who they are dating.lol | 0.00% | 1 |
| IF THEY KNOW IT'S FOR THEIR SAFETY WITH GIVEN PROOF | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should only in extreme cases in a calm way, not in a downgrading arguementive way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would try to understand the relationship . And why they are interested in eachother before judging . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes of that person is truly a bad person. Must do research! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they think they may be in harms way | 0.00% | 1 |
| I will try to not say anything,it would depend on how they treated them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is going to effect how the person he/she is dating is going to be treated then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Explain why you disapprove. But you should also make the effort to compromise so your child knows he/she can bring anybody home. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe we should be supportive in any choice our children make when it comes to a significant other | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their child is in danger being with that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| I dont feel that you should but you can. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If children are under age yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, as long as the parent still allows kid to date whomever they please. I voice my opinion to my kids , tho at the end of the day they chose who to be with | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only in extreme events | 0.00% | 1 |
| Id thw person isn't good for me child yes other wise I believe parents should let the child depends on age of their children weather they should get involved or not unless it's mentally tear their child a part | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the dating type relationship children are involved in yes; for instance if it is an abusive relationship and the individual has sought their parents advice then by all means spill the tea. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the partner happens to be abusive I agree 100% | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes - but in a kind and caring way- | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think parents should encourage healthy relationships | 0.00% | 1 |
| Use another reason other than not liking | 0.00% | 1 |
| If that person feels unsafe | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it is a situation that will harm them or be bad for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but without judgment and only when asked or if the child is in danger of any type of abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the children | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel the child is in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel it depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the childs age | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not unless they are asked for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes to a degree, only if the child's relationship is not healthy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if it's in their best interest and not yours. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on their relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but you have to sort them in thier decision if they are grown if not them as a parent you need to step in and talk to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Express concerns if you feel your child is at risk but you can’t chose your child’s journey they have to do that for themselves. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why they don’t like who they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Carefully, you don't want to your throw your child into that persons arms if they are not good for your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a toxic relationship as in abuse or things like that are happening | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes do it with the utmost care for your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends, children should be allowed to make mistakes but not if they are life threatening | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is abuse Otherwise it’s not my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask for your opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is cause for concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| Too boring Ask questions。First I will educate the children. Then comfort the child. My intention。 | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would like to say yes but unfortunately no | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask only | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it’s the wrong person the kids will find out on their on | 0.00% | 1 |
| really depends on how they say or do it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on their relationship. Offer encouragement if they are happy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason? | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be polite to them, the child will eventually realize on their own the person is not right for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes only if they think it’s not a safe one | 0.00% | 1 |
| If your kids are not adults, sure. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person they are dating is treating them poorly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kids seem to do the opposite of what you say | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have open communication about who they date but never outright tell them you don’t like who they are dating. That is a recipe for disaster! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have a mature non judgmental conversation with your child and learn what qualities and reasons why child cares about person | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends entirely on their age. As a mature adult, my answer would be no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Talk to kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are dangerous maybe but if you talk about your child's partner you might possibly push your child away so keep your mouth shut and keep them safe and coming around or lose them forever then you won't know how the shitty person is treating kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason why | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should mention misgivings once but from then on accept the individual kindly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked for an opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not sure - depends on how bad the parent thinks the partner is | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can give their opinions, especially if they have a gut feeling or notice things that greatly concern them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if that person is abusive or into illegal activities | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should only voice an opinion about that person if they are hurting their child in some way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if that person is causing harm or emotional damage to your child yes. If you simply don't like their physical looks no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is a bad situation then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Situational | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but it's the kids choice to make | 0.00% | 1 |
| Must gain the trust of thier kids and share the thoughts in postive approach even if they arent happy is the best way to show the correct path | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would give them my opinion One time, hoping they take what I say into consideration and then respect there choice as an individual who has a right to make there own choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| As the saying you can’t judge your children partner all you can do is stand by them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If its abusive yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person is hurting the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think a parent should adopt a wait and see attitude | 0.00% | 1 |
| In a very loving way, so they don't feel pushed into continuing the relationship! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think a parent should give their opinion. The kids should be able to choose who they falli in love with . We did !! | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old they are and why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the child does not know something important. But also makeing sure the child really understands his choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| Should definitely explain your concerns,but also let them understand your behind them every step if the way no matta what they decide | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's a yes & no answer because if the person you're child is dating a bad person that you know for fact yes but if its because you don't like them or you don't think there good enough then no | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's my child's choice I'll back them up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on child and relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| one time, then leave it be, it's not really their business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if it is for a serious reason if it’s just I don’t like them, no | 0.00% | 1 |
| as long as the kids are under 19 and still living at home | 0.00% | 1 |
| no not really sometimes as parents we hold our peace u can not choose ur child mate unless the mate is really bad or an addict then you have some say so | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the person. They should let them know if they have bad feelings about them like as they might be insane or a killer, and anything that might be good. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think as a parent you can say how you feel but you should also give them a chance to make their own decisions. You love you learn | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if they are a threat to individuals life and or others lives. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is appropriate but you can’t tell someone who to love and not to | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how it's done & why. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they should, but don't be shoked if telling them dosn't have the desired effect. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would ask some probing questions regarding feelings and behaviors | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but still keep an open mind | 0.00% | 1 |
| Should tell how I feel about it & let them decide | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it is harmful to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on who there dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if they feel like that person is a threat to their child or something along those lines. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but it should be respectfully divulged | 0.00% | 1 |
| Once and once only. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really just depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| there has to be a happy medium | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe, should see how it goes for awhile before deciding to say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but they need to know why and then parents need to trust them to make the right decisions and to continue to treat the bf with respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if it is just personal or out of concern. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only in abusive situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them your feelings, but let them know it is their decision. And that you will support them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You should talk to them, and let them know your feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are truly concerned that they are making a disastrous life choice, but not if it's just a matter of personality. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but in a healthy way with good communication | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends, do just don't like the partner for no good reason or is there something that they know for a fact? | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they're a perv | 0.00% | 1 |
| You should always have discussions w/your children about there friends. But you can't control how they feel or who they like. | 0.00% | 1 |
| At least make them aware of how you feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| That all depends on the relationship that the parents & child have with one another if that child is of age toake their own choices the parents should know how the kid will react so I believe the parent will know what to do tell them or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If negative, yes, just ONCE, not over and over. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should express their concerns, but let them know they can make their own choices and that you will support them regardless! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but you can't help who they fall in love with | 0.00% | 1 |
| Velit maxime eius beatae laboris quas voluptatem veniam asperiores odit sed enim non | 0.00% | 1 |
| Quidem sit iure quis sint officiis reiciendis dolorem incididunt at magni officia qui ratione magnam | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should just suggested to their kids what they think. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation! | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends, most of the time no. But if it's for safety yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the age of the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation and if the person of their choice is good to them or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no because they are putting me down on behalf of my partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You tell them you like the kid just not for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| indirectly | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can have an opinion,unless there is abuse It is your child's life to live,not yours. & It depends on the their age. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but should be able to say it is your choice and i will respact that .. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I sense danger or the partner has a whirred behavior | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation if they are just a shitty person than no but if one is being harmed than definitely | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes to some extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only stating your concerns or advice. It’s their choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child is a minor or still a dependent, then yes. But once that child is an adult and no longer a dependent then the parents have to step back. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason I don't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel it's a danger to your child in someway. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the child and the seriousness of the concern. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can do it nicely and give them a chance to explain | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if child asks | 0.00% | 1 |
| My Siblings don’t care what I have to say | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason why the parent does not like who they are dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I let my kids make their own mistakes and am there for them if all goes wrong to discuss. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how old the kids are | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think we need to put a little trust in our kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should get to know the boyfriend/gitlfriend better before they judge them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if the other kid is good or bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mine is 5 yrs old. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If children are young, say nothing. If you do ...rebellion. At The first sign of something other than a teenage crush, talk to your child. Choose your words carefully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Encourage the dater to make choices that will compliment them. How i feel about their dating choice doesnt mater .. also depends on the dater and your, relationship with ,age , etc the whole picture | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they hurting them yes say something help them get away | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell them only if it comes up for discussion or I can see a clear and present danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child was raised respectfully, just sit down with him/her and have a heart to heart talk about the situation and then go from there. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should use what they think to sort of identify to their child the possible negative or positive characteristics ok f the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should support them with positivity | 0.00% | 1 |
| In the most diplomatic/couched way possible, but yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Can express it but not act on it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but still respect their son/daughter and allow him/her the space to learn on their own. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not a parent, but its a parents duty to know who their kids are dating and what they think of them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are in a bad situation I will give my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Think they should let them ho maybe yhey will grow on u if not then mention something | 0.00% | 1 |
| Could continue with person parents don't like for spite | 0.00% | 1 |
| Try to get to know them better | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a safety issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstances and terms of the relationship with the one they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child is under 18 years of age mother should definitely tell the how they feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only advise them if needed for safety reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the question is asked, then be honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| Even if we told them, they wouldn't listen. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on your reason for not liking them. if you dont have valid reasons, then you shouldnt tell them, in my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Talk about concerns not qhether you like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is physicaly or mentaly harmful IN THAT MOMENT, other wise no it is not their desision. It probably wont last anyway if the child is that young. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is physically or mentaly harmful IN THAT MOMENT, other wise no it is not their decision. It probably wont last anyway if the child is that young. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are in harms way | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a point. If you push to much , that'll make the child wanna rebel & be with the person more | 0.00% | 1 |
| Every situation has to be evaluated on it's own merits and issues. If it's a concern of someone being harmed you have to at least address it and bring it to their attention. If you just don't like their personality you don't need to discuss that fact | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but Depending on the relationship they have. Also I feel that it shouldn’t be about partner but what the parent would like to see for their child as to not offend the partner and child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes without saying too much | 0.00% | 1 |
| That would depend on how old they are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but not in a rude way | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think every situation is different | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's a toxic relationship I would say something but if I just didn't like the person I'd keep it to myself | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it's always important to share the point of view but if the children is happy I think this is the more important thing and the kid could be sad if their parent feel this way about a person they personaly love and appreciate. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not right away...can make kids rebel | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation. If they are mistreating or doing something illegal then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how it can impact them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell only if health or safety a factor | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think we should bring to their attention if we notice something "not right" with who their dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If their life would be endangered | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if there is a safety issue of if your child is being used. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Both answers apply in this question as you want good communication skills between parent and children | 0.00% | 1 |
| I guess it just depends on the situation. Like is the parent and child really close or are they kinda like enemies. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes respectfully if think the person emotionally unhealthy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless the children asked for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they have real reasons to strongly object and are willing to lose contact with their child. It would have to be handled in a sensitive smart way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on whether the person is bad or if it’s a personality thing | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends. Is it a "don't like him" situation or more of an abusive relationship "you/the kids aren't safe"/"this dude's gonna kill you" situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Talk about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ot depends if that person is going to hurt them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the trust you have with your ofgdpring | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it all depends on the kind of relationship you have with your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason if not major and provable better to stay out of it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they think the child is dating a bad person (not if it's just based on arbitrary personal taste) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, tell them why to | 0.00% | 1 |
| If its necessary but really its the childs choice not the parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only after a while of seeing them together | 0.00% | 1 |
| It does all depend on many things,but I have learnt many things from being a parent,you just have to let them make there own choices,and sometimes mistakes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason for the dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| Consider your child's feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| we can tell our kids but not change how they feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends the age and why you don’t like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if they are not good for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what they disklike | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the kid is in danger, or if the kid asks for the parent's opionion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Well I would not be letting my child date someone I didn't trust and if I didn't trust can't like him so she or he wouldn't even be with them so I wouldn't have to tell them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it's best to let the relationship run its course | 0.00% | 1 |
| When appropriate | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not just a Yes But a Heck YES! Absolutely the job of a good parent PERIOD. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it depends on the situation and why they don’t like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, as long as their kids are happy, who cares, let them be happy with whoever they choose. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe this really depends on the circumstances. If the child's relationship is unhealthy in any way then yes, otherwise I say no | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can try, but don't expect it to go well. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of child and parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but with a few limits and tone of approach shouldn't be hurtful. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it’s a very serious concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they need to let their child know that they will still respect their decision and stand by them no matter what. Because they need to learn from their own mistakes if it didnt work out. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if they get to know them | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child is doing something or involved in something not legal | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the children. Adult children, absolutely not! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but in a respectful way and private time between the two of them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the specific situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel like there is a line that should be crossed first. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is a new thing, I would wait a bit and see if they figure it out on their own. If not, I would probably give a little nudge when there was an opening to do so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can tell them but we all know they're going to do what they have there mind set to do. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Let them know but also support their decision in what and who they want | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they see a dangerous relationship like abuse or controlling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Thy should state their opinion and leave it at that. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should not tell them if the reason they do not like them are selfish and have nothing to do with how he treats her or feels about her. As long as they aren't being hurt and they are happy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are doing bad things or being a bad influence | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, timing, and whom you deal with / what kind of child you deal with | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should talk about it but not be too serious about it if it's only casual dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but with respect. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they feel it is necessary for their kids well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if someone is in trouble or going to get hurt. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It’s ok to maybe voice a concern in a loving caring way without passing judgement. If this partner is all of a sudden got you kid doing drugs saying they are bad for them would be ok | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t think so unless the partner is emotionally or physically harming their child or if there was substance abuse issues. | 0.00% | 1 |
| As a parent have a discussion but never try to tell a child what to do if you don't want them to do it! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel like it depends on the situation. If it is harming their child in anyway then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If my child is happy and safe than its not my business. I will always be nice to who my children love | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are abusive or damaging to their life and soul. No if there is no real threat. A Example to not say anything...I dont like my sons girlfriend because of her choice a career. A Example to say something. daughter's boyfriend is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstances like age drug use of the partner or if physical,mental, or sexual abuse is being done to my child and it doesn't matter how old my child is if them 3 things are happening | 0.00% | 1 |
| It’s okay but they shouldn’t try to make them break up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Would only voice a negative opinion if there was genuine reason for dafety | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can approve or disapprove but they need to remember that it's not their choice or they are not the ones who will be living with them or marrying them. If it makes that person happy then the kids should be happy for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’m not sure. It may push them into the other person’s arms | 0.00% | 1 |
| Soft sell it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it affects their wellbeing | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are in danger or just small hints | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends. if it's by appearance then no. if it's by their behavior then they may interfere | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Let them learn | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what I don't like about the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the reason for not liking them. The way they treat the other is wrong,or there's abuse. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but do it tactfully and mostly hint | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as the child's happy keep mouth shut if child is unhappy then voice opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Give them suggestions to make them think about, if you just tell them something they do just the opposite. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation. Yes only if it is out of concern for their well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's better to stay silent and if they come to you about that person help then | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somtimes; depends on relationship with child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes just don’t expect it to change anything | 0.00% | 1 |
| If not approve discuss, Why are you interested in—- | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some circumstances they should | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but say what you have to say then that's it. Trust your Childs ability to make good choices. after all you taught them to be who they are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is negative I dont think they should in a way but they also need to be prepared for the people that dont except that you cant control who you fall in love with. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but after that they have to let it go | 0.00% | 1 |
| ONLY IF IT IS FOR THE GOOD OF YOUR CHILD | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on why they don't like them i.e., they are possessive, addicts, etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how the person they are dating treats them | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depends on the child's age and the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should tell them RESPECTFULLY, but not intrude. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation. If a parent thinks their child is in an abusive relationship then yes. The rest of the time, probably not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| All the circumstances have to be considered. Generally no, however if there is danger or a lot of risk then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they do it in a respectful manor | 0.00% | 1 |
| Rather more like opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they see harm in it | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some very dangerous situations, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should surely bring any concerns to their child`s attention. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if there is a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends, is it just a petty thing or is serious or dangerous. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should teach them safe sex, but hopefully before day you meet their lovers . I feel theywill figure itwhether you want them to or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but should not micro manage | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if dangerous or abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| That's touchy, usually no, but it's your kid so watch it closely. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how old n how much the parents are affected by the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| I do not know unless I am in that situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would give some advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Should discuss with them their choice and respect their decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm not sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| no unless they believe their child is being hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person is abusing your child in any kind of way. Mental abuse can be more harmful than physical in some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| I really don't know. I guess yeah, but it doesn't mean particularly, that it should particularly affect the kid's decision... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they should, but also respect there decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should do it in a way that will not hurt their feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if it's because of how their child is treated by the person they're dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My kids living with me have no interest in dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel that the should specify why they don’t want them dating,ex pregnancy,marriage etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on many factors (how old the child is, for example). | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have to word it carefully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the issue a d if your child is in dnger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Well if there safety is at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| Let them know you have reservations and that you love them and will be there for them no matter what. Don’t push them away by saying everything you dislike. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but in a good way and after a bit of time has passed | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you know something about them that would hurt your kids. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No. I believe that they should learn From their mistakes especially if they are old enough. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Possibly it depends on how close they are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Eventually when the child asks. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not sure kids are little | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if I'm getting bad vibes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how well you know the person they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are being harmed | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are hurting them, then yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason because most kids will end up rebelling against the parents if they try to express their dislike of their choices. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Hide and watch. They may surprise you | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are still living at home, or are under the age of 18, YES! | 0.00% | 1 |
| They may state their opinion but also respect your childs partner at the same time its not the parent who is with the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Opinions never hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| One should be open to getting to know the person before making judgments. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only when it is physically mentally or emotionally effecting their child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is an illegal or immoral issue, they might let them know. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they aren't treated right | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's concerning | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think a parent should keep the opinions limited to who their child is dating because in many cases the more u try push ur children not to like someone it sometimes backfires in ur face and the date them just to spite u | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think only if you believe they are dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but you should not insult that person but be clear about what it is specifically that concerns you about the relationship but do not try to control who they choose . They have to have room to learn and grow on their own. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they can do so without trying to change the child's mind | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child ask I think the parent should but if not keep it to themselves | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if its reasons that are selfless, such as the partner is visibly hurting your child. Even still its a delicate situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but don't pressure them into leaving that partner it will only make them want to stay with that partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Totally up to them. Unless they're absolutely abusive. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person's abusive or disrespectful then a parent should tell their child ro be careful or ro end the relationship but is still up to their child as a adult to make that decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Si veo que no es alguien que le convenga o no sea buen ser humano | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depends on the situation,. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would let my child know why I do not like that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not if they are happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is abuse ,then yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the kid and the person he/she is dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| That would depend on my relationship with my kids. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on relationship, age, personality of the kid. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| has to be a serious reason to why not liking that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| To an extent yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it’s just a parents preference they shouldn’t say anything . If they believe their kid could get purposely hurt then they should wasn’t their kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how old the child is and how far the relationship has progressed. You can force a child into a relationship just because they want to defy you, but if you are concerned for their safety then all bets are off, tell them how you feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| You have to let them figure it out on their own. I he more you tell them you don’t like that person the more they cling to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the partner is harmful to the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's your child's choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what the circumstance is and how offensive the issues are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend on if the "partner" was a toxic person who was going to hurt or traumatize, embarrass, you know to my kid. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mind your buisness | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can voice their opinion respectfully and observe from a distance but ultimately support the childs choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should discuss it with their child, not just say yes or no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how old the "kids" are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think no bc you can’t help who your heart falls for | 0.00% | 1 |
| I love my kids no matter what as long as they are happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there's a serious concern. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they shouldn’t be able to decide if they stay with them or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if asked or if there is a real danger to the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel as though we should share our experience with our children about dating and experiences and not tell them who they can and cannot see or date. | 0.00% | 1 |
| At first, no. It'll just cause issues. Pick the right time and discuss what it is you don't like | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the partner is bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending how long they were together | 0.00% | 1 |
| If one speaks then the kids just get more determined. So be tactful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but most will still do it anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just to be heard, but NOT to hijack the decision. If the person is showing abusive tendencies, one SHOULD speak up about it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I HAVENT HAD THAT ISSUE BUT ONCE MARRIED SPOUSE DENIED US AS THEIR FAMILY | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the individual and the influence they give to my child | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the quality of the familial relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think you should be honest but ressure them the choice is theirs | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I feel the person has harmful intentions or I’m seeing signs of abuse then YES | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the parent/child relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but perhaps ask them what they have in common, what they admire, what plans does the person have for their life, and if they are open, tell them your concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am a step parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Wait until they have dated for a while and see how they act first. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how you tell them because you can just show your experiences with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, by reminding your kid to observe n listen to their partner. How they are, talk and act toward or around others.....is how they are n will be toward them. Basically, help them figure negative things about partner for themselves. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Too young for it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the topic comes up u should be honest. And let it be known regardless of how u feel u still respect their choice and try to support it if you are gonna be involved in their lives. Don't make it harder by being part of the problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| Always tell them the truth, but it probably won't do any good | 0.00% | 1 |
| Indirectly--with an occasional question. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how this information will make the kid response. Depends on how good a relationship there is between the parent and the kid. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on reasons for dislike. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel the job of a parent is to voice their concern cause the child will not see any wrong doings of the person they are dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| This depends on why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but should explain why they feel that way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Personally I don't, I stay out of my kids relationships unless a man puts his hands on them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a threat to their well being that is a true and real concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| Voice your concern but it's their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the child's age, but regardless of the age chances are you will only push them closer if you disagree with their choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just suggest that they check out what YOU see is a problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, in a respectful manner, but then supporting whatever they decide | 0.00% | 1 |
| Surely depends on the situation and whether or not the reason is serious and founded on fa | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes but only if for a necessary reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think that decision is best made on a individual bases | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how their partner treats them and if we have heard anything bad about them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but politely and tactfully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if they are asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I dont think we should, but I do it anyway! | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can have an opinion though long they still act kind towards as respect for their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if their relationship is good or toxic. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it fully depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell kids qualities they don't like rather than disliking the actual person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Communication is key! Express your opinion but don't try to force it on them | 0.00% | 1 |
| As a parent I'll say it's not a should or shouldn't. That's up to said parent. And don't be blunt, have consideration towards your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if they’re a bad influence | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should very carefully voice their concerns to their child while not being pushy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I notice something out of the ordinary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but remain supportive of their child if they’re happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation at hand. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the relationship is detrimental to the person's child | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe that if they're asked their opinion they should give it but other than that no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but with a good solid reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if what I don't like about that person could end up harming my child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes. Parents have much more experience | 0.00% | 1 |
| My parents didn't care for 2 of my boyfriends, they didn't say anything, but I knew it! I think that since they didn't say anything negative to me that I figured it out on my own that these boys. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the child asks the parent for advice or an opinion and then the answer should be careful but honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only once then leave it that unless abusive is involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if the date is a negative impact or the parent is just judgmental | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if its serious | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on their relationship and level of closeness | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think she is great | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends - not my choice - protect your children | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should let them know if any kind of abuse is happening verbal or physicial | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on whether the person is, or will bring danger to the child, then the parent has an obligation to say something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend how and why | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kid is an adult, no! | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends onthe circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if that person doesn’t treat their child with respect or is abusive. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend on situation, basically we will respect her choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really all depends on the child's age and the type of relationship the child and parent have.. always be honest with each other | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it's only okay if you that person is a very "not nice" person, not just because you don't like him or her. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. You don’t want to push them together. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Excepteur ut reprehenderit quo dolores excepteur | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a promblem | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the person they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no. Depends on the circumstance. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They have the right to express their feelings/opinions but in a respectful way and not give any ultimatums | 0.00% | 1 |
| Everyone has a right to their own opinion my mom openly hates my boyfriend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it’s putting them in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on their relationship with their child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Let them figure it out. Just be there to pick up pieces | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask, yes. Otherwise, it depends on various things | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are Children then minor dating should be considered a crime by everyone for them to understand. But now a days children are watching the whole world with a click. so the answer is not about sharing how they feel .. parents should explain all. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation. If they are happy and safe leave them alone. If there are red flags, say something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would talk with them and voice my opinion about them and concerns. At the end of the day it’s there choice I have to deal with it. And pray all works out | 0.00% | 1 |
| You have to be careful. You can't tell them not to date someone but you can gently share concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can share opinion but not interfere. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends, if they ask for an honest opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on situation and age | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if your kid is in an unsafe relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| If study fee they are unsafe or in a bad relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I were to ask them I would want their honest opinion..if they just randomly told me I would not appreciate it, | 0.00% | 1 |
| A parent should tell their child always how they feel even if it does hurt them . Open honest commit is very important. | 0.00% | 1 |
| That depends if there is something negative then you should tell your child but if not then no you shouldn't | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation and why you don’t like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but let them know you still love them no matter what | 0.00% | 1 |
| DEPENDS ON THE REASON THEY ARE DISLIKED | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, unless the person is causing harm or any negative doings with or against child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if it's constructive and non offensive. But if they're just going to Bash the person it's a waste of time to voice that opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| I do not fell that a parent should have a say so the only way I agree with this is if there child is being harmed by the person that they are dateing as long as they are being taken care of and treated right the heart wants what the heart wants | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if the child is under 18 the parents wisdom can be helpfull | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would check in on their actions and overall happiness | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe they should speak up if that significant other is doing something wrong. | 0.00% | 1 |
| "Don't share your "dislike", let them know you trust their judgment, & share a few things you've noticed about the person (if you think they're dishonest/disloyal) then let them make their own decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| As a parent you have to support your child's happiness, if there comes a time that your child's partner becomes abusive and or controlling then yes you should speak up right away | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| as long as they are honest about what the parent dislikes about the boy/girl friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they know something that may cause harm to the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| All depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| NOT REALLY, ESPECIALLY IF THE KID IS A TEENAGER | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but politely in a way that won't create a problem. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reason they don't like who their dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but only as a last resort and will actually make a difference. Otherwise you could have opposite outcome and alienate. Plus they need to figure it out on their own. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have when my 19 was alive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's for a legitimate reason if the child's physical or mental safety is at risk. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation. If there is no good reason, then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| That's a delicate dance, safety issue or misc messy unknown type situations that requires a parent to prioritize, pick their battles and do whatthwy feel is best per players and reasons involved. Sticky situation Iwity my eldest couple years back, i | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if it is due to their treatment of the partner or others | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can express concerns, but have facts to back it up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Possibly. It depends on the child, it's receptiveness to your opinion, and the situation as a whole. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on whether you are asked, and at what stage the relationship is at. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think that if you’re child is dating someone who has the potential to be dangerous, then you should have a long talk with your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes without being rude and giving child the support they need | 0.00% | 1 |
| She should not allow dating while under their roof | 0.00% | 1 |
| YES IF THEY ARE RIGHT ABOUT IT | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| LOTS OF FACTORS PLAY INTO THIS; AGE OF BOTH PARTIES | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but still try to be nice to them and hope for the best. if you say you dont like em they will stay. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I wouldn’t say that you should tell them you don’t like them but you don’t care for the way that they treat your child | 0.00% | 1 |
| With complete care | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they know of or seriously suspect criminality or potential abuse, then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If you know something about them or see that they are putting out negative actions towards your kid then absolutely yes you have to say or possibly do something to end the relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends , but they won't listen either way | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the area of worry | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they sense that the person can be abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| If their abusive then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if a young child, no if it's a grown child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on concerns or reasons patent doesn’t like the child’s partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends why you don’t like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| i dont get involved in there personal issues | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and let them know that if thats what they choose you will support there decision but... | 0.00% | 1 |
| No. You should offer your opinion but don't flat out lose their trust by telling them to leave a person you dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should let their kids know but it not there right to choose. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Eiusmod cupiditate laboris sed aut amet saepe accusamus do | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the family member | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you feel like your child is at risk of harm | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but do it respectfully | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they have a rebellion on their hands -no or act like you like them and the children will get rid of them unless they’ve cought on. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it depends on the relationship between the parents and the children | 0.00% | 1 |
| They could suggest something as opposed to telling them directly | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is a credible danger to the child, yes. Otherwise zip your lip | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tout dépendant de la manière dont cette personne traite mon enfant. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend if there was extreme differances | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but know they are still gonna do whatever they want! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I say yes but parents should still respect boundaries and not interfere. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the relationship concerns them to a point | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should be understanding and trust their instincts | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if still under 18. If older, only if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| I say yes but it’s all about how they say it and the explanation or reasoning behind it. Now that does not mean room for disrespect is in order but as a parent they should be able to express how they feel, it’s all about respect. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes indirectly | 0.00% | 1 |
| ask them if you can | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Can't be judgemental but I would tell them what I feel once | 0.00% | 1 |
| If a parent sees their child being abused by the one they are dating, then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not that they don't like them, but calmly tell that there are things about the relationship that concern them- | 0.00% | 1 |
| All depends every case is difrent then the next | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no. Speak once or twice. That’s it! If there is harm absolutely!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tricky I think they should not sure the outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell them the opposite. Teens love to rebel | 0.00% | 1 |
| he | 0.00% | 1 |
| If its a daughter, absolutely not! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just as a point raised but not as an order as to who to or not to date | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are abusive and/or a very valid reason to not like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on their age. If in teens to twenty I think the parent should . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Discuss feelings and reasons for. Maybe both will learn something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if it's a bad relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstances around the relationship, if its healthy leave them alone, | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes with explanation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just talk with them, not tell them, because some will take it the wrong way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not unless something reasonable happens that a parent NEEDS to voice their opinions | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they notice something bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends - if the parent has a valid concern then maybe they should talk to thekr kids but otherwise parents should be supportive no matter what and offer advice when the child asks for it | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person they are dating is a terrible person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no because sometimes if you tell your children you don't like someone they're dating they stay with them at a spike | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. If theyre a douche, yes, but if its just a guy, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation, i.e bad vib about the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Wait because hopefully they will figure it out on their own. If u tell them u don't like the person they will probably stay with them longer! | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reason they don't like the person. If it is just a personality conflict, they should stay quiet. If, however, the person is a criminal or an abuser or something like that, they should speak up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| looks are enough | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on their age, if they live at home, if the other person is dangerous... Etc.. etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| DEPENDS ON THE SITUATION AND THE PERSON | 0.00% | 1 |
| IT DEPENDS ON THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends because some people just don't want to see you happy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| At the right time, and with the right tone | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what is disliked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think if it’s a valid reason then it is worth bringing up in a respectful manner to voice concerns however, respect boundaries always and support then no matter what | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’m not a parent but still strongly say yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends why the parent doesn't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends the age | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is rather important to have these discussions much earlier in life. Waiting until a choice is made by a child will most likely result in division. We do need to be there for them no matter the choices they make. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Respectfully but share opjnion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not sure, You may get rejected. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you think partner is dangerous, like controlling, abusive, etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Possibly | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not unless their child is being abused | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the partner seems dangerous in some way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason why they don't like that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there are extenuating circumstances or if invited to give an opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's for their safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| Raising concerns is fine, just disliking them in general is not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It seriously depends on how that partner acts towards their kids and the relationship with the parents & if babies are involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I feel the partner is negatively affecting my sibling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reason one does not like the date. Are they a criminal? Ongoing abuse? Personality clash? | 0.00% | 1 |
| its okay to say just dont push | 0.00% | 1 |
| Dolor quibusdam ut eveniet sunt blanditiis nihil et soluta quod rerum sed aliquam | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can voice a slight comment but not a conclusive view. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are willing to take the time to explain why, and also listen to what their children have to say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Si le conjoint de la personne est dangereux pour mon enfant absolument oui. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the relationship between the parent and child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes with an explanation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation. Ex. If the getting controlled unwillingly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should discuss with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as they have an understanding of each other and it doesn't make a distance between them | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’m a child( young adult/older teen almost adult and I feel like a parent should if they have a really bad feeling of not likeing the partner of their kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how they vibe as a couple. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Totally depends on the age of the kid, are we talking 15 or 30 ? | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. If it's because of a safety concern (the parent thinks the partner is abusive) then it must be discussed. If the partner is safe but the parent just doesn't like them for personal or irrelevant issues, they should not voice concern. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends. I think they shouldn't put down or be negative. But an open honest healthy relationship you can express your feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Discuss - Don't just tell - Give reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the partner is an abuser or etc.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes. But only once or twice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sa d pens du contexte | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes, it depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstances. If there is just something about them that doesn t click, keep it to yourself. If there is a serious fault like you saw them out somewhere cheating, tell your child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the why and what? | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on your child and if they are likely to cling tighter to that person if you say anything. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If all adults, only if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes in a respectful way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Wait for a while and see how it develops. Your child and/or you might see a different way forward ! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell but use wisdom | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell them your concerns,worries | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend on how band it is... | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the child, approach and reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are effecting the life of their childs relationship with the parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| Really depends. If it's simply that the parent doesn't like the date's preferences and style, then no. If there is serious concern that the date could actually harm the child, then definitely yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends talk about feeling and support much can. they can make choices aware what conqusence they made. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Oui, mais brillamment sans vexer votre enfant. | 0.00% | 1 |
| tough question - I think it is dependent on how/why the parent is doing it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe. This really depends on why you do not like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are in a dangerous situation yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My children are too young for dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| difficile | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe if it's a bad enough opinion but in a polite way | 0.00% | 1 |
| It doesnt matter. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, with a caveat of until they indicate that they suggest that they are serious about lifelong relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| cautiously and if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes with kindness, and understanding. | 0.00% | 1 |
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Should kids tell their parent how they feel about who their parent is dating? Yes
74%
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75857 votes
No
14%
•
14223 votes
Not applicable
11%
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11491 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
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1517 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.16% | 164 | |
| depends | 0.04% | 42 |
| depends on the situation | 0.02% | 25 |
| same as above | 0.02% | 21 |
| it depends | 0.02% | 17 |
| depends on situation | 0.01% | 12 |
| only if asked | 0.01% | 10 |
| sometimes | 0.01% | 10 |
| it depends on the situation | 0.01% | 8 |
| depends on the reason | 0.01% | 7 |
| it depends on the situation. | 0.01% | 6 |
| depends on age of child | 0.00% | 5 |
| undecided | 0.00% | 5 |
| not sure | 0.00% | 5 |
| depending on the situation | 0.00% | 5 |
| no comment | 0.00% | 4 |
| it depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 4 |
| na | 0.00% | 4 |
| depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 4 |
| if asked | 0.00% | 4 |
| depends on age | 0.00% | 4 |
| Depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 4 |
| n/a | 0.00% | 3 |
| if they want to | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on circumstances | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on the age of the kids | 0.00% | 3 |
| it depends. | 0.00% | 3 |
| in some cases | 0.00% | 3 |
| yes but respectfully | 0.00% | 3 |
| Same answer as above | 0.00% | 3 |
| sometimes. | 0.00% | 2 |
| when asked | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the age of the child | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on age of the child | 0.00% | 2 |
| in certain situations | 0.00% | 2 |
| it depends on the reason | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on why they dont like them | 0.00% | 2 |
| as above | 0.00% | 2 |
| maybe | 0.00% | 2 |
| if they are abusive | 0.00% | 2 |
| again, it depends. | 0.00% | 2 |
| not unless asked | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on age of children | 0.00% | 2 |
| to a point | 0.00% | 2 |
| i don't know. | 0.00% | 2 |
| it depends on the age of the children. | 0.00% | 2 |
| All depends | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on how old the kids are | 0.00% | 2 |
| Yes, If it's concerning their safety | 0.00% | 2 |
| If there is a problem yes | 0.00% | 2 |
| Depends on age of kids | 0.00% | 2 |
| yes, but not to try to change their parents' minds | 0.00% | 2 |
| Yes and no | 0.00% | 2 |
| Depends on if there kids or if there violet | 0.00% | 2 |
| Yes | 0.00% | 2 |
| They can tell you what they think of them but you will do what you feel is right for you | 0.00% | 2 |
| Depends on the reasons | 0.00% | 2 |
| see above | 0.00% | 1 |
| well, odds are the parent's going to need to deal with it sooner or later... | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, kids should just shut up and bring back under-aged teenagers for me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only if there are serious concerns about them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the issues. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i believe that they should tell them if they really like the person, and if something is wrong and there is quite and issue coming from the person they are dating, it would probably be a good idea to tell your parents about it. otherwise, i would wait unt | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the parent is done having kids, and the kids are out of the house, then i don't see it necessary. the parent is fulfilling their own needs at that point. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, same as above! | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if the person they are dating is doing harmful or inapproprite things | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is a bad person | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no according to circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| idk | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends the same way | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| once again, there is a way to do this. | 0.00% | 1 |
| good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| r | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends. is the parent dating an axe murderer? | 0.00% | 1 |
| 0.00% | 1 | |
| it depends on the parent-child dynamic. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only if they are sure it isn't negativity due to the date being with someone other than their other parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they still live at home | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is concerning the relationship between child and dating partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the age of the child, if the child is young their feelings are very important as this person will be there to possibly help raise them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think kids should get to at least express their feelings or concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| i wouldn't want to make my hypothetical children too uncomfortable, but i can't say i'd want them to drive my relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it isn't over jealousy or "ruins chance of parental reconciliation" | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on age of "child" | 0.00% | 1 |
| as above, depends on reason if serious or just simple doesn't care for | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if someone's safety is jeopardized | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would hope so | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation. if they are in a dangerous situation, yes. if it's just a personality thing they should try to work it out. if it really persists they can mention it - but don't force the issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it involves something dangorous or illegal | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked or if kid has a serious concern. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is done respectfully and for reasons of mistreatment of the parent or children | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if they're abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but with respect that leads to a healthy understanding | 0.00% | 1 |
| if done respectfully | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure...depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| if an underage child yes, if one who has moved out over 21 no | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should have an open honest discussion and then the child should accept the parent's decision unless the child is in danger from the parent's "friend" | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, just so the parent is aware. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have concerns or don't feel comfortable around this person for some reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the kids' ages | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, there should be open communication, but no judgement | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they have legitimate concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it's necessary due to danger or infidelity type issues the parent is unaware of | 0.00% | 1 |
| they do who cares | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as before, honesty is always the best policy | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but they should leave it to their parents decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but agin children shuld also know there parents may not agree. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and the type of person the parent is dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| see above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it should be disgust | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the partner is doing something really wrong ,yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but wth discression | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person their parent is dating may be involved in their life and may lead to an unwanted rift between parent and child | 0.00% | 1 |
| i feel it maybe nice to hear what your children are thinking | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should speak their opinion but not ever force it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends--is the person abusive to them and mom needs to know? | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should be able to voice their opinion but not force them to break up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as above, depends if there is a cause for concern or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| this depends on how extremely one dislikes them and how serious the relationship is becoming | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, politely. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes & why but then it should be dropped | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the children are living at home, then yes, just for the fact that there's a possibility that the parent and his/her partner might move in together. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if child is teen or younger. if they are out of the house and in their 20,s then it is none of their business (this does not apply to abusive relationships) | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason they dont like the person dating their parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes with explanation why ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes. kindly explain why not.. keep communication open. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the complaint is serious, i.e. the child does not feel safe around the parent's partner. not simply for small personal preferences. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the childs age | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can always reason but finally the choice is the parents and so is the life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it all depends on their age and only giving opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the parent is in danger or the child is in danger from the other person | 0.00% | 1 |
| same let them know any issues they have but a parent is grown and they deserve to be happy as well | 0.00% | 1 |
| for exactly the same reason as above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are over 16 years of age | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they ask or if that person is a danger to the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| likewise | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, gently but still support their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| same applies here. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i was widowed at 36, so dated lots of men until i married at 59. little kids loved them all. teenagers hated them all, so i do not think the child's opinion counts for too much. | 0.00% | 1 |
| ye. they can't make them break up, but they can relay their feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| that really depends on the reason for not like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how old they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they still live with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if their safety is in jeopardy | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why they are telling them | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe just make a comment .. | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe, depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their relationship and the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, if it's a safety issue (abusive relationship, etc.) | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there is personal safety involved then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person is dangerous or hurtful | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends. if they think this person is a legitimately bad person, is harmful to their parent, or harmful to themselves/others, then yes. if it is simply personal disagreements, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is a life or death thing. if their partner is a drug addict or is abusing them. other wise no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if significant objective issues. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if kids are under 18 and will have to live with the person and if their objection is more than i just do not like them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the kids have a good reason... like they are mean or not trust worthy | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they know something or have a bad feeling about that person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the ages of the parent and child | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the circumstance. | 0.00% | 1 |
| well, if that uncomfortable try t figure something out with parents or else let them be happy and try to like the other | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are minor children living in the parent's home, they have a right to their opinion being heard. otherwise, not unless they are aware of dangerous or illegal behaviours. | 0.00% | 1 |
| the child should discuss their concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend upon the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| the suggestions may apply. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as above, or unless asked by the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| kids are not the adult but can tell parents if like or not who dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| within reason, if there's something truly wrong with the person that they're dating or if the kids are being made uncomfortable. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on age and what is happening | 0.00% | 1 |
| dependsonthe age of the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if the child (ren) have reasonable. cause to inform the parent . | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how strongly they feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| same reasons apply as listed above | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes just because the child has to deal with there mom/dads girlfriend/boyfriend | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some situations, yes. if it is affecting their well being, i think it is necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are underage and have some stake in the relationship, or if there are safety concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what it is they don't like and how serious an issue that is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| love important | 0.00% | 1 |
| if asked and then the child would of had to be taught earlier in life respect and boundaries and happiness, etc. linking topics on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| within reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| if still at home and causes peoblems - yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if they do it in a kind manner | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends of situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the situation is dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age.sometimes small children see a lot than | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is a problem that affects the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if its serious | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel for certain that they will do harm to their parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| not adult children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the childs age i suppose | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but in a respectful manner they should atleast think the parent wouldnt date that person if he/she didnt like em | 0.00% | 1 |
| bs | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| adults decide | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if is for there safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless the person seems really harmful to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if someone is getting hurt, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a legitimate reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends - on the feelings, the relative ages.etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if parent wants advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is being abusive or cruel | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if kids feel any safety concern. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't have parents living | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on if that person has done something to offend or wrong the children | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they don't want to see their parents hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| they have an opinion, which can be taken into consideration, yet it's ultimately the parent's decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can express their decisions, but unless they are being used or abused, they have no decisions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what the parent discloses about the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when it begins to affect their lives directly or if they are asked their opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| they do | 0.00% | 1 |
| for a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| again it depends f the children are youg and living in the homr | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| if being hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the circumstances... | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they live in the same place, sure. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, keep lines of communication open! | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's causing a strain on the family relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending the seriousness of the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but let them decide with who they want to be, it's call respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what they know about them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only once | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should have the right to tell their parent how they feel but if the parent is happy, they need to respect it | 0.00% | 1 |
| too many factors to generalize. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they notice them being treated bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it poses a danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends upon the reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some cases yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is in the parent's best interest and not out of spite | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the parent asks them to. | 0.00% | 1 |
| positive respectful feedback | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they still live at home and it negatively affects them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the children are you, as the couple may get married, adult children are not *as* affected by the marriage. | 0.00% | 1 |
| parents should encourage "positive" input from their children regarding parental relationships. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the child's age. if they are grown no | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| feelings should always be expressed so that communication is always open | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes,they should always be honest with their parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| once again it depends on the child and if they really have a grip on reality and not just stuck in what they want,,, logic would need to be in the mix | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reason why they don't like the person. is it for safety reasons..or just a personal dis-like. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as the above | 0.00% | 1 |
| kids need to be honest and truthful | 0.00% | 1 |
| also depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depend on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are asked for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| every child has the right to feel to do anything, if only they are socially acceptable | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but tell them why and be accepting anyway if safety, etc are not involved. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they live with said parent, i think they have a right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i feel uncomfortable with them around my family. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reason why they do or dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| its not their business unless that person is ruining their lives | 0.00% | 1 |
| in certain cause, yes. otherwise, not their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but it isn't easy | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the how they voice their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| safety concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the she of the children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it affects the family or is asked, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are young enough to be living with the new partner and they feel in danger around the new partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some cases, honesty is best | 0.00% | 1 |
| my same reason as above | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, and if the kids have legitimate concerns, the parents should at least take them into consideration. kids have to live with the decisions their parents make (literally, if a parent marries a jerk, the kids have to live with him/her) | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but only be supportive of therir decission | 0.00% | 1 |
| sure.....again with empathy and diplomacy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they think it will make a difference | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are still living with that parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child is in danger or uncomfortable because of something the boy/girl friend said or did to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age or the child, adult no, youth yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the children are under 18 dam rights! | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is mistreatment occurring | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless there is a genuine concern of abuse. | 0.00% | 1 |
| don't know | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes... kids are usually good at making assessments of character | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there is a serious issue yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, without being demanding or rude | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if their parent's new partner is believed to somehow be harmful. otherwise, it's none of your business as long as they are happy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but in a constructive manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation too | 0.00% | 1 |
| in a good way | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the circumstances. if the child is young and not understanding about the absence of their other parent then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| mention it and forget it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but gently and leaving the door open for feedback | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| don't have kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| ask questions to raise concern in child's own mind | 0.00% | 1 |
| they have their right to give their opinion, but not to judge the relationship based on how they feel about that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a real concern involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the age of the children invloved | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it helps them all to get along | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on age and other factors | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the parent is in a destructive relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| express concerns ask them to be careful carry mase. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, it depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| only, if they are old enough to understand and are concerned how the other one is treating them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the kids live at home they should have some input, but it's not really their business if they are grown & living on their own. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if something bad happens | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends whether the partner is abusive or mean | 0.00% | 1 |
| if children are still living at home it would have more of an impact. | 0.00% | 1 |
| ñlm | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes same as i states above on last answer | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can, not "should" | 0.00% | 1 |
| m,nj | 0.00% | 1 |
| i want to say yes, but i never have... still want to though | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it effects the relartionship with the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can express how they feel but after that really it is the parent's decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they have a right to an opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they feel that person could be a user etc.. they should say they are worried about it once to the parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| again depends on the situation - if the person they are dating is emotionally, physically abusive towards the parent or child then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think they should tell them, but not push them or directly tell them not to date them. they need to be gentle. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes,only if the kids are still children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are adults no. if they are still young,they should tell us. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but respect their choice, it is their life and their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have a reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they know something about them that could be harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reasoning | 0.00% | 1 |
| 5 | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if you uncover some truths/feedback on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person there parent is seeing gives them a reason or if the parent asks. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it can be done in a loving and supportive way | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the parent asks or the child suspects danger. | 0.00% | 1 |
| this is dependent on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but again it is their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but delcately | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes for sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no yes because it's their parent and if they get married then the kid should like their stepdad no because if your parent is dating they should be able to like the person that they want to date | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but in the end it is still parents decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| communication needs to be open | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's a casual relationship no | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on if the person is bad for the parent or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can but it's not important because the kids are not in control of their parents' lives | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they present some kind of danger to their parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless it's a safety issue. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if a matter of health or safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the displeasure is with something that can or may hurt the child/parent. if it is just a difference in attitudes and opinions they should not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the parent asks the child what they think | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked or dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's up to the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends if they are underage or not. yes if they are underage. no if they are independed adults that can move out. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, becasue i am dating someone my kids don't like, i want to know so i can dump them. if my kids don;t like him, then he is not for me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i beleive they should unless its a dislike because of race | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the ago of the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in as much as it keeps the kids assured that that they can always talk to their parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| should always ask the kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think that they should tell them in order to open op communication about this new person that is now hanging around the family. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child still lives at home | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the parents are seperated and dating i could see this acceptable | 0.00% | 1 |
| with an explanation of why, yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the parent asks | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe they should explain what it is that they don't like | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends. if you notice that the relationship is bad then tell him/her. if not respect your parent who is finding a new mate. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they were harmed by that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| they can give their thoughts and let me still decided if i will continue dating this person | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the children are youngsters, i think they will speak up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the kid, ie is the kid still living at home with parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why they don't like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on situation they are in | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, depends. ultimately, and adult has to make the descision, but i would think they'd want child's input. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, especially if the parent is engaged or looking at marriage | 0.00% | 1 |
| they have a right to their feelings but ultimately it's the parents decision & they should make a decision that would be good for all of them | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they suspect abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is affecting their relationship. they see it's hurting their parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| parents and their children should communicate. however, in this scenario a parent needs to know "when to draw the line." | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should give opinion but look at pros n cons | 0.00% | 1 |
| parents should not date | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless there has been inappropriate behavior on the part of the new person | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they ask your opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the child knows something the parent does not then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel their parent's partner is potentially harmful to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| of course ! | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are privy to information that really should be shared..eg, date is a pedophile | 0.00% | 1 |
| same goes. in a productive way but not to expect it to change anything | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a danger, like if the person is psychotic | 0.00% | 1 |
| if a conversation is brought up about it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no but most of them probably do anyways in todays society | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the person the parent is dating is harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person is not good news... | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, just in a kind way | 0.00% | 1 |
| it is a fair exchange. if the kids talk and love them then there is room to be made welcome !!! otherwise no. children should *understand = and should be seen and not heard. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless there are serious concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if the person is a jekyll and hyde | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the other is abusive towards them | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, unless there is abuse, tolerate the person and hope your parent figures it out | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they didn't then there may end up being a lot of problems, yes parents need to be happy but if they don't treat the kids good then good bye your "out" | 0.00% | 1 |
| unknown speicy | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the kids still live in the house, then yes they get a say. if they are adults then, no, | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when there are obvious negatives | 0.00% | 1 |
| ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as for last question remember we all have a wealth of unique personal opinions that should be heard but never forced onto another | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes i believe children should voice their opinion espically if they were there before the relationship started | 0.00% | 1 |
| if its going to effect them | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes respectfully | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if who they are seeing is actually a bad person, not on any bias beliefs | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but they should also understand they don't really get a say | 0.00% | 1 |
| regarding situation, but i never forget a person act on his own at the end, so i consider more important to keep a relation than tell maybe a truth but that same truth may burn the bridge btw | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are not who they present themselves to their partner compared to how they are around their children | 0.00% | 1 |
| s.a.a. | 0.00% | 1 |
| as above i think they will pick up on the fact that their spouse is not popular | 0.00% | 1 |
| how old are the kids? | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how involved the relationship becomes | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on age of children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if children do say will their parents think | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, they should especially if they are alone with their parent's date and they see something negative | 0.00% | 1 |
| why | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person is impacting the kids or parent negatively/unhealthily | 0.00% | 1 |
| when it starts to effect your parent yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on your relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same reason as above | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends how bad they are.... | 0.00% | 1 |
| to a certain extent a child should be allowed to express his feelings regarding a parents relationship, but the child must remain polite and civil and respectful of an adult. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you are truly concerned for their health/safety then bring it up. otherwise, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends entirely on the situation. if the child feels threatened or intruded upon by their parents spouse then yes. if it is a personality clash then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| al! depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| answer as above | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person makes them uncomfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| okay to tell them but they should decide for themselves | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked, and then with respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they suspect abuse of some sort | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation. i would tread lightly out of respect. | 0.00% | 1 |
| see above's answer | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are old enough and if it effects them directly | 0.00% | 1 |
| same concept bit the patent might want to listen more closely | 0.00% | 1 |
| again it dependes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's out of respect and if it's out of deep concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's none of their business who a parent dates | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them what you like and don't like about the partner or spouse but let them decide who to date | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on what is going on in the relationship and how the parent is being treated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how old the kids are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on parent/child relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on whether there is a verifiable reason why you do not like them and the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| i feel the same about this. i think parents need to listen to their children and let them know they have been heard but ultimately it is the adults decision. unless of course the child is being abused in some way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends how old they are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the person creates potential danger to your family member. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on cituation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if due to serious issue like abuse etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no because they might sence something that might not be right with the other person | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe to a certain extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person is dangerous or harmful in some way than yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the importance of information | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are children yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's an issue of safety or well-being, then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child(ren) are young and the date could become a parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| AgainTo a degree yes, but it's still their choice and you need to respect that unless it's an issue of safety. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kids should not even know that the parent IS dating till much later,then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person their parents are dating is abusive and neglectful then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Varies on alot of things and if they are adults. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they should allow the parent the choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their age | 0.00% | 1 |
| Proof | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same answer. If they ask and can handle answer | 0.00% | 1 |
| The kids should be over 16 before telling their parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| If your child asks you. ..then of course | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, yes, a long as there is tolerance. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's an abusive relationship or something like that | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends.. if they are uncomfortable then absolutely | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but remember your parent is a adult | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are asked for their feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked you should be kind but honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just state opinion respectfully, don't demand a separation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child and the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, I want a united family, if my kids don't like who I'm dating it may def cause problems. | 0.00% | 1 |
| that depends on if the person the parent is dating did something to the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only as nessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Talk to parent in private. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on the person that we are with | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the child knows something that may harm the parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell but don't be mean | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on age and maturity level | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a really good relationshilp where no one will get hurt feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they feel comfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, unless they know something detrimental about the relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| situation dependant | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but only if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| They have to respectfully express their feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are not married yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kids is going to be raised by this new parent, yes. If they live independant of them, then it depends on their relationship to their parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it makes your parent happy who they're with then just be happy for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no be supportive unless the person is dangerous then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as above answer. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child, and how mature the child is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on their relationship with their parents. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are adults, but sometimes their own personal judgment is due to a comptetion between parent and child | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes especially if parents just went through a divorce | 0.00% | 1 |
| their feelings should always be considered | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, with caution | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they truly feel that the person might actually cause harm | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it would be something the parent would be unaware of | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the kids are underage | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on teh relationship and how everyone is getting along. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person is or appears to be unsafe | 0.00% | 1 |
| They have an opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are living with the parent, they should politely tell | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how old the child is; if your 5 year old son is uncomfortable with your new girlfriend vs your 30 yr old son | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the kids and the family situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no depending on how they are treated | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's not definite. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as above They certainly have a right to their opinion but it should be understood that regardless of the persons personal feelings they should respect their parents decision to see this individual | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same answer as above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe its important to understand what your child feels | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes again I feel that parents and children should be honest with each other, and as a parent, one has to be sure their new partner is loving and accepting of the children; children still need to respect their parents' choices. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why you do not like them. If abusive, yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, again with the open communication but the understanding needs to be there that the child should not force their opinion on the parent as well. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if there are serious problems | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they can prove that the person they are dating is someone that cannot be totally trusted or has harmed them in any way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if abuse is witnessed/suspected | 0.00% | 1 |
| This is a grey area, dependant on the type of relationship you have | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes so so same if a parent is telling a child | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are mature enough to think rationally | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends age of child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on all circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, only if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| A child should step in and share feelings if the person their parent is dating is mentally or physically abusive. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, depends on who it is, generally, yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but they should be honest about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| some what | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but with explanation if it's bad. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes.if the other person they are dateing is treating the children bad then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| 50/50 on the first two answers. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should discuss their apprehensions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if thry want to | 0.00% | 1 |
| AGAIN,MAKE YOUR FEELINGS KNOWN,BUT BE WILLING TO TALK ABOUT IT. | 0.00% | 1 |
| perhaps in extreme cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the circumstances. If the person the parent is dating is treating the kid badly behind the parent's back, then yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't know. Very hard question. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would say the same as the above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on child or children's age | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have an open discussion before getting in too deep. Find out what they think | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't think kids know any better than too. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Within reason. If you have a good reason to not like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same thing -- depends in the kind problem the person he/she is dating has, and whether the child's us still young enough to live at home with this prospective step-parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they find out that the person is shady | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it was a danger to the child or parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes. In a respectful manner | 0.00% | 1 |
| It could go both ways can't decide | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless they feel something is not right | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's important to have lots of communication with your children. Do not however let them run your life. You are the adult | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are asked for their opinion or if the child feels the parent is in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, if relationship is possibly abusive or the kid(s) are in harm's way in any shape or form! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes cause this is a two way relationship it's like looking out not seeing instead of being outside looking in cause sometimes everyone over looks things it's sad but true so yes if ur child doesn't approve u need to find out way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but explain why | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it affects the child in some way, yes, especially if it's in a very good or very bad way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are still living at home and/or under age. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Having a respectful conversation with their parent is a good thing, it gives both parent & child time to talk about how they feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| never mattered | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again if they are hurting or decieving them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they feel the need. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same here if they are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation & age of children | 0.00% | 1 |
| its not up to the kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| If my son sees me getting hurt in some way. I would never be offended at him telling me his opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, and why they feel that way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same thing, show respect to one another | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as previous answer | 0.00% | 1 |
| Circumstances vary | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes as i depends om tomush | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't believe in hiding true feelings and leading someone to have false beliefs that I care for or like them but I'm also a firm believer that it's their life and until it truly effects me it's not my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| No idea | 0.00% | 1 |
| Children should always be able to talk openly to their parents and their own feeltand thoughts should be shared. If a child is honest, maybe they are sensitive to what the parent is missing in a relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Once, that's it. Unless the parent is being physically or emotionally abused. Or they know something about the partner that needs to be said. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the age and maturity of the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no.its like a maybe | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation or if the child is being honest about his/her feelings or just trying to destroy the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, they should discuss any issues..but it is ultimately the parent who makes the decision of who to date | 0.00% | 1 |
| Children should ask their parents to speak to their parents, guardian, grandparents, and anyone they can trust about everything that concerns them, but respect the decision of the parent who is dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the parent is in a potentially emotionally or physically threatening relationship, or if the child is being mistreated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| At times | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are being mean to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the child/parent relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if it involves the child's future it would be best to talk and understand the situation better | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. If kids are concerned for their parent's safety, or if they know something that the parent doesn't know, then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but respectfully with solid examples of why. | 0.00% | 1 |
| With stlye | 0.00% | 1 |
| Saying that interferes interferes with your health and well-being yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel uneasy about them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the circumstances but children should always be able to confide in their parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes. they both should be able to freely communicate w the other | 0.00% | 1 |
| if is applicable to tell them then they can tell them but in a respectfully way so the parents can listen to them and work on the're opinion or advises | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes as long as it's not an irrational temper tantrum. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Probably would not o any good. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Possibly...if it is a bad situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It should only matter if the child is still a minor and lives at home with the parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if living at home | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if they know of somrthing the parent should know about | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if the child still lives at home with parent. Or if child thinks this person will put there parent in a harmful situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, this depends on a lot of different factors. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it involves abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, it depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but with respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel the relationship threatens someone's wellbeing. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Possibly, it depends on if the child has to live with them, like I would have to! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I will tell you if I Don't like you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kid knows things that the parent isn't seeing, yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the ages and many other things | 0.00% | 1 |
| Parents have been married my entire life but if either parent was dating I would tell them how I feel about that. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how serious the failings of the person are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If that person makes them feel unsafe or endangered yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the SO is harmful to the child in some way then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kids should be respectful to the parent they are talking to, even if they don't like the other person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only in extreme circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes..my new partner needs to fit into my life I have not be an upset..they may have an opinion I may be glad they gave which could be fixed but my children have been with me since day one and I want them to enjoy who i choose. | 0.00% | 1 |
| express some concerns, but not 'don't like' | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if its for their safety. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should mention the concerns once and then butt out- unless they are legitimate concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would prefer "is it ok..." | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kid don't like the parents boyfriend or girlfriend than the parent shouldn't be with the other person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person dated has attempted something inappropriate-Absolutely. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Too many variables | 0.00% | 1 |
| Totally depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if they see alternativel motives | 0.00% | 1 |
| See answer for previous question. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kids are young enough to still be in the home, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but should also respect their feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| That depends on age of children. If minors they should have major say in whom parent dates. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| For sure! Both my parents remarried and I don't like either one of my stepparents!! Be ready for disappointment when they don't listen, I had too! | 0.00% | 1 |
| In a respectful manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, with respect for their parents decisions despite the children's opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if you feel they are dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is not solely based on personal opinion, but on facts. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if they are still young and at home. If the kids and the person you are dating you should not continue the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are mistreating them by abusive talk or are hurting them in any way shape or form. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be honest, but allow them to make their own decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Been with same person for 6 years n 3months. Kids r happy n fine. Guess just depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if young child | 0.00% | 1 |
| If its harmful relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if that person is harming the child physically or emotionally | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes a child should have their parent know how they feel if they don't like the person their parent is dating but at the end of the day it's the Parents Choice who they are with and not the child's | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if the person the parent is dating treats the kid poorly etc | 0.00% | 1 |
| if violence or cheating is occuring | 0.00% | 1 |
| No. At no point should your date be discuss with your children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not as long as they see their parents happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but it should be valid reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometime | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes to a certain extent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doent matter if i am or not my mouth speaks for its self no filter and no fibs | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's important to talk about it, but not in an accusatory way | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on age of child and whether or not person is a danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked or are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes because i would choose my kids over any man | 0.00% | 1 |
| In a polite way and depends of the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if the child lives I the home and what age the child is | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's up to the individual. He/she has to determine if the parent will be welcoming to such a move by the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Discuss it and issues pertaining | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but respectfully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the age of the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they live at home, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the parent asks for the kid's opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Honesty with kindness | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as previous. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but only in a caring, respectful way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| To an extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, only if the person they are dating is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Perhaps giving as a personal view, as they might be wrong | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no. Again, it depends on the reasoning behind their thoughts. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes,visa versa as the parent question. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only is parent asks | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what the reason is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, only if the person they are dating is involved in criminal activity. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if it's conflictual | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them how you feel but dont have to keep going on where its uncomfortable for all | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if the children are underage and still living at home or children at any age if issues arise (abuse etc.) | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they have good reasons for it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Nothing in life is simply black or white. Shades of grey are made by X Factors we can't always account for when daring to answer questions in absolutes | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the age and how they're saying it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It can be discussed, but understood, that the parent had final say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless it effects the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again only if the air is clear and no problems (abuse) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are minors. It isn’t good for a person’s mental health to have to deal with someone they hate every day | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes while being loving n respectful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if the person is being mean or reacting bad towards them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should to a certain extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the kids and how the choice impacts them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asks for your opinion should it be given | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are going to be living in the same home or be forced to spend a significant amount of time with that person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes if it's good of course but if it's bad and that other isn't treating your child right then say something | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not in an angry, judgemental way--this is your parents. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes as long as both parties have an open mind and pass no judgements or resentments over their opinions | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should say whether they like them or not and why, but know that they do not make decisions for adults, especially relationships. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they get a bad feeling | 0.00% | 1 |
| And discuss the reasons why | 0.00% | 1 |
| depening on the kids age and level of maturity and the family dynamic, possible | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as nothing inappropriate yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Child should not be involved with parents dates till they are very serious with person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| But give them a chance | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the child. If they are young and feel that this person in NOT their parent them no. If it is a grown child and they see that a person is good, or bad, for their parent then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the relationship is dangerous always say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend on how the relationship is between all of them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if very poor choice and/or dangerous/lies | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if he/she could be harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but only once.Then you deal with it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not unless there's abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as above just in reverse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel there's a chance of physical or mental abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what it is about. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, depends on the age of the children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not their business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how old the children are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| parents should be asking?! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes because it can be worked out or a decision will have to be made. | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a point but you have to let people form there own opinions . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Always with respect and understanding | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, it involves the whole family, and it is safer for the child in case the new partner is trouble. A parent should listen to a child, abuse can happen and no parent should be selfish enough to put a child through it, but the parent must judge truth | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the relationship is unhealthy | 0.00% | 1 |
| If children are young and around this person frequently (ie. live at home), then YES. If the child is an adult, NO. Suck it up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only time I would say anything is if that person has done something bad or hurting my parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, especially if there is a risk of abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| ONLY IF THERE IS SOME KIND OF PHYSICAL DANGER. THE DATE IS A KNOWN SPOUSE BEATER, ETC. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they should but thats it only talk about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they are not being disrespectful and leave it at that. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if the parent asks, or the child has legitimate concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but again not an opinion, just a feeling | 0.00% | 1 |
| In the right way as long as they are being respectful . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a problem that will affect the family or the child's welfare. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should be allowed to voice their opinion to a limit | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as parents to children, are they becoming a member of the family? If so yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, depending on childs age. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in extreme situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| Is it is asked for or there is good reasoning, but in both situation if the parent/child relationship is a strong one than they can both talk and share opinions and respect each other’s wishes | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if its affecting them | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel that it depends based on the situation. If the relationships is healthy for both the parent and the kids the kids shouldnt have a say. But if the partner is abusive or has had wrong intentions towards the parent or kids. Yes the child should. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe, but it depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they see that their parent is unhappy about the relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their kids feel the person may have ulterior motive. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's a bad situation then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| undecided, depends on lifestyle choices I suppose; being good influence | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there's a future | 0.00% | 1 |
| If your parent is happy...butt out | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, it depends on what the reasons are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kids can fill when it's something is not quite right about a person | 0.00% | 1 |
| If partner seems harmful, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| At a young age yes, or if there are any major red flags when child is older. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should, only if asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes only because parents are the adults | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should be able to be honest, but respectful. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are abusive or cheating yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but in some cases the k7ds might just not like the change the person might be the very best to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they should but only if that person is harming them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again depends on the situation and what they dont like | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would all depend on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| The same with a child, they should accept who the parent is with unless something happens like being mistreated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Similar situation. So voice your opinion once then let it be. Only speak up if their spouse is truly harmful to her in any way. Get to know them to keep a close relationship with ur parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it’s a personality issue then they shouldn’t tell their parents. If it’s a physical or emotional issue then yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how old the kids are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Usually no but there may be some situations where they should. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If that step parent is abusing them, bullying them, or sexually abusing them, yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Is it a safe environment for the parent, is the person they are dating being harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is a real problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is concern about the parent's wellbeing and saftey | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the relationship is unhealthy or the child is being abused | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but also tell why or what it is that makes them feel that way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the age of the child, children come before you happiness until they come of age. | 0.00% | 1 |
| In a nice way, probably. Especially if they are feeling some kind of danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| It just depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same goes in vis versa | 0.00% | 1 |
| Because it can impact the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on their age, under 12, no, over 12 maybe | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, if the person they are dating is dangerous to their physical or mental health then YES tell them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Absolutely. You can't deal with feelings you don't know about. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes with reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| See comment above and reverse pronouns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask my opinion or if I know 100% they are bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstance. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, they have their opinions as well as adults. | 0.00% | 1 |
| once again not a simple yes or no to many variables | 0.00% | 1 |
| Possibly depending on circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends of if there is a serious issue or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I ask for their advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how old they are and if the partner is treating them wrong or you | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if its affecting them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They will anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the parents safety is in question | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it directly affects them in a negative manner example abusive possible new parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person they're dating is bad for the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I can only listen to my kid | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as above i think it would depend on if that person made them happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on their age and how long they have been together or intend to be together | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if for their safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| Если к ребёнку относятся плохо то да | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe they should be able to share their opinion if it is done in a thoughtful way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the parent asks the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| The should express concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| IT DEPENDS ON WHAT THE REASON IS | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child is young and still living at home, I think the parent should know how the child feels. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would wait till they decide to share . Or in good timing . More truth in it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, same reply as before, only if they are truly looking out for well being of the family member and have done research | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think that depends on what that particular family unit is comfortable with and how much respect is shown when talking to the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Respectfully if they do. But must give them a chance before making any harsh assumptions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same response as above just change roles | 0.00% | 1 |
| Once again it depends on it the person is good or not to the parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again depending on the type of relationship whether it's violence or abuse of any kind yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Their oppion don't matter | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they want too | 0.00% | 1 |
| if that person feels unsafe | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it is a situation that will harm them or be bad for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but only when asked and in a respectful tone | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on alot | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they feel the parent is in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Should be able to express their feelings in a respectful way | 0.00% | 1 |
| They may notice something i dont realize. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked for opinion by parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not unless they are asked for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same answer as the previous one. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how they are treating the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only is the parents partner is harming them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is abuse Otherwise it’s not my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't have kids but I think it's important | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is cause for concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell to My intention。 will educate the children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask only | 0.00% | 1 |
| Probably if something aint right maybe | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but also realize its not your choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Within reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the child's age and if they feel threatened | 0.00% | 1 |
| My parents are dead | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should mention misgivings once but from then on accept the individual kindly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should be able to speak their mind, but they don't get to choose who their parents date. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if that person is abusive or into illegal activities | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same anwers as above | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it will matter | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would give them my opinion One time, hoping they take what I say into consideration and then respect there choice as an individual who has a right to make there own choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| If abusive yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same answer as above wait and see | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends because sometimes children want to be the center of attention. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but again respectfully and lovingly. A conversation not a confrontation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just give versa from kid to parents. We all have our own opinions | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the eason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I had a really bad feeling about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes parents should know how their child feels | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the kids are sill living at home with parent and the parent brings someone home who is making them uncomfortable in whatever way then absolutely say something | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes in no ot depending on if the mate hurting the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same answer | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they have to live with them, absolutely. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes I wished my children would have. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if it is just personal or out of concern. | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them your feelings, but let them know it is their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel the parent is making a disastrous life choice, and not just because of preference. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they feel like they are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes again I feel communication is on your best interest. | 0.00% | 1 |
| At least make them aware of how you feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ditto same answer only the child should know enough of how that parent will take the news on whether to tell the parent or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as above - If negative, yes, just ONCE, not over and over. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Express concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| Cupiditate ut incididunt obcaecati dignissimos expedita eos occaecat consequatur non | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes because that's not right for parent's to always like who they are with. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are concerned for parents wellbeing or are ignored then yes they should. | 0.00% | 1 |
| To sate their concerns but it’s my choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| but i would let them know that they deserve to make that choice and not everyone will like who they may talk to or like. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My parents don’t care what I have to say | 0.00% | 1 |
| They are the child, however it depends on why | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a point yes I will listen but if re are ationship is not good I will end itq | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think communication is the thing p | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe if the new spouse is going to cohabitate with the kids their perspective may be valuable | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but with reasons and non judgmental. “We’re ok , i am not fond h/she” | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they see a problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe that children should always be able to express their feelings to their parent but also keep in mind feelings are just feelings, they are not facts. While keeping all of this in mind I feel its healthy for children to do so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes because sometimes kids can see what adults cant see in people. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometime they see what a parent is blind too or abuse they are 'use to' tolerating, which isn't right | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a safety issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| To an extentlll | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked...then why? | 0.00% | 1 |
| the same answer applies. however if there is a serious personality clash then yes, something should be said so things can be worked on. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how long or serious it is, because if serious and have issues, they should talk about them with there parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, only because they will be a guardiane of the child, if they do not feel safe will who the parent is dating they should have a conversation about it. It is different from kids dating where the childs S/O is not incharge or above them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can tell them but should then leave it at that and not bring it up all the time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, only because they will be a guardians of the child, if they do not feel safe will who the parent is dating they should have a conversation about it. It is different from kids dating where the child's S/O is not incharge or above them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as answer above | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would talk with my children first | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's a toxic relationship. If not, no, don't say anything. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the child feels parent is at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think they should explain why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not right away...kids do not rule parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell only if health or safety a factor | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm married | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if they are young and it's issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| Probably not but again it depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes respectfully if think the person emotionally unhealthy | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless the parents asked for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they person is moving n | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on whether the person is bad or if it’s a personality thing | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if that person is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it's important to keep communication lines open. Although it should be done in a respectful manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| ^ | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, ask or tell them why | 0.00% | 1 |
| If that person is going to move in i guess but again its the parents choice who they date not the kids | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if they are hurting u | 0.00% | 1 |
| none | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reason for the dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kids should consider their parents feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell but dont try to change | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the child(ren) | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kid is young, yes, but if the kid is older than it should only be when the parent is in danger or if the parent asks for the kid's opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, they child should be respectful and honesty is the best policy,onest with the parent but | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person they are dating is not nice to the children. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it depends on the situation and why they don’t like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, same as with parents, as long as they are happy leave them be. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person they are dating is causing problems between them or is harming the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on character of the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should tell, as long as they don't pressure | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes because the kids may not be comfortable with it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes same as last. Express how you feel but support their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of the children. Adult children, absolutely not! Their parents are independent. Kids who are younger should have say on step parents, if the relationship goes that far, but it's still the parents decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Express concerns, don't interfere | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but in a respectful way and private time between the two of them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the specific situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again there is a line that should be crossed first. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, and what kind of parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, unless something is going on like abuse to parent and/or child | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they feel it is necessary for their parents well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the child’s age. And situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there was abuse of some kind. They need to make their own decision and must come to conclusions on their own. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel like they should be able to express their feelings openly but also unless they are uncomfortable or being harmed then they should not tell their parents who to date or not to date. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as for the parents tell their kids . visversa . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not sure. It depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on situations but it may push the child away | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should but also include what they like or don't like about their choice and why | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they have issues about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if the person is not good and if they don't have a good vibe of the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but do it tactfully | 0.00% | 1 |
| That depends on the age of the child and whether they are acting out of jealousy or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I fell the same way. If my kids made some suggestions I might not have made the bad choices I did. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation. Yes only if it is from a level of concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if that parent and child are close and there kids opinion matters as well | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the parents choice of who they are dating becomes negative or violent/abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they very the relationship is harmful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but not in front of the parent's new squeeze... | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some circumstances they should | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes children can tell a parent how they feel about that parents partner But that is it. Parents are people too an deserve to have healthy relationships. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and same as above unless that person is hurting them in anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on if the person your parent is dating treats them and you | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the age of the child and the length of the dating relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Respectful way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same. Bring any feelings & or concerns to their attention. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can, but respect, they may not like them but put up with them anyway. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again depends on kids age n if the relationship is directly affecting them | 0.00% | 1 |
| no unless they are doing something they are not supposed to be doing or hurting them or their parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Children yes, adult kids no | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel they have a valued opinion/they should also respect parents decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the parents date is neglectful/abusive to them in any way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Deoends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes children should have a say so in who the parent is dating children can sometimes feel when somethings just not right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They can share opinions but not make choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if that person is harming or disrespecting them | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends if its just jealously reasons or what the problem is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Most likely but in a kind way | 0.00% | 1 |
| they need to have their opinion just as well | 0.00% | 1 |
| If hurting them, then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Expressing their opinion as the child could cause a riff between the kid & parent but if it is a serious dislike then they should tell the parent how they feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes because your a package deal and children come first if they are however a minor if they are grown then date who you want | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on if the mom's boyfriend or dad's girlfriend is demestic. But not if the kid just doesn't like the boyfriend or girlfriend because they just don't care for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes j | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they aren't treating them or parent right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if concerning | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person makes the child any kind of way, they should should be able to discuss this with their parents. Single parents are a package deal and everyone in the home needs to be happy and safe and comfortable. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if the person is hurting the kids in anyway. Otherwise a healthy discussion wouldn't hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| It might depend on how the person their is dating acts toward there partners child | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, to a degree. I am divorced and now dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they see things the parent don't. ie manipulation | 0.00% | 1 |
| I being the parent would say yes kids can see things that parents don’t see cause they like the person so much | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should be allowed to express how they feel about him/her | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is completely their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes to an extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again it depends on how old the child is, are they still living at home? And how far the relationship has progressed. Also, does the child fear for the parent, then they need to speak up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if safety is the reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person is harmful to the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it endangers their or their parents well being. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if the child is a minor and that person will effect the childs life | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, I think it should be discussed. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they don't treat everyone right | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but it is still up to the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| IF THEY FEEL EXTREMELY NECESSITARY | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would say yes and no on this one. Personally, if I feel or notice things that spark up red flags, then yes, absolutely I would say something. But if not, then I think the kids should just let their parents enjoy their lives and dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If something is bothering my child I want to know | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a surtin extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes because if there is a problem they can work it and the child wont rebel | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes within reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe so because I think as parents our child's voice needs to be heard as well. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they're a really bad person or the energy is too toxic | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the relationship between kids and parents. Depends on HOW this is voiced. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kids are still under age and being cared for by their parents, yes they should voice their concerns but only if the problem is affecting the child's growth and progress | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is a threat to their well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| Voice your concern but their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just check out their point of concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if the child is grown and out of the house or if they still live in the home | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the reason is substantial and not based on my feelings 0 | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the relationship the child has with the parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the kids are minors, they have every right to tell their parents. My son was 7 when I started seeing someone, my son gave me his opinion, I didnt like his opinion, but I respect my son, and my son saved me from a jerk. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Absolutely as long as it's in a respectful manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but support the relationship if the parents happy and the partner treats everyone fairly and with respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation at hand. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it is a harmful relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mindset | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only once or leave it at that unless abusive is involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the children are minors and their living conditions would be effected. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes yes but only to certain extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child knows or suspects that the person is attempting to scam or take advantage of the parent, then the child has an obligation to say something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Why and how | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if they would like to | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they see or hear something bad about that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should tell the parent but in a respectful way and understand that the parent may not do anything with the information. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really all depends on the type of relationship the child and parent has.. always be honest with each other | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it's only okay if you that person is a very "not nice" person, not just because you don't like him or her. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is not good, it signifies lack of respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on if there is abuse in the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes. But respectfully, and don't shut them out if no valid reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| If she can then i can | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, if they ask, yes. Otherwise, it depends on various things | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes they can voice there concern but it my decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the age of thd kid. | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as they do so respectfully | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel if they asked I would be honest. I would probably be rude otherwise and I would vent to my friends, if it gets to the point where it gets dangerous I would definetly say something | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it depends on the situation. Every relationship is different. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, unless it's for the best of the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| In a respectful way, and only if it is something the parent needs to know about the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would have to agree that they should because if they are mis treating the child then the child’s biological parent should kno about it and how they feel about that person because you don’t want that child to grow up being in fear all the time | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the age of the child | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they know something that may cause harm to the parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| All depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but politely so it doesn't start a fight. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somewhat undecided because as a parent we ,/you should be able to decide who you want to date but I feel that the child should be allowed to express how they feel about the parents partner and tell them why they feel the way they do | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe.. it depends on their age | 0.00% | 1 |
| That's complicated almost as much as parent to kid. Fancy dancing is needed and not everyone is capable of moving safely thru the steps of these scenarios. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if it is due to their treatment of the partner or others | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again I feel it's situationally dependant. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the age of children | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on whether they are asked, and at what stage the relationship is at. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are dating someone who is up to no good then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why. | 0.00% | 1 |
| YES IF THEY ARE RIGHT ABOUT IT | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on, the reason why they may not like em.. because once the kids are raised and gone then the parent or parents have every right to be happy and be with whom they want as long as it's not harmful too them or there lives.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Children makes bre their feelings with reasonable explanations however ultimately it’s the parents choice to decide on a partner and their happiness | 0.00% | 1 |
| kids may or may not. parent should open that door. A good sit down together is warranted. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes within reason, they should be comfortable speaking if something is wrong | 0.00% | 1 |
| As a parent, I would want their input and feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as above Vize versa | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unsure | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they feel their parents are worse off yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| well it depends on how the parent partner is treating the kids. | 0.00% | 1 |
| That's up to them, I guess | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they feel they are in danger or uncomfortable in any way they should definitely speak up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not a parent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again (just reversed) I think it depends on the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how old the kids are and if they’re living at home or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| If there is a credible danger to the parent or family, yes. Otherwise zip your lip | 0.00% | 1 |
| That should be free to speak your opinion but really not have any say about whether the parents stays with them or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask their child for their opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is some kind of abuse. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes people have bad vibes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as above! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but they should never feel like they can decide who their parents are with. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the kids are young enough that they will be living with potential step parent; yes. Otherwise no! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, it’s goes the same as the parent being able to tell their child that. It’s also really important depending on the child’s age and if they’re still home with said parent and significant other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they see the person mistreating the parent in any way, then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Case by case situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are, asked age, sometimes kids may not know if their parents are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it negatively impacts their relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes , Just say it in a ice and positive way | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as the adult is not Harming or taking over routine/ disciplining too fast! N the step parent is most definitely not under | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are abusive and/or a very valid reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Discuss reasons with other involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| Children will always give their opinion, whether needed or not. lol. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes with a reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and No, depend on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the kid's motive | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe that parents should give concerns about the partner their child is dating, without making it a negative comment, unless it is to protect the safety of the child. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what it is and if it is warranted or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| As nicely as possible if possible | 0.00% | 1 |
| Strongly yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the parent, divorced, widowed, widower, age | 0.00% | 1 |
| Adult kids sure. Youngsters no | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not unless their parent is being abused | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, depends on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there are extenuating circumstances or if invited to give an opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I feel their partner is negatively affecting my parent and/or our family. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Look at my previous response; same thing here. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but dont push | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not applicable in my personal life, but I think if a child is uncomfortable with the person their parent is dating, they should say so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Do as I say, not as I do | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes with explanation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again depends ex. If there being abusive with them yes! If there well treated no! | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if safety is a concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| Discuss - Don't just tell - Give reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| S'il ont besoin d'un opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| None of their business, it goes both ways. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if it's a child, no if the kid is an adult. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Minor children absolutely should tell their parents. Their parents partner will probably have a big part of their life. Adult children should keep their mouths shut unless they see the partner cheating or something. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depence | 0.00% | 1 |
| If all adults, only of asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| NOT SURE. DEPENDS ON THE INDIVIDUALS AND CIRCUMSTANCES | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if there is any abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| They are allowed in a respectful way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Wait a while a see how it develops. Also, what is the reason behind how they feel? Bad / unlikable person, or insecurities? | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe if they are just looking out for their parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the child is no longer living at home and there is no abuse, no. If the children live at home, yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sa va dans les 2 sens | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as my answer above | 0.00% | 1 |
3.
3.
As a sibling are you comfortable sharing negative feelings with your sibling regarding who they are dating? Yes
59%
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61192 votes
No
23%
•
23980 votes
Not applicable
17%
•
17066 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
850 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.15% | 157 | |
| sometimes | 0.04% | 46 |
| depends | 0.03% | 28 |
| depends on the situation | 0.01% | 12 |
| maybe | 0.01% | 6 |
| no comment | 0.00% | 5 |
| it depends | 0.00% | 4 |
| not sure | 0.00% | 4 |
| only if asked | 0.00% | 4 |
| we don't speak | 0.00% | 3 |
| unsure | 0.00% | 3 |
| sometimes. | 0.00% | 3 |
| not really | 0.00% | 3 |
| only child | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on the sibling | 0.00% | 3 |
| No siblings | 0.00% | 3 |
| None of my business | 0.00% | 3 |
| n/a | 0.00% | 2 |
| na | 0.00% | 2 |
| only sometimes. | 0.00% | 2 |
| if asked | 0.00% | 2 |
| somewhat | 0.00% | 2 |
| same as above | 0.00% | 2 |
| it depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 2 |
| We don't talk | 0.00% | 2 |
| only if they are dangerous | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 2 |
| not my business | 0.00% | 2 |
| I have no siblings | 0.00% | 2 |
| if they ask | 0.00% | 2 |
| i don't care, unless he/she is interrupting me when i'm rapeing them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only if there are serious concerns about them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| rsethsr | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the significant other is acting in a way that is harmful or destructive to my sibling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| situational... | 0.00% | 1 |
| my younger brother yes, older sister no | 0.00% | 1 |
| only child! | 0.00% | 1 |
| http://www.tellwut.com/ | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what my negative feelings are. if it's my issue, i wouldn't say anything. if it's something about the person my sibling needs to know, i am comfortable letting them know, whatever the consequences. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on what sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| they don't date | 0.00% | 1 |
| nviallcytz | 0.00% | 1 |
| i dislike the position he has put my sister in i do however like him | 0.00% | 1 |
| 0.00% | 1 | |
| u | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would be, if i were close enough with my half sister at the time she starts dating. i have so much knowledge. | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, the conversation should be non-challenging | 0.00% | 1 |
| mind my own buisness unless they are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless justified by an action performed by your siblings partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| not really, but i should be! | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't live with them or date them none of my beeez wax | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if someone's safety is jeopardized | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is harmful to them if you don't | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would rather give hints | 0.00% | 1 |
| i keep my opion to myself unless i feel my sibling is being abused | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometime as they become defensive at times | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes...depends of the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure, may be, may be not | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's better left unsaid! | 0.00% | 1 |
| if said respectfully yes, and only negative comments if you're concerned for your sibling's wellbeing | 0.00% | 1 |
| i feel maybe it is nice to hear what other people are thinking | 0.00% | 1 |
| my sisters are whack. they do whatever they want. | 0.00% | 1 |
| luckily, my siblings are too young to date so far. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's constructive | 0.00% | 1 |
| 1 | 0.00% | 1 |
| only for serious issues. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i rarely/never have negative feelings, but, if i did i would share. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't care because all my sibling are older then me, i feel that i don't like that person then yes i would tell theyhow i feel. but they have to fell they heart. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, i wouldn't do that because it would tarnish their opinion on them, however if the relationship was abusive i would definitely tell them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if they ask my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| could care less. | 0.00% | 1 |
| that really depends on the reason for not like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i believe it is an abusive relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the s.o. in question is actually bad for my sibling; if it's my personal preference but they're happy then it's not my place. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless the person is showing abusive tendencies. | 0.00% | 1 |
| one sister yes, one no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| none | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, however, if i knew something or picked up on a factor(s) they may ave missed, i should find a way to politely approach the subject. | 0.00% | 1 |
| its there life | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would if i thought it was abusive, but not just because i didn't like the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| when i am a little tipsy, i don't mind | 0.00% | 1 |
| do not have siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| no but if sibling is grown i out of relationship problems. if teens good to be concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| s | 0.00% | 1 |
| communication is a family's best hope of remaining a cohesive loving family. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation, and whether not i have a say | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i believe their partner is harmful to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| mixed because try to get along with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would share if it was a good reason why i felt negative. not just because i didnt like the other person | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are dating someone quiestionable | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the sibling, but likely only if there are safety concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| love important | 0.00% | 1 |
| should be able to discuss your concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, but l would do it if l thought they were getting into a bad relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they ask my advice on the subject. | 0.00% | 1 |
| also depends on the reason, pretty much it's up to the persons life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if someone is hurt of if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| all are married | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how how & why (how serious) | 0.00% | 1 |
| well all my siblings seem to love to but into my relationships | 0.00% | 1 |
| sda | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on whether the relationship is healthy or if my advice is solicited | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they want to find out | 0.00% | 1 |
| he hasn't dated in a long time, but yes i would. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are being used or cheated on, i have no problem with sharing my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes yes, sometimes no....greatly depends on who or what "bothers" me | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i met the person and thought i really knew the person they were dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they're being a complete jerk to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| well, depends on if the sibling respects me/ if we are close | 0.00% | 1 |
| tread lightly | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending the seriousness of the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| my sibling and i dont get a long | 0.00% | 1 |
| no but i wish i was. it could have saved heartache | 0.00% | 1 |
| some what | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends upon why i feel negatively toward that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i had a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on what the problem was | 0.00% | 1 |
| to an extent.. words hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why | 0.00% | 1 |
| unless someone is in danger its not my business they need to make their own life choices without influence from me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why i dont like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not comfortable, but i feel that i should. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure about that | 0.00% | 1 |
| they live too far away to make a difference. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are still dating no but after they break up sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends how bad it is | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how strong feeling is | 0.00% | 1 |
| won't volunteer. will share if asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if not in serious relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| sibling is a child | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it dpends if they guy is dangerous or just plain rude | 0.00% | 1 |
| i genuinely hate most of my (half)-siblings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't cear who my sister dates | 0.00% | 1 |
| u shoureword it to make it not sound so negative | 0.00% | 1 |
| too hard all older than me and dont listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| say what id say but if she is wth him tben shes wth him like as long as shes happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes and no, i would never want to upset my sibling my telling them something that is just my own personal opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| i try not to insult my sibling's dates unless something directly involves me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only if i have proof that the person they are dating isn't "good". | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'm not sure. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless it's really bad/possibly abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| phjñ | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i'm asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| i might warn them if i feel they are being deceived but after that it is their choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| my sister keeps her boyfriends a secret. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would express only if i felt there might be hurt in the future, other than that i would keep feelings to myself. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only as a compliment sandwich | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless a safety issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they have been with different men or womans and in and out of relationships yes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| we are not close | 0.00% | 1 |
| some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| sorta | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i like the partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| never been neccessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the person they are dating seems toxic than i will, otherwise i don't think i have a right to say anything. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i do not speak to my sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they present some kind of danger to their well-being | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if my sibling asks for my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| its none of there business | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would be if i had siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is mutual trust in each others opinions | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if they always react strongly to criticism | 0.00% | 1 |
| if your family member is happy, that should be your only concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am comfortable if the opportunity presents itself. i don't like to confront them with my opinions. i usually go to my parents to take care of it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what it is about | 0.00% | 1 |
| we should share even though we are uncomfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| my brother and i talk about everything. if i don't like his boyfriend i'll tell him but respect his right to date who hw wants. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they all got married before i understood dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person in question would be unsafe | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of my business, unless they are violent | 0.00% | 1 |
| nope. but i wish i had a sister instead of a brother. then it be easier to share how i feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it can be a very touchy situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, it depends on the ages, here. young people will speak up, older folks may not. it depends upon the way the youngsters were raised. | 0.00% | 1 |
| have no siblings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i think there's abuse going on | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should be able to share without being critical | 0.00% | 1 |
| that's they freedom of choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| i might discuss feelings, but i would not tell him/her what to do. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would ! | 0.00% | 1 |
| special needs, doesn't date | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on what it is about | 0.00% | 1 |
| they hit on me | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes i would be; even though this question does not apply to me*... i would find a way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless there are serious concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| in a private hey sis can we talk. i don't like how your boyfriend is acting especially when you talk to guys way | 0.00% | 1 |
| to a point | 0.00% | 1 |
| donno | 0.00% | 1 |
| nope don't love her enough to give a crap | 0.00% | 1 |
| i like the persons being dated better than my sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| sibling is married | 0.00% | 1 |
| regarding situation, but i never forget a person act on his own at the end, so i consider more important to keep a relation than tell maybe a truth but that same truth may burn the bridge btw | 0.00% | 1 |
| i feel comfortable telling them but i think its there choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| probably not, but i myself don't get along well with my brother & if i don't approve of someone he's dating, i let him know. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no unless it is something that needs to be talking about epecially if you love your siblings and they feel the same about you they would trust what you say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| once again, as a sibling, if they are happy and being treating great it is none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it depends on your relationship with your sibling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have no negativity towards whom my siblings date. whoever they decide to date is their choice not mine. | 0.00% | 1 |
| some times more than others it varies | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends there is a right and wrong time to approach this | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends which sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends which sibling it is, one of my siblings gets very defensive so they do not welcome opinions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| about some things only | 0.00% | 1 |
| we dont talk my siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is because i think it is a dangerous situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| not comfortable but willing | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it's absolutely necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| they should keep their opinion to themselves unless the personcould physical harm the relative. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the person.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on what I'm feel/seeing happening between the couple | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would not make any difference if I told my sibling how I felt about their partner choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Never had to | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not exactly comfortable, but even still, I have done so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't talk much to me siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes wouldn't want to make sad | 0.00% | 1 |
| some of them | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation...annoyances no, illegal or immoral activity yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| i dont care about my family's personal lives | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unfortunately not, I have already lost one sister due to her marriage, I'm too afraid to lose a second to do anything but support her. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Usually only when asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a certain exent, with an understanding that we can find something good in everyone. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on how attached they are to that person, sometimes it's not the right time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same answer as to your children | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person seems dangerous. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's depends how in how they'r acting. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If really necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but only if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't know | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I see tht it looks like they were gonna be hurt. Yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on issues. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I wouldn't. Its none of my business. | 0.00% | 1 |
| meand my sister are not on good terms | 0.00% | 1 |
| My siblings are dysfunctional! | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes i am comfy but telling brother or sis anything has been a problem for the ages . | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really does depend on the person that they decide to date. If that person they're dating is anti-feminist or disregards my sibling as an equal person, then yes, I'd intervene and tell them to find someone else. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I liked her while they were dating and approved. Then they got married and she is a bitch. I stay quiet. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the problem. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the person they are dating is abusive or if my sister or brother asks me for my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I am asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| I could care less | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if its a bad person and you know | 0.00% | 1 |
| I do not interact with my siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not really any of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes yes and no | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would say as the parents and children | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on whether its a brother or sister. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't tell | 0.00% | 1 |
| i never do that because when they find out you dont like. them they are going to see them even more! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somewhat yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| With caution | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tred lightly | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only a selective few | 0.00% | 1 |
| I fully respect my brother's decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but the decision is always yours | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is imminent danger/threat...otherwise, they have their own lives to lead! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sort of. You have to have a relatively close relationship. I'm close with both of my parents and my brother, so we always tell each other how we feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't find it comfortable. But I have confronted my sibling before when he was dating someone I though was a very bad choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| See answer to an earlier question. If they feel the siblings are in danger from prospective significant other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I use to, when I use to care about them and their well being, but not anymore. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they deem it necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on which sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| My only sibling died in arch, 2017. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked, you must honestly assess your own motivation before sharing your feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Would depend on reasons. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not my sister. She does not like anyone to tel her anything or disagree with her in anyway, and has a way of making others feel terrible for doing so,even if they are right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Circumstances vary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes depending upon what it is I dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am comfortable with who ever they date. I have no opinion on my siblings personal life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No idea | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the relationship status | 0.00% | 1 |
| I just stay out of it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Haven't had any negative feelings re girlfriends/wives of my brother. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they wanna know | 0.00% | 1 |
| I may not be very comfortable talking about it BT I will do so all the same, if I feel their well being is threatened by the relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no.its like a maybe | 0.00% | 1 |
| My sibling dated someone that looked like a giant compared to my sibling's tiny size and they had very different interests. I asked permission to tell my sibling about my concerns because there were some. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, however, if it is to help them they should have all the facts given to the in a respectful and loving manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not really, but I have | 0.00% | 1 |
| He never listened anyway. He never valued me or my opinions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes siblings can be very competitive. it depends on if the one sibling listens to the other one if they are competitive and they don't seem to like each other most of the time that go with the one that is not the favorable one and it would be e | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what it is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending how close they are to each other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| "Jokingly". | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is their business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends which such sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes i am comfortable with sharing but I don't know if they are comfortable with hearing it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how serious the failings of the person are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but in a very sensitive way, as well, it would depend on the situation at hand. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask for my opinion, then I give it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Other | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their safety is at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not so much uncomfortable if its within my best interest for my siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, with respect for their siblings decisions despite their personal opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Varies on which sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, I do not have siblings but i do have family that I feel the same way about | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how negative my feelings about them are | 0.00% | 1 |
| both are already married | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am the parent. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometime | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I told my older sister I don’t like who she is dating I would get a punch in the mouth | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doent matter if i am or not my mouth speaks for its self no filter and no fibs | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am not parents | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is about if I think that person is going to hurt sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, because we are siblings and on a more even keel than a parent.. But I would still be cautious with my explanation and have my facts. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if she sees the same faults. | 0.00% | 1 |
| life is something with all type of things.right thing should be done at right time | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if things between them are not ok | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as I get to explain why | 0.00% | 1 |
| I mind my own business and wish them well | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, he won't talk to me anymore cuz his wife is a controlling succubus! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Had no sharing relationship w/sibling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Certain ones, yes, other no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| some times | 0.00% | 1 |
| Certain siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the person is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, and if it were me offering advise, my brothers would know it was with very good reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstance at hand. I know my siblings very well & know how to choose my battles. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I've had no negative feelings towards him | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't care | 0.00% | 1 |
| Would not be comfortable but I would speak my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| My is deceased. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if it affects my life or could be harmful or is harmful to others. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it depends on what the person they are dating is doing. Beating them, hurting them, cheating on them? Yes, I would tell them my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| I your relationship is very open and strong | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's a touch subject all around | 0.00% | 1 |
| Communication | 0.00% | 1 |
| it does not really effect me because of our age we are old farts. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No but only because we are not close like that anymore, growing up I would have had no issues | 0.00% | 1 |
| They won’t listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| Both | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am but I believe I have no right to judge | 0.00% | 1 |
| My sister is in heaven | 0.00% | 1 |
| We don't talk anymore so no | 0.00% | 1 |
| Theyre to stuck uo 2 | 0.00% | 1 |
| When I'm in a position such I'm asked for my opinion and advice. I'd still be cordual to the individual whom my sibling would be with. I know how it feels on Each side. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would do it, but not feel comfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what it is about. | 0.00% | 1 |
| That can cause problems that last a life time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have. But ive also told them it was only my opinion and that was it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked by the sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends whether the negative feelings is a concern for my sibling's wellbeing | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe at sometimes | 0.00% | 1 |
| if I had siblings id definitely share if I felt their safety was at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't know. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| That has multiple feelings, will they believe you/reaction | 0.00% | 1 |
| used to be, not now | 0.00% | 1 |
| My siblings are married | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| undecided | 0.00% | 1 |
| Case by case basis | 0.00% | 1 |
| Closer with one sibling than another | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| With one sibling I am comfortabke, my other sibling I am not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes...depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would all depend on the reason however I have had a bad outcome to this very question before so you really have to pick and choose what is really worth getting yourself involved with | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes only if they are open to hearing | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but say it in a nicer wsy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would try to be open-minded, but tell sibling my reason if I was asked to tell why I had misgivings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’d be comfortable talking to a couple siblings if I needed to but some I am not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Uncertain about talking to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ultimately yes. Depends on which sibling (I have 6: 3 brothers, 3 sisters) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but it should only be true and never judge by cover | 0.00% | 1 |
| not comfortable but you have to have a respect for them and they respect you . To talk communicate is best and then let the kids make wise decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, if the person they are dating is dangerous to their physical or mental health then YES tell them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend on how well they get along | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why you don’t like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| My siblings do not communicate on those terms anymore. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometime depends on sitution | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if my sibling is seeking my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Uh sometimes | 0.00% | 1 |
| I dont talk to my brother | 0.00% | 1 |
| With in boundries. I respect my brothers and they can make their own decisions. I will adapt. Or fake it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again yes because if the individual is a loved one, it is better to be viewed on earth than a casket. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it is to protect them | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it's a really serious issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sort of | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have no siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Didn't share much he was Autistic. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, only if asked by sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the relationship is dangerous in any way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only is abuse is happening | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is abuse Otherwise it’s none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have not heard from either sister in 10+years. No other close, living, family members to ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| About anything in general. | 0.00% | 1 |
| This leads to or can lead to feelings getting hurt between siblings, has to be done in private | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how they say it | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they're compatible or soul mates that's acceptable if no then they should told they're not compatible | 0.00% | 1 |
| My siblings aren't dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| They should mention misgivings once but from then on accept the individual kindly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I could care less what the things I share bloodlines with do. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If abusive yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends because sometimes people will still make bad decision and if advance is given, they will only make worse decisions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Notvto sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| That's not easy to do though but I will do it when I noticed a bad conduct that could endangered my sibling in the long run. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unfortunately I do not communicate with my sister | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe not negativity but explain your concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| to some degree when i was younger but now that we are grown up i feel very comfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| no not really we don't get involved in each other relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why I feel negatively about who they are dating. For example is this person abusive, racist, inflammatory, trans/homo-phobic, unsafe, etc? In any of those circumstances, I would probably respectfully intervene and share my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| have no contact with sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on which one | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them your feelings, but let them know it is their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes to a certain extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends the situation in how bad is it | 0.00% | 1 |
| My only brother is sick with mental illness and won't talk to anyone. He's been married for a long long time | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but I have no control over who someone dates or friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on which sibling it is and how close I am to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask me, then yes, I am comfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just depends on how well I'm getting along with my sibling at the time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I purposely go out of the way to avoid my sister, I only have contact with her as to not upset our parents. After they pass I probably will cut off all contact with her racist self. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I wasn't, until my sister was murdered by her spouse. :( Now, I would give anything to have told her to get out. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don’t have siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| She died | 0.00% | 1 |
| My siblings don’t care what I have to say | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the reason I would have to share my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked by my sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the sibling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I no longer speak to my siblings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They complain about their husband but settled for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Supportive but honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| Brother in law's no sister in law yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I feel the need to say something, I have no problem with doing so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| A little | 0.00% | 1 |
| again .. should try to get to know date better | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not anymore, she reads his messages!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| With certain things | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yeah. But it only means my brother will start a fight talkin mad crap about my choice of exes & then he'd stop talking to me for a while. It's happened. He always takes his chick's side. NEVER mine. Or even hears me out respectfully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't care who my sibling date. They're grown and can take care of themselves. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they were cheating or hurting them in a way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe again depending on the relationship they have | 0.00% | 1 |
| My sibling is married. | 0.00% | 1 |
| idc | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but only if I felt very strongly about it with legit reasons for my concern. Need to be gently done, if possible. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on whether the person is bad or if it’s a personality thing | 0.00% | 1 |
| I only want their happiness, & unless they are having some sort of negative effect on their lives I'm most likely going to be fine. If there are negative effects it should be handled delicately. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not if they're married already | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't have siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes depending on the sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't talk to siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Rarely speak to each other | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, my younger sibling says I'm her best friend, ask for advice from me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how close we are | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it could hurt my sibling not just personal reasons why I think negatively about the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how they will handle it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I was highly concerned | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's totally their business, notine. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not close | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again situational without passing judgement coming from a loving place | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how they are being treated | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have a discussion but don't try to tell them what to do unless asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no with my brother no my little sisters yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| i haven`t a brother | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My brother would not take my advice, he thinks he knows everything and that he's always right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the other person | 0.00% | 1 |
| They wouldn't listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| No | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes and it depends on what its about | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, when my brother was dating multiple girls I felt awkward and refused to 'run interference' for him. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I disowned my sister. But before that I was not ever the one to bite my tongue. She has been a her partner for about 20 yrs too. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t think it is my job. My job is to always be supportive. | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on your situation I can barely hear the TV with the rain | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| No but needs to happen | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend on the kind of relationship I have with my siblingsl | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tricky, my sister and I do not communicate well, if at all. I would be comfortable voicing my thoughts however, we are not in contact enough to warrant such an in-depth discussion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no I would only comment with out getting personal only as observer ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would say something if I noticed or knew something. But I would say that they should ask for themselves as well. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes and it depends on which sibling. Having 7. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if it was my brother or one of my sisters | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm to honest but problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation between their relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends how and when,if the conversation comes up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's helpful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doesn't matter as they did what THEY want anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, depends on the person they are dating and which sibling (I have 6). | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| i just wouldnt do it, they can date who they choose. Its not that im uncomfortable with telling them , but its really none of my budiness. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unsure. Depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| no because it won't matter anyway so why waste my breath | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't talk to sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the person is bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| no contact | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but in a concerned encouraging way with intent to be willing to say in front of siblings partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My sister's a gold digger so whoever she's dating I feel sorry for him | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but again, be respectful or you will only fuel the need for them to be together. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't have siblings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not sure on this one | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mindset | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I know something that the person is PRESENTLY doing, I would feel obligated to warn my sibling about it, but would leave it up to them to decide how to handle it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as mentioned | 0.00% | 1 |
| My only sibling has passed away. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No but if I need to in order to do right by them, then i will | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ut sint Nam non iure illum neque aliquam architecto voluptas consequat Qui qui dolore in tempore | 0.00% | 1 |
| Absolutely | 0.00% | 1 |
| Weeeelllll, it really depends. I’ll share what I see. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They're already divorced | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kind of, if they were to ask, I would but I would be scared to ruin that relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless I feel the person could be very detrimental to my sibling, it isn't my place to tell them how they should feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you know something that could cause harm to sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't have sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the negative feelings I have about who their dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on which sibling it is | 0.00% | 1 |
| hesitant | 0.00% | 1 |
| IDK | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometime because you might know something relevant about whom they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends upon what I'm venting about, why and who to. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if it is due to their treatment of the partner or others | 0.00% | 1 |
| A bit. If you do, make sure you don’t criticize, but express your concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they speak up about it first | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the negative feelings are substantiated by evidence, definitely. (Things such as drug involvement, cheating etc) | 0.00% | 1 |
| My sister has had many failed relationships so I wood definitely voice my concern if I fill she is making the same mistake over and over | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask my thoughts on their boyfriend/girlfriends | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would be comfortable sharing negative feelings, but ultimately I know that I can't interfere | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't speak to my sister | 0.00% | 1 |
| My brother wants me to die | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somjetimes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but don’t come off as rude | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tout dépendant du bien être de ma sœur ou mon frère. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Family should be able to communicate weather is positive or negative but open minded about each other choice n don't get involved in the relationship.all with respect | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I think they'll get hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| We don’t talk. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somewhat. It depends on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their partner is hurting them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Nothing negative about them to say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Talk and discuss with each other | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on which sibling it is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somewhat, have to feel them out | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's their business, not mine | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the day (maybe that’s because we are bipolar?lol) | 0.00% | 1 |
| My brother's wife is a thief, didn't pay mom's house note, so she was evicted at 71. My SIL is a savage beyotch. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Rather than confronting with a negative thought provide some type of compliment, then a concern or a question(s) that can provide for an open discussion and then provide another compliment. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's complicated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but I wouldn't share unless they asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Until recently they’d disown me | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not directly but I may make suggestions about the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless there's a safety issue, it's none of my business. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on which sibling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm not sure until I actually experience it I'm not sure how I feel or how I would react. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I don't like the person then it's a little uncomfortable. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tout d pend du contexte | 0.00% | 1 |
| very little negative | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would tell them in a tactful way -- if the matter was significant enough to bother both of us. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not really, in case they marry. I would always be the bad guy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what is causing the negative feelings. If he/she is not a good person, then definitely share your feelings. But be prepared for a rebuff. | 0.00% | 1 |
4.
4.
As a friend, are you comfortable sharing negative feeling about who your friend is dating? Yes
66%
•
67705 votes
No
24%
•
24420 votes
Not applicable
10%
•
9849 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
1114 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.15% | 153 | |
| sometimes | 0.08% | 86 |
| depends | 0.04% | 42 |
| depends on the friend | 0.02% | 22 |
| depends on the situation | 0.02% | 22 |
| it depends | 0.01% | 12 |
| only if asked | 0.01% | 11 |
| maybe | 0.01% | 11 |
| if they ask | 0.01% | 6 |
| it depends on the situation | 0.00% | 5 |
| only if they ask | 0.00% | 5 |
| depends on which friend | 0.00% | 5 |
| no comment | 0.00% | 4 |
| depends on situation | 0.00% | 4 |
| not sure | 0.00% | 4 |
| yes and no | 0.00% | 4 |
| It depends on the friend | 0.00% | 4 |
| sometimes. | 0.00% | 3 |
| if asked | 0.00% | 3 |
| unsure | 0.00% | 3 |
| not my business | 0.00% | 3 |
| at times | 0.00% | 3 |
| depends on the friend. | 0.00% | 3 |
| depending on the situation | 0.00% | 3 |
| only if asked. | 0.00% | 3 |
| Sometimes, depends on the friend | 0.00% | 3 |
| Depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 3 |
| n/a | 0.00% | 2 |
| na | 0.00% | 2 |
| only if i am asked | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the friend and the situation | 0.00% | 2 |
| it depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the person | 0.00% | 2 |
| depending on the friend | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on how close of friends we are | 0.00% | 2 |
| undecided | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on friend | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends how close a friend | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the friendship | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on what friend | 0.00% | 2 |
| none of my business | 0.00% | 2 |
| same as above | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on circumstances | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on how close we are | 0.00% | 2 |
| Only if they ask. | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on how close | 0.00% | 2 |
| Somewhat | 0.00% | 2 |
| only if they are dangerous | 0.00% | 2 |
| see above | 0.00% | 1 |
| not comfortable, but i will if it's something serious... | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't have any friends :' ( | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but only if there are serious concerns about them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends upon the friend or the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the significant other is harmful or destructive to my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| situational... | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends who | 0.00% | 1 |
| that depends on how close this person is to you! | 0.00% | 1 |
| http://www.tellwut.com/ | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on whether it is important issues or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| haven't had to yet | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as w/siblings. it depends on why i have negative feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| idc | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if it is serious | 0.00% | 1 |
| 0.00% | 1 | |
| depends how close i wm with my friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| mind my own buisness unless i feel they are in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close of friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on my relationship with my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless justified by an action performed by your siblings partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| i may not like who they are dating,but if my friend is happy and their dates are good to them,it is none of my business. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if the friend is willing to listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if someone's safety is jeopardized | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but i limit it to saying very little that is negative unless it's a really bad situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on my reasons.. if the person is untrustworthy, or cheats.. then i'll tell. it won't be over a shallow reason, such as not good looking. | 0.00% | 1 |
| with discretion | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend and what is said | 0.00% | 1 |
| it just depends. only when they're significant other is blatantly rude to nee | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think i would be. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on who the friend is, and how close we are | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes with understanding and respect for all | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how it will affect the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| outstanding issues | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how close of a friend they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometime as they become defensive at times | 0.00% | 1 |
| only of they truly want my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but theres a fine line so i would feel the mood out and take it from there. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if said respectfully yes, and only negative comments if you're concerned for your friend's wellbeing | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'd love to tell him what i think, but i don't want to chance losing his friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there is something you might no about that maybe your friend should be aware of | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes depending on the friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes. depends on the friend and the reason and strength of my objections | 0.00% | 1 |
| i generally try to refrain from making negative comments on my friends romantic involvements unless they ask for my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| only very close friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, but it could potentially ruin your friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i am asked for my opinion or if my friend is being abused | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how bad they are and how upset the friend would be | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked for an opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when the person they are dating is treating them wrongly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the friend asks my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| that really depends on the reason for not like the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on friend and if is a big issues or small | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close of a friend they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| once and let it alone. | 0.00% | 1 |
| somtimes | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i believe it is an abusive relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| would depend on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i feel very strongly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i did it once and he was cheating on my friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| its there life | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes, depending on the friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close the friend is if it's your best friend for years then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if its about them being happy in the long term and or if you are afraid of them getting hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| i only have the nerve if i am a little tipsy here too. | 0.00% | 1 |
| when they ask my opinion, i try to ablige | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the friend brings it up | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if that friend wanted my honest opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| dont have any friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how good of a friend the person is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| honesty is never wrong. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i believe their partner is harmful to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| kinda | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend..if you are close to he or she , | 0.00% | 1 |
| i used to but now i don't really have friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how negative i feel about them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend, but likely only if there are safety concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| love important | 0.00% | 1 |
| should be able to be honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| k | 0.00% | 1 |
| not anymore - sharing my feelings caused me to lose my best friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how bad it is | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am comfortable with it but i think i should mind my own buisness unless its affecting me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they do not have to like it because i do not have to sleep or be around her friend so she needs to know why i am isolating myself. true friends will understand. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have been in that position and gave my honest opinion when asked for it. we no longer talk to each other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when requested | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if you fear for your friend's safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the friend, you don't want to over step your boundaries | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close a friend they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes. - it also depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how & why (how serious) | 0.00% | 1 |
| sad | 0.00% | 1 |
| never thought about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if the relationship is healthy or my opinion is solicited | 0.00% | 1 |
| sorta. | 0.00% | 1 |
| to a degree | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they want to find out | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are being used or cheated on, i have no problem sharing my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not sure depends on person | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i met the person and thought i really knew the person they were dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i feel there could be any harm to my friend then yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| i wouldn't care | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending the seriousness of the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when my friend starts complaining, then i'll jump right in | 0.00% | 1 |
| would love to but might drive them to get closer | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends who it is | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends upon why i feel that way | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i had a good reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| i try to avoid judging my friends' relationships, i don't want to alter their experiences with my opinions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same as above answer. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why i dont like them | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on which friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i believe what you say to friend you also must be prepared to say to the person they are dating if confronted | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they ask, i'll tell them my thoughts | 0.00% | 1 |
| not just any friend or sibling. a very close friend or sibling | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how strong feeling is | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes & no | 0.00% | 1 |
| not usually, that always comes back to bite you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the level of friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depend on friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if it is extremely bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the situation, if their partner is doing something that is harmful to my friend than i will voice my opinion other than that i'm just there to listen. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how negative i feel about this partner. if its in the case where i believe my friend could get hurt, i'd have to say something | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation and if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends how close to friend is | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends on the strength of the friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless something about them worries me | 0.00% | 1 |
| not comfortable, but i do it anyway. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend and the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it's a very close friend whom i can share anything with | 0.00% | 1 |
| not my concern unless they hurt who i cear about | 0.00% | 1 |
| again it should be reworded so it wont sound so negative | 0.00% | 1 |
| |depends on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| kind of | 0.00% | 1 |
| if asked-i might say something-but its their life | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how serious they are and how long we have been friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| if there complete scum or a cheat or deadbeat no problem saying something otherwise i keep my mouth shut | 0.00% | 1 |
| as long as i'm not involved with the problem i don't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| same goes for this. | 0.00% | 1 |
| someties | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the how bad is the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if they ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some cases, but i like to let it play out. some people wil grow on you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, it's not my place, unless they want advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close i am to the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it would depend on the level of the friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes, if it's for a good reason. | 0.00% | 1 |
| the person would have to be really awful | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on level of friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i'm asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend. if i perceive they genuinely want contributory observations; yes. otherwise, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| njkhjk | 0.00% | 1 |
| it is none of my business unless they ask my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| i might express my dislike but after that its their choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i feel hurt or danger might happen in future, i might express once to them of my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how close you are to that friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no unless the person is bad for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| some friends yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless a safety issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the circumstances. if the friend specifically asks. | 0.00% | 1 |
| thats their choice and i cannot judge people and will not judge people under no circumstanc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only when asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| partially .. 2 a extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the level of friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how long i have known the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends how close i am to the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i felt like she was being used, abused or unhappy , based on her conversations with me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| too broad of a question | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what i have to say based on how it will make them fiil | 0.00% | 1 |
| no but my friend sure is comfortable letting me know she hates my boyfriend | 0.00% | 1 |
| lol | 0.00% | 1 |
| i've learned that women never really want to know, even though they say they do. so, i only tell really close friends, even though i know it will probably mean problems in our friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on whether there is a reason for concern or if its just that our personalities dont click | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| never been necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they present some kind of danger to their well-being | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if it is a close friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't think it is my responsibility to do so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the pertson | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes if health or safety applies | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if i am asked for my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends on the type of relationship i have with the friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| if thay ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends. i can't stand my friends husband and he is super annoying. but he's good to my friend so i keep my mouth shut. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not always | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the tone of voice i use. i don't mind sharing as long as i'm not coming off as a jerk | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes, it depends on which friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if they react strongly to criticism | 0.00% | 1 |
| we should share even though we are uncomfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| not really, it depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on my relationship with friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends if its a safety issue | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who the friend is and how close we are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends oh how close i am with that friend and how bad their bf is | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the friend, who they're dating, and how i figure they'll react. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no, but it needed to be said so i did it anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends one the friend&situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| for safety reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are open to hearing it, otherwise you may lose the friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some cases -- yes, | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if i am not going to be harsh | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a red flag | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how committed they are to the partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i susoect abusive behavior | 0.00% | 1 |
| if asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes. it depends on the relationship with the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| try to be objective if asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the relationship with the friend- how close are we | 0.00% | 1 |
| that's their freedom of choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't talk to my family | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would respect what the person would like, eg if they are not comfortable than i would not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how closed the friend is | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends how close we are as a friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the circumstance | 0.00% | 1 |
| no. be there is it is crumb-cake*. but do not gossip*. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless there are serious concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are already unhappy | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the level of friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it is necessary i will tell them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| donno | 0.00% | 1 |
| ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who my friend is dating like if he/she is just toying with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| with caution | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they are hurting because of this person | 0.00% | 1 |
| regarding situation, but i never forget a person act on his own at the end, so i consider more important to keep a relation than tell maybe a truth but that same truth may burn the bridge btw | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they are hitting on me or being not appropriate in some way | 0.00% | 1 |
| again, it depends on why you feel negative. | 0.00% | 1 |
| some friends yes and some friends no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on what is causing the negative feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close of friends we are. if they are in a danerous relationship, i would say something. if not, i probably would not say anything. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the closeness of friendship and if the criticism can be constructive rather than faultfinding. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends the situation and how close i am with my friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends how "bad" the person is | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it something that is actually negative in the relationship maybe my point of view would matter especially on the outside looking in. | 0.00% | 1 |
| don't know | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if i'm asked my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they ask for my honest opinion, otherwise i won't offer it of my own will. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only for best friends and if i feel that the friend is open. the feelings should still be said without it sounding like an attack on the person or relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| dependends on the relationship i have with the friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on why i dislike their partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| feel the same way as my child or sibling on this one as well | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the closeness of the friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| a bit | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend and what i don't like about the person they are dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| at times it depends on who i am talking to | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the suitation | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on whether the opinion is about you (i.e. you just don't like them) or about them (i.e. they're not good people). | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person is dangerous or harmful in some way than yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in certain circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask specifically for warning signs, or after they've broken up | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on person and situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as they are happy, keep your mouth shut for your friend. If they are unhappy, share your thoughts | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if I think it is a dangerous situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can sare how you feel as long as it's still on the more open side. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not comfortable but willing | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it is a close friend, yes. Not a close friend, no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how serious the relationship is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes because they would understand that I support them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the person.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close I'm w/the person and if they ask my advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe, depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the friends character | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if life in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| i may tell them my opion but let them chose for them selves, it's how they feel about that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation...annoyances no, illegal or immoral activity ye | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask or a situation warrants it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Usually only when asked, but will also speak up when in support of a friend who needs someone to speak up on her behalf if she is unable to do so for herself. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if you know something they don't that they could get hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| both and it depends on how much they love the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| To a certain exent, with an understanding that we can find something good in everyone. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends how close a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| if really necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but only if they ask | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same answer as above | 0.00% | 1 |
| some time | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it a dear friend .... Yes I do | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if I'm concerned for my friends safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| dame as above , i can talk about it , but won't waste the time . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ain't letting any of my associates date trump supporters | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not applicable | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but with some hesitation | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if I think who they are dating is an abusive person to my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the problem. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If my friend asks my opinion, I will tell my true feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only for safety reasons | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the person they are dating is abusive or if my friend asks me for my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| O | 0.00% | 1 |
| My best friend - yes; my other friends - no | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes because i dont want my friend to get hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on which friend it is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the relationship is abusive verbally or physically | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. If my friend is noticing signs and ask, then I would give my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would say the same the above question. | 0.00% | 1 |
| That's complicated. Sometimes yes and sometimes no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on friend and situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on how close i am with my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as with kids---express concerns but let people reach their own conclusions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if I put myself in same position before | 0.00% | 1 |
| Listening and then give advice with a question to them to ask themselves how they feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again it depends on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending on the situation like if he was a cheater or a player | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, only imminent threat/danger! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Gently & only if you feel they're going to really get physically oe mentally. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'd keep it to myself. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on what the issue I have is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes friends need your opinion to give them a push, but not if your friend doesn't want it, if you're not close to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| See answer to an earlier question. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I feel there is some type of abuse going on | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if asked...... | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on their situation if it wont both either party | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they deem it necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends, but offer support for their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| If in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| As above. No unsolicited negative comments! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't have, or want, any friends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not comfortable but will do it if necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not comfortable but I have done it twice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the friend / how close we are .m7 | 0.00% | 1 |
| Circumstances vary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again depends on the reason I dislike their partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No idea | 0.00% | 1 |
| Dependson how close of a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the friend, some want to know some don't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unsure. Depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no.its like a maybe | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, not unless it is a distructive relationship, then I would | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if my friend asks me for my opinion and with the reminder that we are individuals. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person is lying or cheating I would tell my friend. But it would have to have been witnessed directly by me - not a possible rumour. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how close of a friend and if the information will help them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| dont know | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only with some friends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the friend and how close I am to him/her | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes u can tell your friend your deepest thoughts and know it won't leak out | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask but most of the time they DO NOT like my reply!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| If my friend ask my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not my business and yes I will tell if I must | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I am asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on circumstance | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes when they ask for advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am a projector only help to find and to transform in a positive | 0.00% | 1 |
| some friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how serious the failings of the person are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if I know he or she cheated previously | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the SO is harmful to the friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how good of friends we àre | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends sometimes. Some friends don't like hearing anything about their date | 0.00% | 1 |
| I told my friend about something her boyfriend tried, and she didn't believe me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how close we are | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how close we are and what the reasons are for the dislike | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if their safety is at risk | 0.00% | 1 |
| I give my opinion but the choice to stay with them is their decision and I don't constantly bring up the disliking for their partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only share negative if I think someone is in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would be very judicious in how I state my concerns....we can always be wrong about our feelings! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, with respect for their friends decisions despite their personal opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes, but only if the person is truly treating them poorly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if they ask your opinion about it.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not unless it's based on facts, and not solely on personal feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be honest, but allow them to make their own decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they ask me or I got a really bad feeling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not really but as a friend I will wait for the best opportunity to warn or advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask what i think | 0.00% | 1 |
| Early in the relationship yes. After that no, as it will distance you from your friend. Wait until they ask for your opinion or help. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depends on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I had valid real info that any person was endanger I would diffently tell. I its just me not liling them... it is me to who needs to adjust | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doent matter if i am or not my mouth speaks for its self no filter and no fibs | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in regards to friends safety | 0.00% | 1 |
| All depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the reason is due to dangerous or harmful relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend upon the friend which friend it was | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if they ask for my advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if there is a problem between them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask I express my thoughts but I mind my own business | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the friend and the relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how close the friendship is and if it's a toxic relationship... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on situation. If it's detrimental to my friend yes I would say something. If it's simply me not liking her but she is nevertheless good for my friend then no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes, if the person is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, I have very few friends and they know I would never say anything negative unless it was serious. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation and friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how close r friendship is cuz honesty can’t come between true friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only in cases of abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| at times but not all the time | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends at what point in relationship and what topic | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only between very close, long time friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same answer, not comfortable but i would speak up | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes if it affects my life or could be harmful or is harmful to others. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it depends on what the person they are dating is doing. Beating them, hurting them, cheating on them? Yes, I would tell them my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not really but I do try and support my friends decision if they are happy. If it were something serious, I believe I would express my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You would have to be really tight friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, IF I'M ASKED. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation and whether my friend is in some type of physical or mental danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe, depends on the friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I feel it is very detrimental | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depend on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Both | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes when it is absolutely necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| As a concern, or if there is something you are aware of about who their dating out of concern for the friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just show her | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kind of comfortable sharing my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would talk with them only if my friend asked me first. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what it is about. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Its a little more complicated with friends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends whether the negative feelings is a concern for my friend's wellbeing | 0.00% | 1 |
| ONLY IF THE FRIEND IS BEING ABUSED | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not comfortable but will do it anyway. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have to go to the point of mutual group. Because I don't want to be a judge and loss a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't know because people are something else these days. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if I found out information that would risk my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they want your opinion as a friend they deserve honesty | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes depending on situation. Yes or no is too black or white | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have not been in that situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends, | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, what are the reasons for the negative feelings.... | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the partner is harming the friend, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the intensity of the negative feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have not been faced with this situation yet, but I believe there is a right time to share such opinions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would all depend on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked directly. But I would never dissown or stop engaging with my friend if I did not enjoy the company of their significant other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes only if they are open to hear | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the "friend" | 0.00% | 1 |
| When necessary | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not always. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they meant harm to my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If asked by my friend, I would try to relay Why I felt the person may not be the best for the friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how close I am with the friend and why I am uncomfortable with the partner (personal disagreement vs red flags of toxic or controlling behavior) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would say something if my friend was being hurt or not treated properly. Something serious, Yes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only when asked for my thoughts | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the situation, if the person they are dating is dangerous to their physical or mental health then YES tell them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless my friends partner is doing something they are not supposed to, and it will eventually hurt my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only when asked. Even then, I give them a chance to answer this question, "Do you really want my honest opinion?" | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes. I have to check my motives there’s a difference in simply not caring for someone and picking up on a major red flag and looking out for your friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| I only share how I feel about that person only after my friend has shared with me concerns they. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it's positive | 0.00% | 1 |
| You must weigh possible outcome..is it so important to tell them. that you risk losing friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the people. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes... that’s a case by case basis | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends if my friends wants my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'll tell them how I feel but won't force them to do anything about it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the friend and the moment to share the feeling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how close the friend is | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as they are treated like privileged in my presence no comments yup . | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I think the person is hurting my friend I'm going to say something . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on which friend.... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and again my previous answer would qualify and be the same here | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how close we are and how strong the friendship is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sort of | 0.00% | 1 |
| For the most part | 0.00% | 1 |
| “ | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the relationship is dangerous in any way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if we are past being friends. MAYBE MY BEST FRIEND! | 0.00% | 1 |
| For me, it depends on how close we are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on how close I am to the friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| not my life not my problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there is abuse otherwise it’s none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the friend. How close I am with them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Your and outsider looking in, therefore that people may not pick up on the things that your picking up on. Try to explain it to her friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the strength of the friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Matters the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends if a biblical law is being broken or deemed acceptable | 0.00% | 1 |
| Because it depends on who the friends are | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'll tell them if I see something I don't like but ultimately the decision is theirs. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would give them my opinion One time, hoping they take what I say into consideration and then respect there choice as an individual who has a right to make there own choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| If abusive yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes I can but if they want to be in a bad relationship it's their choice I cant stop my friend from doing what she wants | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on who I am specking to. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes depends on the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| need to get to know the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell them its their choice & not mine | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on context | 0.00% | 1 |
| unless it is very serious, will likely not share much | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on why I feel negatively about who they are dating. For example is this person abusive, racist, inflammatory, trans/homo-phobic, unsafe, etc? In any of those circumstances, I would probably respectfully intervene and share my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| tell them your feelings, but let them know it is their decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| When im drunk the truth comes out | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I thought that there was something not right with them than yes I would say something | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends what facts are known, you have to be 100% sure before saying something to them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not negative but constructive criticism as a true friend would do. | 0.00% | 1 |
| That depends on the friend & the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| This is the same as the siblings, it just depends on which friend it is and how close I am to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask me, then yes, I am comfortable | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm somewhat comfortable but he or she is not my relative more from just a opinion period. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are being treated badly or I’m asked. Diplomatic though. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are being mistreated or I’m asked, diplomatic though. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If close friend yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| State if there are concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t have any friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| When I shared with my best friend I thought she was making a mistake dating and eventually marrying her first husband it almost ruined our friendship. He ended up abusing her kids. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I did that once but my friend did what she wanted without any regard for my insight. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If posed in question form they will consider things better as puts control and reality back into thwur hands | 0.00% | 1 |
| A little | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but only if they ask or I feel they are in danger of being hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I am asked | 0.00% | 1 |
| It would depend on how I felt about who my friend was dating. If it is a god guy with a few flaws, there is no reason to explain that. If he is a terrible partner, I would definitely tell my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the friend. not usually, no.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how long or serious it is, because if serious and have issues recognized by other friends that agree with you, but this is difficult to approach. | 0.00% | 1 |
| What type of relationship? | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they were cheating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Maybe depending on what kind of friends they are | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if there are really valid reasons for my concern. A risk for sure because you may lose your friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on whether the person is bad or if it’s a personality thing | 0.00% | 1 |
| My comfort level with sharing feelings about their dates depends on how close of a relationship I have with that person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel that if that person is causing a negative effect on my friends life as well as that is their child or children's that they should be told. Situation may need to be handled delicately though. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending .how close of a friend we are. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the reason as well as how close I am o that feiend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again, if I’m really concerned | 0.00% | 1 |
| Very carefully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not to the full extent | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as for the kids, wait and see if they figure it out on their own and then give opinion when asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimed | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't fguck with peoioplkes path I try and guid and help like a fuvcking dumbness | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they will get into trouble or hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they bring it up in a conversation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only hinting very constructively | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but very diplomatic | 0.00% | 1 |
| If my friend and I are super close then yes I will tell them how I feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends how close the friend is | 0.00% | 1 |
| That would be yes and no. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No. It won’t make a difference except causing bad feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if dangerous | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not sure depends on which friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I witness that the date is a flirt with me or others, abusive to my friend or I know how about this person from other they dated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Deoends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on relationship with said friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| I wouldn't say comfortable, but I would if the relationship was detrimental | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't have any close friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on our level of friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes and no because I'm gonna tell my friends regardless, but it almost usually causes problems until the friend sees it themsekves | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friendship and why you dont like the date | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if the spouse's behavior could harm my friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again not always good choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Also depends on the situation between their relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depende del amigo y de lo que realmente se deba decir | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes again it depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes because we tend to put blinders on when it comes to someone we are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on both individuals and the circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I approach the topic lightly but it's her choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on how close that friend is to you | 0.00% | 1 |
| see asbnove | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if the friend expresses unhappiness first. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they are dating an abusive person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Who my friend dating is not my concern | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on who | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes but it is not up to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depende do grau de amizade para ter a liberdade de expor situações por exemplo em uma amizade recente não há essa liberdade portanto existe um limite | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they are bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, only when friend asks my opinion or if i have to explain a conflict between me n friends partner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's a feeling a vibe. If nothing was done for u to recieve that well let me be real , when it comes to friendships I mind my business because.i have lost friends over issues like this. No matter what u as the friend is the one always blamed and shu | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes, depending on the closeness of the friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the situation if i feel comfortable enough to talk to that friend and the information be recieved in a positive way instead of thinking that person is a hater. | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked or if there is a true concern for their well being | 0.00% | 1 |
| Same as above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the friend. Some of them want the truth. Others don't | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how good of a friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I do not stick my nose in that | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person they are dating does something in front of me that is not cool or worse, I confront them, i dont wait to tell my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if they ask my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| if asked and only tell them in a tactful not too mean way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mindset | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on closeness with freind | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if it’s my place to do so—They asked or it’s important | 0.00% | 1 |
| As a friend, I am supposed to have my Friend's back, and that means bringing the good, bad, and ugly information to his or her attention and hope that they know I'm not doing it out of spite or jealousy, but out of care and concern for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| ..... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the person in question. Maybe a close friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on friend/level of discomfort | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of my busines | 0.00% | 1 |
| More often than not, yes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on which friend I’m asking | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends who it is and the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| No but would tell them how I feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes only if I feel the person is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would probably talk to my other friends about it, because I do not like confrontation. If me and my friends agree then I might say somthing | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending if they are having troubles | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless I feel the person could be very detrimental to my friend, it isn't my place to tell them how they should feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what it is. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person is affecting my friends mental health or physical well being then yes, I will tell them that I do not think the person is good for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the treatment of the friend and/or pattern of negative behavior | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on situations | 0.00% | 1 |
| IDK | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes but please be able to provide an explanation also why you feel that way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, if it is due to their treatment of the partner or others | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the negative feelings are substantiated by evidence, definitely. (Things such as drug involvement, cheating etc) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Definitely depends on how good of a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| If he seem baleful. I just am unsecured to talk about or who my friend is dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask for my thoughts or opinions | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am comfortable , but ultimately I know that it's not my decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| No friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Velit eiusmod reiciendis ut odio nisi eum cupidatat vel tempor dolorem est ex et | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only if you can see red flags they aren't seeing. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Selon le besoin, oui je le suis. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how long there dating. And how the friend will take it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes! | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on what friend and the circumstances | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the closeness of the friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somewhat. It depends on the reason | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not unless your friend is telling you negative things about who they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| Only If their partner is hurting them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Talk and discuss with each other | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometime and it is according which friend and how close | 0.00% | 1 |
| Precautions others may not want a response, Care sensitively. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's their business, not mine | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on intensity of negative vibes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| R | 0.00% | 1 |
| See my previous response | 0.00% | 1 |
| Yes, but I wouldn't share unless asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Look back to response to question 2. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Illo voluptate dolor ut sint maiores quas | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the level of understanding | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless there's a safety issue, it's none of my business. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Again depends! | 0.00% | 1 |
| kinda sorta , but depends on the friend i ges | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the friend and situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| No, none of my business. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what is causing the negative feelings. If he/she is not a good person then definitely share. But be prepared for a rebuff. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on what it's about | 0.00% | 1 |
| yes but only with close friends | 0.00% | 1 |
5.
5.
What was the outcome of sharing your feelings? I don't regret my decision
65%
•
66961 votes
I regret my decision
11%
•
11630 votes
Not applicable
22%
•
23149 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
1348 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.21% | 217 | |
| depends | 0.02% | 17 |
| depends on the situation | 0.01% | 8 |
| it depends | 0.01% | 7 |
| sometimes | 0.01% | 6 |
| no comment | 0.00% | 5 |
| unsure | 0.00% | 5 |
| both | 0.00% | 5 |
| n/a | 0.00% | 4 |
| idk | 0.00% | 4 |
| na | 0.00% | 4 |
| varies | 0.00% | 4 |
| sometimes good sometimes bad | 0.00% | 3 |
| nothing | 0.00% | 3 |
| mixed | 0.00% | 3 |
| Depends on situation | 0.00% | 3 |
| sometimes good, sometimes bad | 0.00% | 2 |
| sometimes its good and sometimes its bad | 0.00% | 2 |
| mixed results | 0.00% | 2 |
| varied | 0.00% | 2 |
| mixed feelings | 0.00% | 2 |
| they get mad | 0.00% | 2 |
| some good, some bad | 0.00% | 2 |
| not sure | 0.00% | 2 |
| ok | 0.00% | 2 |
| 50 / 50 mixed... | 0.00% | 2 |
| depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 2 |
| Sometimes I regret sometimes I dont | 0.00% | 2 |
| ? | 0.00% | 2 |
| Depends on the person | 0.00% | 2 |
| don't remember | 0.00% | 2 |
| Not my business | 0.00% | 2 |
| A bit of both | 0.00% | 2 |
| I regret sometimes | 0.00% | 2 |
| Doesn't usually make a difference people do what they want irregardless of someone's input. | 0.00% | 2 |
| Honesty | 0.00% | 2 |
| Lost friendship | 0.00% | 2 |
| It depends on the situation | 0.00% | 2 |
| great | 0.00% | 2 |
| I don’t like confrontation so it doesn’t work for me | 0.00% | 2 |
| None of your business | 0.00% | 2 |
| i felt like my words didn't get through to her so it was as if i had said nothing | 0.00% | 1 |
| dm:hs | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how the other person handles the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depended on how the person i was speaking to reacted, or if later i found i would have been much happier as keeping it my secret. | 0.00% | 1 |
| when proven right i can gloat ... wish i wasnt right so often tho | 0.00% | 1 |
| they might end up in confusion and misunderstanding if ur friend dotn get what u r trying to tell him | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am not sure | 0.00% | 1 |
| 123 | 0.00% | 1 |
| waste of time...they will finish when they are good and ready | 0.00% | 1 |
| turtle dick | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it works out well other times causes a arguement | 0.00% | 1 |
| depended on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| both have happened | 0.00% | 1 |
| we talk about each others men and how we feel bit ultimately we all make our own choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| dont regret when i have | 0.00% | 1 |
| my mother's saying nothing about my relationship and instead choosing to push me into directions i never said i wanted to go in led me to move out without really talking to her. staying put or waiting for just the right time to talk to her just wasn't good for my mental health. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's not my business who someone else is dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| none | 0.00% | 1 |
| you have the idea/ knowledge how to handle the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| has not happened | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't believe in dating before marriage | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends which time | 0.00% | 1 |
| i tried to tell my friend that i didn't like his fiancee. after 3 years of marriage, tuns out they're great for each other, even if she and i don't get along because we just don't enjoy each other's company. | 0.00% | 1 |
| turned out i was wrong, but still glad i said something because they saw what i saw, but gave the person another chance. | 0.00% | 1 |
| don't do it | 0.00% | 1 |
| mixed results. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sharing your feelings is usually best unless they are hurtful | 0.00% | 1 |
| lost my bro for 2 years, she was having affair with bro best friend, i told him | 0.00% | 1 |
| arguments | 0.00% | 1 |
| i generalized men, not mentioning him personally | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it was received well other times ignored but i only share something serious that may have an effect on their future | 0.00% | 1 |
| you should be honest in yourfeelings but then respect thier decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on how its taken | 0.00% | 1 |
| my sister got very upset with me | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of my busniness | 0.00% | 1 |
| somewhat | 0.00% | 1 |
| mix feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes they don't want to talk to you are they tell the mate who become aggresive towards you. then treat you in an ill manner | 0.00% | 1 |
| uuuhh they didnt care | 0.00% | 1 |
| i dont regret sharing my feelings and thoughts but i still have to respect thier wishes | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes my opinion wasn't taken well | 0.00% | 1 |
| the other was angry | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends... | 0.00% | 1 |
| i've kept my mouth closed...so far. | 0.00% | 1 |
| opens there eyes in some cases | 0.00% | 1 |
| told some info i knew about and lost a friend over it. now i don't sat anything. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i was right !!!!!!!!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have had both positive and negative outcomes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| dont like to do it because of anxiety | 0.00% | 1 |
| got in a confrontation with friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| feel better | 0.00% | 1 |
| horrible wrecked friendship[ | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the reason for sharing. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i regret not sharing my opinion of a situation concerning a friends boyfriend | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's releveant if they don't like my opinion. i have the right to express it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes yes, sometimes no | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it is ok and sometimes it is not | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'd only say something after they broke up | 0.00% | 1 |
| i mind my own business | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| sharing feelings can be negative or positive, but at least there's choices | 0.00% | 1 |
| keep pray & sharing with god | 0.00% | 1 |
| i only share my feeling if i am asked and if i think the person is hurting a family member or a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| may be help them to take right decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| just an opinion that has no influence on our relationships | 0.00% | 1 |
| you have to know when it is ok or not to voice your opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| never did that | 0.00% | 1 |
| somtimes good sometimes bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| you have to be very tactful when sharing so it isn't a problem | 0.00% | 1 |
| negative, but i don't regret it | 0.00% | 1 |
| a more open relationsip | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what happened. | 0.00% | 1 |
| friends are dating people i like | 0.00% | 1 |
| it can get messy | 0.00% | 1 |
| in the situation that comes to mind i regret notsharing my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| she never talked to me again | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regretted sometimes i don't regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| blah | 0.00% | 1 |
| they get pissed but i don't care they'll wake up eventually | 0.00% | 1 |
| other person generally isnt happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| different outcomes with different people | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes good, sometimes not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| per sibling - the sibling hated me for it, whereas with the friend - i never had the opportunity to voice my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| never done it | 0.00% | 1 |
| it usually does no good whatsoever | 0.00% | 1 |
| may get not pretty results. | 0.00% | 1 |
| trustworthy friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| half and half | 0.00% | 1 |
| i used to | 0.00% | 1 |
| they broke up ! | 0.00% | 1 |
| i didnt regret my decision to share, i just felt horrible | 0.00% | 1 |
| i always say how i feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| i try not use feelings in such matters prefering thought, i believeoutcomes are good when relationships nsssssssssider weightier isses than just sex attraction. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i regret some things | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the approach | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends, sometimes it was ok, sometimes it wasnt | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i do | 0.00% | 1 |
| can be either positive or negative. many factors involved. | 0.00% | 1 |
| love important | 0.00% | 1 |
| usually ends with both parties not agreeing and end up fighting / hard feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| realize and change | 0.00% | 1 |
| only if asked and even then, share feelings carefully, non judgemental while taking in consideration the persons life, personality, etc... | 0.00% | 1 |
| l did shate my feelongs, but it did no good and only created friction between us. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes a bad outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| only share if the person is making a desperately bad choice and possibly in danger | 0.00% | 1 |
| i was right and advice was ignored | 0.00% | 1 |
| not good, i didn't help my friend, and he resented my advice to ditch the bitch | 0.00% | 1 |
| so many times over the years have had every response you can think of | 0.00% | 1 |
| contextual to situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| it had mixed results | 0.00% | 1 |
| i pretty much keep to myself and dont share personal info with others | 0.00% | 1 |
| it is in how you say it not what you say | 0.00% | 1 |
| use cautioin and commen sense, not offensive | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have never regretted since keeping my mouth shut previously about the spouse of a friend who turned out to be a cruel jerk. after they divorced i said i never liked the person and my friend asked me why i never told them. i tell from now on! | 0.00% | 1 |
| eh... | 0.00% | 1 |
| rarely do people takes the advice of others when it comes to dating, partners, or relationships. there's no reason to butt in unless the person is harming someone physically, financially, or emotionally. | 0.00% | 1 |
| bad outcome. i don't give my opinion on who other people are dating anymore, unless i'm asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| harmony | 0.00% | 1 |
| people don't care how you feel. they will do what they want regardless. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret but not always | 0.00% | 1 |
| put a strain on the relationship for awhile but no regrets | 0.00% | 1 |
| i regret my decision to not talk to my daughter openly about such things, that is why i said i think parents should give feedback to their children about dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't really give a damn about how they feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| she still married him and now she's miserable. | 0.00% | 1 |
| people should live their own lives without anyone butting in. it's their lives afterall. we should concentrate on your own life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it usaly sucks but i don't regret it | 0.00% | 1 |
| depended on how relationionship played out | 0.00% | 1 |
| both good and bad depending on the situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| i choose friends who are willing and able to be honest with me like i am honest with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't say anything about my opinion. its none of my business, i support my friend if they need me | 0.00% | 1 |
| didn't make a difference | 0.00% | 1 |
| some i regret and some i don't. depending on the reaction of the person involved | 0.00% | 1 |
| eh. depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| i dont regret my input but dont volunteer it and i try to edit my answer so that i am honest while trying to not offend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the circumstance. it never impacted the relationship though. | 0.00% | 1 |
| we are no longer friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| meh | 0.00% | 1 |
| i do not regret but i am not always heard (love is blind they say) | 0.00% | 1 |
| some times regret sometimes i dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| hard feels | 0.00% | 1 |
| disagreed on some but agreed on other parts | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who i'm talking to, sometimes i regret, sometimes i don't regret sharing my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| open communication presevation of relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| each time it is different | 0.00% | 1 |
| nobody likes to hear it, but my friends have always turned out to be right in the long run. | 0.00% | 1 |
| helps those concerned in decision making | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes, they see what i can't see | 0.00% | 1 |
| caused conflict but i don't regret my decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes they get upset, but i don't care if the final result is good (i mean if the partner was not the best choice and they realize that after all) | 0.00% | 1 |
| confusion | 0.00% | 1 |
| some got upset, others appreciate my honesty | 0.00% | 1 |
| its complicated | 0.00% | 1 |
| with any friend it was broadcasted over the whole city metro | 0.00% | 1 |
| be tactful. | 0.00% | 1 |
| uncomfortable but necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| iv seen both reactions | 0.00% | 1 |
| of course it was hard telling them but i was right and they agreed and thanked me for it, once they realized it for themselves | 0.00% | 1 |
| friend told her boyfriend what i said with some "embellishment" | 0.00% | 1 |
| i think it is important to share how you feel because it may actually not have been something the other person considered or thought about | 0.00% | 1 |
| it is my opinion, so she respects it but doesn't have to agree with it | 0.00% | 1 |
| if it breaks up our friendship i feel bad, but i would feel worse if they got in too deep with someone i knew would hurt them | 0.00% | 1 |
| not really regret but i no longer comment on my sisters boyfriends. she can't handle criticism | 0.00% | 1 |
| done with compassion and not accusingly it works fine | 0.00% | 1 |
| stuff happened | 0.00% | 1 |
| i would only say something negative about who someone is dating if my opinion was asked. otherwise their relationship is between them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| opinion should only be given if asked for, and even then very carefully | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes a little of both. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret hurting their feelings but they know it is just my opinion they have their own too. | 0.00% | 1 |
| didnt change the outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| some positive, some not so much. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if they ask then i will give my opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i try not to get too much in my family relationships | 0.00% | 1 |
| i only share my opinion if it is asked and i always do it in a respectful manner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| as a friend,sibling or whatever you should alwaysa keep the lines of communication open | 0.00% | 1 |
| small argument but they said i was right | 0.00% | 1 |
| no hard feelings from either side. definitely benefits to listen to friends opinions. the final decision should always be based off of your own experience though. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i was right | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret my descicion | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't regret sharing my opinion, but i regret seeming to judgmental | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends with whom | 0.00% | 1 |
| they are thankful that i cared enough to talk to them about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| we learn from our past | 0.00% | 1 |
| honesty is honesty. it doesn't have to be harsh to be true. | 0.00% | 1 |
| respect from friends and family of my opinion even if yhey dont agree> | 0.00% | 1 |
| hurt feelings, awkwardness, enmity | 0.00% | 1 |
| i never get listened to but i am always right | 0.00% | 1 |
| it varies in different situations whether it was good or bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| it helped alot | 0.00% | 1 |
| made an enemy | 0.00% | 1 |
| i really didn't care as long as my opinion was heard and respected | 0.00% | 1 |
| all the people that know me know i say what i feel and don't upen my mouth about this unless i know something that should know | 0.00% | 1 |
| i openly tell them and do not regret it because i am not judging their relationship, but that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| the outcome was letting them look at the pro's &con's of dating that person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| lol | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of my business who other people date | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have regreted it at times, they went back & told the person. | 0.00% | 1 |
| there is usually initial arguing then given time it is either proven or disproved. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i was ignored. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes you just have to deal with it one way or the other! | 0.00% | 1 |
| i hurt my best friend's feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes regret my decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| i didn't say a word. | 0.00% | 1 |
| both good and bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| jhjk | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'm usually blamed when problems start | 0.00% | 1 |
| it varies case by case and on how they react | 0.00% | 1 |
| learned to keep my mouth shut because the person is going to do what they want regardless. it is there life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| honesty in relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on whether the advice is wanted | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes regret it sometimes dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| gives me bettet choice of decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't say anything unless they ask. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it is a toss up on rather it turns out good or bad. | 0.00% | 1 |
| some positive, some negative responses | 0.00% | 1 |
| better understanding of each other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on what i said and how it makes them fill | 0.00% | 1 |
| never did but friend may think your jealous, could lose a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it worked out well, other times it didn't | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some situations i have some regret and in other situations i think it was best to be stright forward with a friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it was ok cuz i was only letting them know how i felt | 0.00% | 1 |
| the person was very relieved at being told their judgement was fine | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes if it didnt come from heart,you might regret the decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| even though i expressed my opionin, i respect my friend's choice and i shared mi opinion as an advice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| people are gonna still date that person because they usually see a different side of them that other people don't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| 50 / 50 on who i spoke with some did not care what i thought | 0.00% | 1 |
| maybe a little harsh at times | 0.00% | 1 |
| if the sharing was asked for then i do not regret however i would not share my feelings if they werent requested unless my friend was in some kind of physical or harmful situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| i am always honest no matter what, my family and friends already know that about me | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret,most at-times i don't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i tried to warn you, but i got your back! | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes they listen; sometimes they dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| it world depend on if i said anything or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| nothing. am ignored | 0.00% | 1 |
| feel weird | 0.00% | 1 |
| would share my thoughts but let the person know it is not about me and that i want them to be happy. just wanted them to know my concern for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it was a good thing sometimes it resulted in drama | 0.00% | 1 |
| no regrets | 0.00% | 1 |
| didn't change the outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| at times they felt i was right | 0.00% | 1 |
| i should share my feelings more. the more i care the better the message gets across to people. | 0.00% | 1 |
| said what i believe | 0.00% | 1 |
| we stayed friends and they stayed with the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret my desicions and sometimes i didn't. but i am always honest. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have great friends and family | 0.00% | 1 |
| everything. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends sometimes | 0.00% | 1 |
| honesty is the best answer....however, it also depends on how close they are to you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i ended up watching space jam in a tank with a large russian with a hammer | 0.00% | 1 |
| some times appreciated &sometimes not | 0.00% | 1 |
| some good some bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| will not speak unless person is abusive | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't know, it is really hard to know if the person you shared with understands you. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i believe it is acceptable to share those feelings if the other person's safety is a concern. emotionally and physically. otherwise it is not anybody else's place to interfere. | 0.00% | 1 |
| duel to the death | 0.00% | 1 |
| they acceptted how i felt | 0.00% | 1 |
| he/she stop saying about the things he/she do | 0.00% | 1 |
| friend was angry :p | 0.00% | 1 |
| none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| i gave my personal opinion without asking them to change their decision. thet respect my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how they take it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some cases i did feel bad. | 0.00% | 1 |
| most don't listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on who i was dating and who didn't like the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| it seems to always come back to make you look like the bad guy,when all you are trying to do is help!!....but,,,i have a big freaking mouth!!! it is what it is!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| cause us to stop speaking | 0.00% | 1 |
| typically damages the friend or sibling relationship until the dating ends | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have regretted sharing my feelings on occasion, but other times i am glad that i did so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| we both shared the same feeling | 0.00% | 1 |
| i dont regret doing it but was critized for doing it | 0.00% | 1 |
| not | 0.00% | 1 |
| it really depends on the persons reaction now wouldnt you think? | 0.00% | 1 |
| i told them and they dumped them, i am satisfied. | 0.00% | 1 |
| different results from different persons | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who im talking to | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret but most of the time no i dont regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| i got punched in the face | 0.00% | 1 |
| feel bad but at the same time its for the best | 0.00% | 1 |
| honesty is always best | 0.00% | 1 |
| no matter what the outcome is u have to be a close enough friend to be concerned | 0.00% | 1 |
| i do regret it, but i don't at the same time, but i got what i didn't want | 0.00% | 1 |
| i always tell my opinion but support their decision whatever it may be! | 0.00% | 1 |
| regret telling her because it broke our friendship up but she began looking into his cheating & found out he was & eventually sold t up with him | 0.00% | 1 |
| we don't talk | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret my decision sometimes i dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| who cares. it was said | 0.00% | 1 |
| i do not regret the decision even thought it didn't change anything | 0.00% | 1 |
| they don't listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on how it is communicated | 0.00% | 1 |
| было по всякому | 0.00% | 1 |
| i haven't shared | 0.00% | 1 |
| the door slam. but 1 hour later : : solution !! | 0.00% | 1 |
| i regret my decision and at the same time i don't reget my decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| the fact that i vented out and the feeling wasnt heavy..i feel relieved | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes good sometimes bad. but always remember opinions are like buttholes everyone has one and sometimes they stink | 0.00% | 1 |
| donno | 0.00% | 1 |
| ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| they get mad dont speak to me then there relationship fails and they come back saying how right i was | 0.00% | 1 |
| good | 0.00% | 1 |
| it's not always the right things to do. but still, nothing wrong to share with someone. | 0.00% | 1 |
| lost a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| i will tell them but i would be supportive of the person's choice and get along with the person despite my feelings it is my responsibility to accept loved ones choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes you may have a slight bit of regret, based on the flack you get from who you just told. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they didn't listen anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| differs from time to time | 0.00% | 1 |
| i regret my decision sometimes | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret my decision, sometimes i don't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they didnt listen and we arent close because of what the guy did to her that i warned her about | 0.00% | 1 |
| some bad some good out of it | 0.00% | 1 |
| i wished i had given my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes a friendship ends but mostly my friends understands what i'm saying a week later. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i only shared my feelings if i was asked. people listened to what i had to say, but ultimately it is their decision to make. | 0.00% | 1 |
| at times it has been a good thing and another time it cost me a friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i don't believe that unless you have been specifically asked for your opinion regarding a friends relationship then you probably keep your opinion to yourself. | 0.00% | 1 |
| able to provide both positive and negative points of view. | 0.00% | 1 |
| he was a jerk! i was wrong! | 0.00% | 1 |
| close friends/family can do this without being aggressive or feeling attacked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i'm mad to be the bad person for it | 0.00% | 1 |
| some friends take it well. some friends don't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret sometimes i don't | 0.00% | 1 |
| you gotta watch out for the ones you love, even if it means telling them how you feel about the person they are with. | 0.00% | 1 |
| positive all day everyday | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret and other times it was the right thing to do. | 0.00% | 1 |
| concern and honesty | 0.00% | 1 |
| the decision still rest with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| both regret and not regret. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes nothing | 0.00% | 1 |
| it takes my son a while to realize what i have told him, but he realizes its almost always right afterwards | 0.00% | 1 |
| to some friends more than otherx | 0.00% | 1 |
| again it depends on the suitation | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have not shared the negatives...we are too far apart and not as close as we should be | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it went well and sometimes it didnt | 0.00% | 1 |
| am usually asked what my feelings are regards the date | 0.00% | 1 |
| situational | 0.00% | 1 |
| i regret not sharing my feeling to my mother, who ended up marrying the asshole and getting emotionally abused for the next 5 years. now i will tell her my feelings but make sure she still knows what she does with the information is up to her/them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no longer friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes i regret and sometimes i don't regret sharing | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret it, other times i dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some times you may get a negative reaction and sometimes you may recieve a positive reaction.Depends on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometime positive and sometime negative outcime as the results of sharing | 0.00% | 1 |
| which time? | 0.00% | 1 |
| my best friend has not spoken to me in over 30 years! | 0.00% | 1 |
| They appreciated me being honest with them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I lose my friends and later they realize I'm right and is sorry | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes positive sometimes negative | 0.00% | 1 |
| didn't like the reaction but knew it wasn't going to be very accepted | 0.00% | 1 |
| Must be done with tact. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Didn't share my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| understandable from those who speaks the real truth,too | 0.00% | 1 |
| person might regret it | 0.00% | 1 |
| she married him anyways | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think it should be clear that it's only a suggestion to them and not that they have to take your advice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no consequence to me .. they chose who they wanted | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some I've regretted, some I've not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the person.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| telling the truth nicely is the only optium | 0.00% | 1 |
| many times it backfired | 0.00% | 1 |
| My friend is no longer my friend and I don't care. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I do and sometimes not | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have the idia but not happening in reality | 0.00% | 1 |
| nonething | 0.00% | 1 |
| i always let them chose for them selves and i feel great when they decide for themselves what they want to see in that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| It was appreciated | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tension | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| It wasn't easy but it was necessary. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Now I regret HOW I told | 0.00% | 1 |
| I had past girlfriends similar to negative comments! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I do not have any regrets, but I rarely share these kinds of feelings now. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on their reaction. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Respect is key. Tell your honest opinion but don't force it on anyone ever/be respectful of what they want to do with their life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Haven't had to do it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I wish I had done it sooner. | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some situations I regret sharing my feelings but in others i do not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sharing feelings does not include negative behaviors. Avoidance of that person could come over time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| With thoughtful intent, friends and family members usually trust my feedback on who they are dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't regret my decision but her life is her own. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They didn't listen to me - I was glad that I was able to convey my concerns to them though. I hope they recognize the danger in the decisions they're making soon... | 0.00% | 1 |
| nothing major but did draw my or yrattention or their Audubon | 0.00% | 1 |
| it can go either way one situation went okay and the other went well | 0.00% | 1 |
| We were able to listen to one smothers opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| My best friend stopped speaking to me for 15 years! | 0.00% | 1 |
| P0ssibly some regret at least | 0.00% | 1 |
| I only complain with my sister about her husband. She hates him, so makes it easy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I was right each time and each relationship ended in disaster X 2 | 0.00% | 1 |
| DOING THE RIGHT THING | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm neither happy nor regretful of the decision. It fell on deaf ears, as I expected it would...but I'm obligated as a friend to share my feelings honestly. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't say I told you so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's whatever bro | 0.00% | 1 |
| in my situation it showed the true colors of the person I thought i could be honest with | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really doesnt matter people do what they feel | 0.00% | 1 |
| minimizing regrets and finding new solution | 0.00% | 1 |
| We're glad we had a good honest fair discussion | 0.00% | 1 |
| It didn't matter | 0.00% | 1 |
| Being honest with one another is not always accepted at the time of expressing oneself, however, unconditional love is important in all relationships and realizing the other person only wants your best is important to realize and accept. Again one my | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it doesnt work well but always best to b honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| Open mind | 0.00% | 1 |
| i must have been there to learn from my mistake , if it dont work i just don't do it ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes you win sometimes you loose - but friend has the final say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| either | 0.00% | 1 |
| my son is unreasonable and flipped out | 0.00% | 1 |
| Can not do it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends.... People don't listen... | 0.00% | 1 |
| worked out well | 0.00% | 1 |
| things smooth out. does'nt mean it will workout for somebody else. | 0.00% | 1 |
| aware of the outcome shows others think | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on who its being shared with and how you do it. Considerations for their feelings have to be acknowledged. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My unvoiced negative feelings were validated. AND I didn't have to say I told you so. | 0.00% | 1 |
| My friend got angry.but, found out later my info about him was right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Positive | 0.00% | 1 |
| i say what i have to say in love... so all is well | 0.00% | 1 |
| She watched for the things I mentioned and left him. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they didnt get mad they understood | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes those feelings can be misjudged and they are decent people. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends, sometimes you are wrong and sometimes you are right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I share my feelings every day, why isn't there an option to choose both A & B? | 0.00% | 1 |
| My friend is whom i am dating | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| kill the messenger that's what happened to me I have learned the hard way | 0.00% | 1 |
| ssometimes i regret sharing my feelings and sometimes i dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| The few times I've spoken up, I was ignored. Not sure if I regret saying anything, but.... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Having a problem never fails to cause another | 0.00% | 1 |
| Spoke my mind, how they take it is entirely up to them and doesn't affect me | 0.00% | 1 |
| Loss of one friendship until the truth came out and she realized i was a true friend and would have avoided a divorce and creepy psych stocking. | 0.00% | 1 |
| why would someone feel guilty of sharing their feelings...?? | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes for the better but sometimes for the worse that's a touch an go subject | 0.00% | 1 |
| I bottle up my feelings so I don't talk about it at all | 0.00% | 1 |
| I felt good because i did not lie or pretend about my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| You only give your opinion if your asked and be there to help pick up the pieces when things go bad. People learn from their mistakes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't know | 0.00% | 1 |
| people often agree not look for a chance to ovepower with their feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| They didn't listen. It was my child that I spoke to, but she was determined that she knew better. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes good. Sometime not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some take it and some don't but its up to them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret it, sometimes I don't | 0.00% | 1 |
| I didn't once and THAT I regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I would regret my decision, but not every time | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have shared my feelings in the past and it came back to slap me in the face. So I said I would never get involved in any body's relationship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's gone well sometimes and bad other times | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes feel bad if person is hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| I let them know how I feel but don't push the issue. They can take it or leave it as they feel. It is more of a heads up kind of notification. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can be honest without being mean to the people you love so the results have been good communication and honesty. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They know my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doesn't ever get brought up. It stays between us girls | 0.00% | 1 |
| It was welcomed and turns out correct | 0.00% | 1 |
| goes either way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tell them when they ask for your opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| well a few times didnt come out that great otver times no one even cared and all times yes im glad i did | 0.00% | 1 |
| I state my opinion at the end of the day its their life | 0.00% | 1 |
| I say what need to say. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes outcome was good, other times it wasn't. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i felt i did what i need to do | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret it, because my friend or tailgaters upset. Other times I'm glad I told them the truth so they wouldn't be hurt latter. | 0.00% | 1 |
| if both sides are honest with each other one gets a better perspective of their own situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Im free of holding it or being two faced | 0.00% | 1 |
| Really depends on who it is ... It can be good or bad ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| It backfires. Not for me to say. I just pray for them. : ) | 0.00% | 1 |
| Dont regret my decision she is a whore who cheated on him while he was deployed | 0.00% | 1 |
| She understood and took my advice | 0.00% | 1 |
| Good no regrets | 0.00% | 1 |
| They listen to my advice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| too many variables | 0.00% | 1 |
| No idea | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have some regrets. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret it but usually I don’t because it needs to be said and I’m usually the one to step up and say the hard thing to someone with the best intentions | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the circumstances. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some I regret, some I do not regret. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i said in a way that didn't hurt the person's feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| My children have completely disowned me me because I didn't agree with their feelings about how they were trying to control my life | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes dont like opinion. ...but usually realize was right.....and given out of love. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Can create tension | 0.00% | 1 |
| I somewhat regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| I voice my opinion and it's up to them to decide on their course of action | 0.00% | 1 |
| I mentioned it and that was the end of the friendship. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You do not always feel very good after you tell them the truth. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It gets things off my chest | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't regret my decision. It didn't turn out well, but at least I'm not being fake with my brother-in-law. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Generally th | 0.00% | 1 |
| I had a positive and a negative experience.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| i lose that friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| They understood | 0.00% | 1 |
| Most have appreciated what I have to say. Those that truly know me know I'm extremely intuitive and trust my opinions. I am honest always and wouldn't say something if I didn't love and care for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| another viewpoint | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's difficult to find the right words | 0.00% | 1 |
| its gone both ways | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mind my own business,stay out of other people's | 0.00% | 1 |
| 50/50 -- At first they were angry and defensive, but after they stepped back and reviewed my observations, they saw things differently. Not that I was 100% right mind you... | 0.00% | 1 |
| neutral | 0.00% | 1 |
| I had to enter the witness protection program. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they didn't listen anyway. People need to learn their own mistakes and figure it all out that's what life is about | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am glad I shared my feelings but I regretted it in the way that it hurt my friends feelings. PS I was right | 0.00% | 1 |
| Share feelings once and then don't belabor the point. I have never had to share feelings about dating partners | 0.00% | 1 |
| being honest an in return accepting people for who they are an not judge them applies to any relationship love blood or otherwise | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some do and some dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have always asked how does this person benifit your life and then expressed my concerns | 0.00% | 1 |
| INDIVIDULS LISTEN BUT IN THE END THEY MAKE THE DECISION. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel a little bit lighter and a heavy burden on me just got lighter | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depended on the situation. I tend to say my piece once then just offer support. It's the other person's decision who they are involved with. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If you have a bad feeling or know something important you should express it nicely and let the chips land whereever. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret my decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Didn’t do any good | 0.00% | 1 |
| Truth is best | 0.00% | 1 |
| I've never had to do it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on subject | 0.00% | 1 |
| it varies by circumstance. | 0.00% | 1 |
| different with each relationship..but its hard to live a lie.. easier to live your truth | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's all in how you present it. It can be done respectfully. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They did not agree and we ended up not being friends as he tried to tell her he was not interested but she was trying to get pregnant and force him to marry her. I told her that is not right he does not want you but she could not see it. She stocking | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel the truth always is the better choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| I share my opinion if I was asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I will be alone forever, waiting for family approval. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Have a right decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| people need to realise for themselves regardless of my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Felt I had to do it for their good whether they listened or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some I regretted;others I didn't regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| Im not very judgey so if i voice an opinion people usually listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| I sometimes do but i sometimes dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| They don't care n do what they want n they get hurt over n over again. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mix if it’s for good intention | 0.00% | 1 |
| There tend to be mixed emotions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I regret the time I lost with my friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Being honest about your feelings is always the right choice no matter what the final outcome. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If say negative things about who friend is dating is the fastest way to lose a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Didn't get anywhere. People need to take a step back and look at things a different way sometimes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes good sometimes bad, it depends what kind of relationship the person is in, ie. Abusive etc. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel better knowing that the people I love know how the people around them feel about their dating partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Problems | 0.00% | 1 |
| never ended well, but don't regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| you have to value what others say if it's for your own good | 0.00% | 1 |
| In the end, we aren't the ones who have live with and love these choices, so who cares? | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it is taken in good faith sometimes it is not but life goes on right? | 0.00% | 1 |
| unless that person is a killer I do not like to get in the middle | 0.00% | 1 |
| Haven't had the chance | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't have many friends, and no more siblings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I trie to be very carefull to share my feelings with others, when i really love someone I trie to be so honest with them | 0.00% | 1 |
| They get hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doent matter if i am or not my mouth speaks for its self no filter and no fibs | 0.00% | 1 |
| with my friends specify. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the friend or sibling, I have had it go good and bad with both | 0.00% | 1 |
| A fight almost always insued. | 0.00% | 1 |
| She was upset for awhile | 0.00% | 1 |
| changes the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Tough love | 0.00% | 1 |
| Awareness of feelings in regards to certain things | 0.00% | 1 |
| good communication with a positive result | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends...I dont enjoy being too honest if it hurts someone else | 0.00% | 1 |
| i've never had to share them | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't care | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometime I regret it but sometimes love hurts and things work out. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Always Keep it real | 0.00% | 1 |
| Each situation was different and i feel differently about. Eacb | 0.00% | 1 |
| mas o menos bien | 0.00% | 1 |
| In sharing honest opinion with friend she became mad with me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It lets them know I don't like their choice but I will respect and tolerate their decision until they are treated in a manor that I or the police have to step in. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes u regret my decision even though it might be for the best. | 0.00% | 1 |
| We have a better understanding of each other. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Conflicted feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on who the person is | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on which time with which friend! I've had both good and bad experiences with this one | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes acceptable, sometimes is take As a offensive | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some cases they were understanding in other sitituations they were a little stand offish but we agree to disagree and spoken our feelings and opions though one might get a little offend we still kept it moving in a positive direction vs being mad | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can say but usually just a comment | 0.00% | 1 |
| We are no longer friends and she still with him | 0.00% | 1 |
| There is no outcome because i don't share my views on friends partners | 0.00% | 1 |
| I keep out of other people's relationships. Whether i like who my sons choose to be with has no bearing on their right to love who they love. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Agreed to disagree | 0.00% | 1 |
| Knowing someone is hurt | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have had both good abd bad outcomes from telling my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I give my opinion I do so in a polite way & I still live my friends,family no matter who they date. I can respect letting them make their own decisions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I choose not to tell my feeling unless there is abuse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it has caused bad feelings giving a negative oppinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Satisafactory usually | 0.00% | 1 |
| People you love know when you are concerned and not vindictive, just have to stand your ground and pray that wounds will heal with time and lots of love and support. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometime I regreted and sometime I didn't | 0.00% | 1 |
| Take comfort from my heart l say the truth and you let them decide what is the truth for them to live | 0.00% | 1 |
| My friend was hurt that I wasn't happy for her so I choose to let her know how I felt about it but also told her I was there for her no matter what. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Honesty is the best policy. It might not change anything but everyone knows how everyone feels. | 0.00% | 1 |
| one time a friend let go of me another time they listened and remained friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| they had to learn there own lessons in life | 0.00% | 1 |
| Wait for smoke to flow by | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’ve never had to do that. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really didn't matter or make a difference. Quickly forgotten | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret it sometimes I dont | 0.00% | 1 |
| It has gone both ways, it dependson how the other person reacts to your criticism | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sharing my honesty and my reservations about the relationship can also help them take things slow in the relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| I was usually right. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have before when they stop talking to me but other times it turned out ok | 0.00% | 1 |
| Somewhat believe but at the same don't believe what was shared had a good outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| IT opened a dialogue which has had an outcome where mymind got changed. It can also help them see someting they're not seeing in their new partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| My opinion was respected | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is just an opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| They gave both positive and negative advice which was a times helpful | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ive learned if i say something negstive i am the bad guy till it happens | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on subject at hand | 0.00% | 1 |
| Every action has a consequence | 0.00% | 1 |
| Nobody cares! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Family is always going to be family. It depends on their reason for their feeling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Initial upset , | 0.00% | 1 |
| It was pointless because it was as if it never happened. | 0.00% | 1 |
| You might loose a friend or gain respect. But it all depends on your relationship and if it’s appropriate to share your opinion. Also, be ready to loose that person till there is a break up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ignored if not receptive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some I regret while others I do not | 0.00% | 1 |
| I make sure to let friend know I don't expect them to do anything cause of my opinion but this is how I feel... | 0.00% | 1 |
| I am always bluntly honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| Everyone has their right to their own opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| She had the same concerns l had. She gave it a little time to see if it would resolve, when it didn't she broke the relationship off. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It all depends on how you approach somebody on what you say | 0.00% | 1 |
| It can go either way | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how it came out if said wrong way and time yes if said while sharing no | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’m comfortable but I never shared my feelings with any above. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't regret, but here for my friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| I've had times I've regretted it and times I havent | 0.00% | 1 |
| no regrets. I never force my opinion, just make sure theyre okay and let them know they can talk to me and ill help them leave the relationship if they feel its become unsafe | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it causes problems | 0.00% | 1 |
| i dont know | 0.00% | 1 |
| It will create new problems. | 0.00% | 1 |
| it sometimes works out | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends sometimes it can hurt but most time you strong bundle up them emotions and embrace it will be okay | 0.00% | 1 |
| no matter what we should be able to communicate with arguing | 0.00% | 1 |
| do not recall | 0.00% | 1 |
| It sucked for them at first but then they realized | 0.00% | 1 |
| I tell my honest opinions | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't remember that was so long ago. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Your opinion but not the changing factor | 0.00% | 1 |
| I rarely share my feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No regrets because I was correct | 0.00% | 1 |
| It didn't matter, it was my opinion but their choice | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's not my business But I have to say ot | 0.00% | 1 |
| depending, to feel better or get it out of your mind | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on person and my opinion neg.or pos. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Has gone both ways but I usually keep my opinions to myself unless asked for | 0.00% | 1 |
| helps to improve and make a good decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| i got evicted from my brother's house where i was living with him. but it made me stronger. they are married now, but He realized what i was pointing out later on. now he regrets his action and asked me to forgive him. i forgave him | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not always good, but it’s all about honesty with me. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless you really know the whole truth don’t judge or interfere | 0.00% | 1 |
| if You are close to the person that U are making the comment to they are more than likely going to want your opinion of there partnering choices in the first place anyway ecpesially if they are all ready one of your loved ones. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends. | 0.00% | 1 |
| The outcome is 9 times out of 10 they always come back and say you were right i should have listed | 0.00% | 1 |
| I found they appreciated my concern and the fact that I was honest about how this person made me feel.. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have experienced both regret and non-regret. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It feel like at the end of the day the decision is still theirs to make no matter wat u feel or think of their situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| Relationship has been heartbreaking | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depend on the person itself | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not always gonna be positive sometimes it can actually ruin the relationship so you have to be extremely careful | 0.00% | 1 |
| My friend was in an abusive relationship. I tok | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes they got mad other times thankful | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't remember | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some cases it didn't help but in others it allowed my family to open their eyes an not be blind too their ways. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret it because word gets carried back to my partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Defensive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some the advise helped pointed out what they couldnt see with love goggles on. And some didnt care at all. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sum times your right but sum times you're not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes i regret my decision sometimes not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending whomm &what shared the ojyvome x | 0.00% | 1 |
| Indifference | 0.00% | 1 |
| sad, they didn't see what one sees | 0.00% | 1 |
| No outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it’s useful, sometimes you regret it | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would regret it and also, not regret it. I know that it may cause a huge rift in our relationship, but I did try to soften it, And I acknowledged that it was my friend's choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel bad to almost the point of regret, but I remind myself I shared my feelings to help them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I regret sometimes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It didn’t stop anyone from dating people when someone didn’t like the others partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstance. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I see how th eperson would take my opinion. if they are open to feedback i would share but if they seem to be offended, silence is best answer | 0.00% | 1 |
| There was only one time that my decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mixed emotions, most people complain then defend as soon As you agree. | 0.00% | 1 |
| to tell your sibling if they are dating someone who is not a good life partner to him. safe them same headache. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They were used to the way they were being treated | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends. sharing my negative feelings never backfires if before i tell them i ask them first if they wanted to know. or test the temp. if they seem ready. and i attack the act but keep the person in tact. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It wasn’t always perfect, sometimes I wish I hadn’t opened my mouth b/c they are still together- but for a you g person who needs guidance. I would not have any reservations speaking up. | 0.00% | 1 |
| even though they may not like it they eventually come and tell me i was right | 0.00% | 1 |
| Both, different times | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes regret but was never wrong | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have never done it | 0.00% | 1 |
| There have been times that I've regretted sharing my feelings AND times that sharing my feelings was the best decision I ever made. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No real outcome, they either take it or leave it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Said what I had to say | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes the truth hurts but lies hurt more. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think its a little bit of both | 0.00% | 1 |
| Both someti | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't regret my decision but it did cause friction for a little while. Eventually everything smoothed over. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Speaking truth and Without arguing, my opinion was noted and appreciated. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They don't matter | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on their response | 0.00% | 1 |
| I believe we are all given choices and we deal with those choices accordingly | 0.00% | 1 |
| Jus was my opionion always up to that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Time will tell | 0.00% | 1 |
| I could regret, maybe not | 0.00% | 1 |
| It has neither been good or bad. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It was bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| It can go either way....you just might lose the trust and love from your friend or sibling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It differs for relationship to relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have learned the hard way that more times than not its a bad idea | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it ends up your a bad person | 0.00% | 1 |
| Regretted in the beginning but soon no regret after we worked things out! Yay! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't regret my decision because I'm honest with my friends and no matter what at the end of the day I still love my friends and only want the best for them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I do sometimes I don't | 0.00% | 1 |
| I try to stay out of it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Didn't get laid.Got ffffd | 0.00% | 1 |
| The truth hurts. That's part of life. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It was in reverse. The 3 of them decided they fought like him so they ghosted me too | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's the truth and I don't hide shit. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Be respectful in the process and all should go well. | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some cases, the person realized that the individual was a waste of time. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t regret my decision but it created some awful and negative unexpected outcomes | 0.00% | 1 |
| Im blunt | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on the reactions | 0.00% | 1 |
| Prefer not to say | 0.00% | 1 |
| Open & honest communication | 0.00% | 1 |
| I haven't had to yet and hope I dont but if it comes down to it I will | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I can't speak my mind on any topic what's the point. As long as it was said in a nice way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I only share the positive and keep negative to myself | 0.00% | 1 |
| You can tell them but there going to do what the want to do anyways | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what I have to be honest with them about | 0.00% | 1 |
| Well taken, if commenting was appropriate | 0.00% | 1 |
| Regret when they told their partner | 0.00% | 1 |
| Not seeing eye to eye | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’d like to do more | 0.00% | 1 |
| hgg | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on it can go either way | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have regrets on some and others no regrets. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is histoire or Her on life | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how I shared my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| keep your emotions in check and and play conscience if it's not going well for them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| IT is best to keep my opinions to myself. | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on if I was asked or just offered my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on who your telling and how you tell them the info and how they handle it. Every Situation or person different | 0.00% | 1 |
| They listen and made their own decisions | 0.00% | 1 |
| They ended up coming to the same conclusion about their partner. No one was told "Told You So. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some I regret some I don't | 0.00% | 1 |
| No change | 0.00% | 1 |
| Most of the time just to let it out. God is normally who I go to | 0.00% | 1 |
| Outcome will always be postive if our approach is correct on the fact not on fiction as non one has the right to like/dislike anyone for thier own reasons. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unless I can give examples of it if the person is negatively affecting their life and the example that they did so and I | 0.00% | 1 |
| I positively comment my perspective but don't harp on it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| The outcome does not seem to matter when the only thing that matters is if the person you are sharing your feelings with is happy. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Usually you give your feeling's but it doesn't matter | 0.00% | 1 |
| i have never had to share my feelings about this with someone | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regretted my decision and sometimes I didn't | 0.00% | 1 |
| Went perfectly fine, we agree in our rights to have own opinions. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes you just need someone you trust to just be there and listen. Many times we don’t | 0.00% | 1 |
| In some cases I do regret saying anything | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't recall any | 0.00% | 1 |
| Bad choices but glad spoke to somebody I love about my problems | 0.00% | 1 |
| It seemed to have only made things alot worse | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ннн | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on what it is | 0.00% | 1 |
| If the person they date treat my friend right, then i say nothing. If they treat them bad? Then at the right time, a lone with that friend, i will express caring concerns. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t share anything | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on person, but honesty is ALWAYS best! | 0.00% | 1 |
| some postitive some negative | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on th decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Both sometimes they respect my opinion sometimes they get upset and defensive | 0.00% | 1 |
| Nothing she keeps going back to the piece of shit | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel bad sometimes but my mom always believe her dislikes should always get negative reactions anyway. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t regret the decision, but I do wish I had chosen a better delivery | 0.00% | 1 |
| Im a very bli | 0.00% | 1 |
| Can go either way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I felt i needed to express it weturt they ñike it or not | 0.00% | 1 |
| no effect | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really depended on what the current situation was | 0.00% | 1 |
| Distant | 0.00% | 1 |
| they got mad, but i still feel like i did the right thing | 0.00% | 1 |
| My siblings don’t care about my feelings and I don’t have any friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| I felt better | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends sometimes on the situation I guess | 0.00% | 1 |
| Never comes out right | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's not something I would do again | 0.00% | 1 |
| unless my loved one was in danger, i think it’s their business - i want to be treated the same | 0.00% | 1 |
| You wish they’ll do something about it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't like to | 0.00% | 1 |
| Any voicing of opinion MUST be done gently and with tact | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes both, but being a friend is more important than being afraid to be a real friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Family & friends are close should be able to talk about anything. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Try to think about what i say before I say it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on how the person reacts. As well as if I respectfully shared my opinion or not. I don't regret sharing my feelings but maybe will regret HOW I chose to do so. Especially if it sours my relationship with said friend. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Regret i discussed after they married and divorced, costing him half his life. I and others knew she was a gold digger. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t share my feelings very often. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on that person reaction | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| DId not change my friend's behaviour; eventually changed my opinion as I got to know the person better | 0.00% | 1 |
| they appreciated my honestly | 0.00% | 1 |
| If they ask me, I'm honest, and explain it's just my opinion. But I'm not the one who has to deal with them. And it also helps me look at things from other views that I may not see. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I can voice an opinion but it's their life and choice. | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it’s good advice it can go well but involving yourself to much if there is no harm being done just causes conflict | 0.00% | 1 |
| my sister doesn't talk to me any more | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends ... | 0.00% | 1 |
| It strengthened the relationships .. as long as it’s sharing in a caring and non judgemental way | 0.00% | 1 |
| At times, i was glad I told some people and this helped to prevent negative consequences if relationship continued. With other friends, however, they felt offended about my feeling toward their dates and resulted in these jeopardized friendships. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Did not share | 0.00% | 1 |
| I was always able to tell whomever, it was done in a respectful manner & all went well. Even if they didn't do what I wished they would it was who received. | 0.00% | 1 |
| getting out all your what ifs no regrets just what if. should of or maybe. just a relief out your chest. clearing the air and mind. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Kill the messenger isn't just a saying | 0.00% | 1 |
| Open communication | 0.00% | 1 |
| They get mad at you for telling | 0.00% | 1 |
| it depends on the person | 0.00% | 1 |
| As vezes arrependo-me outras vezes não | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as the person is someone close to me that I can talk to everything should be talked about | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't have control of the outcome, it depends on their reaction but at least they know how I feel whether it matters or not. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I'm too honest not to explain the comfort level. My friend saw a few things and she's still my bestie. He was gone 2 of her ex's ago | 0.00% | 1 |
| Per interaction depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| People rarely like the truth, and need to see it for themselves. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I wish i had pushed harder to get them out of that relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Broke our relationship for awhile but now they know that I am honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| They just give me a response on their man behalf or make emotional sounds. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They have to find out on their own | 0.00% | 1 |
| Start with the positive then tell the reason things are bad then take the high road for them to decide their best options | 0.00% | 1 |
| It was good sometimes but bad less | 0.00% | 1 |
| Never goes well. Keep it to myself | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some I have regretted, but I sill almost always feel better having been honest. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I do it respectful and kindly, a gentle word is better received if you feel you need to say something to your friend for there benefit, if they ask you your opinion, but better to sometimes say nothing unless asked. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just that, the burden I'd feel would lessen. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on who im sharing my feelings with an their reaction that will influence my outcome. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Even though I was not comfortable expressing my feelings, I had good reason to. I was usually right. If I wasn't, I would apologize to both people | 0.00% | 1 |
| Understanding and listening | 0.00% | 1 |
| The recipient of feedback may choose to ignore it but feelings should still be voiced, ESPECIALLY in case of abusive relationship. But after the first time, unsolicited feedback should be avoided and you should focus on supporting from the side. | 0.00% | 1 |
| She's my bestie. I don't dislike her boyfriend, he's just holding her back from her potential. When he's an idiot, I tell him. And when he's being cool, I let him know that too. I'm fair about it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No problem or concern among friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have and haven't regretted my decision. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Caused conflict | 0.00% | 1 |
| She left me | 0.00% | 1 |
| That my friend understood how i felt. But it didnt mess up our friendship | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just my opinion probably not a good idea | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some good and some bad because that ftirnd seems to hate you after | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on situation and various reaction | 0.00% | 1 |
| I always ask if they want to know what I think. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Meh, it will be as it will be.... my ooinion is exactly that and mine | 0.00% | 1 |
| They new I was right, I wasn't first friend they hit on | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| Made no difference in the matter. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some listened and some where upset | 0.00% | 1 |
| mostly regret but not always | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it works out 4 the good but sometimes not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Lear how to express felling with example the person cam understand | 0.00% | 1 |
| Better to say something than to say nothing as a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Do what they want anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| She was busted on national television, no, I don't regret it at all. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Good so far | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't share my opinion in that area it's none of my business | 0.00% | 1 |
| No action or response was given so really don't know | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some took my thoughts n ran with it while others took it Like a grain of salt | 0.00% | 1 |
| I was very helpful | 0.00% | 1 |
| I try not to judge | 0.00% | 1 |
| Never had to give them | 0.00% | 1 |
| Was told to mind my bees wax | 0.00% | 1 |
| Won some lost some | 0.00% | 1 |
| Others want u to open up and get things off ur chest but when u do they get into there feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| sometimes it doesn't work out | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depending on the circumstances and some times I regret it cause I lost my friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| Was accepted acknowledge and I left it at that ...she is mature enough to vue and judge the person is dating... She has an open invitation to talk to me about the situation if she feels the need... | 0.00% | 1 |
| Just made me feel good an bad at same time depends on situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| We talked and listened to one another and let the matter rest. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Almost ruin friendship, but time helped. would not say we are as close as we once were | 0.00% | 1 |
| It made no difference | 0.00% | 1 |
| At least Im not fake | 0.00% | 1 |
| mix feelings - glad I did it, but there was a cost to it | 0.00% | 1 |
| I've always had positive results. | 0.00% | 1 |
| the outcome never matters it is importnt to be able to share any concerns with the ones you love | 0.00% | 1 |
| I dont share mine anymore because no one listens or cares honestly | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't shoot the messenger applies here | 0.00% | 1 |
| Feelings get hurt or upset | 0.00% | 1 |
| I would have to say it was 50%/50%. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Each situation is different as is how you go about it | 0.00% | 1 |
| put uneasiness between us | 0.00% | 1 |
| Can be problematic issues later | 0.00% | 1 |
| It just depends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Didn't help anyway | 0.00% | 1 |
| depends on the outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| Han existido buenos y malos resultados | 0.00% | 1 |
| goes both ways | 0.00% | 1 |
| If it helps them then I’m happy but if it doesn’t help I regret the decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| I only share with someone I can trust | 0.00% | 1 |
| She confides in me | 0.00% | 1 |
| It was very inconfortable and heartfelt. It took time for her to heal, once realized what had been said she was ok however our frienship has never been the same since | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends on the situation, but most of the time i was a good decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doesn't matter ppl do what they want anyways | 0.00% | 1 |
| They gave me respect for being honest | 0.00% | 1 |
| Validation for 2 individuals to spread about we all have opio5 | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ido yet I don't regret my decision | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't recall | 0.00% | 1 |
| I didn't share, and I regret it. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Funny thing I am not sure if I have a mute haha! | 0.00% | 1 |
| W agree to disagree. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Wish they wouldnt get mad and we then lost that time cuz it didn't work out | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is beneficial if it is done with love and kindness | 0.00% | 1 |
| When i did share my feelings t bak fired so i think it’s best to not have an opinion unless they come to you | 0.00% | 1 |
| He is still in prison & she still plans to let him come back | 0.00% | 1 |
| I get shunned | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it's good and sometimes it's not! Can't know | 0.00% | 1 |
| I caused a huge fight, they broke up. My friend stopped talking to me for awhile, that didnt bother me, I just knew she shouldnt be with him. | 0.00% | 1 |
| no contact with that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's just advice I gave them | 0.00% | 1 |
| There are times that I regret it | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret it and sometimes I don’t | 0.00% | 1 |
| Ser sincera con todos | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depends on each situation | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't share my feelings anymore | 0.00% | 1 |
| Mindset | 0.00% | 1 |
| Losing a friend | 0.00% | 1 |
| I feel better because there is an understanding between us on how I feel and that my reactions to anything to do with said person, directly or indirectly, should follow suit. I could give a damn less how they feel. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I think everyone should be honest, it's just an opinion. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes very positive and other times nothing | 0.00% | 1 |
| My opinion is my opinion | 0.00% | 1 |
| Speak your peace once but don't keep bringing it up | 0.00% | 1 |
| We are no longer talking | 0.00% | 1 |
| It depends why and how! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I talk it over to see if I am missing something about this person i did not know | 0.00% | 1 |
| You may lose a friend!! | 0.00% | 1 |
| I can't remember. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I haven't done that. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Am always careful with what I say, so as not to send the wrong impression | 0.00% | 1 |
| Honestly and loyalty | 0.00% | 1 |
| Had to see it through. Learn from every choice I make or I don’t think you living if you don’t learn. | 0.00% | 1 |
| They don't mind they want to hear my opinion but still the choice is there's about what they are going to do at the end of the day | 0.00% | 1 |
| It's varied | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes it works .. sometimes it doesn't | 0.00% | 1 |
| If I tell my mom probably yes but my sister,nah cuh I don’t regret anything | 0.00% | 1 |
| That person might not be able to see the negative or blinded to something bad | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't regret but sometimes I do regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| I haven't been placed in that situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Looking out for each other is what family do and agree to disagree but at least the other person know you looking out for their best interests | 0.00% | 1 |
| I sometimes feel that I shouldn't share how I feel but when I do share I just wish people would really listen to me | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't push. I try to be very accepting and listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| Am not usually sharing my feelings | 0.00% | 1 |
| Except me and my wife be together. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Didn't share because the other person is very opinionated | 0.00% | 1 |
| Depended on the other person | 0.00% | 1 |
| They end up feeling negatively against my feeling | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I did and sometimes not | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes positive & sometimes negative | 0.00% | 1 |
| Get lost | 0.00% | 1 |
| Between regret and not | 0.00% | 1 |
| if I'm very close to a friend of mine, I think they have a right to know how their friends feel about them dating someone that their friends do not like. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Unpredictable response | 0.00% | 1 |
| Good we still talk and are still close | 0.00% | 1 |
| It really didn't matter | 0.00% | 1 |
| Never | 0.00% | 1 |
| In both cases it seemed like my opinion was taken more seriously if I said, "I don't think the person you're dating is right for you, but ultimately it's your choice" | 0.00% | 1 |
| I dont necessarily regret telling anyone anything because I always speak what's on my mind. However, I do find it a bit more difficult to express my concerns to a loved one in their partner Choice. 9xs out of 10 they don't listen and do what they wan | 0.00% | 1 |
| I did tell my daughter I did not like she was dating. Married him anyway, ended up divorcing him. Don't k ow if it would have mattered if I hadn't said anything. Unless she just married him to show me she could? | 0.00% | 1 |
| No good at all . | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes regretted it other times it was fine | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some cases i regret it but honesty is what should be expected | 0.00% | 1 |
| Some i regret | 0.00% | 1 |
| There have been times I have regretted my decision; over time I have learned how much is appropriate to share with family. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Honest and out there | 0.00% | 1 |
| We agree to disagree | 0.00% | 1 |
| My friend tries to be alone when spending time with men and I have to avoid any arguing n stress to my friend and respect what ever choice make her happy | 0.00% | 1 |
| I have yet to say anything negative to my friend, if I have something to say it would be directly to that person | 0.00% | 1 |
| A big fight most of the time! | 0.00% | 1 |
| The truth came out in the long run | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t share my feelings with anyone | 0.00% | 1 |
| I’ve had falling outs even while staying my feelings and being respectful but it’s better to tell someone how you feel than fake a lie. So yeah I have no regrets! | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes they get mad | 0.00% | 1 |
| Still dating, fresh relationship | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don’t regret my decision but probably won’t do it again unless it’s something really serious. It really doesn’t make a difference. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Semi. Working on it | 0.00% | 1 |
| We both learn about each other and others | 0.00% | 1 |
| lost 2 friends | 0.00% | 1 |
| Help people to see what they don't | 0.00% | 1 |
| I keep it to my self | 0.00% | 1 |
| Precautions others may not want a response, Care sensitively. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It’s a requirement | 0.00% | 1 |
| I regretted my feelings sometimes. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Friend agrees. But a booty call is the same by any other name | 0.00% | 1 |
| It is important to communicate, but it needs to be done in a loving way. | 0.00% | 1 |
| A mix of both, even when asked to share those feelings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| some regrets, mostly not | 0.00% | 1 |
| It will depend on who is you told and what is the outcome | 0.00% | 1 |
| Never fun having these conversations | 0.00% | 1 |
| I was told that I'm jealous and need to mind my own business. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It helps me while at the same time it helping them. | 0.00% | 1 |
| As long as you put in some positives your in the clear. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Haven't had to share feelings about who they were dating. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Feelings can get hurt until the situation plays out | 0.00% | 1 |
| Irrelevant to the person. Is a waste of time to give an advise | 0.00% | 1 |
| It varied. Some appreciated the thoughts while others saw it as meddling. | 0.00% | 1 |
| they always see the reason why I act the way I act. at the end of the day its justified | 0.00% | 1 |
| in some i did regret it because they didnt listen | 0.00% | 1 |
| I try to speak my opinions respectfully, because maybe my opinion isn't right and if I hurt feelings or angered them they would only take offense and stop talking and harbor hard feelings forever and what if my thoughts I shared were wrong about them | 0.00% | 1 |
| We're pretty good friends now. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Its always like beating a dead horse | 0.00% | 1 |
| temporary lapse of closeness | 0.00% | 1 |
| I tried telling my mother her boyfriend was a fake, he ended up holding them hostage with a gun. She had ignored our warnings. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Doesn t change anything | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't discuss negitivity. none of my business. | 0.00% | 1 |
| ignored | 0.00% | 1 |
| It varies depending on the situation. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Don't care who they date. | 0.00% | 1 |
| No one is left guessing where I stand. | 0.00% | 1 |
| I don't don't do it most of the time. People are selfish and stuck in their ways. | 0.00% | 1 |
| Loosing respect for the family. | 0.00% | 1 |
| It created a gap | 0.00% | 1 |
| Sometimes I regret my decision, | 0.00% | 1 |
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