Results: Women asking Men out
1.
1.
How do you feel about Women asking a date / potential partner out?
It's fine / I am a woman
53%
•
1137 votes
It's fine / I am a man
22%
•
465 votes
Not sure
10%
•
224 votes
Not OK / I am a woman
7%
•
153 votes
Not OK / I am a man
1%
•
19 votes
N/A
7%
•
145 votes
2.
2.
If you're a woman and have or currently ask someone you want to date, do you find it opens up a can of worms, that is ... check off the following if it's happened to you after asking out a man?
You get nervous
18%
•
383 votes
You worry they will cancel the date or back out
12%
•
251 votes
You have more anxiety then when someone else does the asking out
12%
•
251 votes
N/A
69%
•
1473 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
21 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.13% | 3 | |
| no, it worked out fine. | 0.04% | 1 |
| none of the above | 0.04% | 1 |
| i have not done it yet but i will after i know them a bit. | 0.04% | 1 |
| i never ask out a man. it will sound desperate. i am a lady. | 0.04% | 1 |
| it's not proper | 0.04% | 1 |
| has usually worked out well. i'm older but in the 70s when i dated it was a new thing for women to ask. | 0.04% | 1 |
| none of these | 0.04% | 1 |
| what are you trying to ask? your question makes no sense at all | 0.04% | 1 |
| none of the above or any other thing. | 0.04% | 1 |
| i'm married. i just tell my husband that i want a date. :-) | 0.04% | 1 |
| nope, i go with the flow & have an out. | 0.04% | 1 |
| found out he didn't want to go out w/me! | 0.04% | 1 |
| i don't remember | 0.04% | 1 |
| im not nervous at all worse case they say no | 0.04% | 1 |
| i've never done this | 0.04% | 1 |
| i will never ask a man to date me that showd you are desperate. | 0.04% | 1 |
| havent | 0.04% | 1 |
| i am happily married for 35 years. | 0.04% | 1 |
3.
3.
Women, which are you comfortable with?
Asking a potential partner / date out
20%
•
426 votes
Giving your phone number out to a potential partner / date
29%
•
620 votes
Taking the lead in a relationship
13%
•
268 votes
Not sure
18%
•
393 votes
I'm a man
19%
•
405 votes
N/A
22%
•
468 votes
4.
4.
Men, do you like when women ask you out, because in short it gets you off the hook for one reason or another?
Yes
13%
•
273 votes
Sometimes
8%
•
182 votes
Not sure
6%
•
125 votes
Not really
2%
•
51 votes
I am a woman
52%
•
1116 votes
N/A
20%
•
434 votes
5.
5.
Whenever I ask a man out, I suffer with more nervousness and anxiety than when a man asks me out, however, when I don't do the asking I end up sitting home for an eternity. What should I do?
Keep asking men out
37%
•
801 votes
Stop asking men out
11%
•
246 votes
Not sure
25%
•
532 votes
N/A
27%
•
589 votes
6.
6.
Yesterday I asked an acquaintance out for dinner, he said if would go if he was back in town from a short trip. So he never called. What do you think this means?
Too busy
11%
•
227 votes
Should've called you to cancel, but didn't
18%
•
382 votes
He's just not that in to you
30%
•
643 votes
Wasn't honest with you at the time you asked him out for dinner
24%
•
513 votes
Not sure
19%
•
412 votes
N/A
19%
•
399 votes
Other (please specify)
1%
•
23 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
| 0.15% | 4 | |
| he wasn't back in town | 0.04% | 1 |
| if he couldn't bother calling he's not worth it | 0.04% | 1 |
| he wasn't back in town yet from said trip. | 0.04% | 1 |
| this question doesnt make sense | 0.04% | 1 |
| can't understand the question | 0.04% | 1 |
| he wasn't back in town, but definitely should have called. | 0.04% | 1 |
| he wasn't back from his trip | 0.04% | 1 |
| your question makes no sense at all. | 0.04% | 1 |
| he was out of town. | 0.04% | 1 |
| he's a jerk for at least not having the balls to back out. | 0.04% | 1 |
| don't care! | 0.04% | 1 |
| either he forgot or isn't interested | 0.04% | 1 |
| he's a guy: he forgot! | 0.04% | 1 |
| he said if he was back in time, not that he would call and let you know | 0.04% | 1 |
| o | 0.04% | 1 |
| not sure, you second sentence is grammatically ambiguous. | 0.04% | 1 |
| he is watching space jam | 0.04% | 1 |
| not my type | 0.04% | 1 |
| he did not make it back from his short trip | 0.04% | 1 |
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