Results: What do you do for love?
Published on 11/19/2015
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What do you do when someone you love wants you to do something you feel uncomfortable with? In the comments: If you go through with what they want how do you feel? If you don't do what they want, how does it effect your relationship? Do what they ask because you love
19%
322 votes
Do what they ask then feel bad about it
9%
153 votes
Don't do what they ask and try to explain
43%
733 votes
Don't do what they want and fight about it
9%
159 votes
Don't do what they want and try to ingrone them when they bring it up
18%
302 votes
Other (please specify)
12%
198 votes
| Other Answers | Percentage | Votes |
|---|---|---|
| 1.87% | 35 | |
| n/a | 1.61% | 30 |
| na | 1.39% | 26 |
| depends on what it is | 0.21% | 4 |
| depends what it is | 0.16% | 3 |
| depends on the situation | 0.11% | 2 |
| dont do it and if they loved your they wouldn't ask you to do it | 0.05% | 1 |
| none of the above, i be myself | 0.05% | 1 |
| i do what i want, without compromise. | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on what "it" is. | 0.05% | 1 |
| not answering this question | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't do it and dump them if they give me grief. | 0.05% | 1 |
| i do only what i am comfortable with. | 0.05% | 1 |
| try to talk about it and do something that we both will enjoy | 0.05% | 1 |
| don,t do it and feel at peace with myself! | 0.05% | 1 |
| huh? compromise, of course. life is compromise. | 0.05% | 1 |
| think about it, discuss it in detail, then decide. | 0.05% | 1 |
| more info | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends on the situation. | 0.05% | 1 |
| it honestly depends on how my relationship with that person is, depends on who they are as a person, and what it is they want me to do. | 0.05% | 1 |
| if they love you they wont ask you to do something you dont like,eh? | 0.05% | 1 |
| i'm not sure | 0.05% | 1 |
| tell them to give it up if they can't support you feelings | 0.05% | 1 |
| would not be with someone who expected me to do something that was uncomfortable | 0.05% | 1 |
| have a frank discussion about all aspects of the request and my discomfort | 0.05% | 1 |
| if i am not comfortable with something, i won't do it. i would explain this to them, and if they don't understand...that's their problem | 0.05% | 1 |
| do whamake yo comfotable. your te one who has to lik you. | 0.05% | 1 |
| you dont have to do anything you are uncomfortable with. he shouldnt ask twice. | 0.05% | 1 |
| pay them no attention | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on what it is and you need to discuss it | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't do it and simply explain why | 0.05% | 1 |
| it's affect, not effect. also, n/a missing. | 0.05% | 1 |
| what exactly are you taking about? it totally depends | 0.05% | 1 |
| discuss your uncomfortability and adjust from there... | 0.05% | 1 |
| discuss it further | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends on what it is | 0.05% | 1 |
| get rid of them | 0.05% | 1 |
| it really depends on what it is... i try to communicate openly about most things | 0.05% | 1 |
| nothing | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on what he wants | 0.05% | 1 |
| it really depends on what that "something" is | 0.05% | 1 |
| dont understand this survey. | 0.05% | 1 |
| discuss it, sometimes do what they ask sometimes not depending o how strongly we each feel about it. | 0.05% | 1 |
| talk about it | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends on what your talking about,some things i would do and some things i won't but i'm not going to do anything that i feel is wrong. | 0.05% | 1 |
| it completely depends on what it is. if it is illegal or would harm someone then definitely "no" but if it is something that would not impact anyone negatively then possibly "yes" depending on level of discomfort | 0.05% | 1 |
| the hell? | 0.05% | 1 |
| get an explanation and then leave. | 0.05% | 1 |
| no | 0.05% | 1 |
| tl,dr | 0.05% | 1 |
| It totally depends on what they are asking and other current issues. | 0.05% | 1 |
| talk about it first and try to compromise | 0.05% | 1 |
| have a conversation about it | 0.05% | 1 |
| Escape and divorce him | 0.05% | 1 |
| Doing or not doing is the individuals choice/feelings | 0.05% | 1 |
| all depends on the situation... | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends | 0.05% | 1 |
| Don't know | 0.05% | 1 |
| N a | 0.05% | 1 |
| Each situation is different'it dependsas well how one is feeling . | 0.05% | 1 |
| N/A If they truly love you they would never do what made you uncomfortable. | 0.05% | 1 |
| not sure | 0.05% | 1 |
| If someone loves you they should not ask you to do things you are uncomfortable with | 0.05% | 1 |
| just don't do it | 0.05% | 1 |
| Stand by my morals | 0.05% | 1 |
| unsure | 0.05% | 1 |
| if it's of a sexual nature...then do it! if it's not your thing you'll still have a great memory of ........ | 0.05% | 1 |
| I don't let anyone pressure me in to anything | 0.05% | 1 |
| deez nutz | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on the circumstance | 0.05% | 1 |
| don'tt have an ass for a husband | 0.05% | 1 |
| None of your bussiness. | 0.05% | 1 |
| if it fills wrong dont do it | 0.05% | 1 |
| do what you are comfortable with | 0.05% | 1 |
| try not to bitch about fox news TOO much. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Stupid question | 0.05% | 1 |
| what???????????????????????????????????? | 0.05% | 1 |
| keep peace / so someone won't through a tantrum | 0.05% | 1 |
| Does NOT make any sense!!! | 0.05% | 1 |
| laugh at them | 0.05% | 1 |
| Don't do what they want, but discuss it as a couple | 0.05% | 1 |
| would never be in that situation | 0.05% | 1 |
| never betray yourself for anyone or anything | 0.05% | 1 |
| Stand up for myself and my values. If they loved me they wouldn't want me to feel any discomfort at all. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Is this a rhetorical question? | 0.05% | 1 |
| Real love is unconditional---I don't do conditional. | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends greatly on what it is i am asked to do | 0.05% | 1 |
| Find a compromise | 0.05% | 1 |
| undecided | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends what it is.... | 0.05% | 1 |
| depends on what it is...illegal, immoral, unethical??? | 0.05% | 1 |
| no relationship, so no problem | 0.05% | 1 |
| be honest tell them you aren't gonna do that or say something like "Nice Try keep dreaming" | 0.05% | 1 |
| Beyond the reasonable or not of event. | 0.05% | 1 |
| it depends | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't do it..... | 0.05% | 1 |
| don't do it and if they don't like it, get rid of them. | 0.05% | 1 |
| Say no honestly and work it out | 0.05% | 1 |
| If they cared about you they wouldn't insist on doing something you're not comfortable doing | 0.05% | 1 |
| do not went to be hazardous | 0.05% | 1 |
| No relationship here. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depend what they want me to do | 0.05% | 1 |
| See comments. | 0.05% | 1 |
| It depends on what it is. | 0.05% | 1 |
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